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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello, I'm looking for advice from those who may have experience this before...
So I am married to my beautiful wife, we are happy, strong, trusting but her approach to sex and pleasure is confusing to me .... it's this.. she says she gets pleasure from making me happy sexually and giving me what I want.. and not from her getting physical pleasure.. so much so that she is happy to do anything to fulfill my fantasies because it would make me happy and that she'd be happy ....I know it sound to good to be true..
Is this such a thing /kink
Others similar?
I'll never abuse the situation but am confused about whether it's correct or not...
We've been together 32 years and she's happy attending clubs and we aren't jealous type..
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I get off on getting the people I care about off.
I'm quite happy to spend a good few hours just sucking dick and making them feel good.
I do also appreciate being allowed the occasional orgasm though  |
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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago
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The modern obsession with labels is getting detrimental, IMO.
Not criticising you OP, only that current culture seems to want classify E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G…..and here you are, seemingly a little stressed over what that classification should be.
If it’s working OK for you both, just crack on and enjoy it.  |
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"Thanks guys, Interesting replies.. so would you happily go with another girl for example because your partner would like it ? "
I'd go with another girl because there was a mutual attraction. I wouldn't use a human I wasn't interested in to get someone else off however much I cared about them. |
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I can appreciate that someone is a people pleaser and gets off on that. But it's important to understand that your partner is like that and you don't abuse their submissive nature for your own gains. |
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