FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Compliments
Compliments
Jump to: Newest in thread
I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive.
However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me.
How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them?
Mrs |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I think any compliment that is respectful and well meaning is appreciated.
If the people can’t see your face then it’s just a compliment on your general appearance and presentation on your profile.
I don’t overthink things.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Have you seen the “rate my….” Threads started by couples and women?
A quick scroll through the replies and you get a good idea that some of the ratings given are not sincere in my opinion.
That being said, I’ve seen your face and I can confirm you are hot  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Experience shows that how hot they apparently think I am fluctuates wildly once they get a No thanks. So I don't think anything of random compliments from anyone I assume is trying to sleep with me.
The compliments that matter to me are from the people who know all of me.
Though, sometimes, something nice and seemingly genuine comes from a stranger that hits the right chords. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive.
However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me.
How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them?
Mrs "
In general I don’t give out empty flattery. And I try not to lead people on. So if I give someone a compliment of any kind, it’s sincere.
Recently a guy who was fairly liberal with the compliments he gave me, immediately stopped responding when I returned a compliment. I found that puzzling and was a bit disappointed, but this is how we find out if we’re compatible with people *shrug* |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I try to be honest, and compliment where it’s due, line beautiful smiles, great eyes, amazing figure. It’s not always to flirt, a compliment can be given with no intent of anything back in return
I don’t take compliments well though lol
I go red and embarrassed  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I will happily take any compliment especially if they have taken their time and appreciated my images x. Usually if they aren’t sincere they follow up with a Shiite comment of wanting to met now !! Or worse |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *eliWoman
over a year ago
. |
If someone is saying you're hot, they mean what they can see of you. You can have a hot body and a horrific face. Like Sam said above, don't overthink it.
I like comments on things other than my physical appearance but sometimes it's nice to be seen in a sexual light rather than the cutesy nerd thing I have going on. 
If I don't have a genuine compliment to give someone; I don't do it. I like to think people know I'm sincere. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I don’t think you need to see their face to compliment them on their body or the pictures they take etc.
I always take any compliments on here with a pinch of salt. More often than not there’s an agenda behind them. It’s very rare someone compliments you for the sake of it and I tend to believe them more if they come from other women to be honest.
To answer your question….i only give out compliments if I mean them. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I agree how do they know when they can't see your face? If it's said to me it makes me cringe. I get the impression they just want to fuck the body and don't care about the face which screams any holes a goal to me.
And I also fully believe whatever they have sent me as a compliment they've sent to 50 other women as well.
And I'm a cow in person, I'll give the 'bet you say that to all the girls' sarky response and watch them squirm.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.
From guys that have seen my face and naked body  and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.
The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.
Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.
Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.
From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.
The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.
Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.
Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.
"
I like your messy hair, fancy sharing rum |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.
From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.
The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.
Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.
Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.
I like your messy hair, fancy sharing rum"
Not your rum obvs, I’m
Not that stupid to ask that  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I take all compliments with a side eye. Yes they might be genuine but all saying them is hoping for a return in their investment which becomes a transaction rather than a compliment. And those men who state a compliment then follow it 'with what I can see of you' give your head a wobble. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I don't give fab compliments so I never have to worry about how they are perceived.
I've seen many given publicly in the forums which are often hilarious because they are so blatantly false and undeserved.
Like many other things said on here so much is just lipservice and I take it with a sickbucket full of salt.
I will compliment people I know and have a connection with.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive.
However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me.
How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them?
Mrs "
Wait, im not the only one covered in boils?! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.
From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.
The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.
Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.
Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.
"
You're so jaded.
Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are.
All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ie n MashCouple
over a year ago
Back in Malice |
"If I compliment someone it's rare and sincere. I believe you can compliment someone's physicality without seeing all of them. "
I agree. I just sent a genuine compliment to someone and hope they believe me when I said what I did. Wife knows I sent it, to keep everything above board.
