"Don't go expecting to get laid. It's not like that.  "
This.
I would recommend going to socials and meet and greets. You will be in a room full of like minded people who are all (usually) pretty chill and friendly. Get to know the people. A lot of the ones we went to were genuinely brilliant. We made lots of connections at socials that led to lots of meets for us.
On the flip side when we went to clubs were were usually single guys there who gave off creepy vibes. Not every single guy. But there were enough that we were often quite reluctant to talk to guys.
I'm not saying that you are creepy or that you won't have fun at a club. But if you go to a club expecting to get laid, you might end up looking creepy.
If I were in your shoes, I would go to some socials, hang out and make connections.
Then if do go to a club you have people you know and you are not creepy, just part of the crew.
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It's great that you've learned from the feedback.  . I'd recommend searching on the clubs that could be possible for your travel options. Evaluate them based on availability for single men, prices, facilities etc. You may find Chams isn't readily available for single men, so other options may fit you.
The Townhouse is another club with a great reputation, for example. It's in Cheshire, so a little further away. We're blessed with some outstanding clubs, so I'd look in the regions where you may consider and then evaluate, based on the criteria that are important to you, as well as your budget etc.
Have fun 
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