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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, I'm talking to this fit chick, right. She's taller than me, so our future children will have a height advantage when we get there, if we get there. Never say never. Anyway, back to the point. I'm sensing the conversation has gone stale.
She keeps giving like 1 liners as replies to my war and peace efforts. I mean, there might be so many reasonable reasons why she'd do that - and I appreciate there's still effort expended in replying anyway regardless of how in depth any of those are. It definitely means she's into me. I don't need anyone to tell me that, don't even need her to tell me that, it's my mind and I'll forge whatever unreasonable scenarios I can.
Back to the point.
I'm afraid the vacuous nature of responses would dry up eventually, curtailing any possibility of a reasonable series of messages in the future.
So, here's where you step in.
I need excuses to wrap up the conversation neatly so neither of us (read myself mainly) loses face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m a bit savage and if I got bored like that, I’d be sending a “thanks but this ain’t working” wishing them well, and hitting that block button.
I wouldn’t wanna be a part of a one sided conversation. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"So, I'm talking to this fit chick, right. She's taller than me, so our future children will have a height advantage when we get there, if we get there. Never say never. Anyway, back to the point. I'm sensing the conversation has gone stale.
She keeps giving like 1 liners as replies to my war and peace efforts. I mean, there might be so many reasonable reasons why she'd do that - and I appreciate there's still effort expended in replying anyway regardless of how in depth any of those are. It definitely means she's into me. I don't need anyone to tell me that, don't even need her to tell me that, it's my mind and I'll forge whatever unreasonable scenarios I can.
Back to the point.
I'm afraid the vacuous nature of responses would dry up eventually, curtailing any possibility of a reasonable series of messages in the future.
So, here's where you step in.
I need excuses to wrap up the conversation neatly so neither of us (read myself mainly) loses face."
Anyway hey....me in some kind of spider verse shit I don't know but this is weird.
Thumbs up emoji. To whatever she says. If she's interested she will say more.
Simples! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"By the sounds of it she’s already wrapped it up for you and your not taking the hint
I was more upset with your use of your not you're  truth."
But you know it’s the truth though, right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Send her a one liner back and leave it at that. If she’s interested she will reach out, if she doesn’t then you’ve avoided the awkward “this isn’t working” conversation. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"Send her a one liner back and leave it at that. If she’s interested she will reach out, if she doesn’t then you’ve avoided the awkward “this isn’t working” conversation. "
This is truth, me and Mrs shiv had this ourselves  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Send her a one liner back and leave it at that. If she’s interested she will reach out, if she doesn’t then you’ve avoided the awkward “this isn’t working” conversation.
This is truth, me and Mrs shiv had this ourselves "
Oh! The trick with The Shiv is that you need to hit on Mr, and Mrs gets jealous. True story. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"Send her a one liner back and leave it at that. If she’s interested she will reach out, if she doesn’t then you’ve avoided the awkward “this isn’t working” conversation.
This is truth, me and Mrs shiv had this ourselves
Oh! The trick with The Shiv is that you need to hit on Mr, and Mrs gets jealous. True story. "
I don't believe in ghosts! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"She seems like hard work to be honest.
Is it you? I bet its you. Sounds like you.
Do I give you one line responses?!?
No but you've seen his penis and want on that!"
Wait a ... when did she?
I wish though you're right, she's taller than me!
Anyway these aren't excuses! 
Where are my excuses? I'm not going to continue the conversation with war and peace efforts. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"She seems like hard work to be honest.
Is it you? I bet its you. Sounds like you.
Do I give you one line responses?!?
No but you've seen his penis and want on that!
Wait a ... when did she?
I wish though you're right, she's taller than me!
Anyway these aren't excuses!
Where are my excuses? I'm not going to continue the conversation with war and peace efforts."
I meant Kai's penis! We have all seen Kai's penis even though he plays coy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send her a one liner back and leave it at that. If she’s interested she will reach out, if she doesn’t then you’ve avoided the awkward “this isn’t working” conversation.
This is truth, me and Mrs shiv had this ourselves
Oh! The trick with The Shiv is that you need to hit on Mr, and Mrs gets jealous. True story.
I don't believe in ghosts!"
Just here for the drama. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send her a one liner back and leave it at that. If she’s interested she will reach out, if she doesn’t then you’ve avoided the awkward “this isn’t working” conversation.
