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"So, I’m at the point where I am super sceptical of messages from single ladies on here. Time and time again it seems to be men pretending to be women. Any tips to spot them?!" They all start getting evasive when you press for verification | |||
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"So, I’m at the point where I am super sceptical of messages from single ladies on here. Time and time again it seems to be men pretending to be women. Any tips to spot them?!" I often wonder are some mens profiles really women....they're dms are just too 'bitchy' to be men....I do reckon some women are in the guise of men.... | |||
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"So, I’m at the point where I am super sceptical of messages from single ladies on here. Time and time again it seems to be men pretending to be women. Any tips to spot them?!" The initial message may sound genuine but certainly after a couple of messages you can just tell. Same with single men pretending to chat as both on a couples profile. Don't accept friend invites or get into sex chat unless that's what you're into, they soon get bored | |||
"Humph! Fake females! Whatever next?" My feelings too | |||
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"So, I’m at the point where I am super sceptical of messages from single ladies on here. Time and time again it seems to be men pretending to be women. Any tips to spot them?!" Put your filters on maximum. Not many fakes will pass all of those filters. | |||
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"I get fake women message me to chat as friends. I can’t describe it, but you can tell they’re men by how they speak. They don’t talk to me like girls talk to each other " Exactly it! I've read stories in the forum before and the language, phrasing and tone is all different. | |||
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"So, I’m at the point where I am super sceptical of messages from single ladies on here. Time and time again it seems to be men pretending to be women. Any tips to spot them?!" Just meet them and have a bit of a rummage below, if you find the usual meat and two veg, there’s your answer. | |||
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"So, I’m at the point where I am super sceptical of messages from single ladies on here. Time and time again it seems to be men pretending to be women. Any tips to spot them?! I often wonder are some mens profiles really women....they're dms are just too 'bitchy' to be men....I do reckon some women are in the guise of men...." Over the years I've spoken to numerous women who admitted to having more than one profile and one of those was always a single male account. They are used to chat to other women they consider as direct competition. I once half jokingly said in another thread that it was possible some of those no shows that women were experiencing weren't actually men at all and just other high profile women on a male account. I was told it was the stupidest thing ever written on a forum but as time goes by I'm not sure it's beyond the bounds of possibility. | |||
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"If they message more than one word, it's a man." Yup | |||
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"Ironically, your pics are quite indicative of a fake profile.....but do pardon my suggestion x" What about the green flg though? | |||
"I get fake women message me to chat as friends. I can’t describe it, but you can tell they’re men by how they speak. They don’t talk to me like girls talk to each other " | |||
"If they message more than one word, it's a man." | |||
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"What about the photo verification flag? Doesn't that tell you?" Easily faked with ai image apps these days | |||
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"What about the photo verification flag? Doesn't that tell you? Easily faked with ai image apps these days "  | |||
"So, I’m at the point where I am super sceptical of messages from single ladies on here. Time and time again it seems to be men pretending to be women. Any tips to spot them?!" Yeah ask for verification of who they are as generally they will back off /run away when you do And look at the account verifications , photo's etc | |||
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"They mostly come at night Mostly" "Hey, Vasquez - have you ever been mistaken for a man?" "No - have you?" | |||
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"I get fake women message me to chat as friends. I can’t describe it, but you can tell they’re men by how they speak. They don’t talk to me like girls talk to each other " Yes exactly this!! That’s how I always feel. Plus they select 18-99. I don’t think any woman does that it’s a man thing! | |||
"Ironically, your pics are quite indicative of a fake profile.....but do pardon my suggestion x" Mine? Why do you say that? Just curious. I’m definitely not fake and have a few veri’s to prove it haha x | |||
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"The way they speak, I always seem to be able to tell very quickly if they are female or not. Intuition I do not know but I feel that the way men and women on here can be vastly different as we usually have rather different thought processes. Not always but mostly there are signs early on. " I agree. I just get annoyed because I genuinely try and be nice to people on here. And specifically if a single women messages and says she is new I like to be welcoming and have a natter. Some people were so lovely to me when I was a newbie on my own. But I’m at the point where I don’t want to do it anymore as I just feel I waste my time because 9/10 it’s a guy pretending to be a woman | |||
