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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m a sucker for a good love story, so how did you meet your partner?
Through a friend of a friend? A dating app? Bumped into them in the middle aisle?
For the people who don’t currently have a partner how did you meet your FWB, the one that got away, the last person you had sex with (is that too nosey? I’m trying to be inclusive )
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I met my late partner in a sex cinema while I was there with another guy. After I'd finished being fucked by everyone on there I wanted a cigarette and he gave Mr a light and we started talking. He gave me the name of a website he thought I might be interested
in. I joined the site and found him and we swapped email addresses and the rest was history and we spent 16 blissful years together |
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Ailsa and I met at a birthday party when we were 11. The connection between us was instant. I can still remember what she was wearing. All through school we were friends. A year after school, we bumped into each other in the street. Two weeks later, Ailsa pitched up on my doorstep on a Saturday morning. I was still in bed after clubbing the night before. My dad woke me up and said, ‘there’s a girl at the door for you’. I thought, uh-oh, what did I do last night? Hungover, half asleep, barely dressed, bleary-eyed, I stood at the door looking at Ailsa. She looked at me. We were 17. Almost 30 years later, we still look at each other like that Xx |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"Ailsa and I met at a birthday party when we were 11. The connection between us was instant. I can still remember what she was wearing. All through school we were friends. A year after school, we bumped into each other in the street. Two weeks later, Ailsa pitched up on my doorstep on a Saturday morning. I was still in bed after clubbing the night before. My dad woke me up and said, ‘there’s a girl at the door for you’. I thought, uh-oh, what did I do last night? Hungover, half asleep, barely dressed, bleary-eyed, I stood at the door looking at Ailsa. She looked at me. We were 17. Almost 30 years later, we still look at each other like that Xx"
That is ridiculously sweet.
Not a love story but my last FWB I met at a social thing between 2 companies, didn't chat the entire night until the end when we were both d*unk and the subject of kinky sex came up. Turned out we liked the same.
2 nights later...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I met my late partner in a sex cinema while I was there with another guy. After I'd finished being fucked by everyone on there I wanted a cigarette and he gave Mr a light and we started talking. He gave me the name of a website he thought I might be interested
in. I joined the site and found him and we swapped email addresses and the rest was history and we spent 16 blissful years together"
I’m sorry to hear about your partner passing away. I’m glad the years you got to spend together were happy ones |
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My fwb and I met through fab 4 years ago. She liked my forum contributions and despite being just outside her age filters she decided to get in touch.
We clicked straight away and the emphasis is very much on the friendship part but the benefits are also amazing.
We have both been through a difficult couple of years but have been supportive of each other every day.
We have had people on here extremely jealous of our friendship and they have used every underhand tactic they could think of of to drive a wedge between us by spreading rumours and creating drama where none existed.
Our response was to create a couples profile and stick two fingers up at those sad individuals.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ailsa and I met at a birthday party when we were 11. The connection between us was instant. I can still remember what she was wearing. All through school we were friends. A year after school, we bumped into each other in the street. Two weeks later, Ailsa pitched up on my doorstep on a Saturday morning. I was still in bed after clubbing the night before. My dad woke me up and said, ‘there’s a girl at the door for you’. I thought, uh-oh, what did I do last night? Hungover, half asleep, barely dressed, bleary-eyed, I stood at the door looking at Ailsa. She looked at me. We were 17. Almost 30 years later, we still look at each other like that Xx"
Oh stop! This is far too sweet  |
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We lived in the same area and his younger brother was in our friend group. He would come pick up his brother and I fancied him big time. He was older and never took any notice of me.
Fast forward a few years and the lake close by froze solid. My grandad wanted to go and take pictures, so I went with him.
When we got there a group of lads were fucking about on quads and of course he was in the middle of them.
He was driving past , looking at me and didn't see the fishing hut. He ran straight into and I was in the stitches laughing.
I got a message from him that night and 13 years later he's still making me laugh.
Em x
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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The one that got away... Always make sure the basement is fully locked!
I joke! She didn't get away, shit happened.
We had both been in a collision on the road. Not the fault of either of us but a third and fourth car caused it by "racing". My car took the the biggest hit. She was a nurse and came over to check on me. Then the contact stuck around and lead to more. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We lived in the same area and his younger brother was in our friend group. He would come pick up his brother and I fancied him big time. He was older and never took any notice of me.
Fast forward a few years and the lake close by froze solid. My grandad wanted to go and take pictures, so I went with him.
When we got there a group of lads were fucking about on quads and of course he was in the middle of them.
He was driving past , looking at me and didn't see the fishing hut. He ran straight into and I was in the stitches laughing.
I got a message from him that night and 13 years later he's still making me laugh.
