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Anyone else think kissing and cuddles are very under rated?
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I know that the main purpose of this site is sex.
But does anyone else think that kissing properly and cuddles are very under rated?
Something about a sensual kiss that gets me as hard as a rock.
Eye contact is the same! Looking into someone's eye as you're going down on them, kissing their body, or slowly sliding inside them. Such a turn on.
Or am I just a weirdo? Haha. |
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Kissing is very underrated in my humble opinion. I will not meet up with anyone who states they do not. Each to obviously their own, and I fully respect folk who keep that for a partner....
But I'm sorry, if you're prepared to stick your tongue in my flange? Then on my mouth beforehand, or after would be expected from me too. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.
People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.
Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.
Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks. |
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"Not heard it called a flange since I was at college.  "
I'm young at heart still apparently? 
As for those who prefer to abstain. I get it, I completely get it! But it would be a firm no from me personally. |
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"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.
People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.
Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.
Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks."
I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...
It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.
People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.
Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.
Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks.
I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...
It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all "
As a slight (read huge) aside, I really like your avatar.
I think that equating not wanting to kiss someone to sex workers is a bit of a slippery slope isn't it? I can understand that on a personal level it can feel cold, I know personally it does nothing for me. I can't be aroused without kissing but it's just an incompatibility.
Also, it's a bit of a myth about sex workers being very clinical. Not kissing etc. I'm sure it can be true but I don't think it's the default. |
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"Kissing is very underrated in my humble opinion. I will not meet up with anyone who states they do not. Each to obviously their own, and I fully respect folk who keep that for a partner....
But I'm sorry, if you're prepared to stick your tongue in my flange? Then on my mouth beforehand, or after would be expected from me too. "
Kissing makes it more powerful |
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"I wouldn't meet if kissing wasn't allowed, it's been the reason why I've not met couples in the past. I love cuddles and kisses x"
Kissing cuddles lots of foreplay can be while watching porn the woman likes |
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"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.
People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.
Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.
Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks.
I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...
It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all
As a slight (read huge) aside, I really like your avatar.
I think that equating not wanting to kiss someone to sex workers is a bit of a slippery slope isn't it? I can understand that on a personal level it can feel cold, I know personally it does nothing for me. I can't be aroused without kissing but it's just an incompatibility.
Also, it's a bit of a myth about sex workers being very clinical. Not kissing etc. I'm sure it can be true but I don't think it's the default."
No, it's probably not, but personally I only know a very limited amount of sex workers to say my opinion, you may know more? They're mostly just been clinical to my knowledge, as in wanting to do the 'deed', for £60-80 a go for 30mins, no kissing included.. But times are hard! ...  |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"I know that the main purpose of this site is sex.
But does anyone else think that kissing properly and cuddles are very under rated?
Something about a sensual kiss that gets me as hard as a rock.
Eye contact is the same! Looking into someone's eye as you're going down on them, kissing their body, or slowly sliding inside them. Such a turn on.
Or am I just a weirdo? Haha. "
If a man (or woman) won't passionately kiss, it's a non-starter for me. The only exception is orgy type of parties where it's pure raw sex |
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"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.
People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.
Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.
Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks.
I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...
It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all
As a slight (read huge) aside, I really like your avatar.
I think that equating not wanting to kiss someone to sex workers is a bit of a slippery slope isn't it? I can understand that on a personal level it can feel cold, I know personally it does nothing for me. I can't be aroused without kissing but it's just an incompatibility.
Also, it's a bit of a myth about sex workers being very clinical. Not kissing etc. I'm sure it can be true but I don't think it's the default.
No, it's probably not, but personally I only know a very limited amount of sex workers to say my opinion, you may know more? They're mostly just been clinical to my knowledge, as in wanting to do the 'deed', for £60-80 a go for 30mins, no kissing included.. But times are hard! ... "
We don't kiss our casual partners, we're not sex workers or clinical.
We don't think we're in any way better than sex workers either. |
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.
People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.
Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.
Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks.
I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...
It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all
As a slight (read huge) aside, I really like your avatar.
I think that equating not wanting to kiss someone to sex workers is a bit of a slippery slope isn't it? I can understand that on a personal level it can feel cold, I know personally it does nothing for me. I can't be aroused without kissing but it's just an incompatibility.
Also, it's a bit of a myth about sex workers being very clinical. Not kissing etc. I'm sure it can be true but I don't think it's the default.
