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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
What is it about 9 inch + dicks that get people so excited?
Every video I've seen of huge dicks except that crass American porn has shown me that the guys can't even put it all the way in anyway and have to go slower as not to hurt the poor receiver!
I get it might be hot giving a BJ to a fucking huge one but for your own orgasms/arousal, is a medium sized dick with a guy that knows what they're doing not more enjoyable?
Just curious and can't remember any particular answers!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a guy with certain kinks and fetishes, I've seen terrible things which make me glad to see a 9-incher in porn films 
But I think, realistically, we should never use porn as a benchmark for what real sex or proportions look like |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"As a guy with certain kinks and fetishes, I've seen terrible things which make me glad to see a 9-incher in porn films
But I think, realistically, we should never use porn as a benchmark for what real sex or proportions look like"
I'm actually giving porn/wanking/drink a break at the moment. All 3 are definitely my stress relievers in life and it's testing at times but mainly waking up feeling so much better (once the erection goes down)
Complete side note to my own thread topic but I agree basically!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If these forums are anything to go by then men are more obsessed with cock size then women.."
Men try to justify why they don't do well on here, oh I'm not ripped I don't have a 9 inch cock, that's the reason. No mate, you're just a dickhead. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If these forums are anything to go by then men are more obsessed with cock size then women..
Men try to justify why they don't do well on here, oh I'm not ripped I don't have a 9 inch cock, that's the reason. No mate, you're just a dickhead. "
^^^^^^^ This is so true....they try & blame other factors....when it's their personality, outlook & attitude that's the problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If these forums are anything to go by then men are more obsessed with cock size then women.."
Probably because a lot of women/couples are looking to fulfill sexual fantasies and a hung guy is a really common on
I’m slightly above average but look huge with the right angle and when I have the public women and couples message me fairly regularly. When they aren’t public I very rarely messaged first
Is a big cock going to fix a bad personality? No
Is a big cock going to make up for being average in every other way? Absolutely
We can all sit here and pretend it doesn’t matter, or we can look at the countless profiles looking for “hung only” “VWE” “9 inch minimum” and say yeah, it does matter and constantly lying that is doesn’t is weird |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If these forums are anything to go by then men are more obsessed with cock size then women..
Men try to justify why they don't do well on here, oh I'm not ripped I don't have a 9 inch cock, that's the reason. No mate, you're just a dickhead. "
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'd not experienced a erm very very endowed man until recently. Penis size isn't a thing for me, I've never gone all  eyes about it before. Didn't really understand the size queen thing if I'm honest.
But... there are a lot of myths surrounding them. Like this idea they can't get fully hard. I don't think that's a size thing, men experience a myriad of rigidity. Sex wise, they don't have to go really slowly the entire time. A good lover can read how your body is responding, adapt and adjust as necessary. I don't know if it's something I'll seek out but I also won't run a mile when faced with one. It's arousing in the same way any penis attached to a man I find attractive is. I guess for size queens it's that feeling of being stretched, fuller?
This is going to be tmi, I'm sorry for that. When I'm being fucked, even by an average sized cock, you can see my cunt almost gripping? It's even more of a visual thing when they're larger.
And yes, giving oral sex to a larger penis is incredibly fun. I was tickled when I found out I could deepthroat him. Repeatedly. So much so that he's in the avatar.
I'd be an absolute menace if I was attractive. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"If these forums are anything to go by then men are more obsessed with cock size then women..
Probably because a lot of women/couples are looking to fulfill sexual fantasies and a hung guy is a really common on
I’m slightly above average but look huge with the right angle and when I have the public women and couples message me fairly regularly. When they aren’t public I very rarely messaged first
Is a big cock going to fix a bad personality? No
Is a big cock going to make up for being average in every other way? Absolutely
We can all sit here and pretend it doesn’t matter, or we can look at the countless profiles looking for “hung only” “VWE” “9 inch minimum” and say yeah, it does matter and constantly lying that is doesn’t is weird "
I think a lot of women don't know these profiles exist to be honest but yeah you're not wrong - many who don't use the forums do have VWE only in their profile |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I'd not experienced a erm very very endowed man until recently. Penis size isn't a thing for me, I've never gone all eyes about it before. Didn't really understand the size queen thing if I'm honest.
