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over a year ago
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Nothing having any meets yet and obviously no one wants to meet because there’s no verifications.. any tips or am I doing something wrong?
I suppose I’ll just tough it out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Advice please ?? "
Like with all profiles, you've got to promote yourself. What your offering and looking for.
It's not for everyone but some of us look at age range and when it's left 18 to 99, it can look like you can't be bothered to complete your profile.
Good pics, maybe not with the alcohol in the shot?
The header title is a little negative, your specifics could be in your write up? And use the header for something funny? Shows you have a sense of humour
Just relax, don't bombard with copy and paste messages to everyone, read and respect their profiles
And join in with the forums!! There are some great people here  |
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Without knowing what you’re doing, it’s hard to say if you’re doing it wrong.
In general, you’ll be advised that having a decent profile text that tells people stuff is good. Having decent pictures is a bonus. Having realistic expectations and patience will be advantageous.
Being verified isn’t a magic key to the pussy locker, all it does is say that you met someone. No real indicator of what your vibe is about. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Advice please ??
Like with all profiles, you've got to promote yourself. What your offering and looking for.
It's not for everyone but some of us look at age range and when it's left 18 to 99, it can look like you can't be bothered to complete your profile.
Good pics, maybe not with the alcohol in the shot?
The header title is a little negative, your specifics could be in your write up? And use the header for something funny? Shows you have a sense of humour
Just relax, don't bombard with copy and paste messages to everyone, read and respect their profiles
And join in with the forums!! There are some great people here "
Perfect, thank you ?? |
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This is purely my ideas... An interesting but concise profile is always a good start, with a variety of photos so we can kind of see what we're getting. Preferably keep any dick pics to friends, women will ask if they want to see that.
Read a woman's profile, be polite, pay a complement, send a clear face pic (do your best to get a good one - this is often where men fall down) always offer to have a social.
Get involved in the forums. |
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"Go to a club and talk to people, youll get a few veris that way"
I might be wrong but heard from an Irish guy I met here at a party that there are no swingers clubs in Ireland, perhaps one or two smaller venues but very limited. I think quite a few Irish people come over to England for weekends away for the clubs. |
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"This is purely my ideas... An interesting but concise profile is always a good start, with a variety of photos so we can kind of see what we're getting. Preferably keep any dick pics to friends, women will ask if they want to see that.
Read a woman's profile, be polite, pay a complement, send a clear face pic (do your best to get a good one - this is often where men fall down) always offer to have a social.
Get involved in the forums."
Thank you |
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"Go to a club and talk to people, youll get a few veris that way
I might be wrong but heard from an Irish guy I met here at a party that there are no swingers clubs in Ireland, perhaps one or two smaller venues but very limited. I think quite a few Irish people come over to England for weekends away for the clubs. "
I haven’t heard of one anyway.. there in a secret location |
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Hello there! Don't ever think there's any flaw in yourself that's preventing you from meeting people. This website has a skewed male-to-female ratio, and it's a challenge to secure a meet, especially without verification. I'd recommend the only change you can make to your profile is to craft a nice, honest, and neutral bio that shares a bit about yourself and your interests. Keep an eye out for private social events if there aren't many clubs in Ireland; it's often the best place to start.
Instead of reaching out to everyone, take the time to read profiles and connect with those whose interests align with yours. When sending the first message, make it clear that you've read their profile and be genuine about yourself. Avoid getting overly sexual in initial messages, as it can be off-putting for many. Please don't become too frustrated if you don't immediately find success on FabSwingers. There are many more exciting things in life, so keep Fab as a side pursuit. Your mental health is much more important than getting a meet.
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Cams maybe but many people don’t class them as real verifications
Social group meets are good and ma yesterday held monthly for people to meet / greet mon sexually.
Goto a club snd hope some people click and veri you
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