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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I just sit and wait for a kebab Good girls get rewarded right! And I like kebabs
Who doesn't like kebabs???
I don't like kebabs. 
Why not???"
Too much meat bleugh |
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"No, I just sit and wait for a kebab Good girls get rewarded right! And I like kebabs
Who doesn't like kebabs???
I don't like kebabs.
Why not???
Too much meat bleugh "
Never been told that before sadly   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I just sit and wait for a kebab Good girls get rewarded right! And I like kebabs
Who doesn't like kebabs???
I don't like kebabs.
Why not???
Too much meat bleugh
Never been told that before sadly "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope not for me would give me the ilk and I would run a mile
Perfer to be called the “3-4-5” letter bad words afterwards or during
But god saying good girl makes me just cringe up |
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"Not me. I hate being called a good girl. If you want me to go from soaking wet to instantly dry call me a good girl. "
The last sentence doesn't provide any new information but it re-inforces the point excellently! No one who reads this will forget  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm going to be an utter cliché of a Home Counties millennial with a fondness for Fleabag and a praise kink...
I really, really like it. Not with everyone. Some dynamics it would be really bloody weird and they'd be met with an eyeroll or me laughing and teasing them.
With some people though? When their voice gets that bit huskier, thick with lust and their eyes darken and I feel in that moment I could worship them and think of nothing else.
I absolutely adore it.
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By *mf123Man
over a year ago
with one foot out the door |
"I'm going to be an utter cliché of a Home Counties millennial with a fondness for Fleabag and a praise kink...
I really, really like it. Not with everyone. Some dynamics it would be really bloody weird and they'd be met with an eyeroll or me laughing and teasing them.
With some people though? When their voice gets that bit huskier, thick with lust and their eyes darken and I feel in that moment I could worship them and think of nothing else.
I absolutely adore it.
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and 40 blokes just splodged on there phones for ya |
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"I'm going to be an utter cliché of a Home Counties millennial with a fondness for Fleabag and a praise kink...
I really, really like it. Not with everyone. Some dynamics it would be really bloody weird and they'd be met with an eyeroll or me laughing and teasing them.
With some people though? When their voice gets that bit huskier, thick with lust and their eyes darken and I feel in that moment I could worship them and think of nothing else.
I absolutely adore it.
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That third paragraph... Wow! An amazing visual description. I have to be balanced. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
Depends who says it and in what situation.
If my partner says it, it absolutely doesn't matter where I am, or what I'm doing... it makes me come over all unnecessary. He has that way of saying it.
Someone else says it in the right situation and oooft.
A randomer saying it makes me roll my eyes, and sometimes throw up in my mouth a little. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's one sure fire way to piss me off.
I would correct someone every time they said it and if they blatantly continued they'd know how pissed I was about it. Or I'd simply not speak to them again.
Though it seem some places further up north use the word girl a lot. |
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By *mf123Man
over a year ago
with one foot out the door |
"That's one sure fire way to piss me off.
I would correct someone every time they said it and if they blatantly continued they'd know how pissed I was about it. Or I'd simply not speak to them again.
Though it seem some places further up north use the word girl a lot."
i say it to every lass i meet every day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It really depends on who says it and how it’s said. Sometimes it makes my skin crawl. There’s a very fine line between  and I’m gonna need you to come over here and check my gag reflex. I hope this helps your research OP! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on who is saying it. Sometimes it can sound patronising, but with others nope it doesn't. Even at the most vanilla times, a 'good girl' by the right person, just makes me so incredibly pleased to have done something well to have deserved that praise it then leads to 'fuck yes' and a whoops how did my pants/dress fall down like that?  |
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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago
Lives in Preston, Eng |
"According to Instagram and tiktok, even the very utterance of "good girl" is enough to turn your average lady into a self contained fountain of horniness...
Is this true?? "
Absolute opposite. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
If a woman has found me attractive and been somewhat submissive, then yes usually they like it.