But... there are a lot of myths surrounding them. Like this idea they can't get fully hard. I don't think that's a size thing, men experience a myriad of rigidity. Sex wise, they don't have to go really slowly the entire time. A good lover can read how your body is responding, adapt and adjust as necessary. I don't know if it's something I'll seek out but I also won't run a mile when faced with one. It's arousing in the same way any penis attached to a man I find attractive is. I guess for size queens it's that feeling of being stretched, fuller?
This is going to be tmi, I'm sorry for that. When I'm being fucked, even by an average sized cock, you can see my cunt almost gripping? It's even more of a visual thing when they're larger.
And yes, giving oral sex to a larger penis is incredibly fun. I was tickled when I found out I could deepthroat him. Repeatedly. So much so that he's in the avatar.
I'd be an absolute menace if I was attractive. "
You are a menace Meli... |
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By *ambertMan
over a year ago
Cheltenham |
"I'd not experienced a erm very very endowed man until recently. Penis size isn't a thing for me, I've never gone all eyes about it before. Didn't really understand the size queen thing if I'm honest.
But... there are a lot of myths surrounding them. Like this idea they can't get fully hard. I don't think that's a size thing, men experience a myriad of rigidity. Sex wise, they don't have to go really slowly the entire time. A good lover can read how your body is responding, adapt and adjust as necessary. I don't know if it's something I'll seek out but I also won't run a mile when faced with one. It's arousing in the same way any penis attached to a man I find attractive is. I guess for size queens it's that feeling of being stretched, fuller?
This is going to be tmi, I'm sorry for that. When I'm being fucked, even by an average sized cock, you can see my cunt almost gripping? It's even more of a visual thing when they're larger.
And yes, giving oral sex to a larger penis is incredibly fun. I was tickled when I found out I could deepthroat him. Repeatedly. So much so that he's in the avatar.
I'd be an absolute menace if I was attractive. "
Come now _eli you are absolutely gorgeous ^_^ |
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I have to say this thread is full of BS. As some one who fits the category being discussed I don’t recognise any of the things that are being said.
Strangely I have no issue getting rock hard, I can’t ever remember hitting a cervix and whilst I wouldn’t want to judge I think my veris are pretty consistent. Good sex is all about getting her in the mood and that has nothing to do with cock size and everything to do with focussing
on her needs.
Why do people like a largecock? Wives tell me it fills them nicely and hubbies say they love to watch. Girth and visuals are the answers I would suggest. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd not experienced a erm very very endowed man until recently. Penis size isn't a thing for me, I've never gone all eyes about it before. Didn't really understand the size queen thing if I'm honest.
But... there are a lot of myths surrounding them. Like this idea they can't get fully hard. I don't think that's a size thing, men experience a myriad of rigidity. Sex wise, they don't have to go really slowly the entire time. A good lover can read how your body is responding, adapt and adjust as necessary. I don't know if it's something I'll seek out but I also won't run a mile when faced with one. It's arousing in the same way any penis attached to a man I find attractive is. I guess for size queens it's that feeling of being stretched, fuller?
This is going to be tmi, I'm sorry for that. When I'm being fucked, even by an average sized cock, you can see my cunt almost gripping? It's even more of a visual thing when they're larger.
And yes, giving oral sex to a larger penis is incredibly fun. I was tickled when I found out I could deepthroat him. Repeatedly. So much so that he's in the avatar.
I'd be an absolute menace if I was attractive.
Come now _eli you are absolutely gorgeous ^_^"
Ha I'm okay looking and comfortable with that. If I was hot though? Yeah. Nightmare. Utter nightmare.
