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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"A glass whiskey on the rocks helps me or if its too early for that then running around the garden with my husky is a great way to forget things. X"
Pets are a great way of destressing, arent they?  |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"i know when the depressive side of me is drawing near as i start to obsess over cleaning - i take myself off for a walk - often "
Walking works for me , too - fresh air and trees...
I caught sight of some TV program the other night and it was about some obsessive cleaners helping out some people who had problems with hoarding stuff, so kind of a win win situation. Did you see that by any chance? |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"I go to the gym and work out my stress on the weights. I'm a grumpy arse today so off in 10 mins."
Strangely I prefer weights over cardio when it comes to stress busting... wonder why?
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
Bedworth |
If it's just a matter of relaxing I get out my spinning wheel or sewing machine.
If I'm in a mood when my personal issues are getting to me then I often take my dog out for a day walking around the country park. It normally helps me to come to terms with things and lifts my mood again |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"If it's just a matter of relaxing I get out my spinning wheel or sewing machine.
If I'm in a mood when my personal issues are getting to me then I often take my dog out for a day walking around the country park. It normally helps me to come to terms with things and lifts my mood again"
I can imagine spinning being really relaxing.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i know when the depressive side of me is drawing near as i start to obsess over cleaning - i take myself off for a walk - often Walking works for me , too - fresh air and trees...
I caught sight of some TV program the other night and it was about some obsessive cleaners helping out some people who had problems with hoarding stuff, so kind of a win win situation. Did you see that by any chance? "
no missed it
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"i know when the depressive side of me is drawing near as i start to obsess over cleaning - i take myself off for a walk - often Walking works for me , too - fresh air and trees...
I caught sight of some TV program the other night and it was about some obsessive cleaners helping out some people who had problems with hoarding stuff, so kind of a win win situation. Did you see that by any chance?
no missed it
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I player perhaps - it was not long ago -maybe somebody else can help?
It was so interesting as the people with obsessive cleaning needs could really help those that lived in a dirty and over crowded place. I also thought it promoted a little understanding that some people have obsessive traits, others cannot keep a place clean and tidy but at the end of the day they were all humans... people and quite nice people as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a place logged in my mind where I can go. It is from a lovely day in the English countryside, lounging by a gurgling brook away from the crowds. That's where I go usually.
Sometimes, I walk my yoga path up a winding mountain path to a pagoda at the top of the mountain where a crystal fountain flows. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i know when the depressive side of me is drawing near as i start to obsess over cleaning - i take myself off for a walk - often Walking works for me , too - fresh air and trees...
I caught sight of some TV program the other night and it was about some obsessive cleaners helping out some people who had problems with hoarding stuff, so kind of a win win situation. Did you see that by any chance?
no missed it
I player perhaps - it was not long ago -maybe somebody else can help?
It was so interesting as the people with obsessive cleaning needs could really help those that lived in a dirty and over crowded place. I also thought it promoted a little understanding that some people have obsessive traits, others cannot keep a place clean and tidy but at the end of the day they were all humans... people and quite nice people as well. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bottle of wine in the bath - lush!
Rumbling fake profiles - something both satisfying and arguably stress relieving for others! I asked for stress relieving... not reliving "
It's very stress relieving !
Maybe it's just me but I get a lot of 'wind ups' on site - I don't let them worry me and enjoy letting them think I'm suckered in. It's amazing how many are suddenly UNLOS once they realise they've been rumbled! |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Bottle of wine in the bath - lush!
Rumbling fake profiles - something both satisfying and arguably stress relieving for others! I asked for stress relieving... not reliving
It's very stress relieving !
Maybe it's just me but I get a lot of 'wind ups' on site - I don't let them worry me and enjoy letting them think I'm suckered in. It's amazing how many are suddenly UNLOS once they realise they've been rumbled! "
Can you please let me know when you are thinking of rumbling me? Only... I like to be showered and all.;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blasting down the mountains here in Spain on my downhill mountain bike , a fantastic stress buster when your full on concentrating which line to take your minds totally focused on that and nothing else |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Blasting down the mountains here in Spain on my downhill mountain bike , a fantastic stress buster when your full on concentrating which line to take your minds totally focused on that and nothing else "
Did not think I was the envious type... but I am, looking at your profile |
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Its interesting to see how many people do get wound up by hassle of day to day stuff - personally Work gets me reved up every day and unless i spend half an hour cooling down when i get in, I'm the bear with a sore head
warm bath - soft music and the thought of filthy sex helps me -) |
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"i know when the depressive side of me is drawing near as i start to obsess over cleaning - i take myself off for a walk - often Walking works for me , too - fresh air and trees...
I caught sight of some TV program the other night and it was about some obsessive cleaners helping out some people who had problems with hoarding stuff, so kind of a win win situation. Did you see that by any chance? "
I watched it and thought it was a good idea |
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A nice hot lavender bath, pyjamas on and gettin in bed to watch tv or a film.
A drive out to the beach is lovely of a night listening to and watching the waves crash in.
Cuddles are a great stress reliever too for me.
Argh now I want to do all of these things tonight!!! |
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By *aris23Woman
over a year ago
France |
Depending on the cause:
1. Get my record player out and loudly play some old vinyl.
2. Get lost in a good book (even better after reaching some kind of destination in no3)
3. Get in the car and just DRIVE! |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Depending on the cause:
1. Get my record player out and loudly play some old vinyl.
2. Get lost in a good book (even better after reaching some kind of destination in no3)
3. Get in the car and just DRIVE!"
Driving does it for me - love it, never stresses me out, on the contrary
Different story though if I end up in a traffic jam... |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"A hot bath
Helps me relax & unwinde after a tiring or stressful day
I just had a hot bath with a glass of red wine feeling so sleepy now x  "
You cannot go to sleep just yet - we are still busy finding new ways of relaxing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If relaxing then you can't beet warm bath and glass of wine . But if I am stressed I lock the bath room door sit on the floor and cry , I know it sounds odd but I always feel better after a good cry lol |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"A hot bath
Helps me relax & unwinde after a tiring or stressful day On your own?;-)
Yes
Unless you wish to share  "
Sounds very tempting Bet Minxie will want to join in ..She is like that, you know |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
"A hot bath
Helps me relax & unwinde after a tiring or stressful day
I just had a hot bath with a glass of red wine feeling so sleepy now x "
But are you feeling relaxed?
Always follow a hot bath with a warm snuggly bed and get thr best nights sleep |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"If relaxing then you can't beet warm bath and glass of wine . But if I am stressed I lock the bath room door sit on the floor and cry , I know it sounds odd but I always feel better after a good cry lol "
Tears a re a very natural way of our bodies to let go of negativity - sadly some think it is a sign of weakness. It is not... it is a sign of being in tune with yourself! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Music for me love losing myself in it. Transports me away from my problems
MissD I love music - what sort do you listen to? "
Just seen this, me personally all sorts, classic to rock/heavy, depends on my mood but a good sing along and time to reflect does the soul the power of good. |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
"A hot bath
Helps me relax & unwinde after a tiring or stressful day On your own?;-)
Yes
Unless you wish to share
Sounds very tempting Bet Minxie will want to join in ..She is like that, you know "
Well i'd tempt you futher by offering to go on the tap side
Don't know Minxie and even though my bath tub aint made for it the more the merrier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If relaxing then you can't beet warm bath and glass of wine . But if I am stressed I lock the bath room door sit on the floor and cry , I know it sounds odd but I always feel better after a good cry lol Tears a re a very natural way of our bodies to let go of negativity - sadly some think it is a sign of weakness. It is not... it is a sign of being in tune with yourself! "
the prob is I also cry when I am really really cross and offten if I am fighting with some one I have to say I am cross not up set lol |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"If relaxing then you can't beet warm bath and glass of wine . But if I am stressed I lock the bath room door sit on the floor and cry , I know it sounds odd but I always feel better after a good cry lol Tears a re a very natural way of our bodies to let go of negativity - sadly some think it is a sign of weakness. It is not... it is a sign of being in tune with yourself! the prob is I also cry when I am really really cross and offten if I am fighting with some one I have to say I am cross not up set lol "
Then that is frustration... tears of frustratioin and anger - just as valid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Music for me love losing myself in it. Transports me away from my problems
MissD I love music - what sort do you listen to?
