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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All I get is fabs, winks and messages off guys despite clearly stating no men!
I can see how the women get so annoyed when they get inundated even though they say no single males! |
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Same OP.
I Do actually have a few guys I regularly chat with. Just to have conversation with fellow perverts on the same wavelength really ha ha. But most of the messages that I get, that isn’t a reply to me sending the first message, are from “straight” profiles. |
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"Seems I get more messages from straight guys wanting to meet than anything else??"
You are obviously desirable to them so either meet them or just say no or block or set your filters to not accept messages from other guys. Plenty of choices and all up to you  |
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May also merit consideration that their profile says straight or maybe just not gay or bi... But the person behind may have woken up and thought... You know... I fancy trying something new? Or maybe, depending upon the contents of the message just fancied a chat about something? Probably best asking the messagers. They will probably know if it's exercising you. |
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"May also merit consideration that their profile says straight or maybe just not gay or bi... But the person behind may have woken up and thought... You know... I fancy trying something new? Or maybe, depending upon the contents of the message just fancied a chat about something? Probably best asking the messagers. They will probably know if it's exercising you. "
 I chat with one or two really very nice straight guys and it is just that, a chat. Chats don't always have to have ulterior motives surely. |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
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"May also merit consideration that their profile says straight or maybe just not gay or bi... But the person behind may have woken up and thought... You know... I fancy trying something new? Or maybe, depending upon the contents of the message just fancied a chat about something? Probably best asking the messagers. They will probably know if it's exercising you.
I chat with one or two really very nice straight guys and it is just that, a chat. Chats don't always have to have ulterior motives surely. "
,,, this |
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I had to block single guys again. I left it open to let in any craic between myself and other guys from forum threads, but now I'll message them first if I have to
I couldn't leave my filters open any longer. Guys are wild crude hey |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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I have this a lot too.
I really don’t mind except the sheer number that take a no with hostility and childishness.
As such I’ve got a lot more men blocked than Women.
I’m not planning on filtering out single men though. I have a lot of interesting chats with all genders here even though sexually I’m not into all genders. |
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"Just block single guys. Easy "
Annoying that it is getting "So called single straight guys messaging asking to blow me" I won't block single men.
Why?
I've had some great meets in the past from single male accounts that have fuck buddies. |
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"Just block single guys. Easy
Annoying that it is getting "So called single straight guys messaging asking to blow me" I won't block single men.
Why?
I've had some great meets in the past from single male accounts that have fuck buddies. "
Female fuck buddies that is   |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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I get lots of messages from straight guys asking if im free. I politly reply thankyou but your straight. Funny how they say not fully straight. They just decieving couples. Thats all |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"But the solution to the problem is filter out all men messaging you and maybe block all men too. Sounds exausting but what else you gonna do?"
But the opp is bisexual so will miss any messages from bi men as well. I think the point was why lie on there profile |
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What lays at the root of it, I believe, is some couples want bisexual men, others stipulate straight only, so men hedge their bets. Set profile to straight and then admit to being bi if asked. You know, if that was the deal and everyone was all on board then it would at least be something we could navigate..The problem is the men with 'straight' on their profile who will tell you they're bi and they turn out not to be. People just have problems being honest. The lies, the deliberate obfuscation, denial, the fear of the truth - it's endemic throughout the entire population. what we see on Fab is a reflection of that. |
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Bisexual and proud of it.. bi people always get stigma from both the straight and gay community..so can kind of understand why so many in closet.. that and desperately trying to woo a woman as well…
However straight boys don’t fear… would never messaging a straight man or even consider meeting a profile claiming straight even if said bi after..
So don’t worry those bombardad with messages from men your totally safe |
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Majority of recent messages I have received since I stopped hiding my account is from straight guys.
It’s a fact of life on this site that it will happen, block, delete and ignore would be my advice. Unless he’s really cute  |
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"But the solution to the problem is filter out all men messaging you and maybe block all men too. Sounds exausting but what else you gonna do?
But the opp is bisexual so will miss any messages from bi men as well. I think the point was why lie on there profile"
Ohhhh that old chestnut. |
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"If men are looking for other men, surely using Fab guys would be their better option?"
Why segregate them to a different website, there's plenty of bi and gay guys on here, and I'm sure here offers things that fabguys doesn't. |
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"If men are looking for other men, surely using Fab guys would be their better option?
Why segregate them to a different website, there's plenty of bi and gay guys on here, and I'm sure here offers things that fabguys doesn't."
Tbf a lot of the straight guys on here have fabguys profiles |
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Mr here.
Maybe it's simply that guys assume that fab-straight is a thing and that they might as well take a chance that the "straight" profile they're viewing is actually fab-straight.
I assume that most people who view our profile came for P's pics. They have the most fabs. It is surprising to me that it seems to be mostly men that have fabbed the pic of my cock. I can appreciate a good-looking cock, and we often play a cock-rating game looking at men's profiles, but we don't fab cock pics - as a couple that could give the impression that I'm fab-straight. But I'm just regular-straight.
I was hit on by a gay guy the other night. I was flattered, and P found it funny. I flirted back and had the craic, but I felt no attraction or desire toward him.
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"If men are looking for other men, surely using Fab guys would be their better option?
Why segregate them to a different website, there's plenty of bi and gay guys on here, and I'm sure here offers things that fabguys doesn't."
Im not segregating please dont twist my words, obviously people can choose where to go to find what they want. My point was if a guy for example is looking for men then a site like Fab Guys would be a better a choice for them but again Im not saying they should go on there if dont want to |
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Categorising isn't popular with everyone. But it can add clarity and reduce stress and increase confidence and enjoyment for some.
So...
Are there degrees of gayness?
What's going on in the space between truly straight (no inclination whatsoever toward men) and completely gay (no inclination whatsoever toward women)?
Straight (no interest in men).
Fab-straight (no active interest but open-to-the notion, but not open about it).
Bi-curious (open to the notion and open about it).
Bi (active interest and open about it).
Gay (no interest in women).
How's that?
What if your mickey or ball-sack touched the other fella's during a DP? Or if the woman in an MMF deliberately touched your mickey off the other guy's? Do you make eye-contact during an MMF spit-roast? Does being OK with these categorise you as gay? Or fab-straight?
Such a conundrum for the swinging man...
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