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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you remember your first on fab? I don't mean the first you knobbed (  ) I mean that first connection you had?
The first one that made you smile a little, the first one that you frantically faffed off over.
Good?
Bad?
Ugly  ?
I just saw mine a few days ago on a fellow forumites veris, haven't thought about the guy for years! But there he was, a complete utter psycho but, he is probably the reason I stayed on fab that very first time. He has lot to answer for! Fucking dickhead.
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Yes, I was with him yesterday. We have an amazing connection. I knew from the minute I saw him walking through the park.
He was my first social, first proper meet.
Life got in the way shortly after, but recently started things up again. He's a very much needed ray of sunshine in my life. |
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Ugh our first one is sour now!
Absolutely fantastic meet which led to more than one. Lots of communication, lots of teasing. He was truly a fantastic guy. Until he wasn't.
It got to a point where we never had time between us to actually meet so I messaged him to say we were going to be moving forward with looking for someone else (we wanted a regular guy and opted not to look for others whilst that was going on), offered to recommend him as a genuine and lovely guy to another couple who were friends, actively looking for a single guy.
He was cool about then by the weekend sent me alot of abuse because he felt I'd lied to him about it being due to us never being available at the same time and that actually I didn't like him.
A shame. He was hot, just seemed to magically know what I liked, was such a laugh too. But yeah, went weird. |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
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He wasn’t from the forums and was local to me. I met him after around two months on here.
After a few month he wanted exclusivity and I didn’t so we parted ways. He left Fab shortly after. Still think of him with a smile and hope he’s doing okay |
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"Do you remember your first on fab? I don't mean the first you knobbed ( ) I mean that first connection you had?
The first one that made you smile a little, the first one that you frantically faffed off over.
Good?
Bad?
Ugly ?
I just saw mine a few days ago on a fellow forumites veris, haven't thought about the guy for years! But there he was, a complete utter psycho but, he is probably the reason I stayed on fab that very first time. He has lot to answer for! Fucking dickhead.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you remember your first on fab? I don't mean the first you knobbed ( ) I mean that first connection you had?
The first one that made you smile a little, the first one that you frantically faffed off over.
Good?
Bad?
Ugly ?
I just saw mine a few days ago on a fellow forumites veris, haven't thought about the guy for years! But there he was, a complete utter psycho but, he is probably the reason I stayed on fab that very first time. He has lot to answer for! Fucking dickhead.
Can’t believe you’ve commandeered my knobbing "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes, I was with him yesterday. We have an amazing connection. I knew from the minute I saw him walking through the park.
He was my first social, first proper meet.
Life got in the way shortly after, but recently started things up again. He's a very much needed ray of sunshine in my life."
That's the kind of sunshine I wouldn't mind |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ugh our first one is sour now!
Absolutely fantastic meet which led to more than one. Lots of communication, lots of teasing. He was truly a fantastic guy. Until he wasn't.
It got to a point where we never had time between us to actually meet so I messaged him to say we were going to be moving forward with looking for someone else (we wanted a regular guy and opted not to look for others whilst that was going on), offered to recommend him as a genuine and lovely guy to another couple who were friends, actively looking for a single guy.
He was cool about then by the weekend sent me alot of abuse because he felt I'd lied to him about it being due to us never being available at the same time and that actually I didn't like him.
A shame. He was hot, just seemed to magically know what I liked, was such a laugh too. But yeah, went weird. "
They always go weird!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, I can remember my first fab meet from here.
We met at a Costa for a quick coffee just to see if their was an actual attraction and there was. After the coffee date she sent me a message saying how she was disappointed that we did not kiss or at very least, hug.
Jump to the second date which was a bit more steamy but nothing full on. During this date I really started to like the lass. We had really great conversation and plenty of giggles.
Many texts and conversations later a third date was organised and again a little more heavy petting. I really started to feel a connection with this person.
It was after this point two things happened. I realised this was not a woman I could see myself only having a FWB relationship with. The other point was that I was given some horrible news about my health. The combination of both led me to just shutdown and retreat from the scenario.
Cut today, a year later. I really regret my decisions that I made back then. I wish I had the strength and the backbone to have gone through with everything. The way I carried myself and the way acted makes me feel ashamed. She is a very special person and I screwed up.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes was a couple
Was grate for me
Not sure if it was good for the woman hafe off the couple
Man hafe seems to injoy him self
Was all a bit much for me
First time PA so kind off poped my clogs fast only haveing one condom ment I couldn’t change it
End up give oral to her as hubby banged away splat a load over my bum cheeks both got up and left
With the prems off meeting again but when messing to ask if meeting again
My message went read icnored so I take it they were being polite when they sed they meet again
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By *929Man
over a year ago
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First who chatted to was a lass from Hexham who messaged me we chat for a bit before swap numbers and stayed up a few late nights drinking and texting, we got on amazingly and she admitted she would like to have taken further (dating not casual sex) if my situation was different. Often wonder how different life would be had it worked out never thought she would give me a second look till she message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep!