"So, I’m at the point where I am super sceptical of messages from single ladies on here. Time and time again it seems to be men pretending to be women. Any tips to spot them?! I often wonder are some mens profiles really women....they're dms are just too 'bitchy' to be men....I do reckon some women are in the guise of men.... Over the years I've spoken to numerous women who admitted to having more than one profile and one of those was always a single male account. They are used to chat to other women they consider as direct competition. I once half jokingly said in another thread that it was possible some of those no shows that women were experiencing weren't actually men at all and just other high profile women on a male account. I was told it was the stupidest thing ever written on a forum but as time goes by I'm not sure it's beyond the bounds of possibility." . Some DM's too bitchy to be men lol! That definitely is the daftest thing I've read on fab lol. Without any doubt lol. pt | |||
"The way they speak, I always seem to be able to tell very quickly if they are female or not. Intuition I do not know but I feel that the way men and women on here can be vastly different as we usually have rather different thought processes. Not always but mostly there are signs early on. I agree. I just get annoyed because I genuinely try and be nice to people on here. And specifically if a single women messages and says she is new I like to be welcoming and have a natter. Some people were so lovely to me when I was a newbie on my own. But I’m at the point where I don’t want to do it anymore as I just feel I waste my time because 9/10 it’s a guy pretending to be a woman " . You passed over my post completely though... What eventually happens in these interactions? How do you actually *know*? Is it a guess? And what do they want? (Or you think they want) ie what is their motivation... is it about getting more revealing photos or something more? I'm not saying this doesn't happen, I just asked why it does (or you think it does)? Are you saying it's mainly the way they talk, because - although there is something in this as we all know - over the years I've known quite a lot of women who both don't talk at all like 'typical women' are supposed to talk (why should they?) and sometimes even talk a bit like 'typical men' can talk (why not I guess - and some women are brought up around and spend their lives with 'typical men' too). The internet is hard to communicate on too (especially when you don't know someone), so much can be in our imaginations because we miss out on so much vital signalling. We didn't evolve with the net, nor can we ever evolve to get around what it is missing - because we are human animals and it's simply missing too much. pt | |||
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"So, I’m at the point where I am super sceptical of messages from single ladies on here. Time and time again it seems to be men pretending to be women. Any tips to spot them?! I often wonder are some mens profiles really women....they're dms are just too 'bitchy' to be men....I do reckon some women are in the guise of men.... Over the years I've spoken to numerous women who admitted to having more than one profile and one of those was always a single male account. They are used to chat to other women they consider as direct competition. I once half jokingly said in another thread that it was possible some of those no shows that women were experiencing weren't actually men at all and just other high profile women on a male account. I was told it was the stupidest thing ever written on a forum but as time goes by I'm not sure it's beyond the bounds of possibility. . Some DM's too bitchy to be men lol! That definitely is the daftest thing I've read on fab lol. Without any doubt lol. pt" Are you suggesting men can be bitches too?  | |||
"So, I’m at the point where I am super sceptical of messages from single ladies on here. Time and time again it seems to be men pretending to be women. Any tips to spot them?! I often wonder are some mens profiles really women....they're dms are just too 'bitchy' to be men....I do reckon some women are in the guise of men.... Over the years I've spoken to numerous women who admitted to having more than one profile and one of those was always a single male account. They are used to chat to other women they consider as direct competition. I once half jokingly said in another thread that it was possible some of those no shows that women were experiencing weren't actually men at all and just other high profile women on a male account. I was told it was the stupidest thing ever written on a forum but as time goes by I'm not sure it's beyond the bounds of possibility. . Some DM's too bitchy to be men lol! That definitely is the daftest thing I've read on fab lol. Without any doubt lol. pt Are you suggesting men can be bitches too? "Shocking | |||
"So, I’m at the point where I am super sceptical of messages from single ladies on here. Time and time again it seems to be men pretending to be women. Any tips to spot them?! I often wonder are some mens profiles really women....their dms are just too 'bitchy' to be men....I do reckon some women are in the guise of men...." Absolutely this | |||
"So, I’m at the point where I am super sceptical of messages from single ladies on here. Time and time again it seems to be men pretending to be women. Any tips to spot them?! I often wonder are some mens profiles really women....they're dms are just too 'bitchy' to be men....I do reckon some women are in the guise of men.... Over the years I've spoken to numerous women who admitted to having more than one profile and one of those was always a single male account. They are used to chat to other women they consider as direct competition. I once half jokingly said in another thread that it was possible some of those no shows that women were experiencing weren't actually men at all and just other high profile women on a male account. I was told it was the stupidest thing ever written on a forum but as time goes by I'm not sure it's beyond the bounds of possibility. . Some DM's too bitchy to be men lol! That definitely is the daftest thing I've read on fab lol. Without any doubt lol. pt" Yes men can be but the male undertones show through - there’s still a difference | |||
