FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Reliable single guys
Reliable single guys
Jump to: Newest in thread
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Reliable single guys are easy to find.
You just have to do the searching rather than asking for applications......
That way you're far more likely to find what you seek. "
This… already out there having a blast.. having fun…
Be the hunters rather than the hunted! ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Reliable single guys are easy to find.
You just have to do the searching rather than asking for applications......
That way you're far more likely to find what you seek. "
So much this ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside "
I thought you never get annoyed. ![](/icons/s/2/idea.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside
I thought you never get annoyed. "
Hi, JoeBeans. Nice to meet you ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Reliable single guys for mmf please.
Their becoming as rare as hens teeth and rocking horse shit
We are here, but due to the swamp of guys on here, we get missed. "
Not really.
There's a simple process that couples and single women could use to reduce the 'swamp'.
All they need to do is an advanced search based on their preferences and then block all the guys they'd never in a million years be interested in.
Hey presto. An instant shortlist and a guarantee that less unsuitable guys will ever contact them.
Doesn't take long at all. And means whenever they search in the future the majority of profiles they see will be far more likely to be what they're seeking. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside "
On the floor? Erm no-ones gonna eat a hot dog off the floor, Joe ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside
On the floor? Erm no-ones gonna eat a hot dog off the floor, Joe "
I've seen worse in the pub on a Saturday ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside
On the floor? Erm no-ones gonna eat a hot dog off the floor, Joe
I've seen worse in the pub on a Saturday "
Really selling it there ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside
I thought you never get annoyed.
Hi, JoeBeans. Nice to meet you "
Fake Jon Bone Jovi, not the real one.
You too.
Nice positive threads and comments from you usually. You and the other guy with the Fab a fella Thursday standing out from guys. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Reliable single guys for mmf please.
Their becoming as rare as hens teeth and rocking horse shit
We are here, but due to the swamp of guys on here, we get missed.
Not really.
There's a simple process that couples and single women could use to reduce the 'swamp'.
All they need to do is an advanced search based on their preferences and then block all the guys they'd never in a million years be interested in.
Hey presto. An instant shortlist and a guarantee that less unsuitable guys will ever contact them.
Doesn't take long at all. And means whenever they search in the future the majority of profiles they see will be far more likely to be what they're seeking. "
It doesn't work... There aren't enough filters and even then you're still met with blank profiles or a sea of dick pics. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside
I thought you never get annoyed.
Hi, JoeBeans. Nice to meet you
Fake Jon Bone Jovi, not the real one.
You too.
Nice positive threads and comments from you usually. You and the other guy with the Fab a fella Thursday standing out from guys."
We've got to stick together gents |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside
On the floor? Erm no-ones gonna eat a hot dog off the floor, Joe "
Meh, 5 second rule ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside
I thought you never get annoyed.
Hi, JoeBeans. Nice to meet you
Fake Jon Bone Jovi, not the real one.
You too.
Nice positive threads and comments from you usually. You and the other guy with the Fab a fella Thursday standing out from guys."
That's very kind of you to say, it was just a tongue in cheek comment but everyone get annoyed by something every so often ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside
I thought you never get annoyed.
Hi, JoeBeans. Nice to meet you
Fake Jon Bone Jovi, not the real one.
You too.
Nice positive threads and comments from you usually. You and the other guy with the Fab a fella Thursday standing out from guys.
We've got to stick together gents"
I try when I'm not invisible.
![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
west midlands |
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside
On the floor? Erm no-ones gonna eat a hot dog off the floor, Joe
Meh, 5 second rule "
I thought it was a 3 second rule? ![](/icons/s/3/detective.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside
On the floor? Erm no-ones gonna eat a hot dog off the floor, Joe
Meh, 5 second rule
I thought it was a 3 second rule? "
That's only if it's got sauce on it ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside
On the floor? Erm no-ones gonna eat a hot dog off the floor, Joe
Meh, 5 second rule "
I'm hoping you're not working in food industry.
![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside
On the floor? Erm no-ones gonna eat a hot dog off the floor, Joe
Meh, 5 second rule
I thought it was a 3 second rule? "
In this economy? ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside
On the floor? Erm no-ones gonna eat a hot dog off the floor, Joe
Meh, 5 second rule
I'm hoping you're not working in food industry.
"
All I'm saying is, I haven't died yet ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
west midlands |
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside
On the floor? Erm no-ones gonna eat a hot dog off the floor, Joe
Meh, 5 second rule
I thought it was a 3 second rule?
