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What are your expectations with a man, who didn't have sex for years?
10, 15, 20, 25, 30, 30+ minutes?
Realistically it won't be an hour for sure. 15 to 30 minutes is more likely.
Going for the full menu or just give a BJ first?
Would you be interested in anybody out of the game that long?
Is it a turn on for anybody?
I mean it's a massive load probably.
Are you happy with whatever as long as you had an orgasm during foreplay?
Plenty of questions, I know.
Haven't seen a thread about this topic yet.
Sorry!
Be nice, but not too nice.
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"Anything less than licking her for hours and fucking all night is gonna be considered a waste of time OP"
I meant the first shoot.
the second and third would be longer.
Fourth would be a possibility depending on her too. |
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"Define massive load?
1.5 teaspoons?
But doesn't the body regulate the amount? So it doesn't really matter how long it's been does it?"
There's is a difference from masturbation, sex and sex after a long time.
Not buckets, but would make a big difference, if someone would decide to swallow. Probably slight difference with every man. I know my body how it works. |
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Anything less than 37 minutes and 24 seconds would be disappointing  and anything more than one mouthful would be too much! 
Seriously though you’ll get different answers depending on who you ask so best to talk to the person receiving it?  |
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"Anything less than 37 minutes and 24 seconds would be disappointing and anything more than one mouthful would be too much!
Seriously though you’ll get different answers depending on who you ask so best to talk to the person receiving it? "
Fuck.. that’s 37 minutes 23 seconds past my average  |
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"I wouldn't really have expectations. We've met guys who last ages and guys who don't. I prefer the guys who concentrate on foreplay rather than length of time they can last really. "
I meant first time after for a while.
I used to be okay I guess.
30-60 minutes was my average not counting foreplay.
I'm planning to give an orgasm during foreplay.
Not too much foreplay to me.
Also, I'm taking my time during masturbation, so I won't shoot after 5 minutes in real action.
I tested it after my divorce with a couple of women (ONS).
I lasted 20 minutes, but mostly I was in control.
Also I always ask, if I can cum or they need a few more minutes.
So it's not like I have issues holding it, but rusty for sure. |
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"Anything less than 37 minutes and 24 seconds would be disappointing and anything more than one mouthful would be too much!
Seriously though you’ll get different answers depending on who you ask so best to talk to the person receiving it? "
I know it's different for every women.
I just want to know how much I need to train. Stretching the time of masturbation helps, but I don't want to ruin my arm.
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"Anything less than 37 minutes and 24 seconds would be disappointing and anything more than one mouthful would be too much!
Seriously though you’ll get different answers depending on who you ask so best to talk to the person receiving it? "
I can do 35 mins and if i wear my fiddly belt & shoes I think we’ll get to the target time!!  |
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"I wouldn't really have expectations. We've met guys who last ages and guys who don't. I prefer the guys who concentrate on foreplay rather than length of time they can last really.
I meant first time after for a while.
I used to be okay I guess.
30-60 minutes was my average not counting foreplay.
I'm planning to give an orgasm during foreplay.
Not too much foreplay to me.
Also, I'm taking my time during masturbation, so I won't shoot after 5 minutes in real action.
I tested it after my divorce with a couple of women (ONS).
I lasted 20 minutes, but mostly I was in control.
Also I always ask, if I can cum or they need a few more minutes.
So it's not like I have issues holding it, but rusty for sure."
30 to 60 minutes of penetration?
I think you might be massively overthinking |
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"Anything less than 37 minutes and 24 seconds would be disappointing and anything more than one mouthful would be too much!
Seriously though you’ll get different answers depending on who you ask so best to talk to the person receiving it?
I can do 35 mins and if i wear my fiddly belt & shoes I think we’ll get to the target time!! "
I even can do 35 minutes with the full menu after 4 years of nothing.
10 for her, 5 for me and 20 action=35 minutes.
Foreplay would be more likely 13 for her and 2 for me. Unless she wants to get read of the burden first.
Otherwise probably max 20 minutes and shoot. |
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"Define massive load?
1.5 teaspoons?
But doesn't the body regulate the amount? So it doesn't really matter how long it's been does it?"
Men think they cum more after a long absence. I am on medication that makes me cum noticably more if I cum many times in 24 hours. Other people I think it just feels like it is more as the 'release' is bigger not the volume. |
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"I wouldn't really have expectations. We've met guys who last ages and guys who don't. I prefer the guys who concentrate on foreplay rather than length of time they can last really.
I meant first time after for a while.
I used to be okay I guess.
30-60 minutes was my average not counting foreplay.
I'm planning to give an orgasm during foreplay.
Not too much foreplay to me.
Also, I'm taking my time during masturbation, so I won't shoot after 5 minutes in real action.
I tested it after my divorce with a couple of women (ONS).
I lasted 20 minutes, but mostly I was in control.
Also I always ask, if I can cum or they need a few more minutes.
So it's not like I have issues holding it, but rusty for sure.
30 to 60 minutes of penetration?
I think you might be massively overthinking "
I used to have a long relationship with an older woman in my 20's for over 10 years. She wasn't cumming easily, so I learned to control it. 30-45 minutes was my average and sometimes 60.
