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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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be honest....Do you read them?
I know from the messages and photos we get then probably 80% never read our profile.
I have to admit that no profile, a one liner or a profile that is too long tends to get ignored.
What about you? |
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If I sent you a message saying "hi, you OK" and a picture of my cock, I'd be blocked (see, I read!)
As a single bloke, I have to give myself the best chance and not waste either of our time if we are not what each other wants.
Takes 2 minutes to read a profile x |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
Dartford |
"be honest....Do you read them?
I know from the messages and photos we get then probably 80% never read our profile.
I have to admit that no profile, a one liner or a profile that is too long tends to get ignored.
What about you?"
I read them. But have to admit I tend to ignore the blanks, the shorts, the longs and the weirdly specific and demanding ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"be honest....Do you read them?
I know from the messages and photos we get then probably 80% never read our profile.
I have to admit that no profile, a one liner or a profile that is too long tends to get ignored.
What about you?
I read them. But have to admit I tend to ignore the blanks, the shorts, the longs and the weirdly specific and demanding ones. "
As above |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read them as long as its worth getting to the end. If I see something I don't like half way through I won't carry on. Or if it's 5000 words long I don't bother as I already know they are demanding. |
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I never read profiles I just scroll to the bottom of the page to find the secret word they've put on to make sure you've read it ...
.word of advice hide the secret word in the middle of the profile..  |
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I don't send messages so I don't really need to read profiles and rarely do.
If someone sends me a message I will read their profile to see if we have anything in common before deciding how to respond.
My profile text hasn't changed in a few years simply because I had to write it that way to make sure that others read it before getting in touch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm terrible for reading them, I can be messaging someone for a few weeks before I finally get round to it.
From the messages I ger I'd say most read mine, I think as a female if you have naked pics men get distracted and don't read.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read profiles I always have. I know some may not see the point but there is a point. I can tailor my message and also get an idea if I am what they are seeking and vice versa. I think it is a shame that many people do not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"be honest....Do you read them?
I know from the messages and photos we get then probably 80% never read our profile.
I have to admit that no profile, a one liner or a profile that is too long tends to get ignored.
What about you?"
Yep, I'll usually read a profile. Unless Its Stupidly Long Or Every Word Is Capitalised And Theres No Punctuation.
That was actually really hard to type like that! |
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I read a profile fully before I even open a message from someone new. If it’s not what I’m looking for, the message gets deleted (or occasionally a sarcastic response if I’m in a mood, which I’m not proud of).
If someone can’t even be bothered to right a handful of considered sentences and take a couple of up to date pictures for the opportunity to get sex, our effort and energy levels aren’t a match.
It’s a pretty good filter x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use all information contained in someone’s profile to determine if we’d be a match. Text, photos, verifications if available (they show me the type of people met previously).
Why wouldn’t I give myself the best opportunity at positive outcomes?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read profile and generally have a quick look at them. I just want to out any weird ones or ones I don't see any common ground.
But I know many don't even look at mine except the photos and I know off the bat they haven't as they do exactly as I've asked not to in my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never read profiles I just scroll to the bottom of the page to find the secret word they've put on to make sure you've read it ...
.word of advice hide the secret word in the middle of the profile.. "
I do!  |
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By *cott73Man
over a year ago
brighton |
"I read them as long as its worth getting to the end. If I see something I don't like half way through I won't carry on. Or if it's 5000 words long I don't bother as I already know they are demanding."
This. The moment it starts sounding like a job application, I'm out. |
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As a Tgirl definitely read profiles and ensured mine was worth reading also. However the majority of winks or messages I received generally had profiles with one or two lines.
Those guys (yes mainly men and a few couples) just didn’t think it was worthwhile creating something interesting to read or look at (pictures generally their knob).
It’s a shame as some of my best meets on here, were with those who’s profiles captured my attention right away. |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
Sandwich |
I do read profiles.
I find them interesting reading sometimes. Not often though.
Some profiles can be very well crafted, but then they seem incapable of crafting interesting messages or conversations. I guess chat GPT can only go so far.   |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"be honest....Do you read them?
I know from the messages and photos we get then probably 80% never read our profile.
I have to admit that no profile, a one liner or a profile that is too long tends to get ignored.
What about you?"
yes always can't read yours anyway  |
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Yes I read them. They tend to be a good gauge of a person's personality, but especially keeping an eye out for those "requirements" they may have and smoking status which would stop me messaging in the first place.
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
Ah I'll be honest, usually it's a skim reading job. Even then, that's only for people I haven't already interacted with in some way.
None of my messages are FAF right now. It's usually more you seem awesome and good chat + those pics are really hot so if you wanna say hey, please do. Usually works for everyone bar single women to be fair.
They can just be SO LONG and we really get distracted by visuals... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m new so I try and read every profile of anyone i may have an interest in. I’m a conversationalist so it gives a good starting point (mostly). I need to do some work on my own as I find my feet a little more.
What does everyone feel is more important, the text or the pictures? |
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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago
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I always read a profile as I want to get a sense of how they view theirself and rarely get in to conversation with people who who don't have at least a few lines about theirself (not just thier wants) unless I have met them at a social or interacted with them on the forum.
I don't actually expect someone to read my full essay before messaging but if they haven't at least skimmed a little of it then it is usually pretty evident. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always read a profile as I want to get a sense of how they view theirself and rarely get in to conversation with people who who don't have at least a few lines about theirself (not just thier wants) unless I have met them at a social or interacted with them on the forum.
I don't actually expect someone to read my full essay before messaging but if they haven't at least skimmed a little of it then it is usually pretty evident."
What is a sunk cost fallacy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read em. Got to see if i fit what they want 
Whaaaaat? A man who understands it's not just about what *he* wants to fuck?! 
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You mean a man that understands that women read the forums and knows what to post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"be honest....Do you read them?
I know from the messages and photos we get then probably 80% never read our profile.
I have to admit that no profile, a one liner or a profile that is too long tends to get ignored.
What about you?"
Yes, I do read profiles. Without reading I cannot guage anything op |
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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago
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What is a sunk cost fallacy?"
Where you keep putting time or effort or money into something mainly because you have already put time, money or effort into it not because you actually still want it or believe in it.
Like reading my profile
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read profiles but I don't think many people read mine. Some say they do but the things they come out and say, I know they've either not read it or not taken a blind bit of notice. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I do read profiles. When I was meeting I'd read the text first and would only DM if I fit what person was looking for.
The odd profile would have way too much text that I couldn't be bothered with it all. Those profiles wouldn't interest me anyway. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
If we are browsing fab then no we just look at the photos but if we are actually looking to meet another couