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Mission accomplished and I feel the need to shout it from the rooftops. After giving up on fab for my first time I booked a city centre hotel and met a really friendly, fun, warm, understanding, and utterly gorgeous girl (35) for a few drinks and 4 hrs later I'd ticked off all sorts - aided by some viagra! It was ridiculously nice. Somehow I didn't cum in the 90 minutes or so we spent on each other but it really doesn't matter to me. I feel relieved and excited and can't stop smiling. It was so much FUN! We laughed a lot and it felt totally normal and natural. I'm pretty sure it was pretty rubbish for her but my oral and fingering skills got some praise for a first effort!
I have 0 intention of spending that sort of money again but feel far more motivated and relaxed about finding someone to have some fun with...however - I am also back where I started in searching for lone women to connect with!
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Thanks guys. It's really changed my mindset in many ways. I wanted my first time to be memorable and with someone i either cared about or was really attracted to and not a d*unken fumble. That ruled out clubs and bars (drink) and after a few nearlys that hadnt worked out it seemed sensible to get a professional! Now that i have a decent first time memory i feel so much less anxious about future liaisons. |
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"Mission accomplished and I feel the need to shout it from the rooftops. After giving up on fab for my first time I booked a city centre hotel and met a really friendly, fun, warm, understanding, and utterly gorgeous girl (35) for a few drinks and 4 hrs later I'd ticked off all sorts - aided by some viagra! It was ridiculously nice. Somehow I didn't cum in the 90 minutes or so we spent on each other but it really doesn't matter to me. I feel relieved and excited and can't stop smiling. It was so much FUN! We laughed a lot and it felt totally normal and natural. I'm pretty sure it was pretty rubbish for her but my oral and fingering skills got some praise for a first effort!
I have 0 intention of spending that sort of money again but feel far more motivated and relaxed about finding someone to have some fun with...however - I am also back where I started in searching for lone women to connect with!
Not any real point to this post except the need to share my news with the world!!!! "
Congratulations OP.
Why wouldn't you want to spend the money again?
It clearly worked we love it when a chap make's extra effort it's what makes some guy's stand out.
We are always willing to pay half.
Usually I (Mr) gets stung footing the bill for Mrs shenanigans. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Mission accomplished and I feel the need to shout it from the rooftops. After giving up on fab for my first time I booked a city centre hotel and met a really friendly, fun, warm, understanding, and utterly gorgeous girl (35) for a few drinks and 4 hrs later I'd ticked off all sorts - aided by some viagra! It was ridiculously nice. Somehow I didn't cum in the 90 minutes or so we spent on each other but it really doesn't matter to me. I feel relieved and excited and can't stop smiling. It was so much FUN! We laughed a lot and it felt totally normal and natural. I'm pretty sure it was pretty rubbish for her but my oral and fingering skills got some praise for a first effort!
I have 0 intention of spending that sort of money again but feel far more motivated and relaxed about finding someone to have some fun with...however - I am also back where I started in searching for lone women to connect with!
Not any real point to this post except the need to share my news with the world!!!!
Congratulations OP.
Why wouldn't you want to spend the money again?
It clearly worked we love it when a chap make's extra effort it's what makes some guy's stand out.
We are always willing to pay half.
Usually I (Mr) gets stung footing the bill for Mrs shenanigans."
I was going to ask the same question.
I'd much rather have less frequent, quality nights out where there may be some expense, than just a random hook up for an hour or so.
Make a night of it, plan ahead, take time to find the right company and you'll have a great time. |
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"Mission accomplished and I feel the need to shout it from the rooftops. After giving up on fab for my first time I booked a city centre hotel and met a really friendly, fun, warm, understanding, and utterly gorgeous girl (35) for a few drinks and 4 hrs later I'd ticked off all sorts - aided by some viagra! It was ridiculously nice. Somehow I didn't cum in the 90 minutes or so we spent on each other but it really doesn't matter to me. I feel relieved and excited and can't stop smiling. It was so much FUN! We laughed a lot and it felt totally normal and natural. I'm pretty sure it was pretty rubbish for her but my oral and fingering skills got some praise for a first effort!
I have 0 intention of spending that sort of money again but feel far more motivated and relaxed about finding someone to have some fun with...however - I am also back where I started in searching for lone women to connect with!
