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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No not your dog.
Is this the equivalent to good girl??
"Be a good boy and suck that dick"...I have mixed feelings.
Good guy? This just give me Chucky vibes. Also, kinda works...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In a playful sense I'm all in.
But I simply don't get hung up on certain phrases anyway. It's not suddenly going to get me turned on. Won't turn me off either."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In a playful sense I'm all in.
But I simply don't get hung up on certain phrases anyway. It's not suddenly going to get me turned on. Won't turn me off either."
Kai, be a good boy and open that mouth wide.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last time I was called "good boy" must have been when I was actually a boy. I don't know how I would feel if a female companion called me that.
I was once called "daddy" by a woman I was seeing and it went straight through me. I asked her never to call me that again in the bedroom.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see it as power play, almost animalistic. You say it while patting a horse. Owner Vs pet. You're unsure what the pet can do, but there's some level of self assurance that they'll be happy.
Good girl I see as more of a nurturing statement.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chucky
Good boy is dogs. Always dogs.
Wanna play?"
That bit in child’s play 3 where he’s under the bed and slices through the guys Achilles tendons is the reason I still have to have stuff under my bed so no one can hide there  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I see it as power play, almost animalistic. You say it while patting a horse. Owner Vs pet. You're unsure what the pet can do, but there's some level of self assurance that they'll be happy.
Good girl I see as more of a nurturing statement.
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I like animalistic |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"In a playful sense I'm all in.
But I simply don't get hung up on certain phrases anyway. It's not suddenly going to get me turned on. Won't turn me off either.
Kai, be a good boy and open that mouth wide.
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This is exactly why it doesn't bother me too much, mostly because those I am with in those situations with know my sense of humour so they wouldn't be serious about it and it's use.
The lighthearted comical use of it is more of a turn on than the phrase.
If somebody was using it in a more serious way to make a dynamic work by "forcing it" then I'd rather they didn't. But again I don't get hung up on that stuff. |
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"No not your dog.
Is this the equivalent to good girl??
"Be a good boy and suck that dick"...I have mixed feelings.
Good guy? This just give me Chucky vibes. Also, kinda works...
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Brucey's in your head again about sucking a bloke isn't he? 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In a playful sense I'm all in.
But I simply don't get hung up on certain phrases anyway. It's not suddenly going to get me turned on. Won't turn me off either.
Kai, be a good boy and open that mouth wide.
This is exactly why it doesn't bother me too much, mostly because those I am with in those situations with know my sense of humour so they wouldn't be serious about it and it's use.
The lighthearted comical use of it is more of a turn on than the phrase.
If somebody was using it in a more serious way to make a dynamic work by "forcing it" then I'd rather they didn't. But again I don't get hung up on that stuff. "
I wouldn't be saying it in a jokey way.
I don't joke during sex. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"In a playful sense I'm all in.
But I simply don't get hung up on certain phrases anyway. It's not suddenly going to get me turned on. Won't turn me off either.
Kai, be a good boy and open that mouth wide.
This is exactly why it doesn't bother me too much, mostly because those I am with in those situations with know my sense of humour so they wouldn't be serious about it and it's use.
The lighthearted comical use of it is more of a turn on than the phrase.
If somebody was using it in a more serious way to make a dynamic work by "forcing it" then I'd rather they didn't. But again I don't get hung up on that stuff.
I wouldn't be saying it in a jokey way.
I don't joke during sex."
I wouldn't be having sex with you anyway!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In a playful sense I'm all in.
But I simply don't get hung up on certain phrases anyway. It's not suddenly going to get me turned on. Won't turn me off either.
Kai, be a good boy and open that mouth wide.
This is exactly why it doesn't bother me too much, mostly because those I am with in those situations with know my sense of humour so they wouldn't be serious about it and it's use.
The lighthearted comical use of it is more of a turn on than the phrase.
If somebody was using it in a more serious way to make a dynamic work by "forcing it" then I'd rather they didn't. But again I don't get hung up on that stuff.
