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I ask this out of genuine curiosity and do not wish to spark a whole argument about it but...
There's a fair few profiles, both individuals and couples, that specify "no bi men". And that's fair enough, you do you etc., but I am curious to understand why.
So what's that about fab? |
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over a year ago
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Dose it matter everyone has they preferences just see it as a easy compatibility issue and move on
No wasted time no need to asks my
Thats there preference on to the next |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"People can be specifically not attracted to whatever they aren't attracted to.
Whatever the reasons are, it's easier to have it out there than waste time."
Better being honest...way to many liars...totally agree... Makes life less complicated  |
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"Dose it matter everyone has they preferences just see it as a easy compatibility issue and move on
No wasted time no need to asks my
Thats there preference on to the next "
Doesn't matter a teeny tiny bit and you're dead right it's an easy swipe left when I see it. Like I said I'm just curious and want to increase my understanding of the peopleyness of people. |
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over a year ago
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I don’t mind personally, but would expect a bi guy to be on prep as well as playing safe and the abuse I used to get when I said if not on prep I won’t play. Safety first and all that |
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"I don’t mind personally, but would expect a bi guy to be on prep as well as playing safe and the abuse I used to get when I said if not on prep I won’t play. Safety first and all that"
That's a fair point tbh. Thanks! |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"I don’t mind personally, but would expect a bi guy to be on prep as well as playing safe and the abuse I used to get when I said if not on prep I won’t play. Safety first and all that"
You swim in the wrong lanes i hope |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"I don’t mind personally, but would expect a bi guy to be on prep as well as playing safe and the abuse I used to get when I said if not on prep I won’t play. Safety first and all that
That's a fair point tbh. Thanks!"
And not a verification on your profile... Plenty of 'straight' here have veris from males so good for you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dose it matter everyone has they preferences just see it as a easy compatibility issue and move on
No wasted time no need to asks my
Thats there preference on to the next
Doesn't matter a teeny tiny bit and you're dead right it's an easy swipe left when I see it. Like I said I'm just curious and want to increase my understanding of the peopleyness of people. "
Just best left unexplained |
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"I don’t mind personally, but would expect a bi guy to be on prep as well as playing safe and the abuse I used to get when I said if not on prep I won’t play. Safety first and all that
That's a fair point tbh. Thanks!
And not a verification on your profile... Plenty of 'straight' here have veris from males so good for you "
I'm not sure I understand your point lol |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"I don’t mind personally, but would expect a bi guy to be on prep as well as playing safe and the abuse I used to get when I said if not on prep I won’t play. Safety first and all that
That's a fair point tbh. Thanks!
And not a verification on your profile... Plenty of 'straight' here have veris from males so good for you
I'm not sure I understand your point lol "
Get a verification lol |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"I don’t mind personally, but would expect a bi guy to be on prep as well as playing safe and the abuse I used to get when I said if not on prep I won’t play. Safety first and all that
That's a fair point tbh. Thanks!
And not a verification on your profile... Plenty of 'straight' here have veris from males so good for you
I'm not sure I understand your point lol
Get a verification lol"
Then you might understand this site i think... Best of luck my friend |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"We're in that catagory and It's called sexual preferences. Pretty much the same as we won't have sex with anyone older/younger than what we're comfortable with, eaxh to their own  "
Totally agree |
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"I don’t mind personally, but would expect a bi guy to be on prep as well as playing safe and the abuse I used to get when I said if not on prep I won’t play. Safety first and all that
That's a fair point tbh. Thanks!
And not a verification on your profile... Plenty of 'straight' here have veris from males so good for you
I'm not sure I understand your point lol
Get a verification lol"
Ohhhhhhhh okay yes now that makes sense. I'd love a verification cause it would mean I've had a meet through this site. Alas I am yet to pop that particular cherry.
Turns out it's easier to achieve that on fab guys. Who knew men were easy huh?  |
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"I don’t mind personally, but would expect a bi guy to be on prep as well as playing safe and the abuse I used to get when I said if not on prep I won’t play. Safety first and all that
That's a fair point tbh. Thanks!
And not a verification on your profile... Plenty of 'straight' here have veris from males so good for you
I'm not sure I understand your point lol
Get a verification lol"
He’s only been here 6 weeks and does state he’s verified in the Fabguys, sure it’s not for the lack of trying for a meet. Don’t let Karl’s bad mood put you off and best of luck getting verified. Fab like any other online platform if about finding chemistry and honestly if people don’t want to play bi then move on, best of luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The answer may be in who you are looking for a MF couple may not want a bi guy as the man might feel uncomfortable with potentially a guy trying to make advances and the woman may also feel the same way
And if it’s a single female some people can find a bi man less masculine and more on the feminine side (key word being some) and some women want that real masculine man energy it’s each to there own really pal not a bad question to ask tho could spark good conversation |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"Because we don't want to be with bi men. Our choice. What is so difficult to understand about that? I'm genuinely asking. We have a choice. It isn't difficult to comprehend!"