This is truth, me and Mrs shiv had this ourselves"
Still besties though, right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send her a one liner back and leave it at that. If she’s interested she will reach out, if she doesn’t then you’ve avoided the awkward “this isn’t working” conversation.
This is truth, me and Mrs shiv had this ourselves
Still besties though, right? "
Have you just publicly friend zoned brucey? |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"Send her a one liner back and leave it at that. If she’s interested she will reach out, if she doesn’t then you’ve avoided the awkward “this isn’t working” conversation.
This is truth, me and Mrs shiv had this ourselves
Still besties though, right? "
God Christ no. Absolutely fucking not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Send her a one liner back and leave it at that. If she’s interested she will reach out, if she doesn’t then you’ve avoided the awkward “this isn’t working” conversation.
This is truth, me and Mrs shiv had this ourselves
Still besties though, right?
God Christ no. Absolutely fucking not "
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Hang on, is this a guy complaining about receiving inoffensive messages from a woman on Fabswingers?
Just stop playing ping pong! She might come up with something better.
You see, this is where Ghosting can work guys.. and she gets a chance to be a Ghostbuster or not!
People are too quick to knock things on here I say.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"She seems like hard work to be honest.
Is it you? I bet its you. Sounds like you.
Do I give you one line responses?!?
No but you've seen his penis and want on that!
Wait a ... when did she?
I wish though you're right, she's taller than me!
Anyway these aren't excuses!
Where are my excuses? I'm not going to continue the conversation with war and peace efforts.
I meant Kai's penis! We have all seen Kai's penis even though he plays coy!"
Only on special occasions! |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"Send her a one liner back and leave it at that. If she’s interested she will reach out, if she doesn’t then you’ve avoided the awkward “this isn’t working” conversation.
This is truth, me and Mrs shiv had this ourselves
Still besties though, right?
Have you just publicly friend zoned brucey? "
It happened in private. But then you know, realised we were very different anyway. Still would though obvs have you seen her? |
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"She seems like hard work to be honest.
Is it you? I bet its you. Sounds like you.
Do I give you one line responses?!?
No but you've seen his penis and want on that!
Wait a ... when did she?
I wish though you're right, she's taller than me!
Anyway these aren't excuses!
Where are my excuses? I'm not going to continue the conversation with war and peace efforts.
I meant Kai's penis! We have all seen Kai's penis even though he plays coy!"
Oh I've seen it too and definitely want in on that not even going to deny it |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"She seems like hard work to be honest.
Is it you? I bet its you. Sounds like you.
Do I give you one line responses?!?
No but you've seen his penis and want on that!
Wait a ... when did she?
I wish though you're right, she's taller than me!
Anyway these aren't excuses!
Where are my excuses? I'm not going to continue the conversation with war and peace efforts.
I meant Kai's penis! We have all seen Kai's penis even though he plays coy!
Only on special occasions! "
Otherwise known as my finest wank days  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"She seems like hard work to be honest.
Is it you? I bet its you. Sounds like you.
Do I give you one line responses?!?
No but you've seen his penis and want on that!
Wait a ... when did she?
I wish though you're right, she's taller than me!
Anyway these aren't excuses!
Where are my excuses? I'm not going to continue the conversation with war and peace efforts.
I meant Kai's penis! We have all seen Kai's penis even though he plays coy!
Only on special occasions! "
I've now seen the last 2 inches of Kai's member.
This still hasn't helped. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"She seems like hard work to be honest.
Is it you? I bet its you. Sounds like you.
Do I give you one line responses?!?
No but you've seen his penis and want on that!
Wait a ... when did she?
I wish though you're right, she's taller than me!
Anyway these aren't excuses!
Where are my excuses? I'm not going to continue the conversation with war and peace efforts.
I meant Kai's penis! We have all seen Kai's penis even though he plays coy!
Only on special occasions!
I've now seen the last 2 inches of Kai's member.
This still hasn't helped."
Speak for yourself they cure all my troubles! |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"She seems like hard work to be honest.
Is it you? I bet its you. Sounds like you.
Do I give you one line responses?!?
No but you've seen his penis and want on that!
Wait a ... when did she?
I wish though you're right, she's taller than me!
Anyway these aren't excuses!
