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"Objectifying men or women who invite objectification is not wrong though... and Thoren Bradley and his belt... he demands objectification."
But women on fab with their tits out don't...?
Food for thought. Food. I'm gonna get some. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Objectifying men or women who invite objectification is not wrong though... and Thoren Bradley and his belt... he demands objectification.
But women on fab with their tits out don't...?
Food for thought. Food. I'm gonna get some."
I didn't say that... |
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"Objectifying men or women who invite objectification is not wrong though... and Thoren Bradley and his belt... he demands objectification.
But women on fab with their tits out don't...?
Food for thought. Food. I'm gonna get some."
It's a good question. Are they asking for objectification or using the site to find what they’re looking for? I know there's a difference between some of the messages we get and how they make me feel. I don't have an answer on this one. Reading with interest.
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over a year ago
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"I'm probably guilty of this at some point 
*Shakes head at oneself in the mirror*
Em x"
I’m sick of it Em it’s about time it stopped! , looking at me with those hungry eyes   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm probably guilty of this at some point
*Shakes head at oneself in the mirror*
Em x
I’m sick of it Em it’s about time it stopped! , looking at me with those hungry eyes
 there you go  "
Oh in that case…carry on as you were  |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
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"Objectifying men or women who invite objectification is not wrong though... and Thoren Bradley and his belt... he demands objectification.
But women on fab with their tits out don't...?
Food for thought. Food. I'm gonna get some.
It's a good question. Are they asking for objectification or using the site to find what they’re looking for? I know there's a difference between some of the messages we get and how they make me feel. I don't have an answer on this one. Reading with interest.
J"
If a woman posts a picture of her tits she still deserves to be treated like a human being and shown respect, just like a man who posts a picture of his cock does. Personally I don’t think anyone should be objectified, no matter what they do or say. Saying it’s ok to objectify a woman who posts a picture of her tits isn’t too dissimilar to saying that a woman is asking to be r@….ped if she goes out wearing really skimpy clothes. |
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It's an interesting one. I think the line between objectification and admiration of the physical form is different depending on the person and I think we're all guilty of looking at someone and just going "phwoar! I would  "
I don't think anyone really asks for it, but I think being on a site like this, it's just something that happens. As once famous forumite said: Charge it to the game. |
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"It's an interesting one. I think the line between objectification and admiration of the physical form is different depending on the person and I think we're all guilty of looking at someone and just going "phwoar! I would "
I don't think anyone really asks for it, but I think being on a site like this, it's just something that happens. As once famous forumite said: Charge it to the game."
Which is fine. If everyone accepted that |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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On a serious note. A large part of it as with the majority of things is intent and context.
Physically I can (and do) objectify the fuck out of Em, but there is a fuck load of respect that goes out to her as a person. She knows my intent and if she asked me to stop, I would.
Strangers it's a lot more complex. And then further more becoming even more complex with regards to behind closed doors or in groups of friends etc. It's when respect is lost in favour of the objectifying behaviour. |
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"I'm probably guilty of this at some point
*Shakes head at oneself in the mirror*
Em x
Oh I know you do to me! 
Me too! She definitely once mentioned my penis in a highly inappropriate way!"
Oh FFS I'm out of here ,I've had enough disapproving virtual looks for one night |
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"I'm probably guilty of this at some point
*Shakes head at oneself in the mirror*
Em x
Oh I know you do to me!
Me too! She definitely once mentioned my penis in a highly inappropriate way!
Oh FFS I'm out of here ,I've had enough disapproving virtual looks for one night "
Can you please just quickly objectify me before you go? I'm feeling left out. Please and thank you.
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"On a serious note. A large part of it as with the majority of things is intent and context.
Physically I can (and do) objectify the fuck out of Em, but there is a fuck load of respect that goes out to her as a person. She knows my intent and if she asked me to stop, I would.
Strangers it's a lot more complex. And then further more becoming even more complex with regards to behind closed doors or in groups of friends etc. It's when respect is lost in favour of the objectifying behaviour."
Damn it this kind of worded argument and the ridiculous looks is why they all love you.
Fair play if you ask me. This is the nail on the head and coffin.
Or as I say, perve with permission |
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"I'm probably guilty of this at some point
*Shakes head at oneself in the mirror*
Em x
Oh I know you do to me!
Me too! She definitely once mentioned my penis in a highly inappropriate way!
Oh FFS I'm out of here ,I've had enough disapproving virtual looks for one night
Can you please just quickly objectify me before you go? I'm feeling left out. Please and thank you.
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Oooh those thighs I'd have around my face!
