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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

Trophy. If we ever banged I'm gonna have it written on a billboard.

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By *cott73Man over a year ago

brighton

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

What's he done to deserve such an accolade?!

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nope

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By *cott73Man over a year ago

brighton

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

Trophy. If we ever banged I'm gonna have it written on a billboard."

"Four stars," Empire Magazine...

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By *ohntall123Man over a year ago

Biggleswade

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

I’ve never seen it tbf

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Territory thing. It's quite natural.

But no I wouldn't. There again I don't do verifications either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He wants attention....that's all...& He knows your views will increase when you put up a new status & if he's named in it he'll get more views too

One of my meets used to plague me to put up statuses about him ....

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Just let him leave you a veri. Isn’t that enough?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

Sure "[x] is a fuckhead". See, easy

LvM

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"He wants attention....that's all...& He knows your views will increase when you put up a new status & if he's named in it he'll get more views too

One of my meets used to plague me to put up statuses about him ...."

Can you put me in your status?

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"He wants attention....that's all...& He knows your views will increase when you put up a new status & if he's named in it he'll get more views too

One of my meets used to plague me to put up statuses about him ...."

That would be a red flag for me. I don’t even leave or show veris

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By *ellinever70Woman over a year ago

Ayrshire

Tell him you'll start a thread about him instead

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"He wants attention....that's all...& He knows your views will increase when you put up a new status & if he's named in it he'll get more views too

One of my meets used to plague me to put up statuses about him ....

That would be a red flag for me. I don’t even leave or show veris "

I've completely stopped too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Tell him you'll start a thread about him instead

Noooo he'd love that.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Tell him you'll start a thread about him instead

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope I wouldn't

Seems like he just wants attention and is a bit needy.

Veries show who you've met and that's enough I think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He wants attention....that's all...& He knows your views will increase when you put up a new status & if he's named in it he'll get more views too

One of my meets used to plague me to put up statuses about him ....

Can you put me in your status? "

I just might Brucey

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"He wants attention....that's all...& He knows your views will increase when you put up a new status & if he's named in it he'll get more views too

One of my meets used to plague me to put up statuses about him ....

That would be a red flag for me. I don’t even leave or show veris

I've completely stopped too.

Someone stopped talking to me when I said I wouldn’t leave a veri if we met

. Sums up a few people on this site!

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

If it's a status about just having the best fuck you've ever had...he wants others to see it was him (will get him more attention)

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By *aucasian GhandiMan over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

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By *wist my nipplesCouple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Why don't you ask him?

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Marking territory. Needs validation.

No, I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do one better swift photo shop his name on to a body part and tell him you got his name tattooed on you

He think bunny boiler and run a mile

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Mayfair

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

Trophy. If we ever banged I'm gonna have it written on a billboard."

•

Surely you should have that milestone tattoo'd on your cock?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sure "[x] is a fuckhead". See, easy

LvM"

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"Marking territory. Needs validation.

No, I wouldn't. "

Like a dog pissing up your leg. Not cool fido!

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"He wants attention....that's all...& He knows your views will increase when you put up a new status & if he's named in it he'll get more views too

One of my meets used to plague me to put up statuses about him ....

Can you put me in your status?

I just might Brucey

I'll put you in mine if you put me in yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"He wants attention....that's all...& He knows your views will increase when you put up a new status & if he's named in it he'll get more views too

One of my meets used to plague me to put up statuses about him ....

That would be a red flag for me. I don’t even leave or show veris

I've completely stopped too.

Someone stopped talking to me when I said I wouldn’t leave a veri if we met

. Sums up a few people on this site!"

Doesn't it just!!

So the 'he wants me' title....covers 'he' being a collective of me.

A common thing. One left me a veri and then completely hassled me for one back and kept asking me why I wouldn't display his. It seems to be a theme on here. But fucking why? Are they really that meet for attention. Can't get my head round it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do one better swift photo shop his name on to a body part and tell him you got his name tattooed on you

He think bunny boiler and run a mile

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By *unchalMan over a year ago

Dartford

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

It is weird but I get it! You are delicious!

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By *unchalMan over a year ago

Dartford

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

It really is a cackhanded compliment.

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

It is weird but I get it! You are delicious!

She's not a capri sun dude...