Where are my excuses? I'm not going to continue the conversation with war and peace efforts.
I meant Kai's penis! We have all seen Kai's penis even though he plays coy!
Only on special occasions!
I've now seen the last 2 inches of Kai's member.
This still hasn't helped."
Why are we talking about my penis!? |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"She seems like hard work to be honest.
Is it you? I bet its you. Sounds like you.
Do I give you one line responses?!?
No but you've seen his penis and want on that!
Wait a ... when did she?
I wish though you're right, she's taller than me!
Anyway these aren't excuses!
Where are my excuses? I'm not going to continue the conversation with war and peace efforts.
I meant Kai's penis! We have all seen Kai's penis even though he plays coy!
Only on special occasions!
I've now seen the last 2 inches of Kai's member.
This still hasn't helped.
Why are we talking about my penis!? "
this killed me
Sweet man we are *always* talking about your penis |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OK, an excuse. Tell that the tamagotchi you're keeping alive for PW needs attention. She'll love that competitive aspect.
J"
It won't be a tamagochi though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send her a one liner back and leave it at that. If she’s interested she will reach out, if she doesn’t then you’ve avoided the awkward “this isn’t working” conversation.
This is truth, me and Mrs shiv had this ourselves
Still besties though, right?
Have you just publicly friend zoned brucey?
It happened in private. But then you know, realised we were very different anyway. Still would though obvs have you seen her? "
What we’re not going to do is talk about me like I can’t see it  |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"Send her a one liner back and leave it at that. If she’s interested she will reach out, if she doesn’t then you’ve avoided the awkward “this isn’t working” conversation.
This is truth, me and Mrs shiv had this ourselves
Still besties though, right?
Have you just publicly friend zoned brucey?
It happened in private. But then you know, realised we were very different anyway. Still would though obvs have you seen her?
What we’re not going to do is talk about me like I can’t see it "
Aren't you aware of this? I feel we covered this. Besides it's not serious or deep x |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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Tell her you’re a fisherman and you sail in two days to go get some prawns. It gives you a cut off time and a bit of notice that you’re going AWOL.
And if she pines for you then you know she wants your dick.
It’s a win/win situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, I'm talking to this fit chick, right. She's taller than me, so our future children will have a height advantage when we get there, if we get there. Never say never. Anyway, back to the point. I'm sensing the conversation has gone stale.
She keeps giving like 1 liners as replies to my war and peace efforts. I mean, there might be so many reasonable reasons why she'd do that - and I appreciate there's still effort expended in replying anyway regardless of how in depth any of those are. It definitely means she's into me. I don't need anyone to tell me that, don't even need her to tell me that, it's my mind and I'll forge whatever unreasonable scenarios I can.
Back to the point.
I'm afraid the vacuous nature of responses would dry up eventually, curtailing any possibility of a reasonable series of messages in the future.
So, here's where you step in.
I need excuses to wrap up the conversation neatly so neither of us (read myself mainly) loses face."
Just stop messaging. Don’t need any excuse or exit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send her a one liner back and leave it at that. If she’s interested she will reach out, if she doesn’t then you’ve avoided the awkward “this isn’t working” conversation.
This is truth, me and Mrs shiv had this ourselves
Still besties though, right?
Have you just publicly friend zoned brucey?
It happened in private. But then you know, realised we were very different anyway. Still would though obvs have you seen her?
What we’re not going to do is talk about me like I can’t see it
Aren't you aware of this? I feel we covered this. Besides it's not serious or deep x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tell her you’re a fisherman and you sail in two days to go get some prawns. It gives you a cut off time and a bit of notice that you’re going AWOL.
And if she pines for you then you know she wants your dick.
It’s a win/win situation."
What if she's allergic to shellfish?
Still, I like that it gives a notice period.
Do they really go out to sea for 2 days? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know....if you want a final that's it, then a 'thanks for the conversation so far, I see your busy. Happy fabbing and good luck in the future...' possibly??!
Otherwise a one liner and leave it at that. But to be fair personally I'd go with the former as then your finishing it on your terms and putting a line under it. You both know where you stand, but most importantly YOU know where you are with it all. |
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"Tell her you’re a fisherman and you sail in two days to go get some prawns. It gives you a cut off time and a bit of notice that you’re going AWOL.