Just seen this, me personally all sorts, classic to rock/heavy, depends on my mood but a good sing along and time to reflect does the soul the power of good."
I pretty much listen to anything as long as its good, pride myself in finding unknown underground artists. Not really bothered if it has words or not just needs to be evocative and stir some kind of emotion within. |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Music for me love losing myself in it. Transports me away from my problems
MissD I love music - what sort do you listen to?
Just seen this, me personally all sorts, classic to rock/heavy, depends on my mood but a good sing along and time to reflect does the soul the power of good.
I pretty much listen to anything as long as its good, pride myself in finding unknown underground artists. Not really bothered if it has words or not just needs to be evocative and stir some kind of emotion within."
I am open to all sorts of music, very little I dont like. I also like the less known artists and composers... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dan here
Gota say i love to tinker with rc models to relax, and every now and then to build a model it just relaxs me and gets me thinkin of just that one thing for a few hours and all elae drifts away |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Dan here
Gota say i love to tinker with rc models to relax, and every now and then to build a model it just relaxs me and gets me thinkin of just that one thing for a few hours and all elae drifts away "
Just reminded me of something I used to do... paint model aircraft. Unusual for a girl but I have always had a keen interest in flying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Taekwondo... Performing patterns for an hour or so, can distract you from the riggers of daily life. It is both physical and mentally challenging. Not everyone's cup of tea, but its a great stress reliver for me. |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Taekwondo... Performing patterns for an hour or so, can distract you from the riggers of daily life. It is both physical and mentally challenging. Not everyone's cup of tea, but its a great stress reliver for me. "
Martial Arts have a very disciplining and calming effect I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Riding my horse in the countryside..... all my worries just melt away. Was the same with running too but have had to stop that recently due to an injury so have taken up Pilates, good for toning as well as being therapeutic |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"I ride my horse to relax
Good to know we are not the only horse people here"
ANd we are the nice ones - we only ride them and look after them (not personally these days but in the past) |
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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago
a land up north..... of leicester |
"A glass whiskey on the rocks helps me or if its too early for that then running around the garden with my husky is a great way to forget things. XPets are a great way of destressing, arent they? "
Most definitely my fine lady x |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"A glass whiskey on the rocks helps me or if its too early for that then running around the garden with my husky is a great way to forget things. XPets are a great way of destressing, arent they?
Most definitely my fine lady x"
I must confess I am sooo tempted to get a dog now that I am more in control of my free time... really tempted. |
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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago
a land up north..... of leicester |
"A glass whiskey on the rocks helps me or if its too early for that then running around the garden with my husky is a great way to forget things. XPets are a great way of destressing, arent they?
Most definitely my fine lady xI must confess I am sooo tempted to get a dog now that I am more in control of my free time... really tempted. "
I suggest that you do it, would you get a small dog or a big one though? |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"A glass whiskey on the rocks helps me or if its too early for that then running around the garden with my husky is a great way to forget things. XPets are a great way of destressing, arent they?
Most definitely my fine lady xI must confess I am sooo tempted to get a dog now that I am more in control of my free time... really tempted.
I suggest that you do it, would you get a small dog or a big one though?"
I love labs and labradoodles and a friend is having springer pups very soon - I am soooo tempted as the mum is sooo much fun, lively and always seems to be happy. |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"A glass whiskey on the rocks helps me or if its too early for that then running around the garden with my husky is a great way to forget things. XPets are a great way of destressing, arent they?
Most definitely my fine lady xI must confess I am sooo tempted to get a dog now that I am more in control of my free time... really tempted.
I suggest that you do it, would you get a small dog or a big one though?
I love labs and labradoodles and a friend is having springer pups very soon - I am soooo tempted as the mum is sooo much fun, lively and always seems to be happy. "
Ooops I meant the friend's springer is having pups lol |
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"I like to run through the local park kicking the heads of daisies.
Oy I am head of the Charity for the Early Intervention for notorious Daisykickers!!"
Frikin tree hugger!!!
Reminds me of the time I was caught by the parkie and was made to stick all the heads back on with sellotape. |
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