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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"??....wonder what the percentage is on here that just pretend to be???
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Take a wild guess I dare you.
Shame we won't be able to work out if you're right though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the better percentage would be how many couples and woman are actually just guys getting some kind of kick from pretending....definitely seems to be alot I come across |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are we talking fab single or single single OP? 
Either way, yes I’m single "
What's fab single? Is that where they are cheating on their fab partner they have a couples profile with? I've had that one.
Or just attached and pretending to be single?
Seriously how many excuses and cover stories do they think actually work????? |
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"Are we talking fab single or single single OP?
Either way, yes I’m single
What's fab single? Is that where they are cheating on their fab partner they have a couples profile with? I've had that one.
Or just attached and pretending to be single?
Seriously how many excuses and cover stories do they think actually work?????"
Could be either tbh - both are cheating in some way. Sometimes they’re easy to spot other times it takes a minute, but the truth always comes out eventually |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope ,but then my partner is here too so it's all above board."
And that's completely ok.
But when people try to convince you they are single when they are not, they are not only deceiving their partner, but there deceiving the person the trying to convince as well. It's so ugly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are we talking fab single or single single OP?
Either way, yes I’m single
What's fab single? Is that where they are cheating on their fab partner they have a couples profile with? I've had that one.
Or just attached and pretending to be single?
Seriously how many excuses and cover stories do they think actually work?????"
I’m fab single. Not single but meet as a single male is that it? |
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"I think the better percentage would be how many couples and woman are actually just guys getting some kind of kick from pretending....definitely seems to be alot I come across"
Yes!
There's a clue when they want to meet/wank with you, but the wife won't be there. I got that with straight profiles too.
Got excited about a message from a couple, then the disappointment.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope ,but then my partner is here too so it's all above board.
And that's completely ok.
But when people try to convince you they are single when they are not, they are not only deceiving their partner, but there deceiving the person the trying to convince as well. It's so ugly."
I feel your pain! Fed up of talking to really nice guys who then eventually own up to being married and cheating.
I don’t judge them I was in an unhappy and sexless marriage too, but just not someone I want to get involved with. Plus big turn off when the truth is being hidden or I’m being outright lied to - how can I trust you in my bed when you started off by lying to me?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope ,but then my partner is here too so it's all above board.
And that's completely ok.
But when people try to convince you they are single when they are not, they are not only deceiving their partner, but there deceiving the person the trying to convince as well. It's so ugly.
I feel your pain! Fed up of talking to really nice guys who then eventually own up to being married and cheating.
I don’t judge them I was in an unhappy and sexless marriage too, but just not someone I want to get involved with. Plus big turn off when the truth is being hidden or I’m being outright lied to - how can I trust you in my bed when you started off by lying to me?!"
This!!!
I'm exactly the same.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yep, divorce should be complete this week (well I hope so anyway!)  "
But this also gets used as a cover story for being all cloak and dagger to not upset the ex in the divorce and remain discreet.
I'm by no means saying you're doing that at all. But seems to be a regular line used. And a hard one to argue or disprove.
Like I live with my parents and I'm caring for them
I could actually list so many. |
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"Sometimes someone can be single but circumstances (co parenting, co habiting, co owning property) results in the need to be discreet. Making it look like they may be dodgy/attached"
Being discreet and being single are two different things..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a double edged sword if someone is going to lie to you that’s who they are. I feel like a lot of women are skeptical, understandably, because a minority ruin it for the rest of us and expect us to jump through hoops. Like how are we meant to prove it?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the better percentage would be how many couples and woman are actually just guys getting some kind of kick from pretending....definitely seems to be alot I come across"
This is true I definitely |
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Yes...
AHH errrm in the interests of full disclosure that may not be the case but it's too early to say: I'm in a relationship. It wouldn't be one that excludes other relationships though and that person would be aware I am meeting other people.
So if you have a word for that please feel free to throw it my way. |
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"Nope ,but then my partner is here too so it's all above board.
And that's completely ok.
But when people try to convince you they are single when they are not, they are not only deceiving their partner, but there deceiving the person the trying to convince as well. It's so ugly."
I couldn't agree more
I think anyone who is on here cheating ,should make people they may meet aware of it.
Meeting people by being duplicitous isn't on and takes away their choices & makes me angry. |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
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Yes single and after been since my partner passed away.
Am I lonely? No I don't think so.
Is there a void? Of course but I deal with that by keeping myself busy and make sure I use my time wisely.
I don't think I'd get into another serious relationship as I don't think it would be right.
Friends with benefits maybe.
I have a good life, I consider myself lucky |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes
No
Whatever gets me fucked
I'm starting to think I should be like this
It’s there worry not yours so go for it  "
Only until their scorned partner turns up wielding an axe, which my kids then witness and are traumatized by and then I have to explain my irresponsibility to an ex that just loves to have something on me, and would never let me forget it.
Erm no! And that's without even considering my moral compass. |
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"Yes
No
Whatever gets me fucked
I'm starting to think I should be like this
It’s there worry not yours so go for it
Only until their scorned partner turns up wielding an axe, which my kids then witness and are traumatized by and then I have to explain my irresponsibility to an ex that just loves to have something on me, and would never let me forget it.
Erm no! And that's without even considering my moral compass."
I had this happen ,she didn't turn up but rang me constantly
I was seeing a man ,not from here & he told me single ,no kids.
He had 2 kids and a long term partner ,she found a text from me and was v angry not surprisingly when she rang me.
It took me a long time to convince her that I didn't know she existed & she was devastated.
That's why I don't like those who hide that they are in relationships.
This was 15 years ago ,but still stays with me.
I couldn't knowingly do that to someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes
No
Whatever gets me fucked
I'm starting to think I should be like this
It’s there worry not yours so go for it
Only until their scorned partner turns up wielding an axe, which my kids then witness and are traumatized by and then I have to explain my irresponsibility to an ex that just loves to have something on me, and would never let me forget it.
Erm no! And that's without even considering my moral compass.
I had this happen ,she didn't turn up but rang me constantly
I was seeing a man ,not from here & he told me single ,no kids.
He had 2 kids and a long term partner ,she found a text from me and was v angry not surprisingly when she rang me.
It took me a long time to convince her that I didn't know she existed & she was devastated.
That's why I don't like those who hide that they are in relationships.
This was 15 years ago ,but still stays with me.
I couldn't knowingly do that to someone else."
That's horrible. I can fully understand why you'd not want to go there.
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"Yes
No
Whatever gets me fucked
I'm starting to think I should be like this
It’s there worry not yours so go for it
Only until their scorned partner turns up wielding an axe, which my kids then witness and are traumatized by and then I have to explain my irresponsibility to an ex that just loves to have something on me, and would never let me forget it.
Erm no! And that's without even considering my moral compass.
I had this happen ,she didn't turn up but rang me constantly
I was seeing a man ,not from here & he told me single ,no kids.
He had 2 kids and a long term partner ,she found a text from me and was v angry not surprisingly when she rang me.
It took me a long time to convince her that I didn't know she existed & she was devastated.
That's why I don't like those who hide that they are in relationships.
This was 15 years ago ,but still stays with me.
I couldn't knowingly do that to someone else."
I’ve had the same thing. Fiancée of a guy I’d been to a few clubs with, stayed overnight with over several months, got in touch - she was pregnant which was a nice extra touch. |
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"Actually single on here?
Me I am 
You want to go on a date and see some wild animals at longleat Zoo
Yes! Especially if they have otters "
Do you love otters as well ??? oh my days we are fated... i have a pet cuddly otter called Oliver .. yes they do have otters and you can actually do a VIP seession where you get to feed them by hand
message me lets go on a road trip |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Actually single on here?
Me I am
You want to go on a date and see some wild animals at longleat Zoo
Yes! Especially if they have otters
Do you love otters as well ??? oh my days we are fated... i have a pet cuddly otter called Oliver .. yes they do have otters and you can actually do a VIP seession where you get to feed them by hand
message me lets go on a road trip "
Sold!!!! |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Nope ,but then my partner is here too so it's all above board.
And that's completely ok.
But when people try to convince you they are single when they are not, they are not only deceiving their partner, but there deceiving the person the trying to convince as well. It's so ugly.
I couldn't agree more
I think anyone who is on here cheating ,should make people they may meet aware of it.
Meeting people by being duplicitous isn't on and takes away their choices & makes me angry."
It’s very much a consent issue |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Yes
No
Whatever gets me fucked
I'm starting to think I should be like this
It’s there worry not yours so go for it
Only until their scorned partner turns up wielding an axe, which my kids then witness and are traumatized by and then I have to explain my irresponsibility to an ex that just loves to have something on me, and would never let me forget it.
Erm no! And that's without even considering my moral compass."
That sounds horrific! If I had doubts, I would just random call them between five and seven, what’s for dinner? What are you up to? If they regularly don’t pick up or always happen to be in the car or out for a walk, there’s your answer.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes
No
Whatever gets me fucked
I'm starting to think I should be like this
It’s there worry not yours so go for it
Only until their scorned partner turns up wielding an axe, which my kids then witness and are traumatized by and then I have to explain my irresponsibility to an ex that just loves to have something on me, and would never let me forget it.
Erm no! And that's without even considering my moral compass.
That sounds horrific! If I had doubts, I would just random call them between five and seven, what’s for dinner? What are you up to? If they regularly don’t pick up or always happen to be in the car or out for a walk, there’s your answer.."
That didn't actually happen. In as answering the poster in a certain way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We’re as married as can be.
How about you petite woman ?
Are you single?
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I am very single. As single as they get....well apart from some mini me's that lurk around my gaff most days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aye quite a few OP, but certainly far fewer than say they are.
Men AND women don’t always disclose their true status, including some forum-famous “singletons”
It’s up to them what they wish to disclose (of course) but it is quite amusing when *some* attached people are vocal in their condemnation of “cheaters” in public (for virtue points and PR reasons I guess?) when they’re the biggest hypocrites of the lot! I’ve seen that a few times over the years!
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"Aye quite a few OP, but certainly far fewer than say they are.
Men AND women don’t always disclose their true status, including some forum-famous “singletons”
It’s up to them what they wish to disclose (of course) but it is quite amusing when *some* attached people are vocal in their condemnation of “cheaters” in public (for virtue points and PR reasons I guess?) when they’re the biggest hypocrites of the lot! I’ve seen that a few times over the years!
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Same as the non smokers who smoke . Well over 50% of the people I’ve met easily! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Aye quite a few OP, but certainly far fewer than say they are.
Men AND women don’t always disclose their true status, including some forum-famous “singletons”
It’s up to them what they wish to disclose (of course) but it is quite amusing when *some* attached people are vocal in their condemnation of “cheaters” in public (for virtue points and PR reasons I guess?) when they’re the biggest hypocrites of the lot! I’ve seen that a few times over the years!
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Ah the hubby will find this hilarious.
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
Dartford |
"Painfully! As much as I wish I were not. "
Really? I've done both a couple of times, men and women, and it is hard work. I dipped my foot again last year but it was an effort, I tell you. There is a lot of tortuous twisting and turning, unless you don't. And that is when it ends. I like the idea of being by myself (at least until the burdens leave home) and having the occasional sex through here or IRL. |
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