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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No not the film.
I don't know what it is but I don't
think I have it. Or I've misplaced it.
The "thing" that makes you want someone, that makes someone want you.
Lust?
Desire?
A sex drive...
And this is my favourite time of year so it's definitely not the weather so don't go there all you oh "the heat makes me horny" people.
Hot funny guys...honestly I get more excited about cooking breakfast.
Anyone else lost their "thing"?
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"No not the film.
I don't know what it is but I don't
think I have it. Or I've misplaced it.
The "thing" that makes you want someone, that makes someone want you.
Lust?
Desire?
A sex drive...
And this is my favourite time of year so it's definitely not the weather so don't go there all you oh "the heat makes me horny" people.
Hot funny guys...honestly I get more excited about cooking breakfast.
Anyone else lost their "thing"?
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Not sure about 'lost' entirely but it's definitely changed, and in some ways reduced. Sex requires enthusiasm and my enthusiasm for pretty much everything is going through a dip. Sexually there are definitely things I am still very much into but maybe not all the time, and my sexual enthusiasm has a narrower focus than it used to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine has been in the up lately. Which is actually a pain in the arse as I still need boxes ticking for me to indulge.
I guess the question is does yours ebb and flow usually, I myself have had dips through the years for sure but ultimately it's been pretty steady.
As I'm getting older it's definitely on a spike upwards though.
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"It will come back literally the moment you have great sex again. It's like a movie you've forgotten how good it was until it's on late one night and you love it all over again
*hint hint*
LvM"
Oh there's no hints it's very clear I would do the job! Like a true fab hero. |
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There is no thing, not for me. Lust, desire, a sex drive, develops in response to another specific individual, they don’t exist as free agents inside me. So I don’t have your thing, sorry, (happy to help you look for it though) x |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"There is no thing, not for me. Lust, desire, a sex drive, develops in response to another specific individual, they don’t exist as free agents inside me. So I don’t have your thing, sorry, (happy to help you look for it though) x"
I think she's the same. Maybe we all should meet and find this thing together?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It will come back literally the moment you have great sex again. It's like a movie you've forgotten how good it was until it's on late one night and you love it all over again"
But what if I don't! One my favourite things, ruined. A memory of lies.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That! "
Yes Nora that!!!
Where do I find it?
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Mine is in flux at the moment, mainly because of lots of life and relationship stuff going on. They’re fickle little fuckers and run off at the point when things get tough, then come creeping back when times are calm again |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!
Yes Nora that!!!
Where do I find it?
Fucked if I know love "
This suddenly felt very corrie |
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"It will come back literally the moment you have great sex again. It's like a movie you've forgotten how good it was until it's on late one night and you love it all over again
*hint hint*
LvM
Oh there's no hints it's very clear I would do the job! Like a true fab hero. "
Thanks Brucey, now I sing true fab hero to the tune of Juke Box Hero 
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"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!
Yes Nora that!!!
Where do I find it?
Fucked if I know love
This suddenly felt very corrie"
 . I do try to be posh but as they say, you can take the girl out of manc…… |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mine is in flux at the moment, mainly because of lots of life and relationship stuff going on. They’re fickle little fuckers and run off at the point when things get tough, then come creeping back when times are calm again"
I could do a whole episode of JK on my life right now, could have a bearing on things.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Recently I’ve been hurt and let down badly so I’ve definitely lost my thing, I know it won’t be gone forever but for how long who knows ……"
One huge thing, followed by another, followed by lots of little things where you just get to the point in thinking, am I even meant to have sex?
Or maybe that's just me.
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!
Yes Nora that!!!
Where do I find it?
Fucked if I know love
This suddenly felt very corrie
. I do try to be posh but as they say, you can take the girl out of manc……"
Why don't we get a bap and discuss over a brew kid? |
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"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!
Yes Nora that!!!
Where do I find it?
Fucked if I know love
This suddenly felt very corrie
. I do try to be posh but as they say, you can take the girl out of manc……
Why don't we get a bap and discuss over a brew kid?"
