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Just shows u how nasty people can bee
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On fri I set up a meet just a drink no playing or anything I'd been talking on here and by text for about 2 weeks so off I went to the meet with her texting me a few times on the way to see were I was ect. I was meeting outside a pub in Romford about 35 mile from me so a bit of a drive I get there after 5 mins I get a text it said......thanks very much for winning me my bet that I could pull the most sad and ugliest man on fab u must be mad if u think someone as good-looking as me would meet someone like you stick to the mingers your used to but even there to good for you I'm at home in the warm u your all a bunch of pervs......I looked at the text and just felt such a prat I tried to report her but she deleted her profil. Wot I don't understand is why or how people can b so nasty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blimey. Reflects on them not you.
Hey you have some lovely veri's, so pick yourself up think what a lucky escape you had. Rather meet a nice person than an attractive person who's ugly on the inside any day.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate that is horrendous. Do not let it put you off though. Honestly there are some really cool people in here but you just have to be a bit more cautious. Talking on the phone rather than texting, seeing each other in web can ect ect. If they are genuine then they won't mind it. Chin up old boy. Onwards and upwards xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes It really makes you wonder why in earth people would even consider these sort of actions, then you realise they are complete twats!
Concentrate on the good ones and don't let them win  |
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They say ugly is as ugly dose and true the things I did do all the right things I talked on cam and phone only the once but did ck all the profil had veries on it so I think it might b a cpl of people on a wind up. Ive not took much notice of wot she said to old for that to get to me skin like a rhino lol. But b carefull if u get a meet outside a pub called the goose in Romford. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"They say ugly is as ugly dose and true the things I did do all the right things I talked on cam and phone only the once but did ck all the profil had veries on it so I think it might b a cpl of people on a wind up. Ive not took much notice of wot she said to old for that to get to me skin like a rhino lol. But b carefull if u get a meet outside a pub called the goose in Romford. "
 Best way to deal with it.
But it is a shitty thing for someone to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On fri I set up a meet just a drink no playing or anything I'd been talking on here and by text for about 2 weeks so off I went to the meet with her texting me a few times on the way to see were I was ect. I was meeting outside a pub in Romford about 35 mile from me so a bit of a drive I get there after 5 mins I get a text it said......thanks very much for winning me my bet that I could pull the most sad and ugliest man on fab u must be mad if u think someone as good-looking as me would meet someone like you stick to the mingers your used to but even there to good for you I'm at home in the warm u your all a bunch of pervs......I looked at the text and just felt such a prat I tried to report her but she deleted her profil. Wot I don't understand is why or how people can b so nasty. "
That is such an awful trick, there are some nasty people around.
What goes around comes around.
If you dig a hole to trap for others, one day you could fall into it yourself. If you throw a boulder down on others, it might be sent back up and crush you instead.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Golden Rule of Swinging No.1: If you don't know the person you are meeting, verify her/him by phone. Also, see if they have other verifications and contact them if you are suspicious.
A good looking photograph is nothing more than that if there is a fake behind it.
You learned the hard way. Be wary next time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So moral to this story is to chat on phone before ... And see them live on web cam ..... and maybe get to know when a bit. Some are fake and will lie and tell you all sorts of stuff .. its sorting real people out here and threes alot of lovely people don't let this put you off .. just live and learn and don't take it to heart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you ever actually chat to "her" on the phone?
Some single guys get some sort of sick buzz out of doing this.
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I agree.Sounds like a sad tosser. Course if you have his/her number...wait a few weeks,block your number,and ring anytime you happen to wake in the middle of the night  |
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"Golden Rule of Swinging No.1: If you don't know the person you are meeting, verify her/him by phone. Also, see if they have other verifications and contact them if you are suspicious.
A good looking photograph is nothing more than that if there is a fake behind it.
You learned the hard way. Be wary next time. "
It looks like he took precautions in his post a couple of messages back, talked on webcam and on the phone, but still got messed about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So moral to this story is to chat on phone before ... And see them live on web cam ..... and maybe get to know when a bit. Some are fake and will lie and tell you all sorts of stuff .. its sorting real people out here and threes alot of lovely people don't let this put you off .. just live and learn and don't take it to heart."