Simple i think ...can't be more clear |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"I don’t mind personally, but would expect a bi guy to be on prep as well as playing safe and the abuse I used to get when I said if not on prep I won’t play. Safety first and all that
That's a fair point tbh. Thanks!
And not a verification on your profile... Plenty of 'straight' here have veris from males so good for you
I'm not sure I understand your point lol
Get a verification lol
He’s only been here 6 weeks and does state he’s verified in the Fabguys, sure it’s not for the lack of trying for a meet. Don’t let Karl’s bad mood put you off and best of luck getting verified. Fab like any other online platform if about finding chemistry and honestly if people don’t want to play bi then move on, best of luck"
Agree., bad mood? Really? |
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"Because we don't want to be with bi men. Our choice. What is so difficult to understand about that? I'm genuinely asking. We have a choice. It isn't difficult to comprehend!"
Thanks for your reply. I don't think I said I had difficulty understanding that it's a valid choice that people might make. I guess I'm just curious about what drives people to make the choices they do. If people want to share their reasons for making that choice that's awesome. If not that's great too. |
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"The answer may be in who you are looking for a MF couple may not want a bi guy as the man might feel uncomfortable with potentially a guy trying to make advances and the woman may also feel the same way
And if it’s a single female some people can find a bi man less masculine and more on the feminine side (key word being some) and some women want that real masculine man energy it’s each to there own really pal not a bad question to ask tho could spark good conversation "
Yeah that makes sense, good call. Thanks! |
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"Just a preference
Some folk will engage begin both straight some won't even if the lady was bi curious or bi
Unexplained myths maybe William shatner can explain "
See now I'm picturing Jonathan Frakes saying "have you ever registered with a swinging site?" |
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"The answer may be in who you are looking for a MF couple may not want a bi guy as the man might feel uncomfortable with potentially a guy trying to make advances and the woman may also feel the same way
And if it’s a single female some people can find a bi man less masculine and more on the feminine side (key word being some) and some women want that real masculine man energy it’s each to there own really pal not a bad question to ask tho could spark good conversation
Yeah that makes sense, good call. Thanks! "
No problem bro always try look for someone who would like you for you no point in trying to convince someone who just wouldn’t be interested easier said than done but just gotta play the game |
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"I ask this out of genuine curiosity and do not wish to spark a whole argument about it but...
There's a fair few profiles, both individuals and couples, that specify "no bi men". And that's fair enough, you do you etc., but I am curious to understand why.
So what's that about fab? "
Guessing it’s just not for them. We all have different tastes and preferences. There a fare few other pages on the topic though that might be good for you to check out as the accumulated feedback and debates will give you a far wider spectrum of views from different view points so you have a better insight to the reason “why that?” |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"Because we don't want to be with bi men. Our choice. What is so difficult to understand about that? I'm genuinely asking. We have a choice. It isn't difficult to comprehend!
Thanks for your reply. I don't think I said I had difficulty understanding that it's a valid choice that people might make. I guess I'm just curious about what drives people to make the choices they do. If people want to share their reasons for making that choice that's awesome. If not that's great too. "
Because its their choice... Simple...your "difficulty' is on you.... Simples |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"Just a preference
Some folk will engage begin both straight some won't even if the lady was bi curious or bi
Unexplained myths maybe William shatner can explain
See now I'm picturing Jonathan Frakes saying "have you ever registered with a swinging site?" "
But theirs plenty of couple's whom are bi or bi curious and wouldn't meet people whom are straight it's balanced |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"Because we don't want to be with bi men. Our choice. What is so difficult to understand about that? I'm genuinely asking. We have a choice. It isn't difficult to comprehend!
Thanks for your reply. I don't think I said I had difficulty understanding that it's a valid choice that people might make. I guess I'm just curious about what drives people to make the choices they do. If people want to share their reasons for making that choice that's awesome. If not that's great too.
Because its their choice... Simple...your "difficulty' is on you.... Simples"
There's a fair few profiles, both individuals and couples, that specify "no bi men". And that's fair enough, you do you etc., but I am curious to understand why.
Your original ?
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"Because we don't want to be with bi men. Our choice. What is so difficult to understand about that? I'm genuinely asking. We have a choice. It isn't difficult to comprehend!
Thanks for your reply. I don't think I said I had difficulty understanding that it's a valid choice that people might make. I guess I'm just curious about what drives people to make the choices they do. If people want to share their reasons for making that choice that's awesome. If not that's great too.
