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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I like average penises.
I like bodies that are just that. Bodies. As much as sometimes I think oh that person is really hot, it's the person inside the body that does it for me. That connection. Learning about them. I won't say I don't notice things, of course I do. They don't matter to me though. If I fancy you as a person, I fancy you. Even if you have an extra nipple and like to sacrifice animals to Satan. |
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"I like average penises.
I like bodies that are just that. Bodies. As much as sometimes I think oh that person is really hot, it's the person inside the body that does it for me. That connection. Learning about them. I won't say I don't notice things, of course I do. They don't matter to me though. If I fancy you as a person, I fancy you. Even if you have an extra nipple and like to sacrifice animals to Satan."
Sacrifice guinea pigs, lambs or dogs?
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over a year ago
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Perfect woman for you in every way, but has a flat arse/ small boobs.
Yes or no?
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Then she’s not perfect for me
It’s not about being picky, it’s about knowing what you want |
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"Perfect man for you in every way, but has an average/small cock.
Yes or no?
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Perfect woman for you in every way, but has a flat arse/ small boobs.
Yes or no?
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This is a very revealing question about personalities in general. In itself it reflects a transactional view of sex. How far are you prepared to shift from your ideal while still having an experience that adds value? What is important about a sexual experience for you?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes because it’s not all about the cock. They could have the biggest penis but if they don’t do anything for me mentally it’s a no"
I like this answer a lot because you’ll very rarely see the opposite
“If he was hung like a horse but a bad personality then it’s a no for me” - very common
“He has a micro penis but he’s funny and kind so I’m fine with it” - much rarer to hear
I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship |
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"Yes because it’s not all about the cock. They could have the biggest penis but if they don’t do anything for me mentally it’s a no
I like this answer a lot because you’ll very rarely see the opposite
“If he was hung like a horse but a bad personality then it’s a no for me” - very common
“He has a micro penis but he’s funny and kind so I’m fine with it” - much rarer to hear
I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship "
“If he was hung like a horse but a bad personality then it’s a no for me” - very common
“He has a micro penis but he’s funny and kind so I’m fine with it” - much rarer to hear"
Did you post in the wrong thread accidentally?
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"I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship "
I doubt anyone would claim that *only* personality matters.
Damn straight it’s the most important thing though. All the physical stuff’s the icing on the cake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes because it’s not all about the cock. They could have the biggest penis but if they don’t do anything for me mentally it’s a no
I like this answer a lot because you’ll very rarely see the opposite
“If he was hung like a horse but a bad personality then it’s a no for me” - very common
“He has a micro penis but he’s funny and kind so I’m fine with it” - much rarer to hear
I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship "
I don't want a micro penis.
I also don't want a shit personality.
I also want a good looking face.
I also want a nice body.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship
I doubt anyone would claim that *only* personality matters.
Damn straight it’s the most important thing though. All the physical stuff’s the icing on the cake."
Men do this allll the time though!
Oh it's not the looks it's the connection crap. Is it bollocks. |
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"Perfect man for you in every way, but has an average/small cock.
Yes or no?
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Perfect woman for you in every way, but has a flat arse/ small boobs.
Yes or no?
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yeah I can still vibe if she’s got a good personality, a pretty face and she’s a freak in the sheets |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship
I doubt anyone would claim that *only* personality matters.
Damn straight it’s the most important thing though. All the physical stuff’s the icing on the cake.
Men do this allll the time though!
Oh it's not the looks it's the connection crap. Is it bollocks."
They really do
Because they think it sets them apart from other guys that only think with their penis
I just think it makes them look desperate. No physical preferences. Just anyone nice and with a pulse for me thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't want a micro penis.
I also don't want a shit personality.
I also want a good looking face.
I also want a nice body.
Apparently this makes you picky. It says so up there somewhere."
I'm fine with that.
Luckily I'm also fine not having sex. |
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"Yes because it’s not all about the cock. They could have the biggest penis but if they don’t do anything for me mentally it’s a no
I like this answer a lot because you’ll very rarely see the opposite
“If he was hung like a horse but a bad personality then it’s a no for me” - very common
“He has a micro penis but he’s funny and kind so I’m fine with it” - much rarer to hear
I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship
I don't want a micro penis.
I also don't want a shit personality.
I also want a good looking face.
I also want a nice body.
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"I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship
I doubt anyone would claim that *only* personality matters.
Damn straight it’s the most important thing though. All the physical stuff’s the icing on the cake.
Men do this allll the time though!
Oh it's not the looks it's the connection crap. Is it bollocks.
They really do
Because they think it sets them apart from other guys that only think with their penis
I just think it makes them look desperate. No physical preferences. Just anyone nice and with a pulse for me thanks "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look, this isn’t rocket science. Everyone wants to have sex with people they find hot. But if that hottie is a dickhead, I’m not touching them with a bargepole."