But those factors do cancel out 98 percent of women I have encountered SO let's just say it isn't true  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
For the vast majority it's about the praise that is associated with it. Less so about the "girl" part.
Praise kink is a very common thing, not just about acknowledging enjoyment but actually being told they are doing something good. Often it's not even sexual.
If people don't like it that's fine obviously, but ultimately its just a phrase that gets the point across. The main thing comes down to people that can disassociate a word with one thing to then associate it with something else in a different situation. |
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Until recently, I would have said no, nope and never to phrases like this. But I’m always open to trying things out and I’ve had a change of heart thanks to a few partners in a row with praise kinks. Like most things, there’s a time and a place.
(And a pretty smile from the right person will generally get me to ride right over any boundaries I thought I had.) |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"For the vast majority it's about the praise that is associated with it. Less so about the "girl" part.
Praise kink is a very common thing, not just about acknowledging enjoyment but actually being told they are doing something good. Often it's not even sexual.
If people don't like it that's fine obviously, but ultimately its just a phrase that gets the point across. The main thing comes down to people that can disassociate a word with one thing to then associate it with something else in a different situation. "
Wonderful job woman doesn't have the same ring does it? |
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"For the vast majority it's about the praise that is associated with it. Less so about the "girl" part. … ultimately its just a phrase that gets the point across."
Kai gets it. That’s exactly where my head is on the matter too.
Likewise I hate the word ‘daddy’ being used sexually, but there’s one woman who gets away with calling me that in the heat of the moment. Because it’s not about the word, it’s about what it means to her. |
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"For the vast majority it's about the praise that is associated with it. Less so about the "girl" part.
Praise kink is a very common thing, not just about acknowledging enjoyment but actually being told they are doing something good. Often it's not even sexual.
If people don't like it that's fine obviously, but ultimately its just a phrase that gets the point across. The main thing comes down to people that can disassociate a word with one thing to then associate it with something else in a different situation.
Wonderful job woman doesn't have the same ring does it?"
Good woman? To me that sounds like an old man telling a younger one, to find a good woman to settle down with. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"For the vast majority it's about the praise that is associated with it. Less so about the "girl" part.
Praise kink is a very common thing, not just about acknowledging enjoyment but actually being told they are doing something good. Often it's not even sexual.
If people don't like it that's fine obviously, but ultimately its just a phrase that gets the point across. The main thing comes down to people that can disassociate a word with one thing to then associate it with something else in a different situation.
Wonderful job woman doesn't have the same ring does it?
Good woman? To me that sounds like an old man telling a younger one, to find a good woman to settle down with. "
It doesn't sound like that to me at all
That's - 'wonderful female chap!' |
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"For the vast majority it's about the praise that is associated with it. Less so about the "girl" part.
Praise kink is a very common thing, not just about acknowledging enjoyment but actually being told they are doing something good. Often it's not even sexual.
If people don't like it that's fine obviously, but ultimately its just a phrase that gets the point across. The main thing comes down to people that can disassociate a word with one thing to then associate it with something else in a different situation. "
I'd rather they just said "that's good or that feels good etc...no need to throw in the girl bit but each to their own. |
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"For the vast majority it's about the praise that is associated with it. Less so about the "girl" part.
Praise kink is a very common thing, not just about acknowledging enjoyment but actually being told they are doing something good. Often it's not even sexual.
If people don't like it that's fine obviously, but ultimately its just a phrase that gets the point across. The main thing comes down to people that can disassociate a word with one thing to then associate it with something else in a different situation.
Wonderful job woman doesn't have the same ring does it?
Good woman? To me that sounds like an old man telling a younger one, to find a good woman to settle down with.
It doesn't sound like that to me at all
That's - 'wonderful female chap!'"
And that's the thing I guess. Words have different connotations to different people, and that's cool. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"For the vast majority it's about the praise that is associated with it. Less so about the "girl" part.
Praise kink is a very common thing, not just about acknowledging enjoyment but actually being told they are doing something good. Often it's not even sexual.