Because its their choice... Simple...your "difficulty' is on you.... Simples
There's a fair few profiles, both individuals and couples, that specify "no bi men". And that's fair enough, you do you etc., but I am curious to understand why.
Your original ?
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Yes it is lol what's your point? |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"Because we don't want to be with bi men. Our choice. What is so difficult to understand about that? I'm genuinely asking. We have a choice. It isn't difficult to comprehend!
Thanks for your reply. I don't think I said I had difficulty understanding that it's a valid choice that people might make. I guess I'm just curious about what drives people to make the choices they do. If people want to share their reasons for making that choice that's awesome. If not that's great too.
Because its their choice... Simple...your "difficulty' is on you.... Simples
There's a fair few profiles, both individuals and couples, that specify "no bi men". And that's fair enough, you do you etc., but I am curious to understand why.
Your original ?
Yes it is lol what's your point?"
Exactly... What's your point?
You started this thread? |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"Because we don't want to be with bi men. Our choice. What is so difficult to understand about that? I'm genuinely asking. We have a choice. It isn't difficult to comprehend!
Thanks for your reply. I don't think I said I had difficulty understanding that it's a valid choice that people might make. I guess I'm just curious about what drives people to make the choices they do. If people want to share their reasons for making that choice that's awesome. If not that's great too.
Because its their choice... Simple...your "difficulty' is on you.... Simples
There's a fair few profiles, both individuals and couples, that specify "no bi men". And that's fair enough, you do you etc., but I am curious to understand why.
Your original ?
Yes it is lol what's your point?
Exactly... What's your point?
You started this thread?"
The answer has been posted a few times now |
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"Because we don't want to be with bi men. Our choice. What is so difficult to understand about that? I'm genuinely asking. We have a choice. It isn't difficult to comprehend!
Thanks for your reply. I don't think I said I had difficulty understanding that it's a valid choice that people might make. I guess I'm just curious about what drives people to make the choices they do. If people want to share their reasons for making that choice that's awesome. If not that's great too.
Because its their choice... Simple...your "difficulty' is on you.... Simples
There's a fair few profiles, both individuals and couples, that specify "no bi men". And that's fair enough, you do you etc., but I am curious to understand why.
Your original ?
Yes it is lol what's your point?
Exactly... What's your point?
You started this thread?"
You are a very confusing man haha, cause I think my point is pretty clear:
People are making a valid choice when deciding that they don't want to interact with bi men and I respect that. But in the spirit of intellectual curiosity and trying to better understand the people here I am interested to hear from anyone that wants to share their reason for making that choice. Im not going to debate them about it if they choose to share. And if people choose not to share their reasoning then that's cool. I just like trying to understand people and this seemed like a good way to, yanno, understand people.
Perhaps I should have used that as my op but honestly it's a lot of words and sounds a bit crap. |
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"I’m not really interested in why.
I give my energy to those who include me, and ignore those that exclude me.
Fab is a piece of piss really. "
Exactly this. For some the reason will be pure preference, for others it will be based on our-dated attitudes and prejudices, but the end result is the same, so there's not a huge amount of point in agonising why, OP. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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"I’m not really interested in why.
I give my energy to those who include me, and ignore those that exclude me.
Fab is a piece of piss really.
Exactly this. For some the reason will be pure preference, for others it will be based on our-dated attitudes and prejudices, but the end result is the same, so there's not a huge amount of point in agonising why, OP."
Simples i think
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions "
In fairness out of all the bi people I've met it's the penis wielders that are more...carefree, so miss mimi makes a fair point lol |
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions "
Who’s gonna tell him?…. |
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions "
Well they wouldn't have to wear protection... I'm not a bi woman, so I can't answer that. And I don't know about statistics with it comes to bi/gay women. I guess it's harder to catch/spread infections though? |
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
Who’s gonna tell him?…."
tell me that women can't possibly exchange bodily fluids during sex go on Tell me |
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
In fairness out of all the bi people I've met it's the penis wielders that are more...carefree, so miss mimi makes a fair point lol "
So in this thread you've asked why people don't meet bi men and then perpetuated a stereotype that is probably one of the reasons why. The world comes at you fast on Fab. |
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
Who’s gonna tell him?…. tell me that women can't possibly exchange bodily fluids during sex go on Tell me "
The risk is actually higher with bi female and lesbians, therefore more precautions are taken, ie as stated above I expect PreP, condoms and testing at least every 6 months |
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
Who’s gonna tell him?…. tell me that women can't possibly exchange bodily fluids during sex go on Tell me
The risk is actually higher with bi female and lesbians, therefore more precautions are taken, ie as stated above I expect PreP, condoms and testing at least every 6 months"
so what's your point in saying who's going to tell him. You basically tried to ridicule me and then agreed with me. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
Who’s gonna tell him?…. tell me that women can't possibly exchange bodily fluids during sex go on Tell me
The risk is actually higher with bi female and lesbians, therefore more precautions are taken, ie as stated above I expect PreP, condoms and testing at least every 6 months"
Feels like a professor is being thought by kindergarten tonight ....
