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What constitutes "cheating" in a relationship
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By *aravancouple OP Man
over a year ago
A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love |
Which of these do you agree with.
Kissing on the lips
E-mailing pictures of themselves naked
Texting erotic messages
Sleeping in the same bed
Holding hands
Forming a deep emotional bond
Going out to dinner
In my opinion "cheating" is whatever your partner would be upset by. |
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"All of the above IF it's secretive or being deliberately hidden from the other partner. "
Yes, totally agree, makes me laugh when people use the excuse - 'it just happened' you can always walk away if you want to! Z |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I have been thinking about this a lot recently. I think the emotional relationships, without crossing the physical line but crossing the intimacy/friendship line, might actually be worse.
I have another question in mind but the wording is difficult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which of these do you agree with.
Kissing on the lips
E-mailing pictures of themselves naked
Texting erotic messages
Sleeping in the same bed
Holding hands
Forming a deep emotional bond
Going out to dinner
In my opinion "cheating" is whatever your partner would be upset by."
All of the above in my eyes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeppers to everything on the list, if it's done covertly, it's gonna hurt someone if/when they find out "
It sure does  it doesn't only hurt, I lost all my self confidence, but now thanks to some great meets mines almost back  |
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By *ndi2Couple
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
Yup i think anything if its done secretly and deliberately hidden from your partner is cheating.
And yes an emotional attachment or relationship with someone else would be so much more painful than a purely physical transgression |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the above, and I agree with one poster who said over stepping the emotional boundaries can sometimes be more detriment to the other half than the cheating itself.. |
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"Which of these do you agree with.
Kissing on the lips
E-mailing pictures of themselves naked
Texting erotic messages
Sleeping in the same bed
Holding hands
Forming a deep emotional bond
Going out to dinner
In my opinion "cheating" is whatever your partner would be upset by."
All of them if the intent to cheat is there and any kind of deceit or misleading is involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which of these do you agree with.
Kissing on the lips
E-mailing pictures of themselves naked
Texting erotic messages
Sleeping in the same bed
Holding hands
Forming a deep emotional bond
Going out to dinner
In my opinion "cheating" is whatever your partner would be upset by."
All of them.... If they were all done in secret without the one knowing! |
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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago
Chesterfield |
"All of the above IF it's secretive or being deliberately hidden from the other partner. "
Totally agree, if partner doesn't know "before" it happens then its definitely cheating .if the partner knows and is OK about it then its great fun . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And yes an emotional attachment or relationship with someone else would be so much more painful than a purely physical transgression "
I have to agree with this part
Some would say i was a jealous cow but i wud rather my hubby had sex with lots of ladies than have one regular friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which of these do you agree with.
Kissing on the lips
E-mailing pictures of themselves naked
Texting erotic messages
Sleeping in the same bed
Holding hands
Forming a deep emotional bond
Going out to dinner
In my opinion "cheating" is whatever your partner would be upset by."
There must be a reason for asking. Is there a suspicion. Won't ask any more as it is none of my business but good luck  |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Which of these do you agree with.
Kissing on the lips
E-mailing pictures of themselves naked
Texting erotic messages
Sleeping in the same bed
Holding hands
Forming a deep emotional bond
Going out to dinner
In my opinion "cheating" is whatever your partner would be upset by.
There must be a reason for asking. Is there a suspicion. Won't ask any more as it is none of my business but good luck "
Not always, dont read to deeply into some threads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the major factor in cheating is the getting caught element. Until that point the offender often don't equate it to cheating and nobody else is in the know.  |
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