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OMG what a horrible experience I had tonight
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Contacted a young couple looking for an older guy, she chatted with me then got a WhatsApp message from her bf.
The meet details had changed from what I thought was one type of specific meet to wanting penetrating sex, only to then be told anal and would I use condom..etc.
Then I piss him them off?
Sends me a I don't like your attitude cobblers message because I mention something she aske D me to do for a previous meet.. bloody hell
Anyway needless to say I won't be contacting them again.
Jeez is this common experience? Block button was dusted off and pressed.. still shaken by the experiences. People very quick to judge |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry you’ve had a bad experience, but you’ve done the right thing by blocking and moving on"
Yeah thanks, just think people get so upety over things..
Calming down steadily lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That is not your fault by the sounds of it at all. It sounds like a lack of communication on their part or her part should I say. If it is something that she had asked you previously and he got funny then he probably didn't know or it was something that they had said would be happen etc. Sounds like a lucky escape to me. |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
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"Sounds to me as if they are Knee Jerkers and have a inflated ego ..... or having a laugh at your expense.
Set some boundaries for yourself and play by your own rules x"
This is correct.
Bow down to no one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" I mention something she asked me to do for a previous meet
What did you mention ?"
A meet where she's on all 4s while I wank off. Then when read to cum, put my helmet against her bum and cum in it.
She wanted an STD test first from me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Was the disagreement about the STD test ?"
No it was because I mentioned what she asked for on the last meet .. which didn't happen
He must've mis understood and thought I wanted to do anal on her bareback.
But i didn't get the chance to say i don't do anal at all, and xondoms used always |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently I'm a bit chewed because I didn't mean to offend them "
Stop worrying about it and move on. You can’t control their feelings or reactions. Focus energy on what’s potentially to come instead of dwelling over a past. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Currently I'm a bit chewed because I didn't mean to offend them
Maybe they will read this post and realise the misunderstanding"
Lol i doubt it im blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe they will read this post and realise the misunderstanding
Lol i doubt it im blocked.
That doesn't stop them seeing your forum posts"
Oh right. I also was going to attend a club but it's one they frequently bisit, so will leave rhat one alone and visit the other one ... Play it cool |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The problem is with them, not with you.
Just be glad you got out of that sooner rather than later.
Give it some time, and she might even get in touch when she's single "
Lol yeah, i thought it best i annoyed rhem on whatsapp rather than offend them at in person on a meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Currently I'm a bit chewed because I didn't mean to offend them
Stop worrying about it and move on. You can’t control their feelings or reactions. Focus energy on what’s potentially to come instead of dwelling over a past. "
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"Was the disagreement about the STD test ?
No it was because I mentioned what she asked for on the last meet .. which didn't happen
He must've mis understood and thought I wanted to do anal on her bareback.
But i didn't get the chance to say i don't do anal at all, and xondoms used always "
Maybe that's what she wanted and he got funny about it .
Definitely sounds like miscommunication between them rather than you .
Shame you can't share the profile I'd love to have a look |
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