Not really......it could have been a woman who would have seemed perfectly genuine on the phone or cam but was for whatever reason just a nasty fucker. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So moral to this story is to chat on phone before ... And see them live on web cam ..... and maybe get to know when a bit. Some are fake and will lie and tell you all sorts of stuff .. its sorting real people out here and threes alot of lovely people don't let this put you off .. just live and learn and don't take it to heart.
Not really......it could have been a woman who would have seemed perfectly genuine on the phone or cam but was for whatever reason just a nasty fucker."
Thank god there's not loads of nasty Fuc-ers a round well just meet one or two over my years. Like i say we live and learn. I have , |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are some very sad people about...and i would be very upset if someone did that to me.
But don't let it get you down and put you off there are nice people x |
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"Golden Rule of Swinging No.1: If you don't know the person you are meeting, verify her/him by phone. Also, see if they have other verifications and contact them if you are suspicious.
A good looking photograph is nothing more than that if there is a fake behind it.
You learned the hard way. Be wary next time. "
he says he did do that, spoke on cam and on the phone and the profile was verified! |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
To the OP, this is not uncommon sadly. I was in the chat room sometime back and, as tends to be the case, there was a new female profile logged into chat (by new, ie had only joined the site some 10 days prior).
So she was on cam, and yes an attractive girl, and guys "falling over her" to meet them "first" (I don't get that point).
Turns out she had her mic on (I don't know if she knew or not) and she was telling a female friend (non-site member) about how "Oh its easy, just setup a profile, lots of sad perves on here desperate for a shag - its easiest way to pull. I bet you I could get any of these guys to buy me anything I want."
Scary! Its hard, but hold your head high and remember you were the honourable one doing what you felt the site was setup for, she is the one in the wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow what a horrible thing to do. I just dont understand why people do these sort of things. Glad to hear that it has not upset you to much, and thanks for the warning.
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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago
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I had exactly the same thing happen to me when I first joined as I reached the meeting place the guy text me saying do you really think I'd meet a whore off a sex site etc etc. I copy and pasted what he'd said and sent it to all the local ladies via pm and naming him, he was on site for a couple of weeks then disappeared, Taught me to be much more careful about how I handled things! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get your own back. Go and write her number in every phone box and toilet you can find. Im sure it wont take long for her/him to grt pissed off and change the number  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Get your own back. Go and write her number in every phone box and toilet you can find. Im sure it wont take long for her/him to grt pissed off and change the number "
lol god she would be getting some weird calls , lol maybe put before number free sex , .lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Get your own back. Go and write her number in every phone box and toilet you can find. Im sure it wont take long for her/him to grt pissed off and change the number "
Firm believer in treat people how you want to be treated. Why lower yourself to being nasty back .. Makes you as bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Did you ever actually chat to "her" on the phone?
Some single guys get some sort of sick buzz out of doing this.
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Why assume it was male i was conned by female in similar way i laughed it off as she rang me to say how sad i was i said just wanted to see if her cunt was like a bucket as her dad said she went mental i then put phone diwn and blocked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What goes around, comes around and hopefully she will get the same treatment along the line........
Just dont let it spoil your outlook on here. there are asholes everywhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Did you ever actually chat to "her" on the phone?
Some single guys get some sort of sick buzz out of doing this.
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sorry to go off the rails a little here but why is it every time a woman or couples does something shitty on here everyone assums its a guy really?
women can be twats too |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"Did you ever actually chat to "her" on the phone?
Some single guys get some sort of sick buzz out of doing this.
sorry to go off the rails a little here but why is it every time a woman or couples does something shitty on here everyone assums its a guy really?
women can be twats too "
I believe some people legitimately believe there is 0% chance of a woman doing this hence it has to be a man pretending to be a woman. |
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"The thing Is a women must b involved somewhere cos she was on cam and phone"
Ive heard some horror stories that women do to men. Uually though for some reason the guys keep quite about it where as the women dont when its done to them.
Its a bloody awful thing to have done to you but women are capable of doing such stuff. Theres as many nasty women as there are men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's disgusting. How sad, it shows more about them than you.. Some very sick and vile individuals on this site that's for sure. Just glad I've been very lucky so far and met some awesome guys..