No, it's probably not, but personally I only know a very limited amount of sex workers to say my opinion, you may know more? They're mostly just been clinical to my knowledge, as in wanting to do the 'deed', for £60-80 a go for 30mins, no kissing included.. But times are hard! ...
We don't kiss our casual partners, we're not sex workers or clinical.
We don't think we're in any way better than sex workers either. "
Sex workers are the ones who usually don't kiss. |
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"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.
People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.
Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.
Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks.
I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...
It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all
As a slight (read huge) aside, I really like your avatar.
I think that equating not wanting to kiss someone to sex workers is a bit of a slippery slope isn't it? I can understand that on a personal level it can feel cold, I know personally it does nothing for me. I can't be aroused without kissing but it's just an incompatibility.
Also, it's a bit of a myth about sex workers being very clinical. Not kissing etc. I'm sure it can be true but I don't think it's the default.
No, it's probably not, but personally I only know a very limited amount of sex workers to say my opinion, you may know more? They're mostly just been clinical to my knowledge, as in wanting to do the 'deed', for £60-80 a go for 30mins, no kissing included.. But times are hard! ...
We don't kiss our casual partners, we're not sex workers or clinical.
We don't think we're in any way better than sex workers either. "
I don't think it makes any difference if that's what you don't do?... But it may feel kinda cold if someone can be penetrating your vagina, but not kiss your mouth. |
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"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.
People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.
Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.
Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks.
I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...
It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all
As a slight (read huge) aside, I really like your avatar.
I think that equating not wanting to kiss someone to sex workers is a bit of a slippery slope isn't it? I can understand that on a personal level it can feel cold, I know personally it does nothing for me. I can't be aroused without kissing but it's just an incompatibility.
Also, it's a bit of a myth about sex workers being very clinical. Not kissing etc. I'm sure it can be true but I don't think it's the default.
No, it's probably not, but personally I only know a very limited amount of sex workers to say my opinion, you may know more? They're mostly just been clinical to my knowledge, as in wanting to do the 'deed', for £60-80 a go for 30mins, no kissing included.. But times are hard! ...
We don't kiss our casual partners, we're not sex workers or clinical.
We don't think we're in any way better than sex workers either.
I don't think it makes any difference if that's what you don't do?... But it may feel kinda cold if someone can be penetrating your vagina, but not kiss your mouth. "
Definitely cold sex |
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"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.
People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.
Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.
Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks.
I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...
It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all
As a slight (read huge) aside, I really like your avatar.
I think that equating not wanting to kiss someone to sex workers is a bit of a slippery slope isn't it? I can understand that on a personal level it can feel cold, I know personally it does nothing for me. I can't be aroused without kissing but it's just an incompatibility.
Also, it's a bit of a myth about sex workers being very clinical. Not kissing etc. I'm sure it can be true but I don't think it's the default.
No, it's probably not, but personally I only know a very limited amount of sex workers to say my opinion, you may know more? They're mostly just been clinical to my knowledge, as in wanting to do the 'deed', for £60-80 a go for 30mins, no kissing included.. But times are hard! ...
We don't kiss our casual partners, we're not sex workers or clinical.
We don't think we're in any way better than sex workers either.
Sex workers are the ones who usually don't kiss."
And people like us. It doesn't mean I'm a sex worker though. I don't think it makes me or s X workers any less than anyone else |
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"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.
People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.
Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.
Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks.
I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...
It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all
As a slight (read huge) aside, I really like your avatar.
I think that equating not wanting to kiss someone to sex workers is a bit of a slippery slope isn't it? I can understand that on a personal level it can feel cold, I know personally it does nothing for me. I can't be aroused without kissing but it's just an incompatibility.
Also, it's a bit of a myth about sex workers being very clinical. Not kissing etc. I'm sure it can be true but I don't think it's the default.
No, it's probably not, but personally I only know a very limited amount of sex workers to say my opinion, you may know more? They're mostly just been clinical to my knowledge, as in wanting to do the 'deed', for £60-80 a go for 30mins, no kissing included.. But times are hard! ...
We don't kiss our casual partners, we're not sex workers or clinical.
We don't think we're in any way better than sex workers either.
I don't think it makes any difference if that's what you don't do?... But it may feel kinda cold if someone can be penetrating your vagina, but not kiss your mouth. "
Hence it's on our profile so nobody needs to experience that if that's how they feel |
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