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Cannot travel means I won’t go to the end of the country for a meet. I had ‘can travel’ and got asked if I’d meet someone in Aberdeen.
Cannot accommodate means I won’t accommodate until I’ve met you publicly for a social meet, and have chatted for a while. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Local hotels... The other, local, person's... Outside... It's not really that difficult to figure out, is it? "
Would local hotels not count as travelling to an extent? Where's the line you want to draw of what's travelling and what isn't? |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
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"Local hotels... The other, local, person's... Outside... It's not really that difficult to figure out, is it?
Would local hotels not count as travelling to an extent? Where's the line you want to draw of what's travelling and what isn't?"
The clue is in the word "local", no?    I don't drive so my own hometown is more than likely as far as I will go... Maybe not, if I REEEAAALLY like someone though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From the first line of my profile: If it says cannot accommodate and cannot travel, I am not currently looking to meet new people."
Thats because you're still trying to recover from all of us lot last week! Ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cannot accommodate- doesn't mean a married person cheating on spouse. [may do sometimes I suppose but not mostly]
1 - may share a house and doesn't want the intrusions
2 - doesn't want potential weirdos/stalkers knowing where they live
I have both of those criteria
Cannot travel = has no intention of travelling to your place
Doesn't mean they don't travel at all. One of the limitations of the options on this site
Some people only meet in clubs, parties, outdoors
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There's not a lot of nuance between "can travel/ accommodate" and "can't travel/ accommodate"
Some people assume that "can travel" means "will go to the Outer Hebrides right this second because I said hi in your inbox" and "can accommodate" means "hi bb I'm five minutes away, put the kettle on"
Some people use "can't travel" to mean "local only" or clubs. Some people use "can't accommodate" when they will let repeat meets come over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile says I cannot travel and cannot accommodate. Also, not looking to meet new people.
Despite this, I do travel and can accommodate but won’t do either for just anyone. If you’re someone special, to me, I’ve been known to travel thousands to miles to meet, or even rearrange my busy life to make time for you. As a standard, I would absolutely not meet anyone outside of London for a first meet ever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Local hotels... The other, local, person's... Outside... It's not really that difficult to figure out, is it?
Would local hotels not count as travelling to an extent? Where's the line you want to draw of what's travelling and what isn't?
The clue is in the word "local", no? I don't drive so my own hometown is more than likely as far as I will go... Maybe not, if I REEEAAALLY like someone though "
I suppose it depends how literally you want to take the word "travel". Have to get there somehow but I do get what you mean if travel is meant more outside your hometown |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My profile says I cannot travel and cannot accommodate. Also, not looking to meet new people.
Despite this, I do travel and can accommodate but won’t do either for just anyone. If you’re someone special, to me, I’ve been known to travel thousands to miles to meet, or even rearrange my busy life to make time for you. As a standard, I would absolutely not meet anyone outside of London for a first meet ever. "
If it says can travel, people in Edinburgh ask Londoners for a meet.
If it says can accommodate, people expect to turn up unannounced day or night demanding a fuck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not travelling miles, I have done but never again!
No coming to my home unless invited
It's in the bio or maybe ask?
Fab doesn't give any other options.
I got tired of guys assuming they could just rock up at mine because they couldn't accommodate.
Use your noggin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It means ...I can travel and I can accommodate but I'm not going to.
I meet local people and no one is coming to my home.
Simple."
I like this, similar to me
On the flip side, just because someone says they can accomodate, doesn't mean they'll let any random in.
It is just a handy filter to narrow things down.
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"Ask 'em
Talk to people?!
They're just tick boxes on a screen. Cock and pussy. No need for chat.
Accom... tick
Travel... tick
Fuck... tick"
Where is the fuck tick box? I seem to have missed it. Is that why people pay extra for gold memberships? |
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"Ask 'em
Talk to people?!
They're just tick boxes on a screen. Cock and pussy. No need for chat.
Accom... tick
Travel... tick
Fuck... tick"
Need more boxes.
King or superking
Cotton or polycotton
Grunting or sentences
Tea or booze
Ur worth it BB. U need more tick boxes for your perfect sex life. Yes it might be more work and reading than actual profile text but get with the times, man. Check boxes are the future |
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"Ask 'em
Talk to people?!
They're just tick boxes on a screen. Cock and pussy. No need for chat.
