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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sit down and have a adult conversation about open up the relationship is how I would do it presumably before it got serious or anything that way no feelings are hurt in the process ie attachment and stuff has set in
As for how I got in to swingeing in the first place told the story a million times but ok
I split with a ex and a guy at work who I use to talk to on brake if we took or breaks at the same time we had flexible breaks ie you can take it when you like was a swinger
Was telling him how I had split with here he gave me the old get on fab you be drowning in pussy by the weeks end so went home and joined up to find that was far from the truth even back then 14 years ago before fab became media sensationed and all that
I seen there was tv/ts here and before I meet my ex I had dabbled a bit but nothing to serious or meet anyone or anything like that
I seen a opportunity to explore this side off me while I was single so deleted man account went a little shopping after work and made a tv/ts account
And it just sort off snowballed from there in to what it is to day
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Knew I didn’t want a serious relationship again, I like my independence, but also have needs.
Around the time I was thinking this the concept of fwb hit the msm so I looked for a site that did that kinda thing. Didn’t get on great on it met one person then was chatting with another and while I wasn’t attracted to him, we got friendly chatting and he recommended fab.
Was very lucky that my early meets were lovely people quite experienced in swinging so a positive start, one of them introduced me to cjs too which I was surprised to find I liked a lot and I basically haven’t looked back since.
I’ve made some amazing friends through fab and swinging and can’t imagine giving it up, even though I’m now tentatively debating the idea of “proper” dating again, I think I would need to be with someone also into swinging or at the very least happy for me to continue, which is not easy to find is it ? |
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I was seduced by an American couple in Central London few years ago. They wanted me to show them places around the capital (and few other things giggles). They were very affectionate towards each other - young couple in their 30s. They've explained that they were a very adventurous couple who liked cruises, flying and travelling.
I was invited to their hotel a few times but always declined to stay the night - I had social anxiety issues. They had a massive family room at the Premier Inn. I accepted the offer one night and after watching a few movies the subject matter quickly changed to sex and sexuality. Hubby quickly established what he likes: a threesome, DP and DVP. She liked blindfolds and missionary. And before you know it they were getting it on right in front me which turned me on so much. My usual response to these situation was to run as fast as I can out of the room and in my car but I'm glad I stayed. I was a little intoxicated tbf.
Hubby blindfolded her, spread her legs apart and singled to me. I got on my knees and licked her soul out. I remember we fucked all night till the birds started chirping. He was fully involved in everything we did. It was one of the best nights of my life full of wonderful experiences and magic moments. A new way of life began for me. |
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Random conversation on a night out with a stranger about swingers clubs, visited one, wasn't keen, they said I might prefer this site, still here 2 years later, and now enjoy clubs, just not that one |
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We were a poly couple but found we didn't have the time or emotional energy to out into separate relationships and chose to consider something more casual that could suit high sex drives and an enjoyment of exploring kink with others.
We landed on swing as it felt like a natural progression. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The conversation actually started a few years before we joined here. I was very ill and unable to have sex without extreme pain so I told my husband he had my permission to go and meet other people to satisfy his needs.
Then a few years later once I was better we were talking how we would feel about involving someone else in our relationship for sex. Then we joined here. And here we are. 
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
My exe got me involved. She had started swinging before I ever did. However we broke up and she recommended Fab as way to get over her. It was shit advice that ignored that her experience as a female would be different to my experience as a man.
But in still here and I like it. |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Couple of accidental threesomes at University, a visit to Rios in the late 90s thinking it was just a health spa,, and then an accidental visit go a swinging club in Paris...."
Which club in Paris did you go to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a very few men in my life. I was with my ex boyfriend 9 years, with hubby 12 years and naturally somehow "mid age crisis " hit me in all aspects.
One of the questions was is this the end? Will i die having only a few cocks? Boredom as well...
I wanted to explore other men, to taste their different smell, taste, body, to be charged differently, to feel that new energy, but surely at the same time I want to keep my family in place.
So after brutally honest conversation with my hubby we made a research about swinging, what is the danger of doing that. I am truly blessed that my husband understood my needs, he heard my soul. So we decided to try and it worked!
We are still new, but our experiences are very positive. Our life became so vibrant! The most important thing is to choose the right people. |
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By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago
cardiff |
Came across this site a few years ago, we put a few pictures of us on here.
About 2 years ago I said to the wife about I'd like to have another M join us, she originally said no but then came round to the idea saying she'll try it once as she wasn't sure it was for her n that the thought of an MFM as a fantasy would be better then a real life meet n there would be jealousy, had first, no jealousy n we both loved it n felt it brought us closer together.
Had a few more meet with different people n still loving it. |
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During sex she was so responsive to my suggestions of her having another cock but afterwards she wasn't responsive to the idea so I set it up with a guy I had been chatting to. I had it all worked out and set boundaries with the guy, it was his first mfm too. After meeting him in a wine bar close to him on the pretence he had some software for me he invited us back to his. We had wine and after messing on his PC I suggested we watch a dvd. He put an erotic movie on, she was fine and laughing with us. I sat next to her and slowly run my hand up her dress and started playing with her pussy, she was soaking and opened her legs wider. I gave him the nod and he got behind her and started to massage her neck, she was fine and was saying that she was loving it. Again I gave him the nod, all agreed prior, he slipped his hands down the front of her dress and started massaging her tits and to my surprise she reached around and unzipped his pants and pulled his cock out and started giving him a blow job. We slowly started to get undressed and she pulled him on top of her. I guided his cock into her pussy, she was loving it we then spit roasted her it was mind blowing. Afterwards she said she really enjoyed our time and was worried that I was OK with it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"130 mike's seems crazy. Although a lot happens generally in the northwest it seems."
Yes, but hormones are a powerful incentive!
Happened more than once too  (Miles, not 'Mikes') |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a very few men in my life. I was with my ex boyfriend 9 years, with hubby 12 years and naturally somehow "mid age crisis " hit me in all aspects.
One of the questions was is this the end? Will i die having only a few cocks? Boredom as well...
I wanted to explore other men, to taste their different smell, taste, body, to be charged differently, to feel that new energy, but surely at the same time I want to keep my family in place.
So after brutally honest conversation with my hubby we made a research about swinging, what is the danger of doing that. I am truly blessed that my husband understood my needs, he heard my soul. So we decided to try and it worked!
We are still new, but our experiences are very positive. Our life became so vibrant! The most important thing is to choose the right people."
SO sexy when the woman inititates the adventure!  |
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There's another thread from today just like this, so I commented the same. 