They were just one of those people you instantly felt at ease with. The sex was amazing and I never got tired of seeing them. Then it all started feeling a bit too full on and I had to distance myself. It was nice while it lasted though. |
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I remember her. She was lovely. We got on really well and she sold me on the whole lifestyle.
She burned out a week before we were due to host her at our house. It's a big what if for my wife and I. We didn't want to rush but we missed out on someone who was genuinely special.
She left fab, found happiness and we chatted a bit until we lost contact during lockdown. |
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Yeah.
She was a very popular poster at the time.
She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.
On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"Yeah.
She was a very popular poster at the time.
She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.
On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced."
Name and number? |
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"Yeah.
She was a very popular poster at the time.
She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.
On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced.
Name and number?"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah.
She was a very popular poster at the time.
She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.
On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced."
Do you wanna experience the loosest?
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"Yes, I was with him yesterday. We have an amazing connection. I knew from the minute I saw him walking through the park.
He was my first social, first proper meet.
Life got in the way shortly after, but recently started things up again. He's a very much needed ray of sunshine in my life.
That's the kind of sunshine I wouldn't mind"
Definitely a rare find! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He was the only reason I stayed on Fab when it was overwhelming at the start. Very supportive and lovely. We never met as I fucked it up, but he graciously accepted my apology for that. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"Yeah.
She was a very popular poster at the time.
She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.
On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced.
Do you wanna experience the loosest?
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Loosest? It never fucking opens! |
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"Yeah.
She was a very popular poster at the time.
She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.
On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced.
Do you wanna experience the loosest?
Loosest? It never fucking opens! "
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First connection from here - we still message. We’ve never managed to actually meet. He’s a pretty fantastic bloke and we’ve had some really deep discussions etc & he’s taught me a lot about myself & the “scene”. Hopefully we might even manage to meet one day.
The first connection & meet - we met a number of times, messaged a lot in between. Super hot. He took some time out from the whole thing so we’ve not seen each other since. Happy memories though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah.
She was a very popular poster at the time.
She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.
On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced.
Do you wanna experience the loosest?
Loosest? It never fucking opens! "
That's the sweetest thing you've ever said to me |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"Yeah.
She was a very popular poster at the time.
She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.
On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced.
Do you wanna experience the loosest?
Loosest? It never fucking opens!
That's the sweetest thing you've ever said to me "
FAK? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah.
She was a very popular poster at the time.
She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.
On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced.
Do you wanna experience the loosest?
Loosest? It never fucking opens!
That's the sweetest thing you've ever said to me
FAK? "
I've forgotten what this means! |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"Yeah.
She was a very popular poster at the time.
She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.
On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced.
Do you wanna experience the loosest?
Loosest? It never fucking opens!
That's the sweetest thing you've ever said to me
FAK?
I've forgotten what this means!"
How much have you had to drink!
FANCY A KNOBBING? |
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I will never forget my first meet as a singleton. He was bloody incredible and I have nothing but amazing memories from that time. I think it ended at the right time and I’m glad we are still friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember my first meet.... I was nieve and believed the veris 
Never to be seen again.
First connection was quite something and lasted 3 years but sadly no more.
One of my first I met up with again back in the summer and all the feelings came flooding back, the connection is electric |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stay real
Connection? Yeah she’s still in here and dibs in on the form in time
To time… it was great while it lasted and stayed friends for a while. But drifted apart and now just pass on here,
But it was great and it was my first time making a weekend out of a meet. Which I very much enjoyed. I prefer a connection now to just a simple meet.
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"Do you remember your first on fab? I don't mean the first you knobbed ( ) I mean that first connection you had?
The first one that made you smile a little, the first one that you frantically faffed off over.
Good?
Bad?
Ugly ?
I just saw mine a few days ago on a fellow forumites veris, haven't thought about the guy for years! But there he was, a complete utter psycho but, he is probably the reason I stayed on fab that very first time. He has lot to answer for! Fucking dickhead.
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Our first was and is a truly lovely, beautiful person. It was at least five years ago. We lost touch for a long while, but reconnected again recently and now we are growing close once again  |
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I was very lucky the first time I joined Fab as a lady messaged me quite soon after I joined. I had hardly any pictures, and none of them good, and her profile only had two Friends Only pictures, so I was sceptical, but we had a nice chat and she seemed genuine, and when we exchanged face pics I found she was really pretty.
So we arranged to meet for a social and yes, she looked just like her photos, and we got on really well. I walked her back to her car and we kissed...a few times.
She ended up becoming a proper Friend With Benefits for a while (with the 'Friend' being as important as the 'Benefits') and we met up a number of times. But things drifted a little and we didn't see each other for a bit as life stuff got in the way so it fizzled out.
Then when lockdown was easing we got back in touch and met for a socially distanced catch up in a park. We had a really nice chat and led to an understanding that we'd meet up as we used to when the rules allowed, but for some reason it didn't happen and she doesn't seem to be contactable now - I suspect some life stuff she had told me about took her attention away from anything else, but only she knows that. I hope she's doing well, whatever the reason. |
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