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By *TG3 OP Man over a year ago

Dorchester

Sex or do you need to keep it going? Well do you?

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By *aiseiMan over a year ago

Birmingham

Bloody good job I don’t need it, it’s in scarce supply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bloody good job I don’t need it, it’s in scarce supply

Tell me about it!

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

I've never needed it at any stage. I like it but don't need it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Seriously I haven't been that fussed since the last person I was seeing. I think I got a bit too burnt and I'm now bloody cautious, too scared and darent as I don't want any more pain.

I think I'm spent on the pain part.

And I don't want to hurt anyone at all.

And that's what I've done, I now feel like I shouldn't go anywhere near anyone, and I dont want to feel anymore shit than I do already.

I just don't trust anyone anymore.

I really thought there would be like minded people that wanted uncomplicated and nothing majorly serious but fuck me how wrong was I?!?!?!!!

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"Seriously I haven't been that fussed since the last person I was seeing. I think I got a bit too burnt and I'm now bloody cautious, too scared and darent as I don't want any more pain.

I think I'm spent on the pain part.

And I don't want to hurt anyone at all.

And that's what I've done, I now feel like I shouldn't go anywhere near anyone, and I dont want to feel anymore shit than I do already.

I just don't trust anyone anymore.

I really thought there would be like minded people that wanted uncomplicated and nothing majorly serious but fuck me how wrong was I?!?!?!!!"

I think you need a brucey hug..or shag. I don't have a soul so that will help you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've taken an 18month break, before that over 2 years.

I can take it or leave it.

Though I seem better at leaving it lately.

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By *aiseiMan over a year ago

Birmingham

"Seriously I haven't been that fussed since the last person I was seeing. I think I got a bit too burnt and I'm now bloody cautious, too scared and darent as I don't want any more pain.

I think I'm spent on the pain part.

And I don't want to hurt anyone at all.

And that's what I've done, I now feel like I shouldn't go anywhere near anyone, and I dont want to feel anymore shit than I do already.

I just don't trust anyone anymore.

I really thought there would be like minded people that wanted uncomplicated and nothing majorly serious but fuck me how wrong was I?!?!?!!!"

Sorry to hear your experiences haven’t all been pleasant. x

I think there are plenty of people who want uncomplicated, it’s just so bloody complicated finding simplicity!

But in lieu of that, let’s commiserate our respective unrequested dry spells in unison…..

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I can do without. I have done without. I'd rather not.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Seriously I haven't been that fussed since the last person I was seeing. I think I got a bit too burnt and I'm now bloody cautious, too scared and darent as I don't want any more pain.

I think I'm spent on the pain part.

And I don't want to hurt anyone at all.

And that's what I've done, I now feel like I shouldn't go anywhere near anyone, and I dont want to feel anymore shit than I do already.

I just don't trust anyone anymore.

I really thought there would be like minded people that wanted uncomplicated and nothing majorly serious but fuck me how wrong was I?!?!?!!!"

I don't know you but the bits I've seen of you dont seem to suggest you are an unkind person or out to hurt anyone.

Sometimes it happens in life and no matter how you try, someone gets hurt.

I hope you find peace from these feelings soon

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can easily take a break (which I currently am)

I don’t need sex and I’ve gone years without it.

If someone comes along and we click really well then woohoo, I’ll hop on but I’m doing fine without at the moment.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Seriously I haven't been that fussed since the last person I was seeing. I think I got a bit too burnt and I'm now bloody cautious, too scared and darent as I don't want any more pain.

I think I'm spent on the pain part.

And I don't want to hurt anyone at all.

And that's what I've done, I now feel like I shouldn't go anywhere near anyone, and I dont want to feel anymore shit than I do already.

I just don't trust anyone anymore.

I really thought there would be like minded people that wanted uncomplicated and nothing majorly serious but fuck me how wrong was I?!?!?!!!"

Innit... But that's not your fault, you set your boundaries, very clearly it seems. You can't help other people's agendas.

And you know what "they're not all the same"

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By *ansoffateMan over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I can go without a long time and feel no ways about it.

