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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say I'm not comfortable but both can make me very anxious. What makes me comfortable all depends on the people and the environment -- how familiar I am with either
Certainly most comfortable one-to-one overall, though  |
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I struggle with social situations to the point I have now given up trying, but I feel at ease and very comfortable within group sex setting and I actively seek those.
Unfortunately, one cannot entirely exist without another. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I struggle with social situations to the point I have now given up trying, but I feel at ease and very comfortable within group sex setting and I actively seek those.
Unfortunately, one cannot entirely exist without another."
This. I’ve had some majorly good spontaneous & otherwise, times at clubs. Because all our daft social pretences have been pared back and we’re all as one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not comfortable with people in general, because they are just annoying. So no to both.
Unless it's 2 or more guys getting it on than I'm down for that.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sex - no. I struggle being chatty with one partner never mind two or more.
Socially - no.
I’m just not chatty! "
You don’t need to talk in the sexual situation  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like the idea of someone touching me who may have the fluids of the last woman they touched on their hands.
No point gloving up if you chlamydia fingers.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being uncomfortable in a group socially but ok in a group sexually makes me think someone’s got issue and should talk to someone about it. I think that’s worrying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Group sex absolutley. and socials too.. if you aren't then is this the lifestyle for you?"
I don't think that's very fair. People are here for all sorts - they don't have to like group sex or group socials to be here |
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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago
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Group sex - yes
Group social with swingers - yes
Group social with non swingers - occasionally
In all of them I might need to take a time out now and then if it is very loud or busy. |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Tell me if you’re comfortable in group sexual situations and if you’re comfortable in group social situations.
Completely different questions but I like that. I’m provocative. Get the people going.  "
Me and and group sex have a love hate relationship. Sometimes it's been great other times less so and I have really not enjoyed myself. Other times I feel super confident while other times I'm struggling to get it up and comparing myself to the other men or feeling like I'm just slab meat. |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Group sexual situations I love and come alive which is funny cos in group social situations I am shy and feel quite uncomfortable. "
Different situations elicit different responses |
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I'm very comfortable in social situations. I'm a natural talker.
I never had a problem with groups.
It's not like you are fucking everyone there. You just focus on what you are going, enjoy the sights and smells and have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell me if you’re comfortable in group sexual situations and if you’re comfortable in group social situations.
Completely different questions but I like that. I’m provocative. Get the people going. "
More comfortable in group sexual situations than group social  |
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Group sex - yes and happily one of the first to get it going and get my clothes off
Group social situations - less so
Group social swinging situations - much less so these days, tend to get bored talking about the same old swinging things and my mind wanders imagining somebody naked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell me if you’re comfortable in group sexual situations and if you’re comfortable in group social situations.
Completely different questions but I like that. I’m provocative. Get the people going. "
They’re both completely different emotionally. There’s no real excitement, tension, thrill of a simply social situation. I’m both comfortable and at the same time slightly uncomfortable in a group sexual context for that reason. Socially I’m neither up nor down really. I tend to be the class clown to get around any anxiety there. |
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