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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?
Or would that be a waste of fucking time?
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"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?
Or would that be a waste of fucking time?
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Of course. I have. I would definitely do so again. I’m interest in many different people for many different reasons x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes. I used to do lot of coffee meets that where only ever going to be socials. It got me out the house and meeting new people"
Was it mostly forum people?
(Glad to see you back, hope you're doing ok.) |
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"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?
Or would that be a waste of fucking time?
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I’d do it to help people out that needed veris. I’ve actually got a meet up now for a social tomorrow so I’ll advertise that here  |
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Yes absolutely. It would be great to put faces to names and at least we'd know we had something in common to chat about. I think both parties would have to be clear about where it wasn't heading right from the start though. |
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"Yes. I used to do lot of coffee meets that where only ever going to be socials. It got me out the house and meeting new people
Was it mostly forum people?
(Glad to see you back, hope you're doing ok.)"
No it wasn't forum people at all. I did it to help guys get verified
. I'm not to bad thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?
Or would that be a waste of fucking time?
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Yes I would. It's a potential platonic friendship and at the least a day/night out and they could be someone you either.....
Set the world's to rights with
Have an utter scream with
Share some common ground with and just enjoy
Or just let loose with knowing you get along enough to do so.
Probably more so with same sex than opposite though on here.
I've had women approach for platonic friendships when I asked for a female club buddy where I didn't want to get naked with them in the process
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Why would it be a wste of time ?? we've always regarded this site and other's like it as social sites just as much as strictly lets get some parts wet site ?? and a social is a good way for some people to meet up with out any pressure ? but seems that of you are happy to do just a social you are looked own upon and the BUT BUT BUT it's a sex site site lot start ??  |
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"A waste of fucking time or a waste of fucking. time. ?
If meet someone for just a social, happily
A waste of Fucking Time. "
We'll I'd meet you Mrs O. There are quite a few people I'd love to meet socially. Probably I'd waste their fucking time  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?
Or would that be a waste of fucking time?
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Yep. Have done before. Will do again. |
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"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?
Or would that be a waste of fucking time?
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Yup, why on earth not.
Just because we don't want to shag doesn't mean we can't enjoy each others company...... |
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I like meeting people from Fab just to have a drink and a chat. Sometimes I fancy them. Sometimes I don’t. But chatting and laughing together about Fab stuff and sex stuff out in a bar or a coffeeshop is always fun and I’m always up for it. |
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"Enjoy a social meet, if anything develops then great, if not then no worries.
Think a social is more of a problem for the married ones."
The point is that there's no possibility of anything developing. Would you meet socially under those circumstances? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?
Or would that be a waste of fucking time?
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Yes. There are a number of Fabsters I meet socially. Some for walks, some for picnics, some for waffles. I find people interesting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes , I’ve got a good friend from a social coffee, we get on really well and chat , but then I’ve done a social and the spark wasn’t there and when said just happy for socials only I’ve said no … |
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Sounds like making a friend who knows, to me.
I am always up for social!
Someone to go have a laugh with. I dont have to fuck everyone!! Could even be a more beneficial friendship in the long run.
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"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?
Or would that be a waste of fucking time?
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If local, then yes.
I can speak with women I don't fancy easier about anything.
I feel pressure to compliment or not to say anything stupid with women I fancy.
I can speak freely without pressure, if I had a sign it's mutual.
If we get to the sex part, then I'm like a porn star with absolute confidence.
Light up like I'm opening the best Christmas present ever.
Well, I used to be a good shag (apparently), but not sure where I stand now.
The only complaint I've ever got from a girlfriend is:
" I love it when you f*ck me hard, but I wouldn't mind to make love sometimes."
I said: "Errr Sorry, I will try."
We tried that for 2 minutes, then she said: " F*ck me!"
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"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?
Or would that be a waste of fucking time?
Yes I would. It's a potential platonic friendship and at the least a day/night out and they could be someone you either.....
Set the world's to rights with
Have an utter scream with
Share some common ground with and just enjoy
Or just let loose with knowing you get along enough to do so.
Probably more so with same sex than opposite though on here.
I've had women approach for platonic friendships when I asked for a female club buddy where I didn't want to get naked with them in the process
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We never did make it to the cinema all those years ago x |
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"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?
Or would that be a waste of fucking time?
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Why not? It's always good to meet new people. I'd be very happy to have social meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?
Or would that be a waste of fucking time?
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It depends, if a coffee meet for both was the expectation and it was a chance to catch up in person/meet in real life etc etc sure. As it doesn't mean it'll just stop there, once meeting it could develope into more. You don't know?!