And if she pines for you then you know she wants your dick.
It’s a win/win situation."
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That's no fun! Where's the Ghostbusting in that?
It sounds like he has the interest, he just doesn't want the messages. Or something. It's Saturday, let's be honest he probably just made it all up. pt |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"Tell her you’re a fisherman and you sail in two days to go get some prawns. It gives you a cut off time and a bit of notice that you’re going AWOL.
And if she pines for you then you know she wants your dick.
It’s a win/win situation.
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That's no fun! Where's the Ghostbusting in that?
It sounds like he has the interest, he just doesn't want the messages. Or something. It's Saturday, let's be honest he probably just made it all up. pt"
Oh PT!! That’s a cynical response!! Go tug your cock 5 times and say five “I’m sorry’s” |
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"Tell her you’re a fisherman and you sail in two days to go get some prawns. It gives you a cut off time and a bit of notice that you’re going AWOL.
And if she pines for you then you know she wants your dick.
It’s a win/win situation.
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That's no fun! Where's the Ghostbusting in that?
It sounds like he has the interest, he just doesn't want the messages. Or something. It's Saturday, let's be honest he probably just made it all up. pt
Oh PT!! That’s a cynical response!! Go tug your cock 5 times and say five “I’m sorry’s”"
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You know I'm normally expected to record it when I'm asked for things like that pt |
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You're off to jail?
You're an astronaut and about to go on a mission?
Fab are now charging per message so you you think it's best for both of you to save the cash?
You've decided to become a priest? |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"You're off to jail?
You're an astronaut and about to go on a mission?
Fab are now charging per message so you you think it's best for both of you to save the cash?
You've decided to become a priest?"
I did that last one once, I wouldn't recommend it. |
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"You're off to jail?
You're an astronaut and about to go on a mission?
Fab are now charging per message so you you think it's best for both of you to save the cash?
You've decided to become a priest?
I did that last one once, I wouldn't recommend it."
No, I guess it takes some commitment if she calls your bluff!
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"You're off to jail?
You're an astronaut and about to go on a mission?
Fab are now charging per message so you you think it's best for both of you to save the cash?
You've decided to become a priest?
I did that last one once, I wouldn't recommend it.
No, I guess it takes some commitment if she calls your bluff!
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Though I hear women love a hot priest...
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"You're off to jail?
You're an astronaut and about to go on a mission?
Fab are now charging per message so you you think it's best for both of you to save the cash?
You've decided to become a priest?
I did that last one once, I wouldn't recommend it."
No. It’s hot. Us women like the challenge of corrupting a priest  |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"You're off to jail?
You're an astronaut and about to go on a mission?
Fab are now charging per message so you you think it's best for both of you to save the cash?
You've decided to become a priest?
I did that last one once, I wouldn't recommend it.
No, I guess it takes some commitment if she calls your bluff!
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It went ok for a week or so but then devils and demons etc you know how it is! |
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
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"You're off to jail?
You're an astronaut and about to go on a mission?
Fab are now charging per message so you you think it's best for both of you to save the cash?
You've decided to become a priest?
I did that last one once, I wouldn't recommend it.
No, I guess it takes some commitment if she calls your bluff!
Though I hear women love a hot priest...
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You been watching Fleabag YOLO?!  |
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"You're off to jail?
You're an astronaut and about to go on a mission?
Fab are now charging per message so you you think it's best for both of you to save the cash?
You've decided to become a priest?
I did that last one once, I wouldn't recommend it.
No, I guess it takes some commitment if she calls your bluff!
Though I hear women love a hot priest...
You been watching Fleabag YOLO?! "
I am familiar with her work...
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"You're off to jail?
You're an astronaut and about to go on a mission?
Fab are now charging per message so you you think it's best for both of you to save the cash?
You've decided to become a priest?
I did that last one once, I wouldn't recommend it.
No. It’s hot. Us women like the challenge of corrupting a priest "
Devil's dumplings, is this all men in frocks? pt |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're off to jail?
You're an astronaut and about to go on a mission?
Fab are now charging per message so you you think it's best for both of you to save the cash?
You've decided to become a priest?"
You've done this before! |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"You're off to jail?
You're an astronaut and about to go on a mission?
Fab are now charging per message so you you think it's best for both of you to save the cash?
You've decided to become a priest?
