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over a year ago
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How do you flirt?
Are you direct with it or do you hold back until you know for sure they like you? Do you like to tease them a little?
I want to know. Teach me your ways!
I know it’s too early for these questions but I’m trying to keep myself awake  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I can’t lie here as it can be found in mean threads on here ha ha
I like to complement are charm
I am pretty direct and can be a bit much sometimes
It’s a gift and a curse at the same time
As I am good at charming but I don’t know when to hold back so can come across as a bit full on
But a little look your being a bit to much ton it down a little I don’t take it as a negative i take it as a positive that maybe I have been and respect they told me before I come across as a proper bunny boiler ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you flirt?
Are you direct with it or do you hold back until you know for sure they like you? Do you like to tease them a little?
I want to know. Teach me your ways!
I know it’s too early for these questions but I’m trying to keep myself awake "
I’m just awake so forgive the bumbling reply.
If I’m attracted to someone and they’ve indicated that they are attracted to me too. Then my flirting is very humour based to start with (usually about myself). There is an element of teasing within that too. If it’s someone I see in a particular situation regularly (eg work) then I make an extra effort with how I look too.
Plenty of smiles and laughing.
The next level is asking questions about then and conversation where I listen a lot to show my interest. I love conversation and listening.
Does any of that make sense? |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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You tell me! 
Openly I just sort of doing the suggestive typical flirty stuff. The stereotype flirting. Flutter eyelashes etc
But when it comes to one on one direct and focused flirting a lot of it tends to be reading and matching the flirt to the other person's energy. I won't change whom I am, but the energy levels and intensity adjust, read the room.
Those that have had me flirt one on one will maybe have a better unbiased idea of how I flirt in those situations. |
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I always start with humour and laughs as for me you get a good feel if someone is into you as well, if it’s going well always 2 banter 1 compliment rule of 3 (I know some don’t like the word banter but prefer it to insults). Then I’m pretty direct with the flirting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well I can’t lie here as it can be found in mean threads on here ha ha
I like to complement are charm
I am pretty direct and can be a bit much sometimes
It’s a gift and a curse at the same time
As I am good at charming but I don’t know when to hold back so can come across as a bit full on
But a little look your being a bit to much ton it down a little I don’t take it as a negative i take it as a positive that maybe I have been and respect they told me before I come across as a proper bunny boiler ha ha "
It’s good that you recognise that your style may be a bit much for some. I’m sure there are people that enjoy your direct approach  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I tend to hold back until I know the feelings are mutual and even then I'm not terribly great, I'm much better when it happens organically with a connection"
I get it. I tend to hold back too, mainly out of fear of being rejected and embarrassing myself |
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"You tell me!
Openly I just sort of doing the suggestive typical flirty stuff. The stereotype flirting. Flutter eyelashes etc
But when it comes to one on one direct and focused flirting a lot of it tends to be reading and matching the flirt to the other person's energy. I won't change whom I am, but the energy levels and intensity adjust, read the room.
Those that have had me flirt one on one will maybe have a better unbiased idea of how I flirt in those situations. "
Maybe you should practice on me?? is that how you do it? Did I do the flirting???  |
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"How do you flirt?
Are you direct with it or do you hold back until you know for sure they like you? Do you like to tease them a little?
I want to know. Teach me your ways!
I know it’s too early for these questions but I’m trying to keep myself awake "
Helloooooooooo you’re a beauty aren’t you. |
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"I always start with humour and laughs as for me you get a good feel if someone is into you as well, if it’s going well always 2 banter 1 compliment rule of 3 (I know some don’t like the word banter but prefer it to insults). Then I’m pretty direct with the flirting "
Well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I can’t lie here as it can be found in mean threads on here ha ha
I like to complement are charm
I am pretty direct and can be a bit much sometimes
It’s a gift and a curse at the same time
As I am good at charming but I don’t know when to hold back so can come across as a bit full on
But a little look your being a bit to much ton it down a little I don’t take it as a negative i take it as a positive that maybe I have been and respect they told me before I come across as a proper bunny boiler ha ha
It’s good that you recognise that your style may be a bit much for some. I’m sure there are people that enjoy your direct approach "
Yes took a little bit off time to learn that it can be |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am a warm personable sort of person anyway and I can be tactile with those that I am interested in.