But looking at this at face value, yes I would. As I'd only agree to meet someone I found I really get on with or are hilarious etc. Why would I want to miss out on that?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly, no.
I've had this before, guys wanting to meet just for a coffee because we "get on".
If I have no desire to have your penis in me, I just aren't that interested.
I have enough friends. I want the sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?
Or would that be a waste of fucking time?
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I would, might be a good night out.  |
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"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?
Or would that be a waste of fucking time?
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Yes, always great to get to know new people. Easier the more common interests are shared. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. It's the best reason to meet. As there is usually coffee "
I was invited to one meet by a lovely lady where we had cake - it was purely for a social, cos her preference is for a different colour, but it was a really pleasant afternoon to natter (and the cake was great) |
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I have met a few people knowing beforehand that it would never go beyond a coffee or social meet.
I don't have expectations of having sex with everyone I chat to on here and I never meet without a social anyway.
I chat for weeks or even months before any meet takes place and some people were interesting in a non sexual way.
This was long before I started using the forums so they weren't people I planned on being friends with.
I don't see any of that as a waste of time just as I don't see conversations that fizzle out and never reach that stage as a waste either. |
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I have friends I’ve met in person on the club scene I’m friends with but don’t fuck.
However I wouldn’t purposely arrange this. I have friends in the real world so don’t see the need for it on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?
Or would that be a waste of fucking time?
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People who think social is a waste of fucking time don’t get much fucking time I’d suggest
I’m very sociable do like socials. |
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Done plenty of them with my wife when meeting other couples, was just nice to socialise and chat about past experiences with no agenda or pressure of having to take things further, we still keep in touch with a few of the couples we became close friends with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah of course I would! It would be nice to get out of the house for something fresh to do, might even discover new places to eat/drink that are really good! |
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Meh... I've done a few socials where I know I have zero attraction to them and honestly it does feel like a bit of a waste of time
I know I don't want anything from them.
I know nothing is going to happen.
It's just spending time with a stranger.
If we have things in common and can have a decent chat that's one thing.
But meeting people through fab (or other such sites) who I have little in common with and feel no physical attraction towards just seems pointless to me.
You're just wasting each others time |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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I enjoy chatting to people. I usually have a social as a first stage and then we both decide if there is any spark there and if we'll meet again, or leave things there.
It gets me out of the house |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have, it was lovely - we met, had coffee.. I gazed into his stunning blue eyes, he sated his desire to meet me. We parted and occasionally checked in on each other for the next year as friends |
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I think there are two different things being talked about in this thread, as it’s grown longer.
There’s the idea of socials as a taster. As a potential prelude to taking things further. A social to see if there’s a spark. That’s a date really, isn’t it? Meeting up to see if you fancy each other.
Then there’s the idea of just a social. Not a date. Just meeting for drinks, for chat. As mates. Totally platonic.
I think Outsider was talking about the latter kind, when she started the thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think there are two different things being talked about in this thread, as it’s grown longer.
There’s the idea of socials as a taster. As a potential prelude to taking things further. A social to see if there’s a spark. That’s a date really, isn’t it? Meeting up to see if you fancy each other.
Then there’s the idea of just a social. Not a date. Just meeting for drinks, for chat. As mates. Totally platonic.
I think Outsider was talking about the latter kind, when she started the thread."
Which one would you want with me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have friends I’ve met in person on the club scene I’m friends with but don’t fuck.
However I wouldn’t purposely arrange this. I have friends in the real world so don’t see the need for it on here "
Same. If I want a coffee and a chat, I'll see a friend. I have many I never get enough time with, and I'm constantly meeting new interesting people through my work, volunteering, and social life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends how chatty they were (and how local). I’m painfully shy in person so they’d have to be quite outgoing themselves.
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I could sit and babble complete nonsense while my eyes took in every inch of your delectable appearance |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?
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Depends on the people. We’ve met people socially only and became good friends and had some great nights out. |
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"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?
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I have lots of them. As long as you both agree it's strictly social and you think you would get on then why the hell not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done group socials but I don't think I could do a one to one social with someone I fancied if I knew it wasn't going anywhere but I absolutely would if it was platonic  |
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"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?
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I think that’s what exes are for |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think there are two different things being talked about in this thread, as it’s grown longer.
There’s the idea of socials as a taster. As a potential prelude to taking things further. A social to see if there’s a spark. That’s a date really, isn’t it? Meeting up to see if you fancy each other.
Then there’s the idea of just a social. Not a date. Just meeting for drinks, for chat. As mates. Totally platonic.
I think Outsider was talking about the latter kind, when she started the thread."
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