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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It's when a person plays up, is a bit cheeky knowing that
a) they're safe to do so
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b) doing so will result in them being fucked/spanked until any trace of brattiness has left their body through orgasms/spanking.
Brattiness isn't for everyone but if it works and you really push their buttons? It's fucking fantastic.
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Means different things to different people.
For some it's deliberately acting up to get a spanking for example. This can be a from of topping from the bottom. Or it's part of the way the couple work to get to where they want to be.
Others it happens when their needs aren't met and they vent it, in a rather unproductive way.
In other words as with the majority of things, it's best to seek what it means to the individual.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That they're an idiot.
Like, I'm being genuine. Active calling themselves a brat is a fucking tool "
It’s a perfectly acceptable thing in the bdsm world |
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Anyway, this fucking tool can be bratty when I'm struggling to vocalise what I need. If I want to be properly restrained and it's too loose I will use my hands to touch when I've been told not to for example.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a brat when i play that way. Has to be with someone who fully understands it and the dom sub dynamic as opposed to guys who say they are dom cos they want rough sex but in reality has no idea of a dom sub dynamic... 90 percent of guys who tell me they are dom have no idea what subdrop and aftercare are.
Im bratty in real life too but people dont spank me for it |
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"I used to think I was a brat. But I'm not. I'm just a snarky bitch who enjoys impact play.
As soon as someone tries to make it about correction or punishment though "
I think I have an element of that. I don't fully understand my submissiveness. |
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"I used to think I was a brat. But I'm not. I'm just a snarky bitch who enjoys impact play.
As soon as someone tries to make it about correction or punishment though
I think I have an element of that. I don't fully understand my submissiveness."
The realisation I'm not submissive, just a bottom, was a life changer for me |
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"That they're an idiot.
Like, I'm being genuine. Active calling themselves a brat is a fucking tool "
Chill. It’s a way of letting someone know what you enjoy and what they can potentially expect in certain scenarios. |
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