A bap? Wtf is a bap. I’m up for a chip barm cocker. Will that be reet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have the 'Thing'
The passion
The desire
The wants
The curiosity
The will
The time
The place
The drive
But not the 'one' at the moment "
Oosh.. The shopping list. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have the 'Thing'
The passion - need it
The desire - need it
The wants - need it
The curiosity - need it
The will -need it
The time - need it
The place - need it
The drive - need it
But not the 'one' at the moment -got it (joking but it wouldn't work otherwise!) "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have the 'Thing'
The passion - need it
The desire - need it
The wants - need it
The curiosity - need it
The will -need it
The time - need it
The place - need it
The drive - need it
But not the 'one' at the moment -got it (joking but it wouldn't work otherwise!) "
And i am happy to give all
When you are ready to receive all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The thing is.. A good fuck will cure a lot of us. There that is a thing we are all here for is to fuck brains off, out and, feel better not bitter. "
So true, hoover me too and not just the floor, while you are about at it! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I lost my thing quite spectacularly a few months ago. Generally I have quite a high libido but a combination of things decimated that.
I guess I stopped believing in myself. Started believing I wasn't sexually attractive, no one would want to meet me. It was easier to just goblin rather than trying. Easier to evade arrangements of socials, dates etc because I couldn't see how anyone would want to fuck me.
And then I stopped thinking about it. Doing little things that brought me joy. Leaning into friendships with those I love and adore. Going to the gym because I didn't want to have a rot girl Autumn. I found a little bit of confidence. Started talking to people again. Flirting (well whatever it is I do because I don't think I flirt!).
I think it's safe to say my thing is pretty much back to normal levels. It takes time Ravie, you'll find your thing again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I lost my thing quite spectacularly a few months ago. Generally I have quite a high libido but a combination of things decimated that.
I guess I stopped believing in myself. Started believing I wasn't sexually attractive, no one would want to meet me. It was easier to just goblin rather than trying. Easier to evade arrangements of socials, dates etc because I couldn't see how anyone would want to fuck me.
And then I stopped thinking about it. Doing little things that brought me joy. Leaning into friendships with those I love and adore. Going to the gym because I didn't want to have a rot girl Autumn. I found a little bit of confidence. Started talking to people again. Flirting (well whatever it is I do because I don't think I flirt!).
I think it's safe to say my thing is pretty much back to normal levels. It takes time Ravie, you'll find your thing again."
Just goblin! Yes, this is me right now.
And putting the "ie" on the end of my name is making me sound far too cute  |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!
Yes Nora that!!!
Where do I find it?
Fucked if I know love
This suddenly felt very corrie
. I do try to be posh but as they say, you can take the girl out of manc……
Why don't we get a bap and discuss over a brew kid?
A bap? Wtf is a bap. I’m up for a chip barm cocker. Will that be reet?"
Sound |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"I lost my thing quite spectacularly a few months ago. Generally I have quite a high libido but a combination of things decimated that.
I guess I stopped believing in myself. Started believing I wasn't sexually attractive, no one would want to meet me. It was easier to just goblin rather than trying. Easier to evade arrangements of socials, dates etc because I couldn't see how anyone would want to fuck me.
And then I stopped thinking about it. Doing little things that brought me joy. Leaning into friendships with those I love and adore. Going to the gym because I didn't want to have a rot girl Autumn. I found a little bit of confidence. Started talking to people again. Flirting (well whatever it is I do because I don't think I flirt!).
I think it's safe to say my thing is pretty much back to normal levels. It takes time Ravie, you'll find your thing again.
Just goblin! Yes, this is me right now.
And putting the "ie" on the end of my name is making me sound far too cute "
Ravie and elphie!
N'awww come here to my man breast you lil thing you! |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I lost my thing quite spectacularly a few months ago. Generally I have quite a high libido but a combination of things decimated that.
I guess I stopped believing in myself. Started believing I wasn't sexually attractive, no one would want to meet me. It was easier to just goblin rather than trying. Easier to evade arrangements of socials, dates etc because I couldn't see how anyone would want to fuck me.
And then I stopped thinking about it. Doing little things that brought me joy. Leaning into friendships with those I love and adore. Going to the gym because I didn't want to have a rot girl Autumn. I found a little bit of confidence. Started talking to people again. Flirting (well whatever it is I do because I don't think I flirt!).
I think it's safe to say my thing is pretty much back to normal levels. It takes time Ravie, you'll find your thing again.
Just goblin! Yes, this is me right now.
And putting the "ie" on the end of my name is making me sound far too cute
Ravie and elphie!
N'awww come here to my man breast you lil thing you!"
