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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Mines about 3 maybe 4 inches at best, is that a usable size? It's knocked my confidence because a lot of women just laugh at it and say it's useless being that small |
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Im sorry you are being teased about it but for me, it wouldn't work. Some women prefer non penetrative sex so for them there is ax lot you can do. So if you are good with your fingers and tongue you should be able to please a woman greatly. Maybe those women thought you were into sph? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Im sorry you are being teased about it but for me, it wouldn't work. Some women prefer non penetrative sex so for them there is ax lot you can do. So if you are good with your fingers and tongue you should be able to please a woman greatly. Maybe those women thought you were into sph?"
I'm not sure if they thought that tbh a few times they just got dressed and said this isn't going to work and left |
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I think you need to remember that what people look for on here is often the sum of a number of components (many of them character traits) than just one factor. There's plenty of men out there with the same size living perfectly fine sex lives. So try not to worry about your penis size and concentrate on all the other aspects of a person people look for. |
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"I think you need to remember that what people look for on here is often the sum of a number of components (many of them character traits) than just one factor. There's plenty of men out there with the same size living perfectly fine sex lives. So try not to worry about your penis size and concentrate on all the other aspects of a person people look for. "
Thanks for the advice, I'll try that |
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Honestly I couldn't give a flying frig about someones penis size.
Ok some here will look for specifics including penis size but I honestly wouldn't worry about it.
There are people around who look for other things and not soley physical attributes.
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If everyone allowed their insecurities about themselves to define who we are the world would a sorry state. Don’t focus on the one or two negative bits of feedback you’ve had. Focus on what’s great about yourself. |
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over a year ago
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"Yrs size matters to some and some it doesn’t. Be upfront about it in prior convos to ascertain compatibility function "
You mean tell them before that it's small and just go from there? |
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"If everyone allowed their insecurities about themselves to define who we are the world would a sorry state. Don’t focus on the one or two negative bits of feedback you’ve had. Focus on what’s great about yourself."
Thanks for that |
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"Honestly I couldn't give a flying frig about someones penis size.
Ok some here will look for specifics including penis size but I honestly wouldn't worry about it.
There are people around who look for other things and not soley physical attributes.
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It just seems like I've come across all the ones that want the bigger sizes then haha |
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"Yrs size matters to some and some it doesn’t. Be upfront about it in prior convos to ascertain compatibility function
You mean tell them before that it's small and just go from there?"
Well yes I would imagine conversations are going to be had prior to meeting lol so usually people will discuss a few basic things of likes dislikes / limits |
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You've taken ownership of this and you revel in discussions about it.
Even your username blasts the fact out loud. I don't think that spells someone who is unhappy, anxious, on the contrary you're quite eager we all give an opinion.
There's someone for everyone, that's as much as I know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly I couldn't give a flying frig about someones penis size.
Ok some here will look for specifics including penis size but I honestly wouldn't worry about it.
There are people around who look for other things and not soley physical attributes.
It just seems like I've come across all the ones that want the bigger sizes then haha "
Your name and profile pic give it away so not sure how this happened unless you talking about women not on here. |
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I prefer small/average it's not an issue to some.
Maybe take a look at who you are approaching.
You say chat is fine until you get it out, are you randomly sticking your cock in people's inbox without being asked for it? In which case that could be the issue not your actual cock.
Any unsolicited cocks in the box don't get a nice response from me regardless of size.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If women have done that then they are shitty people. Invest in people who make you feel comfortable, not insecure.. the right people won't focus on cock size. |
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