Really though...
I know a lot of guys on here who'll say oh xyz is hot but a dickhead, I'd still fuck her though.
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"I don't want a micro penis.
I also don't want a shit personality.
I also want a good looking face.
I also want a nice body.
Apparently this makes you picky. It says so up there somewhere."
It doesn't say so.
It was a question.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship
I doubt anyone would claim that *only* personality matters.
Damn straight it’s the most important thing though. All the physical stuff’s the icing on the cake.
Men do this allll the time though!
Oh it's not the looks it's the connection crap. Is it bollocks."
Nope. If she repels me mentally I couldn’t get a boner however hot she is. |
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By *agebunWoman
over a year ago
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"Look, this isn’t rocket science. Everyone wants to have sex with people they find hot. But if that hottie is a dickhead, I’m not touching them with a bargepole."
This! Although I did put up with someone who was a bit of a dickhead because the kink was good. But he became more and more of a dickhead over time and now my tolerance level is set a lot lower so I can maintain already limited sanity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship
I doubt anyone would claim that *only* personality matters.
Damn straight it’s the most important thing though. All the physical stuff’s the icing on the cake.
Men do this allll the time though!
Oh it's not the looks it's the connection crap. Is it bollocks.
Nope. If she repels me mentally I couldn’t get a boner however hot she is."
This all day long!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship
I doubt anyone would claim that *only* personality matters.
Damn straight it’s the most important thing though. All the physical stuff’s the icing on the cake.
Men do this allll the time though!
Oh it's not the looks it's the connection crap. Is it bollocks.
Nope. If she repels me mentally I couldn’t get a boner however hot she is."
Let's be honest, no guy is gonna publicly admit I'm right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really though...
I know a lot of guys on here who'll say oh xyz is hot but a dickhead, I'd still fuck her though.
Sounds to me like those guys are dickheads.
*shrug emoji*"
Or just honest |
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"Perfect man for you in every way, but has an average/small cock.
Yes or no?
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Perfect woman for you in every way, but has a flat arse/ small boobs.
Yes or no?
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Well obviously physical attraction plays a huge part in whether you want to have sex with someone and there are some physical qualities that are non negotiable for many people.
It doesnt make you a horrible person to have a preference and stick to it, unless you lead someone on who doesn't fit your type just to use them until you find "better".
Honestly would much rather people stated their non negotiable preferences, so I could avoid them if I don't match those.
MrsAbz
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"Let's be honest, no guy is gonna publicly admit I'm right. "
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Someone smart said this earlier. Can’t think who.
"Their personality is more likely to put me off more than anything, and it usually does. "
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"Really though...
I know a lot of guys on here who'll say oh xyz is hot but a dickhead, I'd still fuck her though.
Sounds to me like those guys are dickheads.
*shrug emoji*"
And they want everyone to think that any man not like them is lying about it. |
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"Perfect man for you in every way, but has an average/small cock.
Yes or no?
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And here is the joy of being non exclusive. I can have my cake and eat it. And my doughnut. And my muffin. "
Greedy lady |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
Most of the women I've dated and met have been taller than me, which isn't hard considering I'm a short-arse.
The have been with women of all shapes and sizes, the thing which attracts is the ability to just enjoy each others company, have a laugh, not be too serious.
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"Perfect man for you in every way, but has an average/small cock.
Yes or no?
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Perfect woman for you in every way, but has a flat arse/ small boobs.
Yes or no?
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We are exceptionally picky, but it has little to do with a guy’s cock or a lady’s boobs x |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Perfect man for you in every way, but has an average/small cock.
Yes or no?
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Perfect woman for you in every way, but has a flat arse/ small boobs.
Yes or no?
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Couldn't give a flying monkey's hairy bollocks about cock size. There are so many more important things that make up a person. So if he is perfect for me, then bring him on  |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
"Perfect man for you in every way, but has an average/small cock.
Yes or no?
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Perfect woman for you in every way, but has a flat arse/ small boobs.
Yes or no?
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I am bi, quite picky who I meet but cock, boobs size are not in the list of the criteria to meet at all. |
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"You can only truly judge a person in person so i like slim to curvy women with dark or blonde hair with great personalities and a sense of humour who are very short sighted  "
I also have a soft spot for women not wearing glasses or contacts, but they should.
Not enough of them here unfortunately.
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"You can only truly judge a person in person so i like slim to curvy women with dark or blonde hair with great personalities and a sense of humour who are very short sighted
I also have a soft spot for women not wearing glasses or contacts, but they should.
Not enough of them here unfortunately.
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Exactly and we can't afford to not get what we want |
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