I like to be subtle initially as consent is a thing ha and I wouldn't want to make anyone feel uncomfortable.
You can usually tell if someone is interested so then I may just touch their arm , lots of eye contact, smile a lot, be interested and hopefully interesting ha , touch my hair, my neck etc . I do sit on my hands sometimes as if I fancy someone I want to touch them not sexually I mean just even place a hand on them then let go but some people do not like to recieve so I try to be mindful. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You tell me!
Openly I just sort of doing the suggestive typical flirty stuff. The stereotype flirting. Flutter eyelashes etc
But when it comes to one on one direct and focused flirting a lot of it tends to be reading and matching the flirt to the other person's energy. I won't change whom I am, but the energy levels and intensity adjust, read the room.
Those that have had me flirt one on one will maybe have a better unbiased idea of how I flirt in those situations. "
I like your style Kai  |
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"I think I'm a bit rubbish at it to be fair... even worse in real life
I’ll find out tomorrow
ill probably look like a deer trapped in headlights lol"
You will be fine I’ll come say hello and help settle any nerves |
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"I think I'm a bit rubbish at it to be fair... even worse in real life
I’ll find out tomorrow
ill probably look like a deer trapped in headlights lol
You will be fine I’ll come say hello and help settle any nerves "
Ah thank you x |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"How do you flirt?
Are you direct with it or do you hold back until you know for sure they like you? Do you like to tease them a little?
I want to know. Teach me your ways!
I know it’s too early for these questions but I’m trying to keep myself awake "
Hey
I like to tell people who are stunning that they are stunning. That usually gets a bit of bashful going on. Then I am obviously hilarious and make them laugh and think 'oh you're so silly'
Then I bring out the sexy voice and tell them how amazing their body is and if you are remotely interested, obviously it's 100 guarantee even if you don't think it, you would end up under me.
Not a personal message to you Mrs Shiv. Or is it? Maybe? |
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"I think I'm a bit rubbish at it to be fair... even worse in real life
I’ll find out tomorrow
ill probably look like a deer trapped in headlights lol
You will be fine I’ll come say hello and help settle any nerves
Ah thank you x"
Not a problem. Now I shall closely study your pictures so I will recognise you |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"You tell me!
Openly I just sort of doing the suggestive typical flirty stuff. The stereotype flirting. Flutter eyelashes etc
But when it comes to one on one direct and focused flirting a lot of it tends to be reading and matching the flirt to the other person's energy. I won't change whom I am, but the energy levels and intensity adjust, read the room.
Those that have had me flirt one on one will maybe have a better unbiased idea of how I flirt in those situations. "
I can't imagine you flirting! Do you just send more ab pics? |
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"I tend to hold back until I know the feelings are mutual and even then I'm not terribly great, I'm much better when it happens organically with a connection
I get it. I tend to hold back too, mainly out of fear of being rejected and embarrassing myself "
That is exactly the reason I hold back and wait until I know all parties are on the same page |
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"I think I'm a bit rubbish at it to be fair... even worse in real life
I’ll find out tomorrow
ill probably look like a deer trapped in headlights lol
You will be fine I’ll come say hello and help settle any nerves
Ah thank you x
Not a problem. Now I shall closely study your pictures so I will recognise you "
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Away for Christmas |
"You tell me!
Openly I just sort of doing the suggestive typical flirty stuff. The stereotype flirting. Flutter eyelashes etc
But when it comes to one on one direct and focused flirting a lot of it tends to be reading and matching the flirt to the other person's energy. I won't change whom I am, but the energy levels and intensity adjust, read the room.
