So I met someone not of fabs for fun but all they want is for me to give them oral nothing else ok some fingering to but that's it. Have had one meet so far and wanting me to meet again.
Would like some advice on should I ask for more or just be happy with what I'm getting....
As far as me I would like a little more but think if I did ask for more maybe dumped.
All thoughts would be a great help. Thanks in advance
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It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.
In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!
Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex. |
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"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.
In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!
Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex."
Maybe she doesn't feel ready for it yet I'm happy for a few meets just as she wants |
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"So I met someone not of fabs for fun but all they want is for me to give them oral nothing else ok some fingering to but that's it. Have had one meet so far and wanting me to meet again.
Would like some advice on should I ask for more or just be happy with what I'm getting....
As far as me I would like a little more but think if I did ask for more maybe dumped.
All thoughts would be a great help. Thanks in advance
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Ok thoughts. If this was me.. if I was gonna dump someone for wanting more I’d not meet them in the first place, and you should see it that way. It’s not take take and one way. I’d have that limit to start maybe, to get used to you and see if you can respect my wishes.maybe next time suggest something short of full sex you would like to do I dunno wank on her or something, blow job that’s sort of thing. See if she will reciprocate. If she won’t have a think if this feels ok and equal to you. It should be a mutual thing. |
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"So I met someone not of fabs for fun but all they want is for me to give them oral nothing else ok some fingering to but that's it. Have had one meet so far and wanting me to meet again.
Would like some advice on should I ask for more or just be happy with what I'm getting....
As far as me I would like a little more but think if I did ask for more maybe dumped.
All thoughts would be a great help. Thanks in advance
Ok thoughts. If this was me.. if I was gonna dump someone for wanting more I’d not meet them in the first place, and you should see it that way. It’s not take take and one way. I’d have that limit to start maybe, to get used to you and see if you can respect my wishes.maybe next time suggest something short of full sex you would like to do I dunno wank on her or something, blow job that’s sort of thing. See if she will reciprocate. If she won’t have a think if this feels ok and equal to you. It should be a mutual thing. "
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"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.
In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!
Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex.
Maybe she doesn't feel ready for it yet I'm happy for a few meets just as she wants "
Are you only with her for the hope of sex? Dump her. |
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"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.
In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!
Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex.
Maybe she doesn't feel ready for it yet I'm happy for a few meets just as she wants
Are you only with her for the hope of sex? Dump her."
Well at the moment it just seems she wants all the pleasure would be nice to get some back even if its not sex and oral in return |
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"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.
In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!
Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex.
Maybe she doesn't feel ready for it yet I'm happy for a few meets just as she wants
Are you only with her for the hope of sex? Dump her.
Well at the moment it just seems she wants all the pleasure would be nice to get some back even if its not sex and oral in return "
You've met her once
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"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.
In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!
Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex.
Maybe she doesn't feel ready for it yet I'm happy for a few meets just as she wants
Are you only with her for the hope of sex? Dump her.
Well at the moment it just seems she wants all the pleasure would be nice to get some back even if its not sex and oral in return
You've met her once
Don't try to run before you can walk "
Yeah but what's the point of a woman if she won't fuck and suck? |
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"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.
In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!
Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex.
Maybe she doesn't feel ready for it yet I'm happy for a few meets just as she wants
Are you only with her for the hope of sex? Dump her.
Well at the moment it just seems she wants all the pleasure would be nice to get some back even if its not sex and oral in return
You've met her once
Don't try to run before you can walk "
Well second meet is asking for oral only so I'm not trying to run |
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I’m obviously not suggesting she should have sex if she doesn’t want to.
BUT. If I were to post here saying bloke wants to meet and wants me to give him a blow job, with nothing in return then I suspect the comments would be :-
He’s a twat
Bin him off he’s a chancer/user etc
Don’t do anything you don’t want to do. |
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"Why are you worried about being dumped by someone you think doesn't care about what you want, only what they do? "
I hear what your saying I may do the dumping before she does. Not so sure if I will have a second or more meets  |
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"I think if you’re unhappy with it - don’t do it.
I’m inclined to suggest you are being used.
I’m with you on this one Misty.
Exactly my thoughts. "
There was me thinking only the men did the using  |
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See how it goes, if it looks likely things aren't changing after a few weeks have an open honest conversation with her, could be all kinds of reasons as to why she doesn't want penetrative sex including medical reasons at least knowing will help you decide on what to do
Good luck OP, your needs matter too, the sex is meant to be enjoyable for all
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"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.
In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!
Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex.
Maybe she doesn't feel ready for it yet I'm happy for a few meets just as she wants
Are you only with her for the hope of sex? Dump her.
Well at the moment it just seems she wants all the pleasure would be nice to get some back even if its not sex and oral in return
You've met her once
Don't try to run before you can walk
Well second meet is asking for oral only so I'm not trying to run "
It was your first date and she was ok with oral. But now you think you're not compatible because she won't fuck. On the first date.
Honestly, dump her. She can do better. You both can.
First date and she won't fuck like a whore. Fuckinell.  |
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Why would you settle for something that clearly isn’t satisfying you?
You’ve met each other once, I can’t imagine it being that deep already. My suggestion would be find someone you are compatible with if she’s made it clear that’s all she is looking for. |
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"I think if you’re unhappy with it - don’t do it.
I’m inclined to suggest you are being used.
I’m with you on this one Misty.
Exactly my thoughts.
There was me thinking only the men did the using "
As far as I’m concerned, it’s not gender specific.
Unless you were aware prior meeting it’s going to be just that, and agreed to it regardless, that’s completely different story. |
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"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.
In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!
Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex."
This makes perfect sense. |
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"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.
In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!
Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex.
Maybe she doesn't feel ready for it yet I'm happy for a few meets just as she wants "
seems like you've contradicted yourself there.. just saying. |
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This makes perfect sense. "
Thank you. I’m struggling with this thread tbh.
The OP meets someone on Tin**r goes on one date, gives her oral and is now stressing before he’s even had a second date. 
Totally overthinking the situation.
Some people won’t even kiss on a first date. |
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This makes perfect sense.
Thank you. I’m struggling with this thread tbh.
The OP meets someone on Tin**r goes on one date, gives her oral and is now stressing before he’s even had a second date.
Totally overthinking the situation.
Some people won’t even kiss on a first date."
I realise that people on a site looking to fuck around will have a different view to normal people but good grief. First date and they're writing her off as useless at sex.
Sex meat. Fuck it, use it, move on to the next batch.  |
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