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Ladies, couples and all others except single men, would you
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tell us of good or even better experiences/meets you have had with single men?
No, not "kiss and tell", this isn't for male arousal or "entertainment".
I ask as a single male that has returned to Fab but lived in this lifestyle for some 15-20 years and is somewhat dismayed at the bad wrap singletons are recently receiving.
It must be quite off putting for any newbie, especially when many a profile is quite brutally worded and may surprise male readers who are genuine and respectful.
We very often hear the bad, c'mon folks. Tell us that you have found good apples and let sincere newbies (and oldies!) hear some good news.
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Got chatting here to a very lovely and funny guy, following a comment I'd made on the forums.
Lived local to me, so met for a coffee. He was shy, but polite and charming. Went for drinks few times, which turned into movie and kebab at his. Ended up as FWB for about 6 months. |
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"Got chatting here to a very lovely and funny guy, following a comment I'd made on the forums.
Lived local to me, so met for a coffee. He was shy, but polite and charming. Went for drinks few times, which turned into movie and kebab at his. Ended up as FWB for about 6 months."
That is a real success story, nice one indeed, thanks for sharing this with us.  |
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"Met quite a few newbie men both as a couple and a single. All have been respectful and fun.
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Thank you for sharing this with us.
It's great that you had good meets in what could be very different scenarios, ie as a "1 to 1" single rendezvous and also as a couples meet.
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We've met a few most are respectful and know how to treat a woman. Several photos of happy endings. Although being softswap finding partners it is the same story as couples.
Still the good out ways the searching
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We’ve met some fantastic single guys - we chat and chat to them so the ones that are just after quick sex disappear.
One single guy we met with for over a year, so it shows when you meet the right people it works perfectly.
There’s a lot of decent guys on here.
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"All but one of the single men I’ve met have been lovely. Respectful, not pushy and socially acceptable  "
Again,thank you very much for some positive feedback, it's just 'good that it's not all bad' with the single lads! |
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The bisexual guys on here I’ve never had a problem with, always respectful and genuine.
Even the majority of straight guys who contact can be respectful when I don’t want to meet them.
In clubs I’ve had more issues with couples than single guys. |
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Met a guy at a club visit, it was his first time.
Although we didn't play that night we stayed in touch with him and even bumped into him in a local pub when he was with his mates.
Such a great guy and still in contact now. |
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We met a wonderful guy from the forums a good while ago now for drinks.
We enjoyed his company that much that we invited him back to our rented apartment for more drinks and then had an absolutely terrific overnight experience with him.
I made him breakfast in the morning and we dropped him off at the train station.
Good times
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"We met a wonderful guy from the forums a good while ago now for drinks.
We enjoyed his company that much that we invited him back to our rented apartment for more drinks and then had an absolutely terrific overnight experience with him.
I made him breakfast in the morning and we dropped him off at the train station.
Good times
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This is lies, I'm still in the basement, somebody please send help and/or like a Snickers or something.
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"We’ve met some fantastic single guys - we chat and chat to them so the ones that are just after quick sex disappear.
One single guy we met with for over a year, so it shows when you meet the right people it works perfectly.
There’s a lot of decent guys on here.
K"
Thanking you for telling us your experience.
It made me chuckle about the ones wanting quick sex. I too need to feel some connection, but there you go....I have read single lady or couple profiles where they clearly state, no talking, come in, do the business and go. Yeah, they are perfect for the guys you obviously don't want to meet up with.
You have on the other hand found someone with whom you had a longer or more meaningful time. It just shows,it's all about finding the right match. There is no right or wrong, everyone has their own personal preference and as such it is down to patience and a bit of luck too.
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"I don't meet single men but we've had the pleasure of chatting with many at socials they've all been lovely and polite.
On here however different story.
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Allow me to thank you for your input on this topic.
The club scene works and yet here on Fab you have had completely the opposite experience.
I'm sorry to hear about it being far less pleasant here online, I guess it's the 'keyboard warrior' thing, some people communicate in a very different fashion online due to a level of anonymity.
In a club environment everyone has made an effort by even getting there, will want to look their best and enjoy meeting others face to face.
Also meeting on neutral ground and the opportunity to mingle amongst a 'crowd'/larger number of people means any awkward situations can be side stepped or rather avoided.
Thanks again, this certainly highlights the advantages of going to a club, especially with the bonus of play areas or rooms that you can try out.  |
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"We've met a few most are respectful and know how to treat a woman. Several photos of happy endings. Although being softswap finding partners it is the same story as couples.
Still the good out ways the searching
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Hey, thanks to you too for taking the time to comment.
Again, it's good to hear you have been approached positively albeit you say 'mostly'.
If the good outweighs the not so good, then happy days I guess. And 'happy endings', well, who doesn't like that, eh?! |
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"The bisexual guys on here I’ve never had a problem with, always respectful and genuine.
Even the majority of straight guys who contact can be respectful when I don’t want to meet them.
In clubs I’ve had more issues with couples than single guys. "
Hi Steph, well, what to say?
You have had pretty much positive encounters all round.
I can only surmise you have had an abundance of good luck and been fortunate in not meeting those who 'let the team down' from time to tine
Pleased for you and thanks for your evaluation! |
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"We met a wonderful guy from the forums a good while ago now for drinks.
We enjoyed his company that much that we invited him back to our rented apartment for more drinks and then had an absolutely terrific overnight experience with him.
I made him breakfast in the morning and we dropped him off at the train station.
Good times
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I just had to check if I had a dick, turns out, big surprise, I don't.
It wasn't me, absolutely sad now |
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"We met a wonderful guy from the forums a good while ago now for drinks.
We enjoyed his company that much that we invited him back to our rented apartment for more drinks and then had an absolutely terrific overnight experience with him.
I made him breakfast in the morning and we dropped him off at the train station.
Good times
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Sounds like you met a very decent chap. This hopefully goes to show that there are decent folk about, even amongst us singletons! No seriously, nice little example of it just depending upon the chemistry being right, then good times are had! Thank you. |
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"We met a wonderful guy from the forums a good while ago now for drinks.
We enjoyed his company that much that we invited him back to our rented apartment for more drinks and then had an absolutely terrific overnight experience with him.
I made him breakfast in the morning and we dropped him off at the train station.
Good times
This is lies, I'm still in the basement, somebody please send help and/or like a Snickers or something.
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Sounds like a good basement to be locked in, lol |
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