"Full beard and moustache. Mrs TMN x" | |||
"So, I’m at the point where I am super sceptical of messages from single ladies on here. Time and time again it seems to be men pretending to be women. Any tips to spot them?!" Ask them for a phonecall; sorts the women from the men that one | |||
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"Full beard and moustache. Mrs TMN x ". full tits and minge | |||
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"Full beard and moustache. Mrs TMN x" haha | |||
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"So, I’m at the point where I am super sceptical of messages from single ladies on here. Time and time again it seems to be men pretending to be women. Any tips to spot them?!" lots of couples too that are led by guys and i suspect are just guys  | |||
"So, I’m at the point where I am super sceptical of messages from single ladies on here. Time and time again it seems to be men pretending to be women. Any tips to spot them?!lots of couples too that are led by guys and i suspect are just guys "Honestly that really creeps me out some times. So do you like my wife..?  | |||
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"I think you can just tell by the way they Converse." Aye. If they wear Vans, they’re a bloke. | |||
"I think you can just tell by the way they Converse. Aye. If they wear Vans, they’re a bloke." I see what you did there | |||
"I think you can just tell by the way they Converse. Aye. If they wear Vans, they’re a bloke." Like arms through each window feet out the back door kinda thing? They must be huge. | |||
) bloke, lol, I wouldn't know where to start but say you discussed make up, things related to clothing tips etc, surely a man posing as a female would soon make his excuses an do one realising it's getting too deep for him. These are pretty base examples, I dare say the ladies could think of other things.
I know how men chat in a pub etc when girls are out of ears range, surely when ladies go off in twos to powder their noses and whatever they powder, lol, the tone of the discussion is also different to lads chat...
OP. If you got this far, indeed anyone else who might have managed this far, bloody well done! Sorry I went on a bit but I must admit, one thing that is great here...especially compared to the "other place" are the active forums!
God bless, you've been a wonderful audience xx | |||
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"I once whent to meet a lady in hartlepool off my old profile few years ago she was down as single , pictures were exchanged over a few month and asked me to go up to visit.... When i got there at the door of the house a bloke answered and before i said anything he said "shes out and not back tonight" but said im happy for you to stay over, knew my name ect so he had clearly been massaging me, as it turns out the bloke was posting pictures of his wife.... Safe to say i declined and went on the 80 mile trip back home.... What did i learn .... facetime.... and live pictures from now on " . So over a few months you had no idea he was a bloke? Apparently women can tell in a few messages. This is all so confusing. pt | |||
"I've returned to Fab after some years away as life got hectic, some here will know, once you get near the 50's mark you seem to get confronted with your parents and even the odd close friend passing...you used to get invited to weddings and it turns to funerals...meanwhile you are possibly at the peak of your career....etc, etc etc. Yeah, life becomes real in terms of matters becoming more serious than in your 20's, 30's. I guess having never married and missed having kids I cannot even appreciate the things that add pressure as kids grow older and, and, and. .. Anyway, I digress. My point is life is one hell of a journey at times and oddly enough, if you can only be bothered you will soon become aware that there is so much going on in the lives of people who you encounter daily and seem "just fine" when they really are only just hanging on. I was and still am on SH as I know some of you are, the thought of rejoining Fab was in an effort to counter balance the things that annoyed me there and in order to try out an alternative site presentation with its diverse functions. One thing is for sure. This fakery lark is prevalent everywhere, I believe Fab or even the local car enthusiasts club is just another micro osm of life and has all the varying shades of character. The diversity of folk so attracts me but why, why oh why not be yourself? Surely when the masks fall all will become apparent a yway! Oh, and to answer the question: I firmly believe the tone of the communication alone gives away so much, even before the excuses and evasive behaviour become clear proof of what is essentially foul play. I refer to detecting fakes or as here males posing as girls. WHY oh why!!! Talk amongst girls and lads is often very different and as a female I wouldn't be shy of laying a few "traps". As a (fake! ) bloke, lol, I wouldn't know where to start but say you discussed make up, things related to clothing tips etc, surely a man posing as a female would soon make his excuses an do one realising it's getting too deep for him. These are pretty base examples, I dare say the ladies could think of other things.
