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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All those beautiful photographs of that memorable day, neatly laid out in a classy looking album.. but what would you do with it after the divorce.  "
I was given my mum and dads as a gift. Not that i knew my parents when they were married.. i was a bubba in my mums tummy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still got mine even after divorce.
The kids like looking through them every now and then ,they were all there when i married their dad (we had lived together for years ) so would be wrong for me to burn them/shred them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All those beautiful photographs of that memorable day, neatly laid out in a classy looking album.. but what would you do with it after the divorce. "
The temptation is to burn it but you may regret it later in life so box it up and pop it in the loft. |
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I do have mine, just in a cupboard with the other photos.
Up until callum left home i always had a small one in a frame up on the side to show him that we did love each other at one time.
Also alot of the family have died who where at my wedding so i wouldnt get rid of them, plus my ex husband wasnt bad looking then, its just as hes gotten older |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't have a choice, my ex wife destroyed every single one of our wedding pictures apart from one of me and my best man standing together in our kilts which my daughters managed to save. They gave it to me many years later. Personally I think it was a shame as the marriage wasn't all bad and my daughters now only have that one picture to look back on  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I didn't have a choice, my ex wife destroyed every single one of our wedding pictures apart from one of me and my best man standing together in our kilts which my daughters managed to save. They gave it to me many years later. Personally I think it was a shame as the marriage wasn't all bad and my daughters now only have that one picture to look back on "
That is a shame really.
I look at so called "failed relationships" in a different light. At one point two people were attracted to each other, loved each other... and the fact they no longer do and wish to separate does not mean the relationship did not have validity. Keeping the pictures is a part of one's life, just one that has come to an end for another to begin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah sometimes photo's are all people have left in years to come...it would be a shame to destroy them no matter what happens."
So true. They can be hidden then rediscovered, forgotten then fondly remembered, given away and given back, but they can never, ever, be un-destroyed... |
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