I did that last one once, I wouldn't recommend it.
No. It’s hot. Us women like the challenge of corrupting a priest
Devil's dumplings, is this all men in frocks? pt"
Frocks AND a collar |
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"You're off to jail?
You're an astronaut and about to go on a mission?
Fab are now charging per message so you you think it's best for both of you to save the cash?
You've decided to become a priest?
I did that last one once, I wouldn't recommend it.
No. It’s hot. Us women like the challenge of corrupting a priest
Devil's dumplings, is this all men in frocks? pt
Frocks AND a collar"
My fancy dress box has both of those! And a teepee too. Sadly for me I joined the wrong church though I think. Where on Halloween can you get ordained?
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If open questions return very closed answers, then this communicates a lot more than the words themselves  . I'd continue with open questions but reduce the volume of contact and rest it more with them to invest, should they decide to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should say, I know this is difficult to face but I reckon you’ll not be up to my personal likes. I never saw your barren breasts but I only like small breasts with puffy nipples. A meaty lipped fleshy vulva with a natural gape, large clit, and exceptionally wet, flexible, insatiable sex drive. Your one word answers lead me to assume you aren’t all that and more. Let’s end it before it becomes painfully obvious we are doomed.
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
west midlands |
"Tell her you have been carrying out research for Sydney University, you have collected all the data you need and she has been a great help in your research.
I knew it was true!
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They got to you did they? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You should say, I know this is difficult to face but I reckon you’ll not be up to my personal likes. I never saw your barren breasts but I only like small breasts with puffy nipples. A meaty lipped fleshy vulva with a natural gape, large clit, and exceptionally wet, flexible, insatiable sex drive. Your one word answers lead me to assume you aren’t all that and more. Let’s end it before it becomes painfully obvious we are doomed.
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This pains me - because I just got called out for using the wrong terminology 2 hours ago. Originally I said "meaty lipped fleshy vagina" and someone, rightfully with said anatomy, pointed out my ignorance at the use of vagina as it's the "tube" and I should've said vulva.
I couldn't argue, and I didn't. Respectfully thanked her for pointing out my errors and corrected the mistake promptly.
Still, I'm not hoping to discontinue the lines of communication with said person, some people seem confused and think I'm wanting to burn bridges. No way. I already told everyone she will confer some genetic advantages to our future progeny. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tell her you have been carrying out research for Sydney University, you have collected all the data you need and she has been a great help in your research."
This is useful, I could say I'm processing the data and will be back for more. |
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"Tell her you have been carrying out research for Sydney University, you have collected all the data you need and she has been a great help in your research.
I knew it was true!
They got to you did they?"
I can't say. They made me sign an NDA after I spilt the beans. Bastards. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"You're a grown man, be direct. Either ask to meet her or call it quits. "It's been great chatting to you, but I don't think we're compatible".
Sorted. "
I can be a good boy though...
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"You're a grown man, be direct. Either ask to meet her or call it quits. "It's been great chatting to you, but I don't think we're compatible".
Sorted.
I can be a good boy though...
Wait what were we talking about? "
Wrong thread |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"You're a grown man, be direct. Either ask to meet her or call it quits. "It's been great chatting to you, but I don't think we're compatible".
Sorted.
I can be a good boy though...
Wait what were we talking about?
Wrong thread "
Sometimes things feel wrong Mimi, but then also feel soo right.... |
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By *.T.Man
over a year ago
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The shorter her reply, the shorter your reply should be, you'll eventually get to emojis, then punctuation marks only.
If you are chasing and she's not reciprocating, just don't reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, I'm talking to this fit chick, right. She's taller than me, so our future children will have a height advantage when we get there, if we get there. Never say never. Anyway, back to the point. I'm sensing the conversation has gone stale.
She keeps giving like 1 liners as replies to my war and peace efforts. I mean, there might be so many reasonable reasons why she'd do that - and I appreciate there's still effort expended in replying anyway regardless of how in depth any of those are. It definitely means she's into me. I don't need anyone to tell me that, don't even need her to tell me that, it's my mind and I'll forge whatever unreasonable scenarios I can.
Back to the point.
I'm afraid the vacuous nature of responses would dry up eventually, curtailing any possibility of a reasonable series of messages in the future.
So, here's where you step in.