I'm really hoping a size queen comments on this thread so I can find out why it's such a thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does seem to be men that are more obsessed with size. People are entitled to look for and enjoy whatever they wish. Of course physical attraction and features will play a part but for me that’s an initial thing and making a connection either massively (sorry ) enhances that or takes away from it.
Conversation, intelligence, a passion for life are all important for me. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I have to say this thread is full of BS. As some one who fits the category being discussed I don’t recognise any of the things that are being said.
Strangely I have no issue getting rock hard, I can’t ever remember hitting a cervix and whilst I wouldn’t want to judge I think my veris are pretty consistent. Good sex is all about getting her in the mood and that has nothing to do with cock size and everything to do with focussing
on her needs.
Why do people like a largecock? Wives tell me it fills them nicely and hubbies say they love to watch. Girth and visuals are the answers I would suggest."
Unless I've missed it no one is attacking big sized penises here anyway! And again, alot of fab is after you!
Even I've hit a cervix though and I'm not a massive size! Guess it depends on the woman but still, surprised you've never hit an end of the line! |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
I'm not a size Queen but I've been stretched by large penises.
The like the feeling of fullness and the men, knowing what they have in their pants, were considerate and took their time in getting me used to them.
I'm not particularly stretchy so they need patience.
There's a prolonged feeling from the skin contact as they withdraw and penetrate, and the strokes are longer.
I've had pain from 6 inch penises that have been rammed in at awkward angles.
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"What is it about 9 inch + dicks that get people so excited?
Every video I've seen of huge dicks except that crass American porn has shown me that the guys can't even put it all the way in anyway and have to go slower as not to hurt the poor receiver!
I get it might be hot giving a BJ to a fucking huge one but for your own orgasms/arousal, is a medium sized dick with a guy that knows what they're doing not more enjoyable?
Just curious and can't remember any particular answers!
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Size has never been a thing for me, if I'm attracted to the rest of the the man's attributes and he turns me on intellectually then the dick he's attached too will too regardless of size.
My FWB has a 9" dick, when we're slow fucking it feels as good as any other, it's when he thrusts hard I have to remind him I have a cervix |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm actually giving porn/wanking/drink a break at the moment. All 3 are definitely my stress relievers in life and it's testing at times but mainly waking up feeling so much better (once the erection goes down)
Complete side note to my own thread topic but I agree basically! "
That's cool Do what you need to if it helps
Would also like to add that, at the same time, a large penis is still an actually real proportion so it is still a valid preference which I'm not going to judge someone on. It means a lot more to some than others and that's fine, I think
What I don't like is the assumption that a guy with a big penis automatically knows how to pleasure a woman. Or that a regular-sized or even smaller penis is incapable of providing any pleasure at all |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"I have to say this thread is full of BS. As some one who fits the category being discussed I don’t recognise any of the things that are being said.
Strangely I have no issue getting rock hard, I can’t ever remember hitting a cervix and whilst I wouldn’t want to judge I think my veris are pretty consistent. Good sex is all about getting her in the mood and that has nothing to do with cock size and everything to do with focussing
on her needs.
Why do people like a largecock? Wives tell me it fills them nicely and hubbies say they love to watch. Girth and visuals are the answers I would suggest.
Unless I've missed it no one is attacking big sized penises here anyway! And again, alot of fab is after you!
Even I've hit a cervix though and I'm not a massive size! Guess it depends on the woman but still, surprised you've never hit an end of the line!"
If the penis is angled away from the cervix it will push it out of the way. There's flesh around the cervix that stretches. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If these forums are anything to go by then men are more obsessed with cock size then women..
Men try to justify why they don't do well on here, oh I'm not ripped I don't have a 9 inch cock, that's the reason. No mate, you're just a dickhead. "
Thank fuck for that I thought it was my dress sense.. |
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As a sub man I’ve taken thousands of cocks - well over ten thousand - including both the most massive you can imagine (think Big Harold size) and tiny. Frankly all sizes are equally likely to make me cum hands free. Big thick cocks are great to look at but it really is all about how the top uses it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Far more interested in if a guy knows what to do with his fingers and mouth than the size of his member!