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I've heard people express that they feel bi men are likely to be more unsafe than straight men so it's a concern for hygiene.
I've heard alot of straight men air concerns that a bi male might come onto them (even when playing straight) which always makes me laugh really, it's as if bi people just want everyone, with no self control and don't have preferences themselves lol. Always seems to be straight men who look like they don't wipe their arse too who think like this! Ya know, the types that say "I don't mind the gays aslong as they don't come on to me".
I've heard alot of women speak on it as if a bi male threatens them in some way, like they *could* change their man's sexuality.
Most just say it's just their preference though. I think many don't think about it deeply and as the site is rampant with single guys, women and couples are afford to be picky and really clamp down to hopefully find the men that align more with what they like
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
Who’s gonna tell him?…. tell me that women can't possibly exchange bodily fluids during sex go on Tell me
The risk is actually higher with bi female and lesbians, therefore more precautions are taken, ie as stated above I expect PreP, condoms and testing at least every 6 monthsso what's your point in saying who's going to tell him. You basically tried to ridicule me and then agreed with me."
How so? You asked “do bi women take precautions” cheekily and the answer in the majority is off course they do, more so in my personal experience |
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"I've heard people express that they feel bi men are likely to be more unsafe than straight men so it's a concern for hygiene.
I've heard alot of straight men air concerns that a bi male might come onto them (even when playing straight) which always makes me laugh really, it's as if bi people just want everyone, with no self control and don't have preferences themselves lol. Always seems to be straight men who look like they don't wipe their arse too who think like this! Ya know, the types that say "I don't mind the gays aslong as they don't come on to me".
I've heard alot of women speak on it as if a bi male threatens them in some way, like they *could* change their man's sexuality.
Most just say it's just their preference though. I think many don't think about it deeply and as the site is rampant with single guys, women and couples are afford to be picky and really clamp down to hopefully find the men that align more with what they like
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All very fair points thank you kindly |
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
Who’s gonna tell him?…. tell me that women can't possibly exchange bodily fluids during sex go on Tell me
The risk is actually higher with bi female and lesbians, therefore more precautions are taken, ie as stated above I expect PreP, condoms and testing at least every 6 months
Feels like a professor is being thought by kindergarten tonight ....
No nada and still BS.. Crasy"
Says the hostile man with a bareback boaby rubbing pic, go figure that in the classroom |
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
Who’s gonna tell him?…. tell me that women can't possibly exchange bodily fluids during sex go on Tell me
The risk is actually higher with bi female and lesbians, therefore more precautions are taken, ie as stated above I expect PreP, condoms and testing at least every 6 monthsso what's your point in saying who's going to tell him. You basically tried to ridicule me and then agreed with me.
How so? You asked “do bi women take precautions” cheekily and the answer in the majority is off course they do, more so in my personal experience"
nothing cheeky about my response straight question |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
Who’s gonna tell him?…. tell me that women can't possibly exchange bodily fluids during sex go on Tell me
The risk is actually higher with bi female and lesbians, therefore more precautions are taken, ie as stated above I expect PreP, condoms and testing at least every 6 months
Feels like a professor is being thought by kindergarten tonight ....
No nada and still BS.. Crasy
Says the hostile man with a bareback boaby rubbing pic, go figure that in the classroom"
Were you there? |
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
Who’s gonna tell him?…. tell me that women can't possibly exchange bodily fluids during sex go on Tell me
The risk is actually higher with bi female and lesbians, therefore more precautions are taken, ie as stated above I expect PreP, condoms and testing at least every 6 monthsso what's your point in saying who's going to tell him. You basically tried to ridicule me and then agreed with me.
How so? You asked “do bi women take precautions” cheekily and the answer in the majority is off course they do, more so in my personal experience"
Obviously they can use condoms on toys... But is there any actual other protection they could use? I've never really thought about it. That's what I was meaning by precautions. |
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
Who’s gonna tell him?…. tell me that women can't possibly exchange bodily fluids during sex go on Tell me
The risk is actually higher with bi female and lesbians, therefore more precautions are taken, ie as stated above I expect PreP, condoms and testing at least every 6 monthsso what's your point in saying who's going to tell him. You basically tried to ridicule me and then agreed with me.