When suitably inspired it's an entirely different matter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sex to me is just a job that I must perform in order to get cuddles and kisses so I could live my entire life without it and be the happiest man.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

Easily.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On a break since lockdown.

I am now not meeting for the forseeable.

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By *aissez-faireMan over a year ago

Right behind you…. Boo

I go through phases. A lot of it has to do with my diet, sleep and exercise patterns. The healthier I am the more you see me on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I’m not get any I can get very used to it and be quite content. If I’m getting it it’s like flicking a switch and I’m horny all the time!

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By *mf123Man over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Its called my retirement my penis hates me so much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sex or do you need to keep it going? Well do you?

I had a reaaaaaalllly long dry spell, then I didn't. So I was really quite horny. Then I became satisfied with my lot and when I had it, I had it. When I didn't, I didn't. Then over this summer my body went through changes and I was very horny, then it went through changes again and I felt yukky. Now my body is still trying to find an even keel. When I'm with someone and I know it's on the cards then I AM horny, when it isn't I survive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont think any of us need it do we. It's not quite water or air. I'm fine. FINE I tell ya.

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

It’s been 18 months and I still appear to be surviving.. comfortably

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I can take a break from it if needed; the longest has been a couple of months? I spent a long time repressing my sexuality and whilst I don't need it, I choose to enjoy it and not be without it.

Sex is important to me. I'm not a swinger, whatever the definition for one of those is, but I do love the rush from great sex. Exploring and learning another's body. The chance to let go and embrace my little kinks, laugh and worship another or just enjoy the sheer eroticism of a good hard fuck.

Okay, so I don't think more than a few months without sex would be for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I could but I don’t want to.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS over a year ago

chichester

Much more other enjoyful things than sex out there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can take it or leave it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can take it of leave it, I won't have sex with people I am not attracted to or have some chemistry with. I would rather watch Netflix and have a glass of wine.

Too many people on here think I will have sex just because I reply to their anonymous pics or comments when they make no effoort with their profile or pics, yet it is the quality of mine that gets their attention. Sure I could go to a club, but I prfer not to perform in front of a crowd especially when getting to know people.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t like taking a break from it. I’d do it every day but if there’s nobody I want to have sex with then it doesn’t happen so yeah there’s breaks. I don’t have sex for the sake of it

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I read the OP as meaning a break in the middle of sex... and the answer to that for me would be yes, sometimes a break is good, it doesn't have to go all the way from foreplay to a messy heap of quivering limbs in one go.

But also, a break from sex entirely is fine.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple over a year ago

Southampton

"Seriously I haven't been that fussed since the last person I was seeing. I think I got a bit too burnt and I'm now bloody cautious, too scared and darent as I don't want any more pain.

I think I'm spent on the pain part.

And I don't want to hurt anyone at all.

And that's what I've done, I now feel like I shouldn't go anywhere near anyone, and I dont want to feel anymore shit than I do already.

I just don't trust anyone anymore.

I really thought there would be like minded people that wanted uncomplicated and nothing majorly serious but fuck me how wrong was I?!?!?!!!"

This sounds familiar... sending hugs x

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I read the OP as meaning a break in the middle of sex... and the answer to that for me would be yes, sometimes a break is good, it doesn't have to go all the way from foreplay to a messy heap of quivering limbs in one go.

But also, a break from sex entirely is fine."

Oh! I always get it wrong

. I rarely read the comments, just the op that’s probably why

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Seriously I haven't been that fussed since the last person I was seeing. I think I got a bit too burnt and I'm now bloody cautious, too scared and darent as I don't want any more pain.

I think I'm spent on the pain part.

And I don't want to hurt anyone at all.

And that's what I've done, I now feel like I shouldn't go anywhere near anyone, and I dont want to feel anymore shit than I do already.

I just don't trust anyone anymore.

I really thought there would be like minded people that wanted uncomplicated and nothing majorly serious but fuck me how wrong was I?!?!?!!!"

Yep. The sex karma catches up with you and it’s a real fucker to deal with

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By *enrietteandSamCouple over a year ago

Staffordshire

This last hour’s been tough but I’m coping.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple over a year ago