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By *unchalMan over a year ago

Dartford

"Sure "[x] is a fuckhead". See, easy

LvM"

Be nicer x is a fucker

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By *unchalMan over a year ago

Dartford

"He wants attention....that's all...& He knows your views will increase when you put up a new status & if he's named in it he'll get more views too

One of my meets used to plague me to put up statuses about him ....

Can you put me in your status? "

Mention me too, if you don't mind.

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By *unchalMan over a year ago

Dartford

"Marking territory. Needs validation.

No, I wouldn't.

Like a dog pissing up your leg. Not cool fido!"

Unless she likes that, of course.

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By *unchalMan over a year ago

Dartford

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

It is weird but I get it! You are delicious!

Sure. That's just how lust works.

She's not a capri sun dude..."

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By *enrietteandSamCouple over a year ago

Staffordshire

We wouldn’t.

Seems very cheap.

We’ve got more respect for ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do one better swift photo shop his name on to a body part and tell him you got his name tattooed on you

He think bunny boiler and run a mile

I thought you like that one ha ha

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I get it.

Occasionally I want to , not very often

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tell him you'll start a thread about him instead

Hahhahahhahahhahahah so funny x

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"We wouldn’t.

Seems very cheap.

We’ve got more respect for ourselves."

They shop at Waitrose don't you know

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By *ansoffateMan over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Meh.

The meaningful stuff gets burnt permanently into my grey matter.

If you leave your mark in the heat of the moment then that tends to stick.

The rest is style over substance to me.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

If he really wanted me too, I’m sure I could come up with something that would offend him and get him blocked by many.

The mr

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By *aucasian GhandiMan over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Name him in my status.

But why? Cuz he's a needy man, needing validation, seeking further attention from other women on fab, like he's a catch . .

Would you?"
Not a fucking chance

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By *mber81Woman over a year ago

Chorley, Eng

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

Oh that is weird. I suppose if someone asked me once and accepted my no I would accept it. But asking again would be a big red flag.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Alright, calm down.

I was only asking.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Sounds like someone's feeling a little possessive to me.

Mrs

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"You're a needy pain in the arse. You know who you are"

Job done.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He wants attention....that's all...& He knows your views will increase when you put up a new status & if he's named in it he'll get more views too

One of my meets used to plague me to put up statuses about him ....

That would be a red flag for me. I don’t even leave or show veris

I've completely stopped too.

Someone stopped talking to me when I said I wouldn’t leave a veri if we met

. Sums up a few people on this site!

Doesn't it just!!

So the 'he wants me' title....covers 'he' being a collective of me.

maybe its made him feel like you were embarrassed about meeting him? Has he had a lot of meets? Or is he relatively new to fab? Either way he should just be over the moon to spend time with you lol xx

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

""You're a needy pain in the arse. You know who you are"

Job done.

I'm sorry, I don't mean to be so needy

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I get it.

Occasionally I want to , not very often "

Why do you want to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"He wants attention....that's all...& He knows your views will increase when you put up a new status & if he's named in it he'll get more views too

One of my meets used to plague me to put up statuses about him ....

That would be a red flag for me. I don’t even leave or show veris

I've completely stopped too.

Someone stopped talking to me when I said I wouldn’t leave a veri if we met

. Sums up a few people on this site!

Doesn't it just!!

So the 'he wants me' title....covers 'he' being a collective of me.

Really????? Nah not this guy. Well I wouldn't have thought so anyway. He's way to 'confident'

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan over a year ago

A den in the Glen

"Tell him you'll start a thread about him instead

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By *rimson_RoseWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

“X has chlamydia.” That should tick the box.

No.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s Fab not FB.

As others have said, it’s territorial.

Unless you’re happy to do it, if not make it clear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"“X has chlamydia.” That should tick the box.

No. "

I might get in trouble for that but it is funny.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s Fab not FB.

As others have said, it’s territorial.

Unless you’re happy to do it, if not make it clear."

Oh I have, trust me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"“X has chlamydia.” That should tick the box.

No. "

Ahh hahahhahahhahah oh dear that’s made me laugh x

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

No.

Why is it a no I hear you ask? Because keeping it out of the public domain is a brilliant idea.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

You better start looking a wedding dress.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He wants attention....that's all...& He knows your views will increase when you put up a new status & if he's named in it he'll get more views too

One of my meets used to plague me to put up statuses about him ....

That would be a red flag for me. I don’t even leave or show veris

I've completely stopped too.

Someone stopped talking to me when I said I wouldn’t leave a veri if we met

. Sums up a few people on this site!

Doesn't it just!!

So the 'he wants me' title....covers 'he' being a collective of me.

Really????? Nah not this guy. Well I wouldn't have thought so anyway. He's way to 'confident' "

Well if I’m being honest, when I first came on here 6 or 7 years ago I was disappointed one of my meets wouldn’t show my verification, I took it personally. However that was short lived and I soon realised the wrror of my ways hahhahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No.

Why is it a no I hear you ask? Because keeping it out of the public domain is a brilliant idea."

Agreed! ????

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

May we have a cryptic clue as to who?

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By *aizyWoman over a year ago

west midlands

First time he asked it would be a polite no. If he asked again I'd do it, and make sure I got blocked by him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"May we have a cryptic clue as to who?"

You want the whole list?

And no I don't do that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You better start looking a wedding dress."

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By *adMerWoman over a year ago

Sandwich

"Do one better swift photo shop his name on to a body part and tell him you got his name tattooed on you

He think bunny boiler and run a mile

Oh Natalie, I have missed your sense of humour!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do one better swift photo shop his name on to a body part and tell him you got his name tattooed on you

He think bunny boiler and run a mile

Oh Natalie, I have missed your sense of humour!!!

Awww thank you so much I have missed you lovely lot also x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

You'd love it

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By *ixed MisterMan over a year ago

London

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

Nope, if someone asked me to, I'd leave it a few days and then put someone else's name in a status instead, then sit back, and enjoy the melt down..

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

Nope, if someone asked me to, I'd leave it a few days and then put someone else's name in a status instead, then sit back, and enjoy the melt down.."

Hahaha this man knows how fab works

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

Nope, if someone asked me to, I'd leave it a few days and then put someone else's name in a status instead, then sit back, and enjoy the melt down.."

Tinder

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By *tanley FunseekerMan over a year ago

stanley

Name him but just say it was the worst sex you’ve ever had

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a shocker why the drama happens.

I just can't put my finger on it....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You could reference your meet and end it with the classic "you know who you are" on your status or you could name him on here so we can all post him on our statuses

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

Nope, if someone asked me to, I'd leave it a few days and then put someone else's name in a status instead, then sit back, and enjoy the melt down.."

Oh that's the best answer yet, but I'm not giving someone else any attention.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a shocker why the drama happens.

I just can't put my finger on it...."

No funny that, me neither!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd 100% name him, mainly because I'm not looking for a guy so I'd be surprised he got me in the sack

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a shocker why the drama happens.

I just can't put my finger on it...."

Usually there's a cackling witch with a wooden spoon stirring it along, or at least in my experience it's that way anyway

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Call him fido.... likes marking his territory

Tinder

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a shocker why the drama happens.

I just can't put my finger on it....

Usually there's a cackling witch with a wooden spoon stirring it along, or at least in my experience it's that way anyway "

Ah, this explains a few things.

Gotta love those socials right?

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By *esparate danMan over a year ago

glasgow

Was he worth it though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a shocker why the drama happens.

I just can't put my finger on it....

Usually there's a cackling witch with a wooden spoon stirring it along, or at least in my experience it's that way anyway

Ah, this explains a few things.

Gotta love those socials right?

I honestly wouldn't know, I don't partake

I'd meet people socially but as for groups or clubs too loud, too noisy and too many people

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

Nope...

fuc'k him

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By *aucasian GhandiMan over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

You'd love it

I'll name n shame you Grumpy, 21 secs to go

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

This is the type of dramas I steer clear of.

If this person’s drama antics were not known to me before I ever had sex with them, they’d never see any future experiences with me. I’d retrospectively ask my myself how it got that far before I noticed their ways.

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By *ixed MisterMan over a year ago

London

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

Nope, if someone asked me to, I'd leave it a few days and then put someone else's name in a status instead, then sit back, and enjoy the melt down..

Oh that's the best answer yet, but I'm not giving someone else any attention."

Make a name up, they'll he'll won't even be able to find the profile. Then it back, and enjoy an even bigger melt down

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By *ixed MisterMan over a year ago

London

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

Nope...

fuc'k him

Sounds like that already happened tbh

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

You'd love it

I'll name n shame you Grumpy, 21 secs to go

That's optimistic

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

Am I in anyones status yet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Am I in anyones status yet? "

Hang on a sec……

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By *ixed MisterMan over a year ago

London

"Am I in anyones status yet? "

You're in mine every day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

Fuck that.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

Some I would some I wouldn't.

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"Am I in anyones status yet?

You're in mine every day"

You tricked me! Now I feel foolish!

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By *ixed MisterMan over a year ago

London

"Am I in anyones status yet?

You're in mine every day

You tricked me! Now I feel foolish!"

Got to get my profile views up somehow, sorry fella

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

Couldn't even find a dick to fab!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I could get away with it I'd name everyone in my status updates, not for being good in bed though. For being knobheads.....

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By *luttyLaylaWoman over a year ago

North West

No.

So beggy.

Straight block for that kinda cringe. How embarrassing ha

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

Did you get refreshments?

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By *nFairnessMan over a year ago

The Four Corners

Verbal affirmation... whilst it could well be attention he could also be figuring out how important he is or the experience was to you with a little test. First question id ask him is ... why do you feel like you need me to do that. Work out the fear... it could be not knowing where he stands, a fear he thinks more of the experience than what you do or something else. Then depending on the dynamic set things straight. Hope this helps op

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

Bruce, why would you ask PW to do this?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

Someone you fucked?

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By *ersiantugMan over a year ago

Cardiff

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

I'd ask him before us lol. Do you think he was serious?

I'm guessing he was actually good in bed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

Someone you fucked?"

As I typed earlier up the thread ....

So the 'he wants me' title....covers 'he' being a collective of he.

Does it matter if it was social or more anyway? Would you do it for a social and not someone you fucked? Is there really any difference?

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Away for Christmas

Fine! Just an initial then?

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple over a year ago

kent

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

Why? Bragging rights.

Would we? Never. For the most part, we don’t even leave verifications. Would rather forumites didn’t know who we’ve met, and who we still meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

Bruce, why would you ask PW to do this?

In my defense I only asked AFTER the initial post

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By *ersiantugMan over a year ago

Cardiff

Finding it hard to follow, but I think a lot of people thought this was a "tell anyone who knows or sees you how good I was in bed" thing.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman over a year ago

Schitts Creek

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

Nope, if someone asked me to, I'd leave it a few days and then put someone else's name in a status instead, then sit back, and enjoy the melt down.."

Omg this just made me spit out my wine - perfect!!!!

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I get it.

Occasionally I want to , not very often

Why do you want to?

Put other men off!

Like I said not very often

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I get it.

Occasionally I want to , not very often

Why do you want to?

Put other men off!

Like I said not very often

So you actually ask a woman to put your name in their status to put other men off?

Is that a territory thing? Possessiveness?

I'm curious and just want the insight so please enlighten me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I get it.

Occasionally I want to , not very often

Why do you want to?

Put other men off!

Like I said not very often

So you actually ask a woman to put your name in their status to put other men off?

Is that a territory thing? Possessiveness?

I'm curious and just want the insight so please enlighten me.

And also in a swinging world why is it considered to be a put off to other men when the reality is everyone is available and potentially could have multiple partners.

Oh this makes no sense to me whatsoever.

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I get it.

Occasionally I want to , not very often

Why do you want to?

Put other men off!

Like I said not very often

So you actually ask a woman to put your name in their status to put other men off?

Is that a territory thing? Possessiveness?

I'm curious and just want the insight so please enlighten me.

Nope never but I can understand why it get asked , maybe he wants you for himself !

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By *he Silver FuxMan over a year ago

Uttoxeter

A male ego… writ large

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple over a year ago

Staffordshire

It’s the fab equivalent of a wedding ring.

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"I get it.

Occasionally I want to , not very often

Why do you want to?

Put other men off!

Like I said not very often

So you actually ask a woman to put your name in their status to put other men off?

Is that a territory thing? Possessiveness?

I'm curious and just want the insight so please enlighten me.

And also in a swinging world why is it considered to be a put off to other men when the reality is everyone is available and potentially could have multiple partners.

Oh this makes no sense to me whatsoever.

People get jealous PW. Oh she's taken that gross man's salami, screw that.

Also insecure people get annoyed when crushes have sex. It's in l the teen dramas.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I get it.

Occasionally I want to , not very often

Why do you want to?

Put other men off!

Like I said not very often

So you actually ask a woman to put your name in their status to put other men off?

Is that a territory thing? Possessiveness?

I'm curious and just want the insight so please enlighten me.

And also in a swinging world why is it considered to be a put off to other men when the reality is everyone is available and potentially could have multiple partners.

Oh this makes no sense to me whatsoever.

People get jealous PW. Oh she's taken that gross man's salami, screw that.

Also insecure people get annoyed when crushes have sex. It's in l the teen dramas."

What if the man's salami isn't gross?

Or 9 inches?

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple over a year ago

Cumbria

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

At best he’s a bit pathetic and needy, at worst he’s possessive and stalker-ish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

What if the woman isn't popular?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

At best he’s a bit pathetic and needy, at worst he’s possessive and stalker-ish."

You've just described 98% of guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

What if the woman isn't popular?"

Well since you did the thread OP I was guessing it was you, and you are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I get it.

Occasionally I want to , not very often

Why do you want to?

Put other men off!

Like I said not very often

So you actually ask a woman to put your name in their status to put other men off?

Is that a territory thing? Possessiveness?

I'm curious and just want the insight so please enlighten me.

Nope never but I can understand why it get asked , maybe he wants you for himself ! "

So you want these women for yourself?

Is that not possessive?

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"I get it.

Occasionally I want to , not very often

Why do you want to?

Put other men off!

Like I said not very often

So you actually ask a woman to put your name in their status to put other men off?

Is that a territory thing? Possessiveness?

I'm curious and just want the insight so please enlighten me.

And also in a swinging world why is it considered to be a put off to other men when the reality is everyone is available and potentially could have multiple partners.

Oh this makes no sense to me whatsoever.

People get jealous PW. Oh she's taken that gross man's salami, screw that.

Also insecure people get annoyed when crushes have sex. It's in l the teen dramas.

What if the man's salami isn't gross?

Or 9 inches?"

If ain't capable of taking 9 inches we aren't interested. On behalf of all men.

I think all salami is gross. Not like a lovely kebab

I made myself laugh + disgusted myself then.

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I get it.

Occasionally I want to , not very often

Why do you want to?

Put other men off!

Like I said not very often

So you actually ask a woman to put your name in their status to put other men off?

Is that a territory thing? Possessiveness?

I'm curious and just want the insight so please enlighten me.

Nope never but I can understand why it get asked , maybe he wants you for himself !

So you want these women for yourself?

Is that not possessive? "

Of course it’s not , not everyone here is swinging

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

What if the woman isn't popular?

Well since you did the thread OP I was guessing it was you, and you are. "

It's the woman part that does it for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Name him in my status."

Sure, if you give me his name I will name him in my status (may not have the desired effect for him)

"But why?"

I'd name him in my cos it might be funny and could humiliate him

"Would you?"

If you ask nicely, definitely - maybe make it into a forum challenge.

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Sounds to me like another one bites the dust..as the song goes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

So then why do guys seem to chase you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At best he’s a bit pathetic and needy, at worst he’s possessive and stalker-ish.

You've just described 98% of guys on here.

Oh you are mean

I think maybe 97.4% of men (and you need to round down)

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By *erebraljaguarMan over a year ago

North West…

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

I wouldn’t, for me it sounds a bit possessive or territorial, and controlling. Not saying it’s horrendously intended, just mean - people can post what they want without such encouragement, in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

What if the woman isn't popular?

Well since you did the thread OP I was guessing it was you, and you are. "

What's the definition of popular on fab?

How many verifications you have?

What rank you get to in hot pics?

How popular you seem in the forums? Is that measured by how many people fawn over a forumite? The forums are a tiny percentage of fab anyway!!!

Sorry I hate this popular stuff.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

So then why do guys seem to chase you

Desperation kicks in

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

At best he’s a bit pathetic and needy, at worst he’s possessive and stalker-ish.

You've just described 98% of guys on here.

About as jaded a comment as I've ever read

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

At best he’s a bit pathetic and needy, at worst he’s possessive and stalker-ish.

You've just described 98% of guys on here.

Oh you are mean

I think maybe 97.4% of men (and you need to round down)"

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

So then why do guys seem to chase you

She's actually hot as much as she genuinely hates me for saying it to be fair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thought mentioning names was not in fab rules.

I do not do veris... Who I meet is private

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

So then why do guys seem to chase you

She's actually hot as much as she genuinely hates me for saying it to be fair "

But nasty though right??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?

At best he’s a bit pathetic and needy, at worst he’s possessive and stalker-ish.