How so? You asked “do bi women take precautions” cheekily and the answer in the majority is off course they do, more so in my personal experience
Obviously they can use condoms on toys... But is there any actual other protection they could use? I've never really thought about it. That's what I was meaning by precautions. "
Dental damns, femidoms aswell as condoms, good hygiene with toys etc |
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
In fairness out of all the bi people I've met it's the penis wielders that are more...carefree, so miss mimi makes a fair point lol
So in this thread you've asked why people don't meet bi men and then perpetuated a stereotype that is probably one of the reasons why. The world comes at you fast on Fab."
I'm not sure I'd 100% agree with you there. I agree that bisexual people generally are subjected to harmful stereotypes. My personal experience is that the bisexual men I've known have been more active, generally speaking. There's no value judgement in that. My point was that I can see where miss mimi was coming from, and perhaps my earlier response was clumsily worded. |
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
Who’s gonna tell him?…. tell me that women can't possibly exchange bodily fluids during sex go on Tell me
The risk is actually higher with bi female and lesbians, therefore more precautions are taken, ie as stated above I expect PreP, condoms and testing at least every 6 monthsso what's your point in saying who's going to tell him. You basically tried to ridicule me and then agreed with me.
How so? You asked “do bi women take precautions” cheekily and the answer in the majority is off course they do, more so in my personal experience nothing cheeky about my response straight question "
Well I do apologise then, thought it was that Irish sarcasm like my Scottish sarcasm |
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By *arl17Man
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
Who’s gonna tell him?…. tell me that women can't possibly exchange bodily fluids during sex go on Tell me
The risk is actually higher with bi female and lesbians, therefore more precautions are taken, ie as stated above I expect PreP, condoms and testing at least every 6 monthsso what's your point in saying who's going to tell him. You basically tried to ridicule
me and then agreed with me.
How so? You asked “do bi women take precautions” cheekily and the answer in the majority is off course they do, more so in my personal experience
Obviously they can use condoms on toys... But is there any actual other protection they could use? I've never really thought about it. That's what I was meaning by precautions. "
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By *arl17Man
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
Who’s gonna tell him?…. tell me that women can't possibly exchange bodily fluids during sex go on Tell me
The risk is actually higher with bi female and lesbians, therefore more precautions are taken, ie as stated above I expect PreP, condoms and testing at least every 6 monthsso what's your point in saying who's going to tell him. You basically tried to ridicule me and then agreed with me.
How so? You asked “do bi women take precautions” cheekily and the answer in the majority is off course they do, more so in my personal experience nothing cheeky about my response straight question
Well I do apologise then, thought it was that Irish sarcasm like my Scottish sarcasm"
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
Who’s gonna tell him?…. tell me that women can't possibly exchange bodily fluids during sex go on Tell me
The risk is actually higher with bi female and lesbians, therefore more precautions are taken, ie as stated above I expect PreP, condoms and testing at least every 6 monthsso what's your point in saying who's going to tell him. You basically tried to ridicule me and then agreed with me.
How so? You asked “do bi women take precautions” cheekily and the answer in the majority is off course they do, more so in my personal experience nothing cheeky about my response straight question
Well I do apologise then, thought it was that Irish sarcasm like my Scottish sarcasm"
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
Who’s gonna tell him?…. tell me that women can't possibly exchange bodily fluids during sex go on Tell me
The risk is actually higher with bi female and lesbians, therefore more precautions are taken, ie as stated above I expect PreP, condoms and testing at least every 6 monthsso what's your point in saying who's going to tell him. You basically tried to ridicule me and then agreed with me.
How so? You asked “do bi women take precautions” cheekily and the answer in the majority is off course they do, more so in my personal experience nothing cheeky about my response straight question
Well I do apologise then, thought it was that Irish sarcasm like my Scottish sarcasmit wasn't "
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In all honesty the chances are that the women and couples that don’t meet bi men probably have. We only meet bi men/couples and the amount of so called straight men that have messaged us saying their bi is extremely high..
Personally I have no issue with it as it’s just peoples preference concentrate on the people that want to meet you not the ones that don’t .. |
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
Who’s gonna tell him?…. tell me that women can't possibly exchange bodily fluids during sex go on Tell me
The risk is actually higher with bi female and lesbians, therefore more precautions are taken, ie as stated above I expect PreP, condoms and testing at least every 6 months
Feels like a professor is being thought by kindergarten tonight ....
No nada and still BS.. Crasy
Says the hostile man with a bareback boaby rubbing pic, go figure that in the classroom
Were you there?"