I’ve had amazing sex with a guy with 6inches or 9, with thin or thick willies. Guys are far more hung up on size than ladies - and too big scares me! |
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"I have to say this thread is full of BS. As some one who fits the category being discussed I don’t recognise any of the things that are being said.
Strangely I have no issue getting rock hard, I can’t ever remember hitting a cervix and whilst I wouldn’t want to judge I think my veris are pretty consistent. Good sex is all about getting her in the mood and that has nothing to do with cock size and everything to do with focussing
on her needs.
Why do people like a largecock? Wives tell me it fills them nicely and hubbies say they love to watch. Girth and visuals are the answers I would suggest."
You've definitely hit come cervix's wheather or not you've noticed is another matter and some women like a cervix bashing.
Female anatomy and all.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wonder how the guys with big dicks feel when reading this.
Why didn't you title it 'what's best big dick or medium dick?' It's basically that isn't it? Just more cleverly worded.
And if you OP fall into the medium dick group does it look like you are you just posting this to feel better about your own size by highlighting the negatives of the big dick group in your post and asking if medium dick is more enjoyable?
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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago
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It is interesting because I have experienced very large dicks and enjoyed it much more than I expected to.
However I wouldn't seek it out specifically.
I like lots of different sex and cock size might change how we have sex (I mean the size of my thighs and arse also affects position). But cock size doesn't change my attraction to the person or my desire for sex with them.
Right now I could do with hug more than a giant cock tbh. |
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"I wonder how the guys with big dicks feel when reading this.
Why didn't you title it 'what's best big dick or medium dick?' It's basically that isn't it? Just more cleverly worded.
And if you OP fall into the medium dick group does it look like you are you just posting this to feel better about your own size by highlighting the negatives of the big dick group in your post and asking if medium dick is more enjoyable?
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Guessing if you have 9 or 10" you can modify how much you give so not all bad but always nice to feel you are using it all.
In my experience many women can find 7" a bit long if the wrong position so really is a case of what you do with it bar the size queen exceptions or larger ladies who need a longer one due to getting past their lovely big arses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If these forums are anything to go by then men are more obsessed with cock size then women..
Probably because a lot of women/couples are looking to fulfill sexual fantasies and a hung guy is a really common on
I’m slightly above average but look huge with the right angle and when I have the public women and couples message me fairly regularly. When they aren’t public I very rarely messaged first
Is a big cock going to fix a bad personality? No
Is a big cock going to make up for being average in every other way? Absolutely
We can all sit here and pretend it doesn’t matter, or we can look at the countless profiles looking for “hung only” “VWE” “9 inch minimum” and say yeah, it does matter and constantly lying that is doesn’t is weird
I think a lot of women don't know these profiles exist to be honest but yeah you're not wrong - many who don't use the forums do have VWE only in their profile "
Here’s an interesting thought
Plenty of women think their struggles with men are because of a physical characteristic. Maybe they think they’re too big, not toned enough, whatever
What do we say to those women? “It’s not that, everyone likes different things and you just need to find the people that like what you’ve got”
What do we not say to them? “It’s nothing to do with that, your probably just a dickhead” |
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"What is it about 9 inch + dicks that get people so excited?
Every video I've seen of huge dicks except that crass American porn has shown me that the guys can't even put it all the way in anyway and have to go slower as not to hurt the poor receiver!
I get it might be hot giving a BJ to a fucking huge one but for your own orgasms/arousal, is a medium sized dick with a guy that knows what they're doing not more enjoyable?
Just curious and can't remember any particular answers!
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Like a cats tail... Handy for balance |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I wonder how the guys with big dicks feel when reading this.
Why didn't you title it 'what's best big dick or medium dick?' It's basically that isn't it? Just more cleverly worded.
And if you OP fall into the medium dick group does it look like you are you just posting this to feel better about your own size by highlighting the negatives of the big dick group in your post and asking if medium dick is more enjoyable?
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I don't think that deep. And I don't think guys with big dicks are really too insecure about them |
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