You've just described 98% of guys on here.

About as jaded a comment as I've ever read

You spelt realistic wrong!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

So then why do guys seem to chase you

Desperation kicks in"

I'm sorry but if you think I'm popular gen surely you are just as popular yourself.

There isn't actually that much difference between me and you.

We are both twats just in different ways

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

So then why do guys seem to chase you

She's actually hot as much as she genuinely hates me for saying it to be fair "

So her restrainng order isn't working then Brucey?

I have also suggested that she try the chloroform, and failing that a baseball bat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

What if the woman isn't popular?

Well since you did the thread OP I was guessing it was you, and you are.

What's the definition of popular on fab?

How many verifications you have?

What rank you get to in hot pics?

How popular you seem in the forums? Is that measured by how many people fawn over a forumite? The forums are a tiny percentage of fab anyway!!!

Sorry I hate this popular stuff.

Meh, I don't really know. But there are certain people that can do no wrong on here, it helps if you don't have a penis.

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By *heoneandonlyEJCouple over a year ago

Rotherham

Kinda like a sponsorship/advert type thing? E

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thought mentioning names was not in fab rules.

I do not do veris... Who I meet is private "

I wish that applied to verifications. If the name was redacted bit the veri showed with no ability to look at the profile of the writer it would be quite a lot better and probably more amusing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

So then why do guys seem to chase you

She's actually hot as much as she genuinely hates me for saying it to be fair

But nasty though right??"

You, nasty? Never, I'd say sometimes you're a bit of a cunt but a loveable cunt at that, saying that if you want to be nasty more work is required

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

What if the woman isn't popular?

Well since you did the thread OP I was guessing it was you, and you are.

What's the definition of popular on fab?

How many verifications you have?

What rank you get to in hot pics?

How popular you seem in the forums? Is that measured by how many people fawn over a forumite? The forums are a tiny percentage of fab anyway!!!

Sorry I hate this popular stuff.

Meh, I don't really know. But there are certain people that can do no wrong on here, it helps if you don't have a penis. "

So bloody true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

Do you have an agreement in place for exclusivity? Was it a request or a demand?

A request might show some lowered confidence, a demand or non negotiated expectation.... massive red flags

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Meh, I don't really know. But there are certain people that can do no wrong on here, it helps if you don't have a penis. "

“A Boy without a winkle? God be praised, it’s a miracle!”:

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

So then why do guys seem to chase you

Desperation kicks in

I'm sorry but if you think I'm popular gen surely you are just as popular yourself.

There isn't actually that much difference between me and you.

We are both twats just in different ways

I'm just trying to work out if I should be insulted by this...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are both twats just in different ways

I'm just trying to work out if I should be insulted by this..."

I can hear the cogs whirring.

I actually think she was inviting you on a date!

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

What if the woman isn't popular?

Well since you did the thread OP I was guessing it was you, and you are.

What's the definition of popular on fab?

How many verifications you have?

What rank you get to in hot pics?

How popular you seem in the forums? Is that measured by how many people fawn over a forumite? The forums are a tiny percentage of fab anyway!!!

Sorry I hate this popular stuff.

Right there with you re: popular. *coughs up a hairball*

And this thread has been very entertaining.

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

So then why do guys seem to chase you

She's actually hot as much as she genuinely hates me for saying it to be fair

But nasty though right??"

Yeah but I think you're just going through a phase of being mean. It'll pass I'm sure!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I think ‘popular’ on forums like these really just means ‘posts a lot’.

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By *tacy.TWoman over a year ago

luton

"Name him in my status.

But why?

Would you?"

Attention seeking n trying to mark his territory, I absolutely wouldn't!

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By *nFairnessMan over a year ago

The Four Corners

"Verbal affirmation... whilst it could well be attention he could also be figuring out how important he is or the experience was to you with a little test. First question id ask him is ... why do you feel like you need me to do that. Work out the fear... it could be not knowing where he stands, a fear he thinks more of the experience than what you do or something else. Then depending on the dynamic set things straight. Hope this helps op

You guys have all resorted to the extremes...the good and bad of the situation, jumping on worst case scenarios and completely disregarded the guy himself, his experiences his thoughts and feelings. Its sad to think that noone took the time to ask why. Or even read comments from a range of different perspectives. Half of you are here because you want to prove that you are better than the individual being discussed. As a 30 year old id like to see more compassion and less self interest in a community of 'open-minded' people. I get there are occasionally the stalkers in the world and the extremes but thinking this happens 100% of the time just causes a state of paralysis for all who choose to buy into the fear. I don't believe anyone is inherently bad we are a product of our experiences and our perspectives on them. Projecting your fears and biases on another person is just irresponsible.