Thankfully not, 6th April looked like it was a very cold night and I’d need a tetanus shot it that guys fingernails came near my pussy, night auld yin it’s been a pleasure but that’s plenty for me lol |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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"I guess some people might think they're more promiscuous and don't take as many precautions. what about bi women do they take precautions
Who’s gonna tell him?…. tell me that women can't possibly exchange bodily fluids during sex go on Tell me
The risk is actually higher with bi female and lesbians, therefore more precautions are taken, ie as stated above I expect PreP, condoms and testing at least every 6 months
Feels like a professor is being thought by kindergarten tonight ....
No nada and still BS.. Crasy
Says the hostile man with a bareback boaby rubbing pic, go figure that in the classroom
Were you there?
Thankfully not, 6th April looked like it was a very cold night and I’d need a tetanus shot it that guys fingernails came near my pussy, night auld yin it’s been a pleasure but that’s plenty for me lol"
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By *arl17Man
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"I ask this out of genuine curiosity and do not wish to spark a whole argument about it but...
There's a fair few profiles, both individuals and couples, that specify "no bi men". And that's fair enough, you do you etc., but I am curious to understand why.
So what's that about fab? "
Tbh: Waste of fucking time... Good night... Fed up of idiots..xx |
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over a year ago
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"I ask this out of genuine curiosity and do not wish to spark a whole argument about it but...
There's a fair few profiles, both individuals and couples, that specify "no bi men". And that's fair enough, you do you etc., but I am curious to understand why.
So what's that about fab?
Tbh: Waste of fucking time... Good night... Fed up of idiots..xx"
No veris ... Nothing... But everyone wants to jump on the carasole.. Fuck off tbh ... Naoite xx |
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"I ask this out of genuine curiosity and do not wish to spark a whole argument about it but...
There's a fair few profiles, both individuals and couples, that specify "no bi men". And that's fair enough, you do you etc., but I am curious to understand why.
So what's that about fab?
Tbh: Waste of fucking time... Good night... Fed up of idiots..xx
No veris ... Nothing... But everyone wants to jump on the carasole.. Fuck off tbh ... Naoite xx"
As this forum doesn't allow gifs (or at least I can't see how), you'll have to imagine what I'd post after searching for "blinking in surprise". |
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"I ask this out of genuine curiosity and do not wish to spark a whole argument about it but...
There's a fair few profiles, both individuals and couples, that specify "no bi men". And that's fair enough, you do you etc., but I am curious to understand why.
So what's that about fab? "
That they don't want to play with bisexual men apparently. |
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Because we’re deviants that can’t be trusted not to start rogering the husband at the first opportunity and we’re riddled with deadly diseases.
Go to any swinging club and you’ll see partners swapping between each other wearing nothing other than a smile. Go to any gay club and there’s condom and lube, usually free, which are widely used. I also know a few gay clubs where the local sexual health clinic pays a visit later in the evening for you to discreetly go and visit should you choose. |
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Let everyone have their own preferences. And let's not have them have to justify them. Tom likes a bit of cock like the next man. After all which man doesn't even if he won't admit it to the wife. Tom will not meet trawlermen. Even after intense showering. You cannot get rid of that smell of the sea |
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"I don’t mind personally, but would expect a bi guy to be on prep as well as playing safe and the abuse I used to get when I said if not on prep I won’t play. Safety first and all that
That's a fair point tbh. Thanks!
And not a verification on your profile... Plenty of 'straight' here have veris from males so good for you
I'm not sure I understand your point lol
Get a verification lol
Ohhhhhhhh okay yes now that makes sense. I'd love a verification cause it would mean I've had a meet through this site. Alas I am yet to pop that particular cherry.
Turns out it's easier to achieve that on fab guys.
*Who knew men were easy huh? "
* This!
Bi men often brag about how they are married but fuck men behind their wife's back. Or lie about being straight to get a fuck. Or they message straight men asking for a fuck. Openly bragging about the deception.
Some reasons why some people don't want to meet bi men.
Others find the thought of 2 men having sex disgusting, so they couldn't have sex with a man who had done that.
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"I ask this out of genuine curiosity and do not wish to spark a whole argument about it but...
There's a fair few profiles, both individuals and couples, that specify "no bi men". And that's fair enough, you do you etc., but I am curious to understand why.
So what's that about fab?
Tbh: Waste of fucking time... Good night... Fed up of idiots..xx
No veris ... Nothing... But everyone wants to jump on the carasole.. Fuck off tbh ... Naoite xx
As this forum doesn't allow gifs (or at least I can't see how), you'll have to imagine what I'd post after searching for "blinking in surprise". "
Don't worry about it. You can ask whatever you like within the forum rules. If we don't ask questions or listen to other people's opinions, how can we learn.
I guess some people don't want to learn.
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Those couples are having sex with bi men, they just don’t know it. It’s fine to say you don’t want to meet them, but the amount of straight guy profiles that message me was laughable. So I’d check their verification and occasionally it would show a couple who’d met the guy that specifically didn’t want to meet bi guys.