Accom... tick
Travel... tick
Fuck... tick
Need more boxes.
King or superking
Cotton or polycotton
Grunting or sentences
Tea or booze
Ur worth it BB. U need more tick boxes for your perfect sex life. Yes it might be more work and reading than actual profile text but get with the times, man. Check boxes are the future"
I'm confused, are those first 2 bed and bedsheet preferences for the sex? The second one could be actually useful, you know - if someone has a polyester allergy! |
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"Ask 'em
Talk to people?!
They're just tick boxes on a screen. Cock and pussy. No need for chat.
Accom... tick
Travel... tick
Fuck... tick
Need more boxes.
King or superking
Cotton or polycotton
Grunting or sentences
Tea or booze
Ur worth it BB. U need more tick boxes for your perfect sex life. Yes it might be more work and reading than actual profile text but get with the times, man. Check boxes are the future
I'm confused, are those first 2 bed and bedsheet preferences for the sex? The second one could be actually useful, you know - if someone has a polyester allergy!"
Obviously.
The customer is always right and you get everything from consuming.
You deserve a customised experience just for you. Because you're worth it  |
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"Ask 'em
Talk to people?!
They're just tick boxes on a screen. Cock and pussy. No need for chat.
Accom... tick
Travel... tick
Fuck... tick
Need more boxes.
King or superking
Cotton or polycotton
Grunting or sentences
Tea or booze
Ur worth it BB. U need more tick boxes for your perfect sex life. Yes it might be more work and reading than actual profile text but get with the times, man. Check boxes are the future
I'm confused, are those first 2 bed and bedsheet preferences for the sex? The second one could be actually useful, you know - if someone has a polyester allergy!
Obviously.
The customer is always right and you get everything from consuming.
You deserve a customised experience just for you. Because you're worth it "
You're damn right! Give it to me, I'm worth it... Uh-huh, I'm worth it |
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"Ask 'em
Talk to people?!
They're just tick boxes on a screen. Cock and pussy. No need for chat.
Accom... tick
Travel... tick
Fuck... tick
Need more boxes.
King or superking
Cotton or polycotton
Grunting or sentences
Tea or booze
Ur worth it BB. U need more tick boxes for your perfect sex life. Yes it might be more work and reading than actual profile text but get with the times, man. Check boxes are the future
I'm confused, are those first 2 bed and bedsheet preferences for the sex? The second one could be actually useful, you know - if someone has a polyester allergy!
Obviously.
The customer is always right and you get everything from consuming.
You deserve a customised experience just for you. Because you're worth it
You're damn right! Give it to me, I'm worth it... Uh-huh, I'm worth it"
Oh I may just agree  |
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By *ullyMan
over a year ago
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I take that to read, I am a lazy so and so I cant be arsed to move so you have to pick me up take me to yours where I will get my jollies, you probably won't but no matter that , then you drive me home and I leave the slime on your sheets for you to deal with! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take that to read, I am a lazy so and so I cant be arsed to move so you have to pick me up take me to yours where I will get my jollies, you probably won't but no matter that , then you drive me home and I leave the slime on your sheets for you to deal with!"
My my, what a large dose of judgement based on a few words. I think you and others are deliberately misinterpreting.  |
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"I take that to read, I am a lazy so and so I cant be arsed to move so you have to pick me up take me to yours where I will get my jollies, you probably won't but no matter that , then you drive me home and I leave the slime on your sheets for you to deal with!
My my, what a large dose of judgement based on a few words. I think you and others are deliberately misinterpreting. "
It just smacks of bitterness. That the person they're after isn't making it easy for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When people cannot travel amd cannot accommodate... Where do they meet... Just wondering?
Cam only I’d imagine… or fake 
My thoughts exactly "
But you're respectful of peoples boundaries...or maybe not. What other boundaries might you disregard I wonder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take that to read, I am a lazy so and so I cant be arsed to move so you have to pick me up take me to yours where I will get my jollies, you probably won't but no matter that , then you drive me home and I leave the slime on your sheets for you to deal with!
My my, what a large dose of judgement based on a few words. I think you and others are deliberately misinterpreting.
It just smacks of bitterness. That the person they're after isn't making it easy for them."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When meeting I had that on my profile - cannot travel (not prepared to travel out of Nottingham)or I was collected.
Cannot accommodate- self explanatory, nobody getting my address  |
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