The fact you had time with this person OP suggests to me he was worth taking a gamble on in a sea of single male messages. He can't be all bad, unless you are an obsurdly bad judge of character.

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"I think ‘popular’ on forums like these really just means ‘posts a lot’."

I can confirm this is not true

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

What if the woman isn't popular?

Well since you did the thread OP I was guessing it was you, and you are.

What's the definition of popular on fab?

How many verifications you have?

What rank you get to in hot pics?

How popular you seem in the forums? Is that measured by how many people fawn over a forumite? The forums are a tiny percentage of fab anyway!!!

Sorry I hate this popular stuff.

Right there with you re: popular. *coughs up a hairball*

And this thread has been very entertaining.

I've missed you, where have you been?!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think ‘popular’ on forums like these really just means ‘posts a lot’."

Oh so if I post less I'll not be considered popular....easy!

Oh wait, oh that's clever!!!

Are you sure you have a penis?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is see it more as a bragging thing.

Guys like to brag.

You see it on the forums with certain men that deliberately go after the "popular" women.

So then why do guys seem to chase you

Desperation kicks in

I'm sorry but if you think I'm popular gen surely you are just as popular yourself.

There isn't actually that much difference between me and you.

We are both twats just in different ways

I'm just trying to work out if I should be insulted by this..."

I know you'll take it whichever way you want to.

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By *egDaySkipperMan over a year ago

Liverpool

Who am I naming, and how many bounties am I getting in exchange?

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By *ersiantugMan over a year ago

Cardiff

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By *ersiantugMan over a year ago

Cardiff

The fact you had time with this person OP suggests to me he was worth taking a gamble on in a sea of single male messages. He can't be all bad, unless you are an obsurdly bad judge of character."

People have questioned this thread, you just didn't catch it.

I was about to post that the less information given about anything in the Lounge the more reactive the reactions to it are! But that's likely an equation for everywhere in life tbh, especially these days.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd mention someone else just to piss them off

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By *nFairnessMan over a year ago

The Four Corners

The fact you had time with this person OP suggests to me he was worth taking a gamble on in a sea of single male messages. He can't be all bad, unless you are an obsurdly bad judge of character.

People have questioned this thread, you just didn't catch it.

pt"

They questioned the external factors sure. Agreements the situation and such.. when it came to him everyone just assumed he asked for attention. Anyone ask why he might be looking for attention, or external verification. Nope. Agree with you though people are reactive... not active. Create.. dont regurgitate. Im getting that on my gravestone.

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Do you mean why would "he" ask you name him? I'd assume because he has reasons to desire you to do so.

I would if I wanted to, not if I didn't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ll name him in my status if you want?

I’ll name you in my status too

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By *nFairnessMan over a year ago

The Four Corners

"Do you mean why would "he" ask you name him? I'd assume because he has reasons to desire you to do so.

I would if I wanted to, not if I didn't."

Think I just fell for you. Just a scrape, ill be fine.

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Do you mean why would "he" ask you name him? I'd assume because he has reasons to desire you to do so.

I would if I wanted to, not if I didn't.

Think I just fell for you. Just a scrape, ill be fine.

I've got a plaster if you need one. It has unicorns on it

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By *nFairnessMan over a year ago

The Four Corners

"Do you mean why would "he" ask you name him? I'd assume because he has reasons to desire you to do so.

I would if I wanted to, not if I didn't.

Think I just fell for you. Just a scrape, ill be fine.

I've got a plaster if you need one. It has unicorns on it

Well arent you a sweetheart.

Those unicorn ones are hard to come by... I also hear they are singularly horny. Is this true?

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By *ools and the brainCouple over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I'm lazy can someone give me a brief synopsis of the thread please?

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Do you mean why would "he" ask you name him? I'd assume because he has reasons to desire you to do so.

I would if I wanted to, not if I didn't.

Think I just fell for you. Just a scrape, ill be fine.

I've got a plaster if you need one. It has unicorns on it

Well arent you a sweetheart.

Those unicorn ones are hard to come by... I also hear they are singularly horny. Is this true?

You have it absolutely right!

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