Not any real point to this post except the need to share my news with the world!!!!
Congratulations OP.
Why wouldn't you want to spend the money again?
It clearly worked we love it when a chap make's extra effort it's what makes some guy's stand out.
We are always willing to pay half.
Usually I (Mr) gets stung footing the bill for Mrs shenanigans."
Id get the hotel to meet someone for sure. Was a lovely apartment right in the centre wity a plush lobby and open plan room... but 600 quid for the company (4hrs) isn't a doable habbit and if it was it wouldnt be a good idea (fall in love and be that punter who spoils it all!!) |
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"Mission accomplished and I feel the need to shout it from the rooftops. After giving up on fab for my first time I booked a city centre hotel and met a really friendly, fun, warm, understanding, and utterly gorgeous girl (35) for a few drinks and 4 hrs later I'd ticked off all sorts - aided by some viagra! It was ridiculously nice. Somehow I didn't cum in the 90 minutes or so we spent on each other but it really doesn't matter to me. I feel relieved and excited and can't stop smiling. It was so much FUN! We laughed a lot and it felt totally normal and natural. I'm pretty sure it was pretty rubbish for her but my oral and fingering skills got some praise for a first effort!
I have 0 intention of spending that sort of money again but feel far more motivated and relaxed about finding someone to have some fun with...however - I am also back where I started in searching for lone women to connect with!
Not any real point to this post except the need to share my news with the world!!!!
Congratulations OP.
Why wouldn't you want to spend the money again?
It clearly worked we love it when a chap make's extra effort it's what makes some guy's stand out.
We are always willing to pay half.
Usually I (Mr) gets stung footing the bill for Mrs shenanigans.
I was going to ask the same question.
I'd much rather have less frequent, quality nights out where there may be some expense, than just a random hook up for an hour or so.
Make a night of it, plan ahead, take time to find the right company and you'll have a great time. "
I agree and ideally it will be a quality over quantity thing in the future but still impossible to find someone lol x |
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Id get the hotel to meet someone for sure. Was a lovely apartment right in the centre wity a plush lobby and open plan room... but 600 quid for the company (4hrs) isn't a doable habbit and if it was it wouldnt be a good idea (fall in love and be that punter who spoils it all!!)"
Wait what? Ah I get it now. |
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Id get the hotel to meet someone for sure. Was a lovely apartment right in the centre wity a plush lobby and open plan room... but 600 quid for the company (4hrs) isn't a doable habbit and if it was it wouldnt be a good idea (fall in love and be that punter who spoils it all!!)
Wait what? Ah I get it now. "
Sadly yep. But also not sadly! Had about 80 responses to a detsiled ad explaining what Inwas looking for and i think I chose practically perfectly. Utterly wonderful night. I was surprised how human and natural it all felt. I think it has removed a lot of fear and trepidation. Next step is finding a practice partner and getting better and better! |
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Id get the hotel to meet someone for sure. Was a lovely apartment right in the centre wity a plush lobby and open plan room... but 600 quid for the company (4hrs) isn't a doable habbit and if it was it wouldnt be a good idea (fall in love and be that punter who spoils it all!!)
Wait what? Ah I get it now.
Sadly yep. But also not sadly! Had about 80 responses to a detsiled ad explaining what Inwas looking for and i think I chose practically perfectly. Utterly wonderful night. I was surprised how human and natural it all felt. I think it has removed a lot of fear and trepidation. Next step is finding a practice partner and getting better and better!"
Good for you. Seems like this has given you a much needed confidence boost. Enjoy it. |
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Id get the hotel to meet someone for sure. Was a lovely apartment right in the centre wity a plush lobby and open plan room... but 600 quid for the company (4hrs) isn't a doable habbit and if it was it wouldnt be a good idea (fall in love and be that punter who spoils it all!!)
Wait what? Ah I get it now.
Sadly yep. But also not sadly! Had about 80 responses to a detsiled ad explaining what Inwas looking for and i think I chose practically perfectly. Utterly wonderful night. I was surprised how human and natural it all felt. I think it has removed a lot of fear and trepidation. Next step is finding a practice partner and getting better and better!