I know how men chat in a pub etc when girls are out of ears range, surely when ladies go off in twos to powder their noses and whatever they powder, lol, the tone of the discussion is also different to lads chat...
OP. If you got this far, indeed anyone else who might have managed this far, bloody well done! Sorry I went on a bit but I must admit, one thing that is great here...especially compared to the "other place" are the active forums!
God bless, you've been a wonderful audience xx"enjoyed reading this  | |||
"I know how men chat in a pub etc when girls are out of ears range, surely when ladies go off in twos to powder their noses and whatever they powder, lol, the tone of the discussion is also different to lads chat..." . Do you really mean the 'tone' here though, or perhaps the topic? I often hear public groups of men and women (school mums often) chat to themselves and each other where I work (often they are simply in mixed groups of course), and I love the fact that these days you often see no difference between the two too 'groups' when together or individually. I always found this one a little over-played anyway. I first notice how laddish (and funny) girls could be in the late 80's, years before the utterly dumb pull-back of supposedly-ironic laddism and their 'laddettes'. A lot of assumed differences are not a social fact at all. I admit that I've always preferred mixed company to not as it's often less laddish, but this talk of individual differences are still way too much of a generalisation to me. And the level of pure-laddishness today is SO MUCH less than it was, despite the 'anti-woke' push-back we are seeing around us (which is ultimately all about the so-called 'freedom' to say whatever you want without the annoying censure of course). The lads/ladies thing is very stark to me, and I've never been comfortable with it tbh. It's not everywhere you go. Even the younger Muslim women near me (perhaps especially them) just talk like everyone else. I'll talk to everyone and I love that. Sure, there are certain conversational topics that will be very different between the sexes of course, but how does that relate to being able to easily spot a man from a woman on Fab? You'd need quite a lot of conversation for that to factor imo, which is why I asked the question of the OP that I did. pt | |||
"The way they speak, I always seem to be able to tell very quickly if they are female or not. Intuition I do not know but I feel that the way men and women on here can be vastly different as we usually have rather different thought processes. Not always but mostly there are signs early on. I agree. I just get annoyed because I genuinely try and be nice to people on here. And specifically if a single women messages and says she is new I like to be welcoming and have a natter. Some people were so lovely to me when I was a newbie on my own. But I’m at the point where I don’t want to do it anymore as I just feel I waste my time because 9/10 it’s a guy pretending to be a woman . You passed over my post completely though... What eventually happens in these interactions? How do you actually *know*? Is it a guess? And what do they want? (Or you think they want) ie what is their motivation... is it about getting more revealing photos or something more? I'm not saying this doesn't happen, I just asked why it does (or you think it does)? Are you saying it's mainly the way they talk, because - although there is something in this as we all know - over the years I've known quite a lot of women who both don't talk at all like 'typical women' are supposed to talk (why should they?) and sometimes even talk a bit like 'typical men' can talk (why not I guess - and some women are brought up around and spend their lives with 'typical men' too). The internet is hard to communicate on too (especially when you don't know someone), so much can be in our imaginations because we miss out on so much vital signalling. We didn't evolve with the net, nor can we ever evolve to get around what it is missing - because we are human animals and it's simply missing too much. pt" Sorry didn’t mean to skip over your post. It’s just that I don’t know! Genuinely don’t! No idea why a guy would pretend to be a woman - so someone replies to him? because he is hoping to get pics? because he gets a kick out of lying? because it’s like a text version of watching 2 girls get it on? I have no idea. All I know is it definitely happens on here. New single female profiles saying hi, I’m new, asking for help - and then something just making your spider sense tingle, but can’t always put a finger on it. Agree with others the choice of pics are often ‘wrong’ in some subconscious way. The style of text just isn’t ‘quite right’. Usually I feel I can tell but a month or two ago I genuinely felt it was a women and over a week or two we did get quite flirty. It was only in the throes of a lovely exchange that ‘she’ said something about a certain act that made me think it’s a guy, a girl wouldn’t explain it that way. Now I’m just far more sceptical | |||
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