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What percentage do you use sex
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An interesting question. Do you mean sex as in actual sexual activity or the amount of people who are obviously interested in you sexually?
I think we're all encouraged to base our worth on our attractiveness to the gender we're interested in so it's difficult not to. All I will say is as you grow older you'd better develop a sense of your own value outside of sexual attractiveness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sad to say but it used to be 100%, a shitty relationship can do that to you. Now I'm single, that percentage is dropping by the day."
I can relate to this. In my past relationship it was something used not in a good way.
Which is why I have a hatred towards it now I guess.
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I obviously do else why would I post pictures on here for example. And the majority of us like to be thought of as sexually attractive occasionally.
How much does it add to my self worth? It's probably decreasing which is no bad thing I think. |
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Hmm.
I think, without sex, I'm still a whole and happy person. My year of absolute celibacy didn't feel any less for the lack of it.
But I am a person who greatly enjoys sex. I enjoy feeling wanted. I have an exhibitionist streak that glows happily when someone fabs my photos or I hear someone saying something nice about the way I look at an event. It matter a lot more from the people who matter to me, but I still like to see it coming from other sources.
I wouldn't say I depend on it, I can live happily without it, but I'm also very happy to have my self worth confirmed in a sexual manner  |
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My sense of self worth has little to do with sex, but that doesn’t mean I don’t need to know that I’m desirable in the eyes of a few people. Sex is a part of me, and feeling desired is important, it’s just substantially less important than most other things, and it only matters if it comes from a couple of very specific people.
How about you OP? Is sex wrapped up in your sense of self worth? x |
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By *ashMan
over a year ago
Westhoughton |
To measure worth, not at all..
To measure happiness, 100%..
There's something missing even if u say you are happy without sex..
It forms an important part of your healthy physiology as well as psychology.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I measure my self worth by simply knowing I am a good person, fun to be around, loyal to those close to me, kind, intelligent, and helpful.
Sex has nothing to do with how good a catch I consider myself. (Said without arrogance.) Catching the interest of others, being lusted after and desired is lovely but without it I don’t feel les worthy of the space I take up. I have a wholesome life whether I’m fighting off all those who want to fuck me or if I’m sat at home on a Friday with a glass dildo bringing myself to orgasm over alone. |
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By *r_reusMan
over a year ago
Coventry |
Depends on how you're defining 'sex'.
Going through a long string of the opposite sex may suggest that you're sexually attractive (depending on the likewise attractiveness of whom you're having sex with of course), but ultimately it's the follow through of having children that is what sex ultimately exists for, which tells you of a man or woman's worth.
If you only had sex with a single person in your life, and that experience lead to parenthood which lead to you raising a strong, healthy, happy family, then your worth is vastly higher than someone who added hundreds to their bedpost but never did. |
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