Good for you. Seems like this has given you a much needed confidence boost. Enjoy it. "
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By *G TMan
over a year ago
birmingham |
"Mission accomplished and I feel the need to shout it from the rooftops. After giving up on fab for my first time I booked a city centre hotel and met a really friendly, fun, warm, understanding, and utterly gorgeous girl (35) for a few drinks and 4 hrs later I'd ticked off all sorts - aided by some viagra! It was ridiculously nice. Somehow I didn't cum in the 90 minutes or so we spent on each other but it really doesn't matter to me. I feel relieved and excited and can't stop smiling. It was so much FUN! We laughed a lot and it felt totally normal and natural. I'm pretty sure it was pretty rubbish for her but my oral and fingering skills got some praise for a first effort!
I have 0 intention of spending that sort of money again but feel far more motivated and relaxed about finding someone to have some fun with...however - I am also back where I started in searching for lone women to connect with!
Not any real point to this post except the need to share my news with the world!!!! "
Congrats dude! What did you take 100mg |
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"Mission accomplished and I feel the need to shout it from the rooftops. After giving up on fab for my first time I booked a city centre hotel and met a really friendly, fun, warm, understanding, and utterly gorgeous girl (35) for a few drinks and 4 hrs later I'd ticked off all sorts - aided by some viagra! It was ridiculously nice. Somehow I didn't cum in the 90 minutes or so we spent on each other but it really doesn't matter to me. I feel relieved and excited and can't stop smiling. It was so much FUN! We laughed a lot and it felt totally normal and natural. I'm pretty sure it was pretty rubbish for her but my oral and fingering skills got some praise for a first effort!
I have 0 intention of spending that sort of money again but feel far more motivated and relaxed about finding someone to have some fun with...however - I am also back where I started in searching for lone women to connect with!
Not any real point to this post except the need to share my news with the world!!!!
Congrats dude! What did you take 100mg"
100mg ye. I told her early on and she said it can be hard to get dosage right. Told her id done a practice run 2 days before and all i got from 50mg was warm and sleepy lol. She said her partner is an ex porn star and they all take it. I said thanks for that really reassuring.
The banter was actually quality. We tried to high 5 at the end and missed. Asked her for a gold star after she revealed she had prepared a lesson plan as every session needs a structure  |
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By *G TMan
over a year ago
birmingham |
"Break it in half next time dude
100mg seemed to work ok. It was the 50mg that made little difference though after a wank i guess inhad a semi for a while"
It’s arousal that makes it rock hard. 100mg gave me a headache and it wouldn’t go down for about 9 hours Lool |
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"Break it in half next time dude
100mg seemed to work ok. It was the 50mg that made little difference though after a wank i guess inhad a semi for a while
It’s arousal that makes it rock hard. 100mg gave me a headache and it wouldn’t go down for about 9 hours Lool "
I was about 80% for about 2 hours we were naked lol. I didnt cum either so im guessing it did the job as well as possible to counter act the nerves. Wasn't all that nervous but inwas worried id shoot my load in 5 seconds so was happy enough to last the distance |
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By *G TMan
over a year ago
birmingham |
"Break it in half next time dude
100mg seemed to work ok. It was the 50mg that made little difference though after a wank i guess inhad a semi for a while
It’s arousal that makes it rock hard. 100mg gave me a headache and it wouldn’t go down for about 9 hours Lool
I was about 80% for about 2 hours we were naked lol. I didnt cum either so im guessing it did the job as well as possible to counter act the nerves. Wasn't all that nervous but inwas worried id shoot my load in 5 seconds so was happy enough to last the distance"
Even if you did shoot load you’d be able to get hard again 5-10 mins after but I guess everyone’s different and I’m glad all went well… Alcohol seems to counter the headache side effect as well |
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"Break it in half next time dude
100mg seemed to work ok. It was the 50mg that made little difference though after a wank i guess inhad a semi for a while
It’s arousal that makes it rock hard. 100mg gave me a headache and it wouldn’t go down for about 9 hours Lool
I was about 80% for about 2 hours we were naked lol. I didnt cum either so im guessing it did the job as well as possible to counter act the nerves. Wasn't all that nervous but inwas worried id shoot my load in 5 seconds so was happy enough to last the distance
Even if you did shoot load you’d be able to get hard again 5-10 mins after but I guess everyone’s different and I’m glad all went well… Alcohol seems to counter the headache side effect as well "
Interesting. No headaches from me. Had a beer before and a cocktail with her in a bar by hotel |
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