Those that have had me flirt one on one will maybe have a better unbiased idea of how I flirt in those situations.
Maybe you should practice on me?? is that how you do it? Did I do the flirting??? "
I don't need practice! 
But yes, that's flirting. It's all it is really. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I'm a bit rubbish at it to be fair... even worse in real life
I’ll find out tomorrow
ill probably look like a deer trapped in headlights lol
You will be fine I’ll come say hello and help settle any nerves
Ah thank you x"
Aww you guys  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How do you flirt?
Are you direct with it or do you hold back until you know for sure they like you? Do you like to tease them a little?
I want to know. Teach me your ways!
I know it’s too early for these questions but I’m trying to keep myself awake
Hey
I like to tell people who are stunning that they are stunning. That usually gets a bit of bashful going on. Then I am obviously hilarious and make them laugh and think 'oh you're so silly'
Then I bring out the sexy voice and tell them how amazing their body is and if you are remotely interested, obviously it's 100 guarantee even if you don't think it, you would end up under me.
Not a personal message to you Mrs Shiv. Or is it? Maybe? "
You are silly!
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"You tell me!
Openly I just sort of doing the suggestive typical flirty stuff. The stereotype flirting. Flutter eyelashes etc
But when it comes to one on one direct and focused flirting a lot of it tends to be reading and matching the flirt to the other person's energy. I won't change whom I am, but the energy levels and intensity adjust, read the room.
Those that have had me flirt one on one will maybe have a better unbiased idea of how I flirt in those situations.
Maybe you should practice on me?? is that how you do it? Did I do the flirting???
I don't need practice!
But yes, that's flirting. It's all it is really. "
* Blows raspberries...  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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".Those that have had me flirt one on one will maybe have a better unbiased idea of how I flirt in those situations.
I can't imagine you flirting! Do you just send more ab pics?"
I'm not quite sure how to explain how I flirt in detail. It's just subtle, yet clear to those it's aimed at. I just sort of do it, and sometimes it works, sometimes it does not. |
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"Oh god, probably avoid eye contact, blabber about any old shit and hope they know my awkwardness is actually flirting!
Mrs "
Because of this I have to be direct and just say yeah I fancy you!
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I put glitter in my beard and ask ladies if they want a sparkly vagina it either works or it doesn’t lol "
also helps that I have a sexy misses that isn’t shy and knows what she wants so I hang off her coat tails in the clubs lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh god, probably avoid eye contact, blabber about any old shit and hope they know my awkwardness is actually flirting!
Mrs "
The blabbering until you have forgotten what you’re talking about, I’m very familiar with! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't have a style. I still don't think I flirt with people, I'm just a bit silly and enjoy getting to know someone. I'm not flirty in the slightest. In my mind at least.
I'm reading this thread for advice because I need it. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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".Those that have had me flirt one on one will maybe have a better unbiased idea of how I flirt in those situations.
I can't imagine you flirting! Do you just send more ab pics?
I'm not quite sure how to explain how I flirt in detail. It's just subtle, yet clear to those it's aimed at. I just sort of do it, and sometimes it works, sometimes it does not. "
I bet you're a right charmer.
You are attractive. My body would like to be entwined with yours vibes. |
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Stand and stare licking my lips until they feel compelled to either.
Talk.
Run away.
Or kick me in the ball's.
#creepy
(Disclaimer obviously I don't I'm not a crazy stalker type......or am I MHWAHA) |
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"How do you flirt?
Are you direct with it or do you hold back until you know for sure they like you? Do you like to tease them a little?
I want to know. Teach me your ways!
I know it’s too early for these questions but I’m trying to keep myself awake "
If the mutual attraction is obvious, then go for it openly.
If it's not obvious, then I ask some innocent questions giving me signs.
Like:
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F: I work way too much.
Me: I guess your boyfriend doesn't like that?
F: I don't have a boyfriend, because...but...maybe...