I need excuses to wrap up the conversation neatly so neither of us (read myself mainly) loses face."
Whilst some have said it sounds like she has checked out it may not be the case. A work colleague of mine is very much like this. He has some strange.rules and.ideas.when it comes to texting the women he dates. Things like....
No double texting
Does drivel on, answer questions in the simplest easiest way
Can't be bothered reading long texts
In all the above he has not lost interest in the lass. He is just strange when it comes to texting. This woman maybe the same.
Just openly and honestly talk to her. You cannot go wrong with that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you sure you haven’t given her the ick and now she’s just being polite and waiting for you to get the hint?"
Impossible, because it's me we're talking about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just stop replying. If someone is genuinely just bad at texting, they will at least make the effort to start the conversation again. If you never hear from her again, there's your answer. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yep. Slow fade it. If you're no longer interested and had arranged to meet, maybe say you're no longer interested. Otherwise, if it's just the talking stage, slow fade. It doesn't sound like her replies are too invested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just do the slow fade. Leave longer and longer gaps between replies. That will let it die naturally."
Either this or declare your undying love and that you want her to have your children - that may be a quicker means to ending it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ll be really honest, when the replies dry up like that then she’s already losing or lost interest. Well, that’s what it usually means when you’re sending big messages and she’s giving really short replies.
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"I’ll be really honest, when the replies dry up like that then she’s already losing or lost interest. Well, that’s what it usually means when you’re sending big messages and she’s giving really short replies.
Mrs "
What about when she's giving no replies and acts like you don't exist? That means she's playing hard to get right? |
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"Thank you all for your comments.
Honestly, most have deviated from the requirements requested. This thread is now unofficially closed."
Dude, this is the Lounge, what were you expecting?! Be glad you got a lot of serious advice (that you didn't want) in amongst the nonsense (that you did). It's more than happens in most of these threads. Next time stick a "ridiculous answers preferred" at the end.
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"You're a grown man, be direct. Either ask to meet her or call it quits. "It's been great chatting to you, but I don't think we're compatible".
Sorted.
Do you actually say that to people?"
Yes. Gives them closure. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"You're a grown man, be direct. Either ask to meet her or call it quits. "It's been great chatting to you, but I don't think we're compatible".
Sorted.
Do you actually say that to people?
Yes. Gives them closure. "
I'm still waiting for your opener |
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"So, I'm talking to this fit chick, right. She's taller than me, so our future children will have a height advantage when we get there, if we get there. Never say never. Anyway, back to the point. I'm sensing the conversation has gone stale.
She keeps giving like 1 liners as replies to my war and peace efforts. I mean, there might be so many reasonable reasons why she'd do that - and I appreciate there's still effort expended in replying anyway regardless of how in depth any of those are. It definitely means she's into me. I don't need anyone to tell me that, don't even need her to tell me that, it's my mind and I'll forge whatever unreasonable scenarios I can.
Back to the point.
I'm afraid the vacuous nature of responses would dry up eventually, curtailing any possibility of a reasonable series of messages in the future.
So, here's where you step in.
I need excuses to wrap up the conversation neatly so neither of us (read myself mainly) loses face."
A link to a TripAdvisor type feedback... "how satisfied were you with your interactions with xxxx"? Type thing.
Followed by... "would you use him again for any future time wasting needs" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, I'm talking to this fit chick, right. She's taller than me, so our future children will have a height advantage when we get there, if we get there. Never say never. Anyway, back to the point. I'm sensing the conversation has gone stale.
She keeps giving like 1 liners as replies to my war and peace efforts. I mean, there might be so many reasonable reasons why she'd do that - and I appreciate there's still effort expended in replying anyway regardless of how in depth any of those are. It definitely means she's into me. I don't need anyone to tell me that, don't even need her to tell me that, it's my mind and I'll forge whatever unreasonable scenarios I can.
Back to the point.
I'm afraid the vacuous nature of responses would dry up eventually, curtailing any possibility of a reasonable series of messages in the future.
So, here's where you step in.
I need excuses to wrap up the conversation neatly so neither of us (read myself mainly) loses face.
A link to a TripAdvisor type feedback... "how satisfied were you with your interactions with xxxx"? Type thing.
Followed by... "would you use him again for any future time wasting needs" "
Woah why are they a time waster exactly? |
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