Karma, will kick their balls so just put it down to experience and move on as best you can x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe it was a woman mate, honestly just dust yourself down and prove her wrong
I'm a big fan of proving people wrong and feel the best way to be is just continue being positive, when life gets you down, more specifically when people are hurtful to you or traumatise you in some way, the best thing to do is show them by example, have lots of great meets and fun times and show them all that they haven't stopped you mate, they haven't stopped you living life
Thumbs up if anyone agrees here, it how I've learnt to live |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i had one last sunday , a single lady i had been chatting to with the intention of an afternoon of girly fun , chatted for a week she then asked me to meet so i spent a couple of hours getting ready then drove 45 mins to the meet sat in the carpark like a lemon only to go online on my phone to find user was no longer on the site , to say i was not happy was a understatement but the search goes on i guess , .
you have my utmost sympathy as does anyone who is let down by total timewasters , sorry folks rant over lol  |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"The thing Is a women must b involved somewhere cos she was on cam and phone
Ive heard some horror stories that women do to men. Uually though for some reason the guys keep quite about it where as the women dont when its done to them.
Its a bloody awful thing to have done to you but women are capable of doing such stuff. Theres as many nasty women as there are men"
The problem is not that men keep quiet - its because we have to: if men reported even half the number of instances similar to this, one the one hand they would either not be believed that so many incidences could be by women... on the other hand (if believed) the man/men could/would come across as a whiner... which is counter-productive.
So what does the world advise? "Chin up mate, Pick yourself up, dust yourself down and move on." |
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"Did you ever actually chat to "her" on the phone?
Some single guys get some sort of sick buzz out of doing this.
sorry to go off the rails a little here but why is it every time a woman or couples does something shitty on here everyone assums its a guy really?
women can be twats too "
That's very true, and I didn't assume it was a guy, which is why I asked about whether he had chatted on the phone.
Truth is though, most fake profiles on here ARE set up by single (or not so single!) guys who have no intention of meeting, and view it as some kind of sport!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On fri I set up a meet just a drink no playing or anything I'd been talking on here and by text for about 2 weeks so off I went to the meet with her texting me a few times on the way to see were I was ect. I was meeting outside a pub in Romford about 35 mile from me so a bit of a drive I get there after 5 mins I get a text it said......thanks very much for winning me my bet that I could pull the most sad and ugliest man on fab u must be mad if u think someone as good-looking as me would meet someone like you stick to the mingers your used to but even there to good for you I'm at home in the warm u your all a bunch of pervs......I looked at the text and just felt such a prat I tried to report her but she deleted her profil. Wot I don't understand is why or how people can b so nasty. "
A pretty sad thing to do all round. You could if you have friends who have access get a number trace to see if its pay as you go or contract and get a triangulation but its pushing it a bit. Fun though if you send them a text saying I can see you on station street |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Get your own back. Go and write her number in every phone box and toilet you can find. Im sure it wont take long for her/him to grt pissed off and change the number
Firm believer in treat people how you want to be treated. Why lower yourself to being nasty back .. Makes you as bad. "
yep, forget it - down to experience and move on to fun |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"Is it worth me reporting even if profil has been deleted not sure of the site works off ip number I'd hate to think somelse gets tricked by them. "
Knock yourself out but IP addresses ain't an exact science.
If they were there'd be no SPAM or phishing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i had a guy chat to me for a while.. then said haha thanks but seriously im an M&S model why would i want to go with you when i have models throwing themselves at me..
then a few months later he contacted me again begging to meet.. when i pointed out what he said he said he didnt remember.. but that he had been scared as he had never done this before..
so i strung him along |
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"i had a guy chat to me for a while.. then said haha thanks but seriously im an M&S model why would i want to go with you when i have models throwing themselves at me..
then a few months later he contacted me again begging to meet.. when i pointed out what he said he said he didnt remember.. but that he had been scared as he had never done this before..
so i strung him along "
So being nasty is how he gets over his nerves?!! How pathetic. |
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"i had a guy chat to me for a while.. then said haha thanks but seriously im an M&S model why would i want to go with you when i have models throwing themselves at me..
then a few months later he contacted me again begging to meet.. when i pointed out what he said he said he didnt remember.. but that he had been scared as he had never done this before..
so i strung him along
So being nasty is how he gets over his nerves?!! How pathetic. "
i doubt he was really that nervous! |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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Fook me!!! 
Haven't had such a nasty trick played on me & i hope i never do.
Chin up mate, its harsh but lessons can be learnt for next time like a phone chat & meeting a bit closer to you rather than so far out your way |
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