You’ll never truly know someone’s sexual history so in reality those couples don’t want to meet guys who are honest about their sexual history / orientation.
However I do believe it’s a preference and should be respected by the men on here. So if you’ve had same sex experience ‘straight guy profiles’ leave those couples alone   |
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Everyone has their own preferences and up to them if that’s what they want to put. By being honest saves a lot of time wasting whatever the preference might be.
Sadly bi men do come with the greater risk of stis and some just don’t want to take that just which is fair enough. As long as everyone honest it doesn’t really matter, however too many so called straight men will still cheat and play bi not caring about the health risks to themselves or so called loved ones.
Age old story that will never change. |
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Without reading all the replies I guess in couples it's due to dynamic. Anyone else it could be because at a sexual health clinic a woman is asked if any of her male partners are bi and if they are she is offered vaccinations such as Hep B.
They are offered due to the perceived risk, therefore many decide they don't want to take that perceived risk |
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Tom had a threesome with a straight couple and the wife took a break and went to the toilet to freshen up. As soon as he left the straight guy started suckin me off and when she came back she threw Tom out. Tom has not met a straight couple since. Straight people can be weird |
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"Tom had a threesome with a straight couple and the wife took a break and went to the toilet to freshen up. As soon as he left the straight guy started suckin me off and when she came back she threw Tom out. Tom has not met a straight couple since. Straight people can be weird "
Straight men sucking cocks. |
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"Tom had a threesome with a straight couple and the wife took a break and went to the toilet to freshen up. As soon as he left the straight guy started suckin me off and when she came back she threw Tom out. Tom has not met a straight couple since. Straight people can be weird
Straight men sucking cocks. "
Believe Tom it's true.. she threw me out and blamed me.
How many more straight couples are out there with a bent husband.. many Tom will wager |
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"Because we don't want to be with bi men. Our choice. What is so difficult to understand about that? I'm genuinely asking. We have a choice. It isn't difficult to comprehend!"
Duely noted you still don't mind bi women though..
I think what we're wanted to be admitted is one wont do it because you think bi men are dirty  |
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Pretty pointless putting no bi men in profile on here.
How do you now they are not bi, we don’t all mince about and wave rainbow flags.
The other thing is you most on here lie bout sexuality just to get a meet, trust me we have lots of apparent straight men asking for bi fun with us.
Also the misconception that bi men are more risky is not always the fact. The majority of openly bi and even gay men I know at least these days are on prep and for that it’s strict 12 week test regime. That and condoms.
You more at risk from the guy playing away from the wife and never gets tested, usually also the ones with straight on profile and messages for bi fun.
But everyones has own preference which is to be respected. if you can trust the other party to tell the truth
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"Because we don't want to be with bi men. Our choice. What is so difficult to understand about that? I'm genuinely asking. We have a choice. It isn't difficult to comprehend!
Duely noted you still don't mind bi women though..
I think what we're wanted to be admitted is one wont do it because you think bi men are dirty "
And what if people do think bi men are dirty?
You wouldn't want to meet them. Best they say up front so no time wasted. |
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"Because we don't want to be with bi men. Our choice. What is so difficult to understand about that? I'm genuinely asking. We have a choice. It isn't difficult to comprehend!
Duely noted you still don't mind bi women though..
Bi women aren’t bi men…so what if they like bi women but not bi men?? What is this fancy one thing MUST fancy the other? "
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"Because we don't want to be with bi men. Our choice. What is so difficult to understand about that? I'm genuinely asking. We have a choice. It isn't difficult to comprehend!
Duely noted you still don't mind bi women though..
Bi women aren’t bi men…so what if they like bi women but not bi men?? What is this fancy one thing MUST fancy the other? "
I’ll never understand the “you’re bi but you don’t want to meet bi men” mentality. How is it remotely the same?!! This place continues to baffle me. |
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"I ask this out of genuine curiosity and do not wish to spark a whole argument about it but...
There's a fair few profiles, both individuals and couples, that specify "no bi men". And that's fair enough, you do you etc., but I am curious to understand why.
So what's that about fab? "
because people are allowed to decide who they want to meet.
and if a woman or a couple choose to not meet bi-men, then thats upto them!
if you do not like that, tough! |
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"Because we don't want to be with bi men. Our choice. What is so difficult to understand about that? I'm genuinely asking. We have a choice. It isn't difficult to comprehend!
Duely noted you still don't mind bi women though..
Bi women aren’t bi men…so what if they like bi women but not bi men?? What is this fancy one thing MUST fancy the other? "
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"It basically means the guy doesn't want the other guy ogling his meat and pointing at his bum bum."
