"My profile is Massive, and no it's not being read, but I have to be honest to get the quality I'm looking for."
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It's not that long, and it's read by the serious people you meet though surely?
If we are talking about pointless 'fafs' it's impossible to say 'yes' to, who cares if they read it or not?
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think it's a waste of time.
Hypocritical as my profile is essentially nothing. I think if you're actively looking and want to meet people you put the effort in. Or you have a so so pair of tits and a cute smile and you don't have to worry. Such double standards, huh? |
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"Even if you read it and provide everything they ask and match their standards doesn't mean you will get a reply. "
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This is true, you can't necessarily judge (or tell) from the amount of replies. Not reading them won't help your cause though, referring to one might.
The give people something to say other than faf? or hows u? or whatever.
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"Even if you read it and provide everything they ask and match their standards doesn't mean you will get a reply.
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This is true, you can't necessarily judge (or tell) from the amount of replies. Not reading them won't help your cause though, referring to one might.
The give people something to say other than faf? or hows u? or whatever.
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I'd say 90% of messages I get reference something in my profile.
100% still don't get a reply.
If I was a guy I wouldn't read them!! |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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Nope, it's there so others know what I'm about, it would save them wasting time for us both if they just took 2 mins to read it.
If people can't be bothered to read my profile, to see if we're a match, they're not for me. So it's a good filter. |
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"Even if you read it and provide everything they ask and match their standards doesn't mean you will get a reply.
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This is true, you can't necessarily judge (or tell) from the amount of replies. Not reading them won't help your cause though, referring to one might.
The give people something to say other than faf? or hows u? or whatever.
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I'd say 90% of messages I get reference something in my profile.
100% still don't get a reply.
If I was a guy I wouldn't read them!!"
lol that'll help |
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"It's a waste of time. Most people who meet others wrote one liners."
I'm actually serious as well, I've looked at the veris lol. Anyone who has a well written profile wrote themselves out of sex.
My profile (and forum posts) also made me into a Fabs virgin. |
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"It's a waste of time. Most people who meet others wrote one liners.
I'm actually serious as well, I've looked at the veris lol. Anyone who has a well written profile wrote themselves out of sex.
My profile (and forum posts) also made me into a Fabs virgin."
I've cock blocked myself!!  |
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We've had ours as just afew sentences, we've had it seriously long. It makes no difference either way I've found, it isn't read by the majority.
Makes a great filter though. We take the time to read other people's so when it becomes apparent ours hasn't been read, we're likely to just not look at possibly playing with that person |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"Nope, it's there so others know what I'm about, it would save them wasting time for us both if they just took 2 mins to read it.
If people can't be bothered to read my profile, to see if we're a match, they're not for me. So it's a good filter. "
This. Some people read mine and it is a conversation starter. Others tell me they can't be arsed. If they can't be arsed to read a profile then I assume they have a lackadaisical attitude to everything else too. |
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"It's a waste of time. Most people who meet others wrote one liners.
I'm actually serious as well, I've looked at the veris lol. Anyone who has a well written profile wrote themselves out of sex.
My profile (and forum posts) also made me into a Fabs virgin.
I've cock blocked myself!! "
Let's drink to that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our profile is huge, so just grab yourself a cup of tea, sit back, relax and enjoy  xx L"
That's the only thing I ever did on your profile...*nose grows* 
(Damnit you're ridiculously flawless L.) |
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"Our profile is huge, so just grab yourself a cup of tea, sit back, relax and enjoy xx L
That's the only thing I ever did on your profile...*nose grows*
(Damnit your ridiculously flawless L.)"
Well, thank you!  xx L |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nope, it's there so others know what I'm about, it would save them wasting time for us both if they just took 2 mins to read it.
If people can't be bothered to read my profile, to see if we're a match, they're not for me. So it's a good filter.
This. Some people read mine and it is a conversation starter. Others tell me they can't be arsed. If they can't be arsed to read a profile then I assume they have a lackadaisical attitude to everything else too. "
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"Nope, it's there so others know what I'm about, it would save them wasting time for us both if they just took 2 mins to read it.
If people can't be bothered to read my profile, to see if we're a match, they're not for me. So it's a good filter.
This. Some people read mine and it is a conversation starter. Others tell me they can't be arsed. If they can't be arsed to read a profile then I assume they have a lackadaisical attitude to everything else too. "
That’s some Profile and the latest vid is very interesting |
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Oh hell yeah.
You could write 1000 detailed, thoughtful messages on here. Most will never get read and bulk deleted. I'd do it, but it's a fools errand here, I'm afraid.
Or you could put the effort into your profile and wait for women who are sick of bulk deleting to take a read. More importantly to me, proactively seeking what they want.
That and the possible natural spark of engagement on forums is what I've found to be the best and most interesting way to spend my time here. Reed that bends with the wind and all that. |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"Nope, it's there so others know what I'm about, it would save them wasting time for us both if they just took 2 mins to read it.
If people can't be bothered to read my profile, to see if we're a match, they're not for me. So it's a good filter.
This. Some people read mine and it is a conversation starter. Others tell me they can't be arsed. If they can't be arsed to read a profile then I assume they have a lackadaisical attitude to everything else too.
That’s some Profile and the latest vid is very interesting "
Didn't your mother teach you if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like reading profiles, does that make me strange. As long as they’re informative and not constantly ranting about time wasters, and putting up the copyright against the university paragraph.
I do t think mines to long, most people say it’s ok so I guess they read them too.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always read the profiles before reaching out and only write to them when i am someone fit within what they expressed in their interests. I do write detailed message with an emphasis to what they are looking for too. |
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