Don't forget Lillie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My thing is this telegram group chat.. Get together discuss your urges. Who uses that thing? "
I have telegram. We just swap recipes. Am I doing it wrong?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah you poor thing. You'll find it again, you just need the right guy. It's not often someone makes me feel the thing but gosh, it's one of the best feelings ever. I'm obsessed but don't tell him that because if he knew how much I enjoyed the way he makes me feel he would probably do a runner.  |
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"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!
Yes Nora that!!!
Where do I find it?
Fucked if I know love "
Its in my pants - i had it all the time!!! |
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"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!
Yes Nora that!!!
Where do I find it?
Fucked if I know love
Its in my pants - i had it all the time!!! "
Well damnit man share it around |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!
Yes Nora that!!!
Where do I find it?
Fucked if I know love
Its in my pants - i had it all the time!!!
Well damnit man share it around "
I think he's been trying to... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It comes and it goes, I guess it’s how you’re feeling at the time, stress of things going on outside of this, the not wanting to get to attached, but needing a connection.
Maybe some nice Yorkshire person can sort out a social gathering and just go along and enjoy tha until your thing returns |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No.
Not us.
Have you tried leaving a bowl of milk or a nice bowl out for it?
*bone*
This fucking new phone just comes up with really crap words sometimes."
So I should bring my best china bowl back in?
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"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!
Yes Nora that!!!
Where do I find it?
Fucked if I know love
Its in my pants - i had it all the time!!!
Well damnit man share it around
I think he's been trying to..."
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I usually found when life gets tough “the thing” is completely gone.
Like now plus I hate winter months.
There are days I just want to cry so I guess I’m not the best person to be around anyway, understandably so.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It comes and it goes, I guess it’s how you’re feeling at the time, stress of things going on outside of this, the not wanting to get to attached, but needing a connection.
Maybe some nice Yorkshire person can sort out a social gathering and just go along and enjoy tha until your thing returns "
God no, socials? With people? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I usually found when life gets tough “the thing” is completely gone.
Like now plus I hate winter months.
There are days I just want to cry so I guess I’m not the best person to be around anyway, understandably so.
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See, I love the winter months!
I can highly recommend crying in the shower, very therapeutic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It comes and it goes, I guess it’s how you’re feeling at the time, stress of things going on outside of this, the not wanting to get to attached, but needing a connection.
Maybe some nice Yorkshire person can sort out a social gathering and just go along and enjoy tha until your thing returns
God no, socials? With people? "
Yes lol get out there face your fear  |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
I don’t think you are supposed to know what your ‘thing’ is - people see us in different lights, those rare types that can see that ‘thing’ when you’ve rolled out of bed in the morning, when your sat laughing at something, the way your voice changes when your a little embarrassed about something - those that can find the small parts of you that make you unique - you don’t lose those you just sometimes fail to see what you’ve got xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!
Yes Nora that!!!
Where do I find it?
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Amazon probably.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It comes and it goes, I guess it’s how you’re feeling at the time, stress of things going on outside of this, the not wanting to get to attached, but needing a connection.
Maybe some nice Yorkshire person can sort out a social gathering and just go along and enjoy tha until your thing returns
God no, socials? With people?
Yes lol get out there face your fear "
It's not a fear, it's an intolerance. |
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I got the meh 'thing' today.
Too much sads last night and pain when I woke up. It'll pass.
I don't get this whole independent lust thing. Not since I was a teenager anyway. Not sure I want to either.
Connection brings the lust and all that other messy emotional stuff. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My thing goes missing when I could probably do with some therapy. That's probably TMI but hey.
Oh I'm not going there."
Well, I didn't either to be fair |
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For me , it comes and goes..
Its like a lost key and then you find it again.
With me it depends on various things : level of stress, finding yourself attractive or not among others.
Sometimes the thing randomly reappears and disappers.
Just weird life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope but I do feel like women want my penis more than they want me.
Like as in I'm shaggable but not datable!"
This is how many women feel too (sans penii)  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope but I do feel like women want my penis more than they want me.
Like as in I'm shaggable but not datable!"
I'm more "fun to talk to" but not actually fuck.
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By *929Man
over a year ago
northumberland |
"Nope but I do feel like women want my penis more than they want me.
Like as in I'm shaggable but not datable!"
At least your halfway there mate, that’s better than most of us haha |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"Nope but I do feel like women want my penis more than they want me.
Like as in I'm shaggable but not datable!
I'm more "fun to talk to" but not actually fuck.