I wouldn't be saying it in a jokey way.
I don't joke during sex.
I wouldn't be having sex with you anyway! "
Oh, my second rejection today  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"In a playful sense I'm all in.
But I simply don't get hung up on certain phrases anyway. It's not suddenly going to get me turned on. Won't turn me off either.
Kai, be a good boy and open that mouth wide.
This is exactly why it doesn't bother me too much, mostly because those I am with in those situations with know my sense of humour so they wouldn't be serious about it and it's use.
The lighthearted comical use of it is more of a turn on than the phrase.
If somebody was using it in a more serious way to make a dynamic work by "forcing it" then I'd rather they didn't. But again I don't get hung up on that stuff.
I wouldn't be saying it in a jokey way.
I don't joke during sex.
I wouldn't be having sex with you anyway!
Oh, my second rejection today "
Wait was that an offer?
I assumed in the above scenario you would be over lording me and another guy to do things while you watched! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I assumed in the above scenario you would be over lording me and another guy to do things while you watched! "
At first, she asked them to open wide for you. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
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I assumed in the above scenario you would be over lording me and another guy to do things while you watched!
At first, she asked them to open wide for you."
Pretty sure it's definitely a spectator sport for her, 1 man is enough as it is. She wouldn't get involved other than watching and shouting orders. |
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Does nothing for me, probably kill my mood.
If your demand comes with primal desire and mutual arousal it's going to turn me on and I'm probably going to give you what you want - because I want too.
Call me degrading names in the midst of lust. Slut, bitch, whatever you like. 
Patronise or humiliate me - turn off. That's what 'good boy' feels like to me. I don't want praise. Especially, when tied to submissive sexual acts - it's a trigger.
It's only really switches with some bite that can draw submissiveness out of me. They need to know me deeply and not mindfuck me. Doesn't happen outside of a relationship. |
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As someone who's been both called a good boy and called someone a good boy, I can report that it is *very* effective in the right situation and with the right person. 
Saying that I had someone call me a good bean on account of my non-binaryness and that was just fuckin weird. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"No not your dog.
Is this the equivalent to good girl??
"Be a good boy and suck that dick"...I have mixed feelings.
Good guy? This just give me Chucky vibes. Also, kinda works...
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If an older woman called me a good boy while I was going down on her...
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"Mostly a thing if I'm in dominant mode... I love seeing a grown man absolutely melt into submission.
See I could see this working. Shit am I a switch?! "
Ha ha I bet you could be for the right woman |
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve been called a good boy, in amongst gasps and the clutching hands. I just took it as a compliment. And later when I called her a good girl she laughed. Sometimes it’s just funny "
Yes, I think for me being called a good girl or calling someone a good boy would just make me laugh!  |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"Mostly a thing if I'm in dominant mode... I love seeing a grown man absolutely melt into submission.
See I could see this working. Shit am I a switch?!
Ha ha I bet you could be for the right woman"
If only there were hot dominant women here eh! |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Mostly a thing if I'm in dominant mode... I love seeing a grown man absolutely melt into submission.
See I could see this working. Shit am I a switch?! "
Dominant leaning with a hint of switch Brucey! It's a thing and it's okay to be! You just have very big boundaries on how far in to sub you go. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"Mostly a thing if I'm in dominant mode... I love seeing a grown man absolutely melt into submission.
See I could see this working. Shit am I a switch?!
Dominant leaning with a hint of switch Brucey! It's a thing and it's okay to be! You just have very big boundaries on how far in to sub you go. "
Oh yeah I'm not being chained up and pegged anytime soon. I just also have a praise kink apparently! |
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"Mostly a thing if I'm in dominant mode... I love seeing a grown man absolutely melt into submission.
See I could see this working. Shit am I a switch?!
Ha ha I bet you could be for the right woman
If only there were hot dominant women here eh! "
Cheeky bastard!! |
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