Em x"
Oh shit  I hope he didn’t hurt himself too bad! Sounds like you were in the right place at the right time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The one that got away... Always make sure the basement is fully locked!
I joke! She didn't get away, shit happened.
We had both been in a collision on the road. Not the fault of either of us but a third and fourth car caused it by "racing". My car took the the biggest hit. She was a nurse and came over to check on me. Then the contact stuck around and lead to more. "
I’m an expert at that!
Oh wow, that’s quite the story! I’m sorry things ended but I hope you’ve found some closure |
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We met at a sex party in Corby 11 years ago that we had both gone to alone.
I (male) saw this goddess walk out into the garden and I was totally lost from that point on. We chatted (and had sex) and it just developed into a relationship from there over a few days. It seemed that we were continually on the phone chatting about anything and everything.
Seeing how we met, we definitely didn't have any issues talking about sex and swinging.
We initially lived 125 miles apart but we saw each other at every opportunity that families and work allowed.
Once we were able to, we got our own place and have lived quite happily together since. We still swing although her health has put boundaries on that now.
When we met we had both had bad relationships that had put us off of getting involved with someone other than just for sex but something clicked and amazingly we have worked.
(And She's still a goddess to me)
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met my late partner in a sex cinema while I was there with another guy. After I'd finished being fucked by everyone on there I wanted a cigarette and he gave Mr a light and we started talking. He gave me the name of a website he thought I might be interested
in. I joined the site and found him and we swapped email addresses and the rest was history and we spent 16 blissful years together"
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As most who knows us know, we met on here. We originally had no plans for it to be anything more than a FWB thing as we live nearly an hour apart, but it soon became apparent we had fell for each other deeply and we decided to throw caution to the wind and make it official.
We still live apart but we make it work for us and I wouldn't change a thing
Tinder x |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
We met on here thanks to a perfectly timed my mate fancies you thread. Despite the fact neither of us were actually looking for more than conversation, within 36 hours he had booked a plane and a hotel to come meet me for coffee.
That happened 10 days later, coffee turned into dinner, turned into breakfast...
The 500 miles and the sea between us meant we knew it would never be more than just friends with benefits... but apparently our hearts were as in tune as our brains and we have been happily loved up for 2 years now.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Weirdest meeting story I've got was my long term GF from 14 to about 18, who I met in Macdonalds because she was throwing ice cubes at me from her Coke. It annoyed me at 1st because I was allergic to , but the cheekiness of it all and how funny the conversation turned out, meant we spoke every day from that point for a good 10 years until we got into separate serious relationships and drifted apart. |
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"We met at a sex party in Corby 11 years ago that we had both gone to alone.
I (male) saw this goddess walk out into the garden and I was totally lost from that point on. We chatted (and had sex) and it just developed into a relationship from there over a few days. It seemed that we were continually on the phone chatting about anything and everything.
Seeing how we met, we definitely didn't have any issues talking about sex and swinging.
We initially lived 125 miles apart but we saw each other at every opportunity that families and work allowed.
Once we were able to, we got our own place and have lived quite happily together since. We still swing although her health has put boundaries on that now.
When we met we had both had bad relationships that had put us off of getting involved with someone other than just for sex but something clicked and amazingly we have worked.
(And She's still a goddess to me)
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We used to go to a sex party around that time in corby quite regularly they were great fun |
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"We met on here thanks to a perfectly timed my mate fancies you thread. Despite the fact neither of us were actually looking for more than conversation, within 36 hours he had booked a plane and a hotel to come meet me for coffee.
That happened 10 days later, coffee turned into dinner, turned into breakfast...
The 500 miles and the sea between us meant we knew it would never be more than just friends with benefits... but apparently our hearts were as in tune as our brains and we have been happily loved up for 2 years now.
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I’m really happy to read this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m a sucker for a good love story, so how did you meet your partner?
Through a friend of a friend? A dating app? Bumped into them in the middle aisle?
For the people who don’t currently have a partner how did you meet your FWB, the one that got away, the last person you had sex with (is that too nosey? I’m trying to be inclusive)
Please share…..if you want to "
No partner
No fwb (this is basically a partner)
One that got away? Oh they all get away. I need better chains.
Last one I had sex with? Middle aisle.
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"We met on here thanks to a perfectly timed my mate fancies you thread. Despite the fact neither of us were actually looking for more than conversation, within 36 hours he had booked a plane and a hotel to come meet me for coffee.
That happened 10 days later, coffee turned into dinner, turned into breakfast...
The 500 miles and the sea between us meant we knew it would never be more than just friends with benefits... but apparently our hearts were as in tune as our brains and we have been happily loved up for 2 years now.
I’m really happy to read this "
Now we have both been vomit worthily cute... FAF? |
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"We met on here thanks to a perfectly timed my mate fancies you thread. Despite the fact neither of us were actually looking for more than conversation, within 36 hours he had booked a plane and a hotel to come meet me for coffee.
That happened 10 days later, coffee turned into dinner, turned into breakfast...
The 500 miles and the sea between us meant we knew it would never be more than just friends with benefits... but apparently our hearts were as in tune as our brains and we have been happily loved up for 2 years now.
I’m really happy to read this
Now we have both been vomit worthily cute... FAF? "
And that ladies and gentlemen is the art of seduction… hell yes!  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"We met on here thanks to a perfectly timed my mate fancies you thread. Despite the fact neither of us were actually looking for more than conversation, within 36 hours he had booked a plane and a hotel to come meet me for coffee.
That happened 10 days later, coffee turned into dinner, turned into breakfast...
The 500 miles and the sea between us meant we knew it would never be more than just friends with benefits... but apparently our hearts were as in tune as our brains and we have been happily loved up for 2 years now.
I’m really happy to read this
Now we have both been vomit worthily cute... FAF?
And that ladies and gentlemen is the art of seduction… hell yes! "
Score!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Last one I had sex with? Middle aisle.
Wait. Middle aisle?
So it wasn’t what you went in for but it was just what you needed?"
Then realised what a fucking waste of my time it was later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Made joke to tattoo lady about taking me out to dinner before penetrating me. She thought it was hilarious. Lots more small talk. Ended up as fwb for a while. Then she moved to Scotland. R.I.P |
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By *929Man
over a year ago
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I met my ex as she lived next door to a good mate and she was friends with his wife and he wanted us together so he had someone to socialise with the selfish cunt. He owes me a house and at least some of the cost of raising two kids haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m a sucker for a good love story, so how did you meet your partner?
Through a friend of a friend? A dating app? Bumped into them in the middle aisle?
For the people who don’t currently have a partner how did you meet your FWB, the one that got away, the last person you had sex with (is that too nosey? I’m trying to be inclusive)
Please share…..if you want to "
Not had a proper partner in decades. My now ex we met online then offline. Was married in a year. Worst nightmare after 2 years found him sleeping with a friend in my bed.
No sex in 2 to 3 years.
No fwb.
Not really bothered about any of the above. |
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We met on here. A flippant comment about strong arms on a thread gave him the in that he'd apparently been waiting for. We were both having a whale of a time meeting different people, and the plane ride that separates us meant that it was definitely only ever going to be a one off. That was over 4 years ago, apparently my geeking out about cars on that first meet impressed him...we're still a plane ride apart, but I have a holiday home on a gorgeous little island, and he gets to visit places in the UK that he has no idea how to pronounce  |
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We've known each other since we were 11 and at school. Got together in 6th form, but after I'd already had my son. Our getting together involved 2x house parties, 1x him puking, a resolution never to drink again, a Jack Black film and a single bed. Coming up for 20yrs together in February! |
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By *s-two-75Couple
over a year ago
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Both part of a big friends group of lads and lasses as you do back then, in our teens and became very close and started dating in 1992, married in 1998 been together ever since, dabbled in the lifestyle in 2023 and closer than ever |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We were at a dingy underground rock bar in Kingston at uni. I was with my flat mates and bumped into a friend of mine, who was with his flat mates. (One of them was my now partner)
I was d*unk and trying to dance, he kept trying to dance with me. I turned around to him and told him to piss off or we could take it outside, he kissed me. Then we went home together, and haven’t left each others sides in almost 9 years. |
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"Ailsa and I met at a birthday party when we were 11. The connection between us was instant. I can still remember what she was wearing. All through school we were friends. A year after school, we bumped into each other in the street. Two weeks later, Ailsa pitched up on my doorstep on a Saturday morning. I was still in bed after clubbing the night before. My dad woke me up and said, ‘there’s a girl at the door for you’. I thought, uh-oh, what did I do last night? Hungover, half asleep, barely dressed, bleary-eyed, I stood at the door looking at Ailsa. She looked at me. We were 17. Almost 30 years later, we still look at each other like that Xx"
Beautiful |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"...and how did you snare Mr Shiv, OP??"
He was my cousins friend. Looking back on it now I think she might have liked him a little. I turned up at her house one night and she was on the phone to him. She handed the phone to me while she went away to do something, we had a very awkward chat and when she came back they were talking about a holiday us and a few of our friends had booked. Mr obviously invited himself along with some of his friends. That night he asked my cousin for my number and we talked for a few weeks until I finally went and met him.
11 years later and here we are!
We never did go on that holiday though… |
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