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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

If or when you're not feeling like fab is the place to be anymore for whatever reason

Do you hide your profile or delete ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hide it

I have friends who delete and they always come back and then have to start the whole veri process again. Pain in the bottom (and not in a good way!)

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth

Hide, I don't want to lose my pics and veris

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Usually delete then comeback in a few weeks

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By *ruceyyMan  over a year ago

London

Depends if I feel like hiding...or deleting.

Done a bit of both. Will probably hide in the future. Also think I will leave this forums one fine day!

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By *issmorganWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Just hide myself for a while.

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By *ookie46Woman  over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Hide, longest was for about a month and sometimes it’s for a day or two

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple  over a year ago

kent

There was time when we really weren’t welcome here, and we had our profile hidden for about three years.

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple  over a year ago

Midlands

We just hide our profile for a while

Mrs

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Hide. Although I do keep thinking about abandoning for good.

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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Hide. If I delete, it's really not for me any more and I won't be returning.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hide it for a bit…. If I keep coming back then I might as well admit I want to stick around …. But if I stay away… well then that’s a sign?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you’re just not feeling it, hide.

If you think it’s a drain on your attention and sense of self worth which could be better didn’t elsewhere, delete.

If you’re just feeling frustrated, ask yourself if this site can give you want you want. Then See above.

Or have a wank/biscuit.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I turn off looking for and hide. Works a treat.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It would give some people too much happiness if I went UNLOS.

So I'd hide just to pop up every now and again and bring them disappointment when they aren't expecting it.

I do like my veri but I have the guys phone number so it's not got that much importance to me. I could screen grab if I was that sentimental.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman  over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm hidden. But it doesn't stop the messages from people whove noticed me before. A clean slate is starting to feel appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I hide my profile. Too many photos and verifications I'd leave behind if I deleted it and joined again two weeks later

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By *imply DeeWoman  over a year ago

Wherever

I do hide, but I think about going totally UNLOS too often I can’t ignore it anymore.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I just don't log in

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When I left last time I deleted. You loose everything but kept me off for over 2 years.

Now I think I shouldn't have but ah well. Clean slate works.

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish

I just hide

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By *ink vixenCouple  over a year ago

Medway

The amount of offers we turn down from the new, unverified profiles of guys that were “on here before” would suggest hiding may be a better option.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Delete

Hide

Delete

Delete

Hid

Delete

Whichever.

I don't get the whole losing photos thing, take new ones. Don't look as good? Shouldn't be using them then.

Also, no one is that important on here that anyone really gives a shit what you do.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Delete

Hide

Delete

Delete

Hid

Delete

Whichever.

I don't get the whole losing photos thing, take new ones. Don't look as good? Shouldn't be using them then.

Also, no one is that important on here that anyone really gives a shit what you do. "

I like a reminder of how wham I've got over the years

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I thought I would try the conventional dating route but it's still not for me.

So from now on I'll hide on fabs if I need a break

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Delete

Hide

Delete

Delete

Hid

Delete

Whichever.

I don't get the whole losing photos thing, take new ones. Don't look as good? Shouldn't be using them then.

Also, no one is that important on here that anyone really gives a shit what you do.

I like a reminder of how wham I've got over the years "

Does everyone else need the reminder aswell?

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By *affron40Woman  over a year ago

manchester

I just don’t log on. So neither

Went unlos once. Lost my photos. When I go I won’t be back.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Delete

Hide

Delete

Delete

Hid

Delete

Whichever.

I don't get the whole losing photos thing, take new ones. Don't look as good? Shouldn't be using them then.

Also, no one is that important on here that anyone really gives a shit what you do.

I like a reminder of how wham I've got over the years

Does everyone else need the reminder aswell? "

Is it even worth it if no one else can see it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Delete

Hide

Delete

Delete

Hid

Delete

Whichever.

I don't get the whole losing photos thing, take new ones. Don't look as good? Shouldn't be using them then.

Also, no one is that important on here that anyone really gives a shit what you do.

I like a reminder of how wham I've got over the years

Does everyone else need the reminder aswell?

Is it even worth it if no one else can see it?"

Explains a lot of what goes on round here.

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By *andy CanesWoman  over a year ago

south

Delete then come back

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By *edeWoman  over a year ago

the abyss

I just didn't log in for a year as I didn't feel like it

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By *zeroMan  over a year ago

Glasgow

Hide it. I deleted the other months and lost all my veris. You'll only end up wanting to come back

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Delete

Hide

Delete

Delete

Hid

Delete

Whichever.

I don't get the whole losing photos thing, take new ones. Don't look as good? Shouldn't be using them then.

Also, no one is that important on here that anyone really gives a shit what you do. "

I agree. I didn't care about the photos. Initially thought I'd have liked to keep veris but even those I don't mind I lost anymore. It's nice starting over.

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

I have left before. But the trouble is, as with anything done in haste (or temper) you tend to regret it later when you lose your verifications or favourite pics or whatnot.

So sleep on it. Then have a cup of tea. Watch a bit of telly. Then see how you feel.

I guess it comes down to willpower. Will Fab call to you if you just hide your profile? Or will you be able to stay away and give yourself the bit of peace that you want/need?

Regardless of what you do, Fab will still be here if you do decide to delete and then come back, just have to make a new profile is all.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman  over a year ago

Reading

Hide. I don't get deleting unless you are sure you won't ever be back.

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