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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a guy on here I would not put a face pic up. I don’t know any girls on here who put up face pics. Of all the profiles I’ve viewed of women none- or very few have face pics.
Don’t get me wrong -I’m not having a go -but why is it a prerequisite to see a guys face in a public profile before meeting if it’s ok for a girl not to show. It just doesn’t feel discreet or balanced |
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I don’t think people expect it in the public profile I think they are asking you to send it with your message and I would expect they then send one back to you. So it’s discrete but you both know what each other looks like. |
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Some people want to know if the aesthetic works for them before wasting time talking to someone they're not attracted to.
Some people don't want to share their face pics.
Those two groups are largely incompatible. But there's plenty in each camp. People can do things the way that works for them  |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
Men don't seem to care if they can see absolutely anything of a woman, before considering sending a message... Attraction is needed for most women and personally, I won't speak to anyone I am not attend to, when I am looking for playmates... What I don't get is... You would rather someone can see your genitals over your face...is that not a bit arse about face, excuse the pun  ... Also, most women are concerned about nutters so won't show their face to anyone they haven't spoken to already or those they aren't interested in meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My concern is that a face pic once out there in any form could be used nefariously by an unscrupulous individual. Suppose it’s a trust thing. "
I mean, if you want to put your penis in them, you're gonna have to instill a little trust. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My concern is that a face pic once out there in any form could be used nefariously by an unscrupulous individual. Suppose it’s a trust thing.
I mean, if you want to put your penis in them, you're gonna have to instill a little trust. "
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"My concern is that a face pic once out there in any form could be used nefariously by an unscrupulous individual. Suppose it’s a trust thing.
I mean, if you want to put your penis in them, you're gonna have to instill a little trust. "
Or just don't have your penis and face in the same pic OP |
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"My concern is that a face pic once out there in any form could be used nefariously by an unscrupulous individual. Suppose it’s a trust thing. "
Not sure what you think we're going to do with them... If I don't like the look of someone I delete the msg. End of. |
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"Men don't seem to care if they can see absolutely anything of a woman, before considering sending a message... Attraction is needed for most women and personally, I won't speak to anyone I am not attend to, when I am looking for playmates... What I don't get is... You would rather someone can see your genitals over your face...is that not a bit arse about face, excuse the pun ... Also, most women are concerned about nutters so won't show their face to anyone they haven't spoken to already or those they aren't interested in meeting "
Not all men! |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"The one that gets us is the 'Do you have any face pics' messages, and they don't send one first? Why would you do that? If we ask for a face pic we send one first. "
Why hello...you look amazing.
Anyway also my stance, it's classic wanting to see if attractive before sending your own. And women are in power here.
Either way for me personally as soon as someone asks I basically write them off because even if i did send one here, they usually then ghost. Which is insane and would break my confidence if I wasn't literally told I was hot on other platforms and in real life pretty damn often |
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"So how many folk, who request a face pic in advance of a meeting or even furthering online conversation, would send their face pic first? "
I wouldn't meet without seeing a face pic, my time is precious I'm not going out my way to meet someone I've zero attraction too, I don't care about cock/body/vag/tits if rather see the face.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So how many folk, who request a face pic in advance of a meeting or even furthering online conversation, would send their face pic first? "
I make it really simple.
If I message someone that I’d like to meet, I attach a face pic. It’s so simple. Leaves the ball in their court, with no pressure to reciprocate. They can decide if I’m worthy of further contact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always makes me laugh that so many people put a pic of their dicks/vags up yet won’t show a face 
Well I guess people don’t get outed from their cunt or cock usually "
Imagine doing it on fb tho |
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"Always makes me laugh that so many people put a pic of their dicks/vags up yet won’t show a face
Well I guess people don’t get outed from their cunt or cock usually
Imagine doing it on fb tho "
It’s 2023 who is using FB other than 50+ people |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
I wouldn’t expect a guy to meet me without seeing my face and likewise I won’t meet a man without seeing his face.
However I don’t give out face pics to all and sundry, just those I’m interested in meeting or are likely to actually meet.
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we would NEVER pt face pics in and only ask for the others is we are 99% certain we are to meet. However, no one gets our face pics and hundreds of guys have already accepted that fact
putting face pics on real or not - people do copy pics and post them all over the net etc, so not for us or i guess others like us that want to keep our Cucks status private |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
I think they just expect to see a face pic in a message early on op, save wasting time.
If someone won't show theirs, just don't chat to them op, nobody expects you to put a face pic on public pics. |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"Don’t get me wrong -I’m not having a go -but why is it a prerequisite to see a guys face in a public profile before meeting if it’s ok for a girl not to show. It just doesn’t feel discreet or balanced "
Unless you've done a complete review of all profiles on Fab, you are only giving your impression that more men than women have face pics.
My impression is the opposite - with men body parts (boobs or arse pics) are enough. With women, the guy has got to be handsome... We need to know our children will be attractive. I always ask for face pic before agreeing to a meet. If that is a deal breaker, then I move on. I tell them Fab is like PoF but the F here stands for Fuck...
Then the number of guys who scroll through my public pics and then ask for a face pic... (when they have none). I say, I know my boobs and arse pics are distracting, but take a closer look.
Really? Pppfffttt... |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
"So how many folk, who request a face pic in advance of a meeting or even furthering online conversation, would send their face pic first? "
Mine is always visible... I find it rude that people don't send their face when wanting to talk to me... So I don't talk to them |
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NB- Guys!! Please do not feel obliged to send face pics if you are a lady, or a straight couple as we found all men are prepared to meet. This is NOT a dating site but a sex site on the whole.
We now will only meet a guy with a verifications/s and request his face pic if 99% certain of a meet - However, most of the men that contact us 98%+ have their face pic on public profile or send in message
Your life, your choice |
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"So how many folk, who request a face pic in advance of a meeting or even furthering online conversation, would send their face pic first?
Mine is always visible... I find it rude that people don't send their face when wanting to talk to me... So I don't talk to them "
Same. I’m also of the mind that no one can ‘out’ me if I’m out and proud. |
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