I think there's a difference between trying swinging to fix or spice up a relationship which is struggling or finding that opening up your relationship to swinging naturally enhances it.

Mrs TMN x

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By *iddle ManMan over a year ago

Walsall

It can work both ways, those that are happy and embrace the whole world of possibilities, no doubt it can make a relationship stronger.

Then there are those that you sense are only there for their partner, it's written all over their face and actions. I'm sure we've all come across them.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

It did, then it didn't.

Life throws curveballs occasionally. But it was great while it lasted and I wouldn't change the time we had.

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By *ansoffateMan over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Yeah. The exploring each others fantasies brought us even closer together.

The whole compersion thing.

A few little wobbles along the way, but that stuff became more of an amusement to us in the end.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Enhance your relationship or not?

Nope it just added a string to our bow sex wise. If you try swinging to enhance your relationship this lifestyle could rip it apart.

I think there's a difference between trying swinging to fix or spice up a relationship which is struggling or finding that opening up your relationship to swinging naturally enhances it.

Mrs TMN x"

Yes exactly it does enhance it. It brought us closer which we though as we were that close it would be impossible.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want to say yes but also no at the same time.

We're a solid unit and nothing could make us love each other more. But knowing that we trust each other to be in this little chapter in our lives and that we're happy and eager to meet others it makes us (well, me) feel 'more' of a solid unit.

I don't think I can express properly.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

I wouldn't say "enhance". Just adds something different

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By *JandCMCouple over a year ago

cardiff

Been together over 30 years n only been swinging about 18 months n I do feel it has brought us closer together

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Enhance your relationship or not? "

For me, R, it allows us that chance to immerse ourselves in and make time for each other. The flirting, the getting ready, the anticipation, the time actually for ‘us’ away from the stresses of life, family and work.

It lets us be ‘wee’ again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you already have a strong foundation then yes. If your relationship is lacking in something then no.

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By *irty-pairCouple over a year ago

South Essex

It’s definitely enhanced ours, but we’ve always had a great relationship. It’s certainly deepened our trust xx

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By *ink vixenCouple over a year ago

Medway

Our relationship is very strong and if you’re considering swinging then I would suggest that it needs to be.

Swinging has definitely enhanced our sex life and our social life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's definatley added the x factor to ours. We love everything about our life together but we are all about new experiences. Every time we play with others it's exactly that, a new and exciting experience. Would definatley not recommend it as a way of patching an already fragile relationship though.

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By *helroyCouple over a year ago

Skegness

it as yours in lots of ways

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

I wouldn't say enhance, it's definitely opened up our communication a lot more which is great, we just enjoy the different dynamic of having others join us.

Mrs

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple over a year ago

Thurrock

We’ve always had an open relationship but exploring things together has brought more enjoyment and better communication to our relationship. The reconnect sex when you get back home after a meeting is always very intense aswell

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By *ussraneCouple over a year ago

Romford

We have a strong relationship and Swinging has enhanced our relationship as it has opened up better communication between us which in turn has made us both more aware of each others desires.

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By *ischiefManaged69Couple over a year ago

Preston

"Enhance your relationship or not? "

Depends on the couple I'd think.

If you trust each other and want each other to have a great time, it helps!

I've seen lots of dynamics that work and lots that don't. The common thread is the couples with trust and good Comms seem to be having the most fun!

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By *randMrsLPCouple over a year ago

london

it can b stressful but always after a meet we have a really good fuck, best since last meet

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By *allen Angels CplCouple over a year ago

North East leicestershire

It adds a new dimension to our sex life's, we enjoy it but can be selective and we dont crave it if it's not working out at the time!

If you have a solid trusting relationship it can work, if you do it in the hope it fixes your relationship it's likely to end in tears. X

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple over a year ago

Ryde

It just gives more variety, and allows 'Er Indoors to get the Rolls Royce of cock.

So, yes - it enhances and already solid relationship. If there were cracks, we wouldn't do it.

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By *ebanbetsyCouple over a year ago

merseyside

Yes we’ve been together for 26 years and been swinging now for 13 months

And it has made us closer for sure we’re best mates aswell as husband and wife but it’s thee excitement off the build up to it we only venture to clubs

But we want a more personal meet soon for sure

So yes it’s great in a solid relationship I think xx

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple over a year ago

near you...

"Enhance your relationship or not? "

Yes. But it's very much like a sewer: what you put out of it depends on what (and how much) you put into it.

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By *ools and the brainCouple over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

We've always viewed swinging as a dessert after a great meal.

Our relationship is the main course swinging is a nice sweet treat that we occasionally have.

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By *am and johnCouple over a year ago

york

It's been an absolute delight for us. After all, that's why we're on fab!

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