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I don't know at this rate I think you're more fun to fuck than talk to. Meant with love! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope but I do feel like women want my penis more than they want me.
Like as in I'm shaggable but not datable!
I'm more "fun to talk to" but not actually fuck.
I don't know at this rate I think you're more fun to fuck than talk to. Meant with love! "
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.
Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.
You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet. |
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"No not the film.
I don't know what it is but I don't
think I have it. Or I've misplaced it.
The "thing" that makes you want someone, that makes someone want you.
Lust?
Desire?
A sex drive...
And this is my favourite time of year so it's definitely not the weather so don't go there all you oh "the heat makes me horny" people.
Hot funny guys...honestly I get more excited about cooking breakfast.
Anyone else lost their "thing"?
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Nope my thing is very much there, active and being used.
Really sorry for your loss and I hope you get through this hard time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.
Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.
You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet."
I think they threw it out. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.
Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.
You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.
I think they threw it out. "
With your wand!
 maybe your wand stole your thing when it ran away! Omg! Maybe your thing is having a thing with your wand... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.
Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.
You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.
I think they threw it out.
With your wand!
maybe your wand stole your thing when it ran away! Omg! Maybe your thing is having a thing with your wand... "
I found that. Can't even be arsed to use it though. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.
Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.
You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.
I think they threw it out. "
Someone else will pick it up! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.
Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.
You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.
I think they threw it out.
Someone else will pick it up!"
One man's trash and all..... |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.
Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.
You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.
I think they threw it out.
Someone else will pick it up!"
I would but I don't know where its been. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.
Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.
You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.
I think they threw it out.
Someone else will pick it up!
I would but I don't know where its been. "
Pfft. You'd think it was a letter opener or something  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.
Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.
You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.
I think they threw it out.
Someone else will pick it up!
I would but I don't know where its been.
Pfft. You'd think it was a letter opener or something "
It may also be dangerous! An angry.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.
Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.
You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.
I think they threw it out.
Someone else will pick it up!
I would but I don't know where its been.
Pfft. You'd think it was a letter opener or something
It may also be dangerous! An angry.
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The sores have cleared up now so it's no that angry anymore. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.
Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.
You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.
I think they threw it out.
Someone else will pick it up!
I would but I don't know where its been.
Pfft. You'd think it was a letter opener or something
It may also be dangerous! An angry.
The sores have cleared up now so it's no that angry anymore. "
Safe to touch? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.
Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.
You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.
I think they threw it out.
Someone else will pick it up!
I would but I don't know where its been.
Pfft. You'd think it was a letter opener or something
It may also be dangerous! An angry.
The sores have cleared up now so it's no that angry anymore.
Safe to touch? "
And not contagious |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.
Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.
You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.
I think they threw it out.
Someone else will pick it up!
I would but I don't know where its been.
Pfft. You'd think it was a letter opener or something
It may also be dangerous! An angry.
The sores have cleared up now so it's no that angry anymore.
Safe to touch?
And not contagious "
Go on then. Bet it bites though! |
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I'm lucky I guess to be able to switch off my emotions. If I'm not having sex regularly I just don't even think about it until it's imminent then I get in the zone. I think it's more self preservation being able to just switch on and off. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I am feeling a bit too introspective to post on this today. The thing might splurge everywhere and no one needs that.
J
No I do! Splurge away. "
What she said. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
Mine has been missing for ages.
I was reading some AIBU threads on a parenting website yesterday (was looking for something else but it caught my attention). I left there thinking what a relief it was to be single!
I have people I’d like to meet but it’s more for a coffee than a shag.
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"Nope but I do feel like women want my penis more than they want me.
Like as in I'm shaggable but not datable!
This is how many women feel too (sans penii) "
Very much, this is exactly how I feel atm x  |
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"Mine has been missing for ages.
I was reading some AIBU threads on a parenting website yesterday (was looking for something else but it caught my attention). I left there thinking what a relief it was to be single!
I have people I’d like to meet but it’s more for a coffee than a shag."
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I think meeting for coffee is a sensible enough thing to do anyway, even on Fab. All this place actually says of people really is that they are not sexual prudes.
So you don't really need The Thing to use Fab, as thousands of people I expect prove every day. pt |
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over a year ago
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"I lost my thing quite spectacularly a few months ago. Generally I have quite a high libido but a combination of things decimated that.