So true, you can’t trust those dirty bi men they have no will power and will put there willies anywhere |
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over a year ago
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"It basically means the guy doesn't want the other guy ogling his meat and pointing at his bum bum.
So true, you can’t trust those dirty bi men they have no will power and will put there willies anywhere "
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"It basically means the guy doesn't want the other guy ogling his meat and pointing at his bum bum.
So true, you can’t trust those dirty bi men they have no will power and will put there willies anywhere "
Some do. |
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"It basically means the guy doesn't want the other guy ogling his meat and pointing at his bum bum.
So true, you can’t trust those dirty bi men they have no will power and will put there willies anywhere
Some do. "
How do we stand there open mouthed while our wife enjoys watching us suck a cock. It's just not right! |
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over a year ago
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"It basically means the guy doesn't want the other guy ogling his meat and pointing at his bum bum.
So true, you can’t trust those dirty bi men they have no will power and will put there willies anywhere
Some do. "
Some women will put their vaginas on anything but it’s not ok to point that out… |
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"It basically means the guy doesn't want the other guy ogling his meat and pointing at his bum bum.
So true, you can’t trust those dirty bi men they have no will power and will put there willies anywhere
Some do.
How do we stand there open mouthed while our wife enjoys watching us suck a cock. It's just not right! "
It’s terrible and she won’t watch for long though, her will power will weaken and before you know she’s on the balls while he’s on the cock |
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"It basically means the guy doesn't want the other guy ogling his meat and pointing at his bum bum.
So true, you can’t trust those dirty bi men they have no will power and will put there willies anywhere
Some do.
Some women will put their vaginas on anything but it’s not ok to point that out… "
I think that it is okay to point that out, its free speech. But men are stereotypically known to shag anything. Women tend to be slightly better with their choices. |
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"It basically means the guy doesn't want the other guy ogling his meat and pointing at his bum bum.
So true, you can’t trust those dirty bi men they have no will power and will put there willies anywhere
Some do.
How do we stand there open mouthed while our wife enjoys watching us suck a cock. It's just not right!
It’s terrible and she won’t watch for long though, her will power will weaken and before you know she’s on the balls while he’s on the cock "
Stop it. I'm aroused, lol |
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"It basically means the guy doesn't want the other guy ogling his meat and pointing at his bum bum.
So true, you can’t trust those dirty bi men they have no will power and will put there willies anywhere
Some do.
Some women will put their vaginas on anything but it’s not ok to point that out… "
Of course it is. |
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"It basically means the guy doesn't want the other guy ogling his meat and pointing at his bum bum.
So true, you can’t trust those dirty bi men they have no will power and will put there willies anywhere
Some do.
How do we stand there open mouthed while our wife enjoys watching us suck a cock. It's just not right! "
You have to close your mouth a bit to be able to suck! |
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"It basically means the guy doesn't want the other guy ogling his meat and pointing at his bum bum.
So true, you can’t trust those dirty bi men they have no will power and will put there willies anywhere
Some do.
Some women will put their vaginas on anything but it’s not ok to point that out…
I think that it is okay to point that out, it’s free speech. But men are stereotypically known to shag anything. Women tend to be slightly better with their choices."
It’s called slut shaming and it’s not ok.
I think the key word in your sentence is ‘stereotypically’ which is the whole point; stereotyping and stigma |
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"Because we don't want to be with bi men. Our choice. What is so difficult to understand about that? I'm genuinely asking. We have a choice. It isn't difficult to comprehend!
Duely noted you still don't mind bi women though..
Bi women aren’t bi men…so what if they like bi women but not bi men?? What is this fancy one thing MUST fancy the other?
I’ll never understand the “you’re bi but you don’t want to meet bi men” mentality. How is it remotely the same?!! This place continues to baffle me. "
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"It basically means the guy doesn't want the other guy ogling his meat and pointing at his bum bum.
So true, you can’t trust those dirty bi men they have no will power and will put there willies anywhere
Some do.
Some women will put their vaginas on anything but it’s not ok to point that out… "
No it’s not ok. But it’s not ok to say that about men either in my opinion |
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"It basically means the guy doesn't want the other guy ogling his meat and pointing at his bum bum.
So true, you can’t trust those dirty bi men they have no will power and will put there willies anywhere
Some do.
Some women will put their vaginas on anything but it’s not ok to point that out…
No it’s not ok. But it’s not ok to say that about men either in my opinion "
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I'll stick my head above the partapit . I love women want to have sex with women .men who like men who sex with men have no interest to me same goes for TVs sexually allthough I am looking to get a big TV for the living room not interested in them either .but admit the ones I've spoken with here are great people and the big guy also I've chatted with .but that why it says no bi men or TV but if widen it to say im not interest in men full stop .hope that helps . |
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