I used to watch the clock when we started penetration and have a look when I was about to cum.
If it wasn't half an hour, then I carried on holding.
If it was like 45, then I asked her how far she is.
10 years ago it changed when I married.
We had loads of sex until she gave birth. Then it went from rare to nothing.
I might be able to go back how I was with someone regular or might not.
I wouldn't promise anything to anybody.
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"I gave a guy a blowjob before that hadn't had sex for over 4 years . he cum within around 2 minutes ... thankfully he got hard again about 15 min later  "
Getting the (baby)elephant out of the room?
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"I gave a guy a blowjob before that hadn't had sex for over 4 years . he cum within around 2 minutes ... thankfully he got hard again about 15 min later
Getting the (baby)elephant out of the room?
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well not going to lie it was unexpected but he did cum a wonderful huge volume so i was a happy sucker regardless |
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"Define massive load?
1.5 teaspoons?
But doesn't the body regulate the amount? So it doesn't really matter how long it's been does it?
Men think they cum more after a long absence. I am on medication that makes me cum noticably more if I cum many times in 24 hours. Other people I think it just feels like it is more as the 'release' is bigger not the volume."
Maybe.
It feels more and longer for sure.
Never measured.
Definitely more with sex compared to wank. |
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"I gave a guy a blowjob before that hadn't had sex for over 4 years . he cum within around 2 minutes ... thankfully he got hard again about 15 min later
Getting the (baby)elephant out of the room?
well not going to lie it was unexpected but he did cum a wonderful huge volume so i was a happy sucker regardless "
That's why I asked.
Everyone might have different routine for this kind of occasions.
Some wouldn't bother, some would be excited, some would be meh.
Interested in general opinions.
It's not a personal ad or attention seeking. Most people put off by it probably, but I would be open about it either way.
Can't see the point hiding this or lying
about penis size.
Well, everybody is rounding up 0.5 inch probably.
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"I gave a guy a blowjob before that hadn't had sex for over 4 years . he cum within around 2 minutes ... thankfully he got hard again about 15 min later
Getting the (baby)elephant out of the room?
well not going to lie it was unexpected but he did cum a wonderful huge volume so i was a happy sucker regardless
That's why I asked.
Everyone might have different routine for this kind of occasions.
Some wouldn't bother, some would be excited, some would be meh.
Interested in general opinions.
It's not a personal ad or attention seeking. Most people put off by it probably, but I would be open about it either way.
Can't see the point hiding this or lying
about penis size.
Well, everybody is rounding up 0.5 inch probably.
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I mean the last time i had sex with a woman after a long break of a couple of years, think i lasted all of 10minutes though i had prewarned them |
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I just want to know how much I need to train. Stretching the time of masturbation helps, but I don't want to ruin my arm.
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This is where cross training comes in. Wank with your weak hand, then play darts or drink a six pack (one by one obvs) with the other hand.
Should be a healthy balance. |
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I don't care how long it's been nor would want to know.
However long it's lasts as long as it's a good time, a quicky can be as fun as a long session, I get achy these days.
Heavy load, oh I hate that phrase, what are you weighing it on to class it as heavy?
I forgot the rest of the questions but answer remains I wouldn't care how long or how much, don't think anyone could make me cum on a 1st meet anyway it doesn't mean I don't enjoy the sex.
Mrs
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I just want to know how much I need to train. Stretching the time of masturbation helps, but I don't want to ruin my arm.
This is where cross training comes in. Wank with your weak hand, then play darts or drink a six pack (one by one obvs) with the other hand.
Should be a healthy balance. "
I always want to change to the right hand, but it just doesn't feel right that way.
I'm right handed otherwise, so I guess the left is my weaker hand.
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"I don't care how long it's been nor would want to know.
However long it's lasts as long as it's a good time, a quicky can be as fun as a long session, I get achy these days.
Heavy load, oh I hate that phrase, what are you weighing it on to class it as heavy?
I forgot the rest of the questions but answer remains I wouldn't care how long or how much, don't think anyone could make me cum on a 1st meet anyway it doesn't mean I don't enjoy the sex.
Mrs
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I aim to please, but prefer honesty.
You're public about you don't cum on first meet, so I guess you never pretend orgasm.
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"I gave a guy a blowjob before that hadn't had sex for over 4 years . he cum within around 2 minutes ... thankfully he got hard again about 15 min later
Getting the (baby)elephant out of the room?
well not going to lie it was unexpected but he did cum a wonderful huge volume so i was a happy sucker regardless
That's why I asked.
Everyone might have different routine for this kind of occasions.
Some wouldn't bother, some would be excited, some would be meh.
Interested in general opinions.
It's not a personal ad or attention seeking. Most people put off by it probably, but I would be open about it either way.
Can't see the point hiding this or lying
about penis size.
Well, everybody is rounding up 0.5 inch probably.
I mean the last time i had sex with a woman after a long break of a couple of years, think i lasted all of 10minutes though i had prewarned them "
Prewarning is essential in this case I think.
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