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Planning Ahead

By *bi Haive OP Man over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

We had the 'how spontaneous are you'thread a short while ago.

So conversely - how often do you make plans ahead? I'm taking a month or so, not a few days? I guess for clubs and events it's a given that planning is essential and necessary, but how about for normal meets?

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

It all depends on who you are meeting, and everyone's availability?

I have a new meet planned for next Monday, with a woman I've been chatting with for almost a month now. She's a shift worker, and her only day off last week coincided with a visit from Mother Nature, so we've postponed until next week.

Other, long term friends know my routine very well, so less planning ahead required, and one even calls me 'Dial a cock' because she can have me within 15 minutes lol....

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman over a year ago

Schitts Creek

I always have to plan ahead, but that’s because my free time is so crazy limited. Usually at least a couple of weeks but often longer.

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By *lueDressWoman over a year ago

Bath

I used to meet folk within a few days of messages.But felt uneasy with some.So stopped meets for about 4 years.Now only meet with couples and females since then.I have webcam to webcam verifications then if attracted meet for a social within a few weeks of chatting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My meets aren't normal.

Currently planned 2 months in advance. My fuck card is full.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hate plans, so don't really plan meets in advance.

Much prefer the 'Are you free now?' Messages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most are made ahead.

Just then most cancel on me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most are made ahead.

Just then most cancel on me. "

Don't you find last minute meets, no one has much chance of getting cold feet and cancelling?

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

Varies!

Very few are actually local so it tends to not be spur of the moment. Though that has happened given the opportunity.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Mostly everything requires planning so plan ahead with little ones at home spontaneous meets and dates are off the cards.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most are made ahead.

Just then most cancel on me.

Don't you find last minute meets, no one has much chance of getting cold feet and cancelling?"

Last minute hot normal guys? I've looked, they don't exist.

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By *aizyWoman over a year ago

west midlands

"Most are made ahead.

Just then most cancel on me.

Don't you find last minute meets, no one has much chance of getting cold feet and cancelling?

Last minute hot normal guys? I've looked, they don't exist. "

I tried it once, he was really hot I thought why not after one or 2 msgs, I lasted 15 mins with him in the pub before I had to pretend to need the loo and make my escape, never again!

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By *piderBunnyCouple over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

Depends entirely on the person and situation.

I think mostly up to a month.

Posh