I know depending on how much information I'm getting and in what tone. Usually I know how much chance I have without revealing my intentions too early.
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With a man: I drop a handkerchief. Bat my eyelashes. Then wait for his eyes to pop out of his head while sirens go off and the wolf starts drooling.
With a woman: the shyness is actually genuine and I am awkward af.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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".Those that have had me flirt one on one will maybe have a better unbiased idea of how I flirt in those situations.
I can't imagine you flirting! Do you just send more ab pics?
I'm not quite sure how to explain how I flirt in detail. It's just subtle, yet clear to those it's aimed at. I just sort of do it, and sometimes it works, sometimes it does not.
I bet you're a right charmer.
You are attractive. My body would like to be entwined with yours vibes."
Awww thanks Brucey! |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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".Those that have had me flirt one on one will maybe have a better unbiased idea of how I flirt in those situations.
I can't imagine you flirting! Do you just send more ab pics?
I'm not quite sure how to explain how I flirt in detail. It's just subtle, yet clear to those it's aimed at. I just sort of do it, and sometimes it works, sometimes it does not.
I bet you're a right charmer.
You are attractive. My body would like to be entwined with yours vibes.
Awww thanks Brucey!"
Honestly think I could make women here jealous with the absolute 10/10 man I manage to woo |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"With a man: I drop a handkerchief. Bat my eyelashes. Then wait for his eyes to pop out of his head while sirens go off and the wolf starts drooling.
With a woman: the shyness is actually genuine and I am awkward af."
Why are we always so awkward with other women?!  |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"With a man: I drop a handkerchief. Bat my eyelashes. Then wait for his eyes to pop out of his head while sirens go off and the wolf starts drooling.
With a woman: the shyness is actually genuine and I am awkward af.
Why are we always so awkward with other women?! "
I'm not. I'm happy to interpret for you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"With a man: I drop a handkerchief. Bat my eyelashes. Then wait for his eyes to pop out of his head while sirens go off and the wolf starts drooling.
With a woman: the shyness is actually genuine and I am awkward af.
Why are we always so awkward with other women?!
I'm not. I'm happy to interpret for you "
Will you be my wingman? |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"With a man: I drop a handkerchief. Bat my eyelashes. Then wait for his eyes to pop out of his head while sirens go off and the wolf starts drooling.
With a woman: the shyness is actually genuine and I am awkward af.
Why are we always so awkward with other women?!
I'm not. I'm happy to interpret for you
Will you be my wingman?"
For a fee. One shag. Wingman for life. |
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I don’t bother on here. This is more like really hardcore tele-marketing (anyone interested in solar panels or perhaps you were involved in an accident recently?). It’s not like the real world where my dimples, intelligent conversation and sense of humour do all the heavy lifting |
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I’m quite subtle - I just chat as normal and hopefully build a connection.
C has evolved - before she could flirt with guys, no problem and women she was awkward with and now it’s the other way round - I guess she’s not needing to flirt with guys so much now.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"With a man: I drop a handkerchief. Bat my eyelashes. Then wait for his eyes to pop out of his head while sirens go off and the wolf starts drooling.
With a woman: the shyness is actually genuine and I am awkward af.
Why are we always so awkward with other women?! "
Fickle. Women are fickle and scary when you are in a position of trying to be worthy of the attention of somebody you like. |
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I’m just not the flirtatious type. Can’t do it. I like to get a feel for people through random nonsense conversation and if I do actually fancy someone face to face I’m crap because it very rarely happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you flirt?
Are you direct with it or do you hold back until you know for sure they like you? Do you like to tease them a little?
I want to know. Teach me your ways!
I know it’s too early for these questions but I’m trying to keep myself awake "
I can't flirt I'm shit at it and I end up getting all embarrassed and flustered and just awkward.
If I like the person I will tend to ask loads of questions, laugh at their stupid jokes and just want to talk to them. For me that's how someone would be able to tell I'm interested and I guess that's my 'flirting'. |
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