She's definitely thought it. Haven't we all |
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"On a serious note. A large part of it as with the majority of things is intent and context.
Physically I can (and do) objectify the fuck out of Em, but there is a fuck load of respect that goes out to her as a person. She knows my intent and if she asked me to stop, I would.
Strangers it's a lot more complex. And then further more becoming even more complex with regards to behind closed doors or in groups of friends etc. It's when respect is lost in favour of the objectifying behaviour."
This 100% |
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"I'm probably guilty of this at some point
*Shakes head at oneself in the mirror*
Em x
Oh I know you do to me!
Me too! She definitely once mentioned my penis in a highly inappropriate way!
Oh FFS I'm out of here ,I've had enough disapproving virtual looks for one night
Can you please just quickly objectify me before you go? I'm feeling left out. Please and thank you.
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As you asked so nicely  |
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"Objectifying men or women who invite objectification is not wrong though... and Thoren Bradley and his belt... he demands objectification.
But women on fab with their tits out don't...?
Food for thought. Food. I'm gonna get some.
It's a good question. Are they asking for objectification or using the site to find what they’re looking for? I know there's a difference between some of the messages we get and how they make me feel. I don't have an answer on this one. Reading with interest.
J
If a woman posts a picture of her tits she still deserves to be treated like a human being and shown respect, just like a man who posts a picture of his cock does. Personally I don’t think anyone should be objectified, no matter what they do or say. Saying it’s ok to objectify a woman who posts a picture of her tits isn’t too dissimilar to saying that a woman is asking to be r@….ped if she goes out wearing really skimpy clothes. "
I think there are definitely shades in between. And we're asking if certain behaviour is inviting objectification.
On a less serious note. Is it objectifying if no one knows you do it? Because Chris Hemsworth's workout videos on insta...
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"On a serious note. A large part of it as with the majority of things is intent and context.
Physically I can (and do) objectify the fuck out of Em, but there is a fuck load of respect that goes out to her as a person. She knows my intent and if she asked me to stop, I would.
Strangers it's a lot more complex. And then further more becoming even more complex with regards to behind closed doors or in groups of friends etc. It's when respect is lost in favour of the objectifying behaviour.
Damn it this kind of worded argument and the ridiculous looks is why they all love you.
Fair play if you ask me. This is the nail on the head and coffin.
Or as I say, perve with permission "
Yupp I agree with this  I have no problem with being admired or ogled from afar, as long as it’s done in a respectful way. I don’t mind blokes passing comment on my tits /arse etc, the only time it would piss me off is if it became persistent or vulgar. |
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I think it depends on your definition. Some may say my tightey whitey threads are objectifying. I’ve seen camel toe threads which are pretty similar to those threads which have gone totally different to my threads! So there’s definitely double standards when it comes to men and women, 100%!! |
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"I think it depends on your definition. Some may say my tightey whitey threads are objectifying. I’ve seen camel toe threads which are pretty similar to those threads which have gone totally different to my threads! So there’s definitely double standards when it comes to men and women, 100%!! "
Same as gym threads. How many women say they like cycle shorts, tight gym stuff etc. then a man says about gym gear and it’s “women don’t go to the gym to be objectified by men”!
It’s so ridiculous it’s laughable really. |
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over a year ago
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"Is this about that hot guy with tattoos chopping wood that I may or may not have spent most of last night watching?"
Did you see him do the belt thing?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this about that hot guy with tattoos chopping wood that I may or may not have spent most of last night watching?
Did you see him do the belt thing?!!"
There's a belt thing?! |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Is this about that hot guy with tattoos chopping wood that I may or may not have spent most of last night watching?
Did you see him do the belt thing?!!"
Those are videos that should be played on repeat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this about that hot guy with tattoos chopping wood that I may or may not have spent most of last night watching?
oh where’s this?  "
I've forgotten his name! I'm sure someone else will remember.
Just make sure to brush your teeth then we're good to objectify. |
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"Is this about that hot guy with tattoos chopping wood that I may or may not have spent most of last night watching?
oh where’s this?
I've forgotten his name! I'm sure someone else will remember.
Just make sure to brush your teeth then we're good to objectify. "
. Someone messaged me it. Off to look. Toothbrush in hand! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you all brush your teeth before or after breakfast? I’ve always done it after because it makes more sense to me but according to the dentist I should be doing it half an hour before  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this about that hot guy with tattoos chopping wood that I may or may not have spent most of last night watching?
Did you see him do the belt thing?!!
There's a belt thing?!"