That's only if it's got sauce on it "
Ah that'll be it, makes sense! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
west midlands |
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside
On the floor? Erm no-ones gonna eat a hot dog off the floor, Joe
Meh, 5 second rule
I thought it was a 3 second rule?
In this economy? "
Oh I see, it used to be a 3 second rule but now its 5 because of the economy, everyday's a learning day on fab ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's annoying when women and couples say there are no reliable guys and yet ignore me. It's like saying you're starving when there's a hot dog on the floor outside
On the floor? Erm no-ones gonna eat a hot dog off the floor, Joe
Meh, 5 second rule "
![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
How is there a shortage of reliable single guys given the number of guys on here. The laws of probability of that happening is low just based on the volume.
OP you probably need to do some work yourself rather than asking on here.
Go through profiles and read veris and then message the guys. Preferably with substance and not just hi, how are you. ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Reliable single guys for mmf please.
Their becoming as rare as hens teeth and rocking horse shit
We are here, but due to the swamp of guys on here, we get missed.
Not really.
There's a simple process that couples and single women could use to reduce the 'swamp'.
All they need to do is an advanced search based on their preferences and then block all the guys they'd never in a million years be interested in.
Hey presto. An instant shortlist and a guarantee that less unsuitable guys will ever contact them.
Doesn't take long at all. And means whenever they search in the future the majority of profiles they see will be far more likely to be what they're seeking.
It doesn't work... There aren't enough filters and even then you're still met with blank profiles or a sea of dick pics."
Totally agree with this. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Reliable single guys for mmf please.
Their becoming as rare as hens teeth and rocking horse shit
We are here, but due to the swamp of guys on here, we get missed.
Not really.
There's a simple process that couples and single women could use to reduce the 'swamp'.
All they need to do is an advanced search based on their preferences and then block all the guys they'd never in a million years be interested in.
Hey presto. An instant shortlist and a guarantee that less unsuitable guys will ever contact them.
Doesn't take long at all. And means whenever they search in the future the majority of profiles they see will be far more likely to be what they're seeking.
It doesn't work... There aren't enough filters and even then you're still met with blank profiles or a sea of dick pics.
Totally agree with this. "
Depends how vigilant and ruthless you are?
Worked when I was part of a couple. Didn't guarantee you'd find the perfect company but sure as hell reduced the potentials list.
Of course there will always be new profiles cropping up but even if you did it once a month it would definitely reduce the number of possible guys.
And it's certainly more productive than just advertising for a meet and having to sift through people you'd never have any interest in.
It's shortlisting. Simple as that.
And maybe if more couples actually browsed single guys and were more proactive they'd find what they were looking for. Meets are a two way street. There's no point in waiting for 'Mr Right' to find you when you yourselves know what you want. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"
And maybe if more couples actually browsed single guys and were more proactive they'd find what they were looking for. Meets are a two way street. There's no point in waiting for 'Mr Right' to find you when you yourselves know what you want. "
But if more couples and women were actually proactive they'd have to think of what to say to appear interesting, fun and sexy in a first message.
That's hard apparently. More fun to just wait for exactly the right person to happen to message. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Reliable single guys for mmf please.
Their becoming as rare as hens teeth and rocking horse shit
We are here, but due to the swamp of guys on here, we get missed.
Not really.
There's a simple process that couples and single women could use to reduce the 'swamp'.
All they need to do is an advanced search based on their preferences and then block all the guys they'd never in a million years be interested in.
Hey presto. An instant shortlist and a guarantee that less unsuitable guys will ever contact them.
Doesn't take long at all. And means whenever they search in the future the majority of profiles they see will be far more likely to be what they're seeking.
It doesn't work... There aren't enough filters and even then you're still met with blank profiles or a sea of dick pics.
Totally agree with this.
Depends how vigilant and ruthless you are?
Worked when I was part of a couple. Didn't guarantee you'd find the perfect company but sure as hell reduced the potentials list.
Of course there will always be new profiles cropping up but even if you did it once a month it would definitely reduce the number of possible guys.
And it's certainly more productive than just advertising for a meet and having to sift through people you'd never have any interest in.
It's shortlisting. Simple as that.
And maybe if more couples actually browsed single guys and were more proactive they'd find what they were looking for. Meets are a two way street. There's no point in waiting for 'Mr Right' to find you when you yourselves know what you want. "
I do contact guys and couples I’m interested in. I dont agree that others need to make the first move. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Guys get a bad reputation on here for being unreliable, ghosting etc
You know why? Because the majority of guys are unreliable and cannot be counted on.
![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic