"Are you more confident on fab than what you are in real everyday life?.. Or are you the same either way?.. "
Depends how you judge someone's confidence, I'm not overly confident in myself overall, but people would see the fact I take and post pics here and assume I have confidence.
That doesn't mean I have more here I just don't walk around in my undies in the real world.
But no I'm the same outside fab as on fab, both equally a little self conscious.
Mrs |
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By *G T OP Man
over a year ago
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"Are you more confident on fab than what you are in real everyday life?.. Or are you the same either way?..
Depends how you judge someone's confidence, I'm not overly confident in myself overall, but people would see the fact I take and post pics here and assume I have confidence.
That doesn't mean I have more here I just don't walk around in my undies in the real world.
But no I'm the same outside fab as on fab, both equally a little self conscious.
Mrs "
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not particularly confident on fab or in the outside world. But the armour I have comes across a lot more on here than it does out there. Until I smash it by posting something like this. |
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Same same. I draw confidence from the fact that (I think anyway) I'm a good guy, and from being good in my job. All other aspects of my life, particularly sex and dating, my confidence is below par. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im shy both on here and in real life! For me there is no difference, it just depends on the company I'm keeping really. If people around me a rowdy then I tend to be too! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It's not quite as simple as that for me. I'm confident in certain areas across the board, at work, with friends and family, on Fab. I'm confident in social situations (once my sensory overload has gone! Or I'm not flustered).
I'm less confident in my physical appearance and that's the same on Fab and away from.
I guess I'm more aware of it on here? Maybe it's not less confident, more, I know physically I'm nothing special. I'm working on it currently, finding a bit more confidence in myself aesthetically because I'm not awful looking. |
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By *G T OP Man
over a year ago
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"It's not quite as simple as that for me. I'm confident in certain areas across the board, at work, with friends and family, on Fab. I'm confident in social situations (once my sensory overload has gone! Or I'm not flustered).
I'm less confident in my physical appearance and that's the same on Fab and away from.
I guess I'm more aware of it on here? Maybe it's not less confident, more, I know physically I'm nothing special. I'm working on it currently, finding a bit more confidence in myself aesthetically because I'm not awful looking."
I think you look amazing tbf but I know that it’s something you feel within yourself no matter how many times people say things like that to you |
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By *G T OP Man
over a year ago
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Confidence levels can go up also, after certain things happening- a nice compliment, a promotion, a hair cut too for example.
After a fresh haircut and braid my confidence goes up a bit more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My confidence on here is super low. But I project a confident demeanor.
I think the confidence issue comes from not being able to fully express myself like you can in real life.
Like any social media platform I look to others and think you have a great profile and hey lots of attention, I then think perhaps wrong with mine...
We all only have a short window in which to make an impression and that's made even more difficult because of all the people before us having left a bad taste in people's mouths. So we get tarred with that brush.
Not complaining. I'm happy chatting away when I can and making the odd random connection. Xx
I know limits and respect ever persons boundaries. I'd just like a bit more validation sometimes. (Which I think everyone would appreciate. Xx) |
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On fab we both lack confidence but on the outside of this world iv been told I'm very confident because I'm loud and make people laugh  H can be confident sometimes but she definitely not like me lol x J |
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"Confidence levels can go up also, after certain things happening- a nice compliment, a promotion, a hair cut too for example.
After a fresh haircut and braid my confidence goes up a bit more "
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By *eliWoman
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"It's not quite as simple as that for me. I'm confident in certain areas across the board, at work, with friends and family, on Fab. I'm confident in social situations (once my sensory overload has gone! Or I'm not flustered).
I'm less confident in my physical appearance and that's the same on Fab and away from.
I guess I'm more aware of it on here? Maybe it's not less confident, more, I know physically I'm nothing special. I'm working on it currently, finding a bit more confidence in myself aesthetically because I'm not awful looking.
I think you look amazing tbf but I know that it’s something you feel within yourself no matter how many times people say things like that to you "
That's exactly it. It's about putting the work in myself. I do think, to some extent, others can help lift your confidence and that's brilliant. I know for me a lot of it is self based and needs my"self" to do it.  Thank you by the way, x |
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By *G T OP Man
over a year ago
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"It's not quite as simple as that for me. I'm confident in certain areas across the board, at work, with friends and family, on Fab. I'm confident in social situations (once my sensory overload has gone! Or I'm not flustered).
I'm less confident in my physical appearance and that's the same on Fab and away from.
I guess I'm more aware of it on here? Maybe it's not less confident, more, I know physically I'm nothing special. I'm working on it currently, finding a bit more confidence in myself aesthetically because I'm not awful looking.
I think you look amazing tbf but I know that it’s something you feel within yourself no matter how many times people say things like that to you
That's exactly it. It's about putting the work in myself. I do think, to some extent, others can help lift your confidence and that's brilliant. I know for me a lot of it is self based and needs my"self" to do it. Thank you by the way, x"
Anytime and I’m sure you’ll do just fine with it x |
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