I’ll send you the link |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you all brush your teeth before or after breakfast? I’ve always done it after because it makes more sense to me but according to the dentist I should be doing it half an hour before "
After. Unless you want minty tasting sausage. |
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"Do you all brush your teeth before or after breakfast? I’ve always done it after because it makes more sense to me but according to the dentist I should be doing it half an hour before "
After because your teeth feel like you need to brush them again otherwise. |
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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you all brush your teeth before or after breakfast? I’ve always done it after because it makes more sense to me but according to the dentist I should be doing it half an hour before "
Before and after, it's weird I know |
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I brush before breakfast. It's the first thing I do after I wake up and last thing I do before going to bed. I just feel that the stale saliva in my mouth after sleep is a bit yucky and I have to clean it before I eat. After eating, I just rinse my mouth with some water. |
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"I brush before breakfast. It's the first thing I do after I wake up and last thing I do before going to bed. I just feel that the stale saliva in my mouth after sleep is a bit yucky and I have to clean it before I eat. After eating, I just rinse my mouth with some water."
Makes me feel sick if I do it when I get up. I just gag and gag. It’s weird. I do it on rare occasions like if I’m staying in a hotel or going out for breakfast. |
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"I brush before breakfast. It's the first thing I do after I wake up and last thing I do before going to bed. I just feel that the stale saliva in my mouth after sleep is a bit yucky and I have to clean it before I eat. After eating, I just rinse my mouth with some water."
According to the dentist this is what you’re meant to do |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Right, what am I missing to do with objectifying and tooth brushing
I feel like I've missed something obvious but I don't have a clue!
J"
It is a diversion by some women it's okay though. I covered the objectification thing last night. It ended the thread and no more discussion on it is needed. |
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"I brush before breakfast. It's the first thing I do after I wake up and last thing I do before going to bed. I just feel that the stale saliva in my mouth after sleep is a bit yucky and I have to clean it before I eat. After eating, I just rinse my mouth with some water.
Makes me feel sick if I do it when I get up. I just gag and gag. It’s weird. I do it on rare occasions like if I’m staying in a hotel or going out for breakfast. "
I heard something similar from my colleague. For him, it's not about breakfast. He likes to brush just before he leaves the house for the day. So depending on where he plans to have breakfast, it changes. |
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"I brush before breakfast. It's the first thing I do after I wake up and last thing I do before going to bed. I just feel that the stale saliva in my mouth after sleep is a bit yucky and I have to clean it before I eat. After eating, I just rinse my mouth with some water.
According to the dentist this is what you’re meant to do "
At least there is one thing that I can tell my dentist and be proud about |
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"Do you all brush your teeth before or after breakfast? I’ve always done it after because it makes more sense to me but according to the dentist I should be doing it half an hour before "
Before breakfast. I feel yucky eating food before brushing my teeth  |
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I think everyone is guilty of it and I don't believe anyone who says they don't do it. I personally don't see an issue with it as long as it is done respectfully. I'll drool over some men but I would never make them uncomfortable and I would never see them as purely an object for my use and that's all. It's all about how you objectify someone. It's not a bad thing to recognise someone else is very attractive but it is bad to strip away everything about them purely for your own pleasure. |
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"I think everyone is guilty of it and I don't believe anyone who says they don't do it. I personally don't see an issue with it as long as it is done respectfully. I'll drool over some men but I would never make them uncomfortable and I would never see them as purely an object for my use and that's all. It's all about how you objectify someone. It's not a bad thing to recognise someone else is very attractive but it is bad to strip away everything about them purely for your own pleasure."
Stopped mid wank. |
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"Do you all brush your teeth before or after breakfast? I’ve always done it after because it makes more sense to me but according to the dentist I should be doing it half an hour before "
I leave them in the glass they are soaking in until after breakfast ,( cereal with plenty of milk so no real chewing required), then just give them a quick shake and pop them in, jobs a good ‘in. |
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"I think everyone is guilty of it and I don't believe anyone who says they don't do it. I personally don't see an issue with it as long as it is done respectfully. I'll drool over some men but I would never make them uncomfortable and I would never see them as purely an object for my use and that's all. It's all about how you objectify someone. It's not a bad thing to recognise someone else is very attractive but it is bad to strip away everything about them purely for your own pleasure.
Stopped mid wank. "
My love, you can objectify me 24 hours a day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Objectification is in the eye of the objectified
Believing the above constructs quite a dangerous reality for the objectified. "
You know my stance granny |
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"Is this about that hot guy with tattoos chopping wood that I may or may not have spent most of last night watching?
Did you see him do the belt thing?!!
There's a belt thing?!
I’ll send you the link "
I  the belt thing. I don't think watching it 17 times is objectification? I'm helping him make money! |
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