I guess I stopped believing in myself. Started believing I wasn't sexually attractive, no one would want to meet me. It was easier to just goblin rather than trying. Easier to evade arrangements of socials, dates etc because I couldn't see how anyone would want to fuck me.
And then I stopped thinking about it. Doing little things that brought me joy. Leaning into friendships with those I love and adore. Going to the gym because I didn't want to have a rot girl Autumn. I found a little bit of confidence. Started talking to people again. Flirting (well whatever it is I do because I don't think I flirt!).
I think it's safe to say my thing is pretty much back to normal levels. It takes time Ravie, you'll find your thing again."
This. This is exactly me at the moment. |
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For me the thing is massively tied to feeling desired. If I don't feel desired and wanted then the thing goes into hiding. So if I'm always the one keeping a conversation going and I get the feeling they're not actually that into me then it disappears. There was also a very difficult personal time that I'm not prepared to share here - the thing disappeared then too.
My libido is high enough that I'll take care of myself while the thing is in hiding. And that's ok-ish.
But when someone I am attracted to looks at me with desire or sends a message or just puts that fire/little purple devil emoji on something I've sent them then it starts a feedback loop. The butterflies, the fanny flutters (gawd, that's a terrible phrase), the wanting.
It's definitely linked to self esteem for me which is a bastard because it's either a vicious circle when you're feeling shit. Or an amazing upward spiral when you're feeling good.
J |
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over a year ago
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"For me the thing is massively tied to feeling desired. If I don't feel desired and wanted then the thing goes into hiding. So if I'm always the one keeping a conversation going and I get the feeling they're not actually that into me then it disappears. There was also a very difficult personal time that I'm not prepared to share here - the thing disappeared then too.
My libido is high enough that I'll take care of myself while the thing is in hiding. And that's ok-ish.
But when someone I am attracted to looks at me with desire or sends a message or just puts that fire/little purple devil emoji on something I've sent them then it starts a feedback loop. The butterflies, the fanny flutters (gawd, that's a terrible phrase), the wanting.
It's definitely linked to self esteem for me which is a bastard because it's either a vicious circle when you're feeling shit. Or an amazing upward spiral when you're feeling good.
J"
This actually makes sense. |
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"For me the thing is massively tied to feeling desired. If I don't feel desired and wanted then the thing goes into hiding. So if I'm always the one keeping a conversation going and I get the feeling they're not actually that into me then it disappears. There was also a very difficult personal time that I'm not prepared to share here - the thing disappeared then too.
My libido is high enough that I'll take care of myself while the thing is in hiding. And that's ok-ish.
But when someone I am attracted to looks at me with desire or sends a message or just puts that fire/little purple devil emoji on something I've sent them then it starts a feedback loop. The butterflies, the fanny flutters (gawd, that's a terrible phrase), the wanting.
J"
Yeah I was hooked then till the 'fanny flutters' broke the immersion sorry.
It's quite like that for me... I don't feel it from them it withers. Desire loop starts way before the sex does for me.
My residual libido isn't particularly high really. More just thirst and hunger. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This actually makes sense.
You sound surprised 
J"
I tell myself I don't care what guys think of me, even the ones I kinda like. But maybe I do. Maybe.
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"Yeah I was hooked then till the 'fanny flutters' broke the immersion sorry.
I'm happy to hear alternatives. Cunt clenching? Twat twitches? 
J"
Both better... but still made me giggle. Leave with it with me I may have a eureka moment |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"For me the thing is massively tied to feeling desired. If I don't feel desired and wanted then the thing goes into hiding. So if I'm always the one keeping a conversation going and I get the feeling they're not actually that into me then it disappears. There was also a very difficult personal time that I'm not prepared to share here - the thing disappeared then too.
My libido is high enough that I'll take care of myself while the thing is in hiding. And that's ok-ish.
But when someone I am attracted to looks at me with desire or sends a message or just puts that fire/little purple devil emoji on something I've sent them then it starts a feedback loop. The butterflies, the fanny flutters (gawd, that's a terrible phrase), the wanting.
It's definitely linked to self esteem for me which is a bastard because it's either a vicious circle when you're feeling shit. Or an amazing upward spiral when you're feeling good.
J"
Ooh. This! |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
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This actually makes sense.
You sound surprised
J
I tell myself I don't care what guys think of me, even the ones I kinda like. But maybe I do. Maybe.
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We all care to a point. Some obsess over it, while others only care in the situation presented. |
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