"Revenge and bitterness only hurts you not them. I choose happiness over hatred."
This. The instinct for revenge may be understandable, but it is inherently destructive for all involved. Don’t do it. Choose life x |
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"Revenge and bitterness only hurts you not them. I choose happiness over hatred.
This. The instinct for revenge may be understandable, but it is inherently destructive for all involved. Don’t do it. Choose life x"
I don't think revenge is instinctive George. |
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An ex once did something to me that was absoloutly terrible. For 10 years it was on my mind most days it was so bad
then I found out the whole thing was a lie, which I was relieved tbh
She has since tried to be friends on facebook several times but i just ignore her, prob windes her up
revenge is no good it just eats away at you, better to forget and get bad people out of your life, life is to short
Him |
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over a year ago
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Bit into a sandwich at work , it had a square of cardboard in it with 'drop dead you bastard' written on it . Takes a certain mind to get that frpm a partner. |
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I think a lot of people want revenge. I see karma mentioned many times on here with people gleefully invoking it. I think believing that the universe will avenge on your behalf is just outsourcing. |
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By *ML49 OP Man
over a year ago
Burnley |
I was asking as I recently read something online. So I thought I would post this thread and ask.
I was expecting alot more from people but you seem to be a forgiving lot instead of posting what you did or heard what has happened to others. |
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"Has anybody any stories of revenge, for or against you in reference to your ex partner?
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Yes. My ex was a person that humiliated me in every part of my life. We did not have sex for 4 years. He said it was me, to everyone we knew. I got the courage to end things, took me too long but I did it.
We had a holiday with 2 friends booked. He told me I couldn't go, I told him I worked hard to pay for it so I'm definitely going. I spent the holiday by myself which was lovely, had small chats with the friends who were being polite.
2 nights before we were leaving, he had the nerve to ask for a hand job. When i said no he called me a frigid cunt and no one will ever want me, touch me or fuck me coz there's something wrong with me.
I stood up and told him the problem was with him as in the 5 months since we ended I'd fucked 3 men that had zero problems in getting hard for me. Walked away and felt good.
I didn't lie. I joined the site. I had good messages and 3 good men that liked that I was larger.
That's my only revenge situation. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
No I don't. And even though I was in a toxic relationship I was glad to just be able to get out of it than waste time in plotting revenge. As far as I can see it's just giving someone you don't want in your life power over you still,even when it's over and you should be moving on with your life. |
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A gf's best friend had been trying it on with me for a while and upon my turning her down, she started rumours that I was seeing other ladies.
She cunningly convinced my gf of the rumours and hence, yeah, some great suits were rendered useless.
Anyway, cut a long story short, the trousers and the gf were replaced. New trousers tailored and the gf kicked out of my life.
Some 6 months later I bumped into the trouble maker at a party,I took great delight to her renewed advances and took her up on the offer of a romp in one of the bedrooms. With her tied up, legs and arms and almost naked I had a sudden change of heart and told her I preferred to rejoin the party rather than shag her...
No idea how things progressed as I ordered a cab and left soon after..  |
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By *ML49 OP Man
over a year ago
Burnley |
"A gf's best friend had been trying it on with me for a while and upon my turning her down, she started rumours that I was seeing other ladies.
She cunningly convinced my gf of the rumours and hence, yeah, some great suits were rendered useless.
Anyway, cut a long story short, the trousers and the gf were replaced. New trousers tailored and the gf kicked out of my life.
Some 6 months later I bumped into the trouble maker at a party,I took great delight to her renewed advances and took her up on the offer of a romp in one of the bedrooms. With her tied up, legs and arms and almost naked I had a sudden change of heart and told her I preferred to rejoin the party rather than shag her...
No idea how things progressed as I ordered a cab and left soon after.. "
Piss funny. I'm thinking how did she manage to get out of that  |
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"Has anybody any stories of revenge, for or against you in reference to your ex partner?
Yes. My ex was a person that humiliated me in every part of my life. We did not have sex for 4 years. He said it was me, to everyone we knew. I got the courage to end things, took me too long but I did it.
We had a holiday with 2 friends booked. He told me I couldn't go, I told him I worked hard to pay for it so I'm definitely going. I spent the holiday by myself which was lovely, had small chats with the friends who were being polite.
2 nights before we were leaving, he had the nerve to ask for a hand job. When i said no he called me a frigid cunt and no one will ever want me, touch me or fuck me coz there's something wrong with me.
I stood up and told him the problem was with him as in the 5 months since we ended I'd fucked 3 men that had zero problems in getting hard for me. Walked away and felt good.
I didn't lie. I joined the site. I had good messages and 3 good men that liked that I was larger.
That's my only revenge situation."
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"Has anybody any stories of revenge, for or against you in reference to your ex partner?
Yes. My ex was a person that humiliated me in every part of my life. We did not have sex for 4 years. He said it was me, to everyone we knew. I got the courage to end things, took me too long but I did it.
We had a holiday with 2 friends booked. He told me I couldn't go, I told him I worked hard to pay for it so I'm definitely going. I spent the holiday by myself which was lovely, had small chats with the friends who were being polite.
2 nights before we were leaving, he had the nerve to ask for a hand job. When i said no he called me a frigid cunt and no one will ever want me, touch me or fuck me coz there's something wrong with me.
I stood up and told him the problem was with him as in the 5 months since we ended I'd fucked 3 men that had zero problems in getting hard for me. Walked away and felt good.
I didn't lie. I joined the site. I had good messages and 3 good men that liked that I was larger.
That's my only revenge situation."
Well done you for standing up for yourself and moving on. |
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"A gf's best friend had been trying it on with me for a while and upon my turning her down, she started rumours that I was seeing other ladies.
She cunningly convinced my gf of the rumours and hence, yeah, some great suits were rendered useless.
Anyway, cut a long story short, the trousers and the gf were replaced. New trousers tailored and the gf kicked out of my life.
Some 6 months later I bumped into the trouble maker at a party,I took great delight to her renewed advances and took her up on the offer of a romp in one of the bedrooms. With her tied up, legs and arms and almost naked I had a sudden change of heart and told her I preferred to rejoin the party rather than shag her...
No idea how things progressed as I ordered a cab and left soon after.. "
Sorry, that just sounds dangerous. |
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"A gf's best friend had been trying it on with me for a while and upon my turning her down, she started rumours that I was seeing other ladies.
She cunningly convinced my gf of the rumours and hence, yeah, some great suits were rendered useless.
Anyway, cut a long story short, the trousers and the gf were replaced. New trousers tailored and the gf kicked out of my life.
Some 6 months later I bumped into the trouble maker at a party,I took great delight to her renewed advances and took her up on the offer of a romp in one of the bedrooms. With her tied up, legs and arms and almost naked I had a sudden change of heart and told her I preferred to rejoin the party rather than shag her...
No idea how things progressed as I ordered a cab and left soon after..
Piss funny. I'm thinking how did she manage to get out of that "
I don't think it's funny in the least  |
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"A gf's best friend had been trying it on with me for a while and upon my turning her down, she started rumours that I was seeing other ladies.
She cunningly convinced my gf of the rumours and hence, yeah, some great suits were rendered useless.
Anyway, cut a long story short, the trousers and the gf were replaced. New trousers tailored and the gf kicked out of my life.
Some 6 months later I bumped into the trouble maker at a party,I took great delight to her renewed advances and took her up on the offer of a romp in one of the bedrooms. With her tied up, legs and arms and almost naked I had a sudden change of heart and told her I preferred to rejoin the party rather than shag her...
No idea how things progressed as I ordered a cab and left soon after.. "
That's grotesque |
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