If people don't like it that's fine obviously, but ultimately its just a phrase that gets the point across. The main thing comes down to people that can disassociate a word with one thing to then associate it with something else in a different situation.
I'd rather they just said "that's good or that feels good etc...no need to throw in the girl bit but each to their own."
Its a deep primal thing in those with a praise kink. Again it's not just about being told they are doing something good.
But that's it, it's down the the individuals involved and their dynamic.
Lots of men will say it because they think it is what the other person wants.
For the majority of those that use the phrase correctly is because the submissive gets something from it. Of course the dominant person needs to be on board too.
Am ex of mine, pretty successful woman, very dominant out in the world and every day life. Her job required her to be, pinnacle of emotionless adulthood. Very little praise from her peers.
Back home though, her release was to lose lots of that control and power, to no longer be the lonely boss. It wasn't an age play thing in any sense but being told "good girl" brings back those emotions she had from a child when she was praised for things. Things she very rarely got anywhere else. Simple praise alone didn't stir those emotions. |
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"For the vast majority it's about the praise that is associated with it. Less so about the "girl" part.
Praise kink is a very common thing, not just about acknowledging enjoyment but actually being told they are doing something good. Often it's not even sexual.
If people don't like it that's fine obviously, but ultimately its just a phrase that gets the point across. The main thing comes down to people that can disassociate a word with one thing to then associate it with something else in a different situation.
I'd rather they just said "that's good or that feels good etc...no need to throw in the girl bit but each to their own.
Its a deep primal thing in those with a praise kink. Again it's not just about being told they are doing something good.
But that's it, it's down the the individuals involved and their dynamic.
Lots of men will say it because they think it is what the other person wants.
For the majority of those that use the phrase correctly is because the submissive gets something from it. Of course the dominant person needs to be on board too.
Am ex of mine, pretty successful woman, very dominant out in the world and every day life. Her job required her to be, pinnacle of emotionless adulthood. Very little praise from her peers.
Back home though, her release was to lose lots of that control and power, to no longer be the lonely boss. It wasn't an age play thing in any sense but being told "good girl" brings back those emotions she had from a child when she was praised for things. Things she very rarely got anywhere else. Simple praise alone didn't stir those emotions. "
As I said each to their own. Guess I'm not the submissive type that needs/wants that dynamic. |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat |
"For the vast majority it's about the praise that is associated with it. Less so about the "girl" part. … ultimately its just a phrase that gets the point across.
Kai gets it. That’s exactly where my head is on the matter too.
Likewise I hate the word ‘daddy’ being used sexually, but there’s one woman who gets away with calling me that in the heat of the moment. Because it’s not about the word, it’s about what it means to her."
I absolutely have a praise kink but I'm a middle aged woman ffs. Girl is just wrong! |
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"I absolutely have a praise kink but I'm a middle aged woman ffs. Girl is just wrong! "
Well, yeah. Time and a place. And knowing your partner. What’s right for one relationship ain’t right for another. |
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"No, I just sit and wait for a kebab Good girls get rewarded right! And I like kebabs
Not called it a kebab before..."
Not called what a kebab? Kebab is only ever kebab. It's not a euphemism, it's a kebab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This was actually my first username on here 
Was that before Girl from Ipanema? My memory is hazy.
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I liked the owner of the profile 'Girl from Ipanema', that was never Elf/Raven/Carrie - if it was, she has become massively jaded in the last ten years (not saying that I don't like Elphaba - I like her biting sarcasm and positive outlook on life!) |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Nothing wrong with calling a woman girl if she’s fine with it or likes it , I mean gay men call each other girl all the time!
In my experience most women like to be called good girl, does it matter why ?
Sone serious over thinkers about ! |
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"It would be the equivalent of having a bucket of cold water thrown over me if that was said in the heat of the moment.
I’m a woman. Treat me as such."
Guess you don’t mean it would make your nipples go hard? |
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"According to Instagram and tiktok, even the very utterance of "good girl" is enough to turn your average lady into a self contained fountain of horniness...
Is this true?? "
No.. it turns my stomach.. |
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