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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
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Do you find you attract more 'attractive to you subjectively' women here....or out there, in the real world?
Or do you think you find women here more attractive based on the fact you know they like sex and own nice lingerie? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's easier to narrow my scope to my aesthetic preference on here, but I've definitely had more positive experiences with women in the 'real' world, dating etc, than here. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Do you find you attract more 'attractive to you subjectively' women here....or out there, in the real world?
Or do you think you find women here more attractive based on the fact you know they like sex and own nice lingerie? "
Thats bait..... 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you find you attract more 'attractive to you subjectively' women here....or out there, in the real world?
Or do you think you find women here more attractive based on the fact you know they like sex and own nice lingerie? "
I think attraction is even for me here and offline.
I also attract similar women here and offline. |
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"Do you find you attract more 'attractive to you subjectively' women here....or out there, in the real world?
Or do you think you find women here more attractive based on the fact you know they like sex and own nice lingerie? "
i find ladies here far more attractive and interesting than than in the real world because ummm it's a swingers site and I like people who swing - in the broad sense as oppose to one on one only - and think it works the other way too in terms of my attraction to others. I think if that was all I wanted would be better off in the real word or other sites but would have far less fun. |
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"Do you find you attract more 'attractive to you subjectively' women here....or out there, in the real world?
Or do you think you find women here more attractive based on the fact you know they like sex and own nice lingerie?
Thats bait.....
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Well Brucey is the master of baiting, man.
...that was awful, I'll get coffee before I respond again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After sleeping on the question, I original answer stands with a few additions.
My attraction level doesn't change because I'm not attracted to people on here because they are swingers.
I am attracted to the person. Sharing similar kinks is one part. Looking back, people offline may take longer to open up to sharing kinks but kinks are no different to those online. Here the information is usually listed or more forthcoming but people are people and people on here have just found their tribe.
I think it's also easier for me offline as I interact more offline and lurk more online. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let's be honest here, attraction can be bent if men get the opportunity to have sex. It can't be bent in the real world of dating because you have to commit to that person which you ultimately need to find attractive on a daily basis. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
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"Let's be honest here, attraction can be bent if men get the opportunity to have sex. It can't be bent in the real world of dating because you have to commit to that person which you ultimately need to find attractive on a daily basis."
Oh yeah that's true but also, it isn't impossible to arrange no strings sex in the real world either. That's more what I was getting at here. |
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"Do you find you attract more 'attractive to you subjectively' women here....or out there, in the real world?
Or do you think you find women here more attractive based on the fact you know they like sex and own nice lingerie?
Thats bait.....
Well Brucey is the master of baiting, man.
...that was awful, I'll get coffee before I respond again.
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Haha that was brilliant ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's be honest here, attraction can be bent if men get the opportunity to have sex. It can't be bent in the real world of dating because you have to commit to that person which you ultimately need to find attractive on a daily basis."
Some men might bend  |
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I tend to attract more women on here because I can hold a conversation more on here. I'm too much of a self conscious mess in real life and thankful that my wife is a fantastic wing man and is great at describing my positives |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let's be honest here, attraction can be bent if men get the opportunity to have sex. It can't be bent in the real world of dating because you have to commit to that person which you ultimately need to find attractive on a daily basis."
It can be bent for everyone, not just men. Not every man wants to sleep with any women that gives them the go ahead. |
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I don't really like the digital world for judging attractiveness or putting myself forward. I find I thrive in the real world (vanilla or lifestyle setting) where I can use body language, speech and eye contact. Likewise I find it better for me to judge how attracted I am to the other person too.
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"Or do you think you find women here more attractive based on the fact you know they like sex and own nice lingerie? "
I think you see different sides to people on here. So I’m probably finding different things attractive. |
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By *mf123Man
over a year ago
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Out in the world as i put in no effort here and my job is to flirt to get my way in real life so im constantly rejecting customers come ons on that not womeon really are bad at seduction in this day and age |
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Attractiveness is subjective.
In the real world your likes,compliments, messages and words have more purpose,than just an ego boost for women you will never get.
I guess it's easier to find sexual compatibility here, if you belong to the 10% lucky men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a man is guaranteed sex on here, that woman automatically becomes the most beautiful human they’ve ever laid their eyes on. Regardless if she comes wrapped in pretty lingerie or not. |
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Yes. I don't tend to approach or be approached in "real life", and the wedding band would probably put off a lot of people anyway We really love people's personalities just as much as bodies, and with the forum being a great way to click, sooner or later we tend to end up in each others' inboxes 
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