The world would be a better place if we could all spread a little joy. (I also believe the world would be a better place if Spurs fans were banned from mixing with the rest of society, just in case anyone mistook me for being a peace-loving hippy). |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I take most of what’s said on here with a pinch of salt, particularly the first few messages.
If someone has met me and pays me a compliment at least I’ve seen enough of them to gauge if they’re blowing smoke or genuinely mean it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive.
However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me.
How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them?
Mrs "
I only ever give genuine compliments.
Your photos are sexy, classy and quite creative, also you both have fairly attractive bodies so someone saying you are hot is understandable, for me at least, it isnt only about aesthetics. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.
From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.
The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.
Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.
Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.
You're so jaded.
Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are.
All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough. "
She's still not going to sleep with you |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits.
There*"
Do you mind if I steal your original name before you drop the 'fluffy chicken' username? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I got a very cold message and then blocked by a guy a few weeks ago because , after he asked me whether I thought he was good looking, I said “no, I do not think you are particularly good looking, but you are not ugly either. It doesn’t matter though because I am more interested in what kind of a person you are, looks are not important to me”
He replied with something like
“ oh well I don’t care for fake and conceited people, have fun on this site, bye” and blocked me!
This was after chatting and trying to arrange to meet over a two or three week period.
I was a little taken aback but then thought “at least I know he was a guy I probably wouldn’t have wanted to meet anyway if he can’t stand s bit of truth  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits.
There*
Do you mind if I steal your original name before you drop the 'fluffy chicken' username?"
No let me get mine back first! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits."
Didn't we all join fab for sex? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits.
There*
Do you mind if I steal your original name before you drop the 'fluffy chicken' username?
No let me get mine back first!"
Oh, go on, go on, go on, go on, go on...
You've been offered lots of alternatives, I'm sure you can survive another week or two without one.
Besides, whilst your mistress is away, who's to stop me? Or will she use those incredible divining powers to see what I am up to and then come down on me like a tonne of bricks?  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits.
Didn't we all join fab for sex?"
Gosh if we did, then there are a lot of disappointed people judging by Shag's monthly role call.
(ps I joined cos a friend invited me, I stay cos I enjoy the sarcastic, acerbic, ironic and humourous comments from participants in the Lounge) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I probably should learn that most compliments that get sent my way are just guys trying to get in my pants...however I am stupid enough to take what's said at face value and think they actually mean it . *facepalm emoji lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits.
There*
Do you mind if I steal your original name before you drop the 'fluffy chicken' username?"
You're more than welcome my friend. May it serve you better than it did me |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.
From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.
The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.
Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.
Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.
You're so jaded.
Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are.
All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough.
She's still not going to sleep with you "
But I singled out a nonchalant reply JUST for her. Surely that's worth a reach-around at least?  I'm entitled to that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive.
However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me.
How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them?
Mrs "
Depending how they are put across, I'll generally take them at face value and say 'thanks!', but it doesn't mean further conversation will happen, I'm being polite.
Do I believe them, not really. But that's by the by. It's the people who I know, when they compliment, it's still hard to take, but means more as I know it's sincere and they've not got an agenda. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If I compliment someone it's rare and sincere. I believe you can compliment someone's physicality without seeing all of them.
I agree. I just sent a genuine compliment to someone and hope they believe me when I said what I did. Wife knows I sent it, to keep everything above board.
The world would be a better place if we could all spread a little joy. (I also believe the world would be a better place if Spurs fans were banned from mixing with the rest of society, just in case anyone mistook me for being a peace-loving hippy)."
Phew! I was getting worried |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
They are commenting on what they can see. I personally would be very surprised if your face looked like a bag of spanners, but even if it did, you still have a hot body and I'm sure I would still be very attracted to you. Luke |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic.
If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice.
I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Experience shows that how hot they apparently think I am fluctuates wildly once they get a No thanks. So I don't think anything of random compliments from anyone I assume is trying to sleep with me.
The compliments that matter to me are from the people who know all of me.
Though, sometimes, something nice and seemingly genuine comes from a stranger that hits the right chords."
Yeah I get this too, it's a compliment until you say no then it's an insult
Mrs |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic.
If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice.
I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive "
Like tell you you have a bad voice? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.
From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.
The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.
Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.
Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.
You're so jaded.
Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are.
All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough.
She's still not going to sleep with you
But I singled out a nonchalant reply JUST for her. Surely that's worth a reach-around at least? I'm entitled to that."
I had an argument with a guy last night, I'm not jaded, I'm realistic.
You, him all the guys can say "oh not all guys raven blah blah I'm the exception"
Except you're not.
I can guarantee not one of the guys that speaks to me now, still would if I didn't post the pictures I did, or if god forbid I sent them an unfiltered picture of me in all my glory!
It's just a fact, men on here talk to you compliment you to get sex.
Plain
And
Simple
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.
From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.
The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.
Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.
Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.
You're so jaded.
Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are.
All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough.
She's still not going to sleep with you
But I singled out a nonchalant reply JUST for her. Surely that's worth a reach-around at least? I'm entitled to that.
I had an argument with a guy last night, I'm not jaded, I'm realistic.
You, him all the guys can say "oh not all guys raven blah blah I'm the exception"
Except you're not.
I can guarantee not one of the guys that speaks to me now, still would if I didn't post the pictures I did, or if god forbid I sent them an unfiltered picture of me in all my glory!
It's just a fact, men on here talk to you compliment you to get sex.
Plain
And
Simple
"
That's the only reason we speak to women at all isn't it? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic.
If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice.
I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive
Like tell you you have a bad voice? "
That wasn’t a compliment  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.
From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.
The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.
Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.
Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.
You're so jaded.
Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are.
All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough.
She's still not going to sleep with you
But I singled out a nonchalant reply JUST for her. Surely that's worth a reach-around at least? I'm entitled to that.
I had an argument with a guy last night, I'm not jaded, I'm realistic.
You, him all the guys can say "oh not all guys raven blah blah I'm the exception"
Except you're not.
I can guarantee not one of the guys that speaks to me now, still would if I didn't post the pictures I did, or if god forbid I sent them an unfiltered picture of me in all my glory!
It's just a fact, men on here talk to you compliment you to get sex.
Plain
And
Simple
That's the only reason we speak to women at all isn't it? "
He knows. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
Some men compliment without ulterior motives, some men appreciate great dress sense or the perfume or smile or mood the person may be in or the way they deal with a situation and i for one in life compliment that person and its appreciated in life, the women here are sought by sex hungry men and so therefore its naturally the way forward to compliment after all words are all they have |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic.
If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice.
I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive.
However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me.
How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them?
Mrs "
They could like your body. It would still be a true compliment even if your head was covered in warts. You'd still be a lovely person in their eyes.
I get men wanting to fuck me because of my profile pic.
Is it my arse cleavage or something else. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic.
If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice.
I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive "
But why do they want to get into your vagina? Isn't it because they find you attractive? That's the only reason I ever want to get in woman's vagina, and even then it's not a target. I'm not an ”every hole's a goal" kind of guy - never have been and never will be. If I give a compliment it's because I mean it. I've given plenty of compliments on her to people I have no expectation of ever meeting, let alone making an entrance into an associated vagina. Luke |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I no longer pay compliments to anyone after receiving a torrent of abuse.
The fact that admin did nothing about the abuser has completely changed my attitude to this shitshow of a website |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I always tend to compliment people on their photos rather than their body if I like the style or the pose.
I'm like you as well OP, I used to like getting compliments on my body but I (ironically) now take them at face value and don't take much notice until they've seen my face as I've had people wax lyrical about my body and then go silent as soon as I send a face pic so it's hard to take those words seriously nowadays. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic.
If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice.
I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive "
Remembers to tell the real FC that I am actually gay! (sniggers like a naughty teenager on the back row of the school bus) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
I can guarantee not one of the guys that speaks to me now, still would if I didn't post the pictures I did, or if god forbid I sent them an unfiltered picture of me in all my glory!
It's just a fact, men on here talk to you compliment you to get sex.
Plain
And
Simple
"
I speak to you even when your profile is just the silhouette - you're funny and have an acerbic wit (and are too far away to ever stand a chance of getting into your pants, and you are too tall, and too young, and for all I know you might actually be a bloke, besides I think you would beat me in an arm wrestle so I need to keep my distance). |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I don’t get many  but when I do I take them with a large dose of salt."
And there was I thinking that your top line "A stone-cold big-titted boobalicious horn-bag" must have been a compliment that one of your admirers had given you |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I get complimented quite alot. However, its just men that compliment me so I don't really care as it holds no value to me. If a woman or a femboy complimented me though then I think I'd be on top of the world with the happiness that would give me! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Show me a genuine compliment on here I’ll dig up Guy Fawkes and give him a sparkler.
I compliment your turn of phrase. "
Sighs.
Gets shovel.
Laters gators |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
The only compliments that mean anything to me here are from those who message about the way I've spoken on the forums. A handful, but all very much appreciated.
I don't know if I've given similar compliments often enough to others. I should. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I often compliment people on here - either for their pics or for the way they come across on the forums.
Whilst I’m not prolific on here I get a good sense of people and what they are about and so sometimes just send a compliment about something I’ve noticed.
A compliment can literally change someone’s day.
As to receiving compliments - they are nice to receive and depending on the person giving them, it depends on how much it hits but we never think negatively from compliments.
If they think you are hot it’s because your pics/portrays you in that way.
K |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic.
If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice.
I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive "
I feel a bit like this tbh, call me cynical but past experience has just made me that way. Trust me ask him how long it took him to get me to believe what he was saying 
Tinder x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"I don’t get many but when I do I take them with a large dose of salt.
Like a dry roasted peanut.
You don’t get many in a bag these days. "
Yeah. Where are the complimentary nuts when you need them |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Rarely get 'em on here but when I/we do, they're taken with a liberal pinch of salt, generally. In the "real world" though, I'm also fairly bad at accepting compliments on my appearance, mainly because I am disbelieving that anyone would find my appearance sufficiently decent to say so. When complimented on my ability to do something, I'm better at accepting but still uncomfortable with them. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Some men compliment without ulterior motives, some men appreciate great dress sense or the perfume or smile or mood the person may be in or the way they deal with a situation and i for one in life compliment that person and its appreciated in life, the women here are sought by sex hungry men and so therefore its naturally the way forward to compliment after all words are all they have "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I always tend to compliment people on their photos rather than their body if I like the style or the pose.
I'm like you as well OP, I used to like getting compliments on my body but I (ironically) now take them at face value and don't take much notice until they've seen my face as I've had people wax lyrical about my body and then go silent as soon as I send a face pic so it's hard to take those words seriously nowadays."
For what it's worth, your eyes are really quite mesmerising |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I no longer pay compliments to anyone after receiving a torrent of abuse.
The fact that admin did nothing about the abuser has completely changed my attitude to this shitshow of a website"
That's awful, sorry you had to put up with that crap and even more so that nothing was done about it  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I don't compliment for the sake of it.I will tell someone that I think their photos are beautiful or that their profile reads well etc because I actually genuinely mean that.
The compliments I am given can be hit or miss though it really does depend on what they say and how it comes across.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive.
However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me.
How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them?
Mrs "
Body language is a huge part of communication and if someone considers you sexy and appealling, you're clearly giving off signs they find attractive, on top of the visual body shape imagery and scene setting in your photos.
Not everything is about facial 'beauty'.
I've often rejected 'attractive' guys, based on their posture, which tells me we're not on the same vibration.
I'm sure even guys that think with their dicks also have a (subconscious) greater sense of attraction.
That's a long way of saying...
Take it!
C x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I don’t get many but when I do I take them with a large dose of salt.
Like a dry roasted peanut.
You don’t get many in a bag these days.
Yeah. Where are the complimentary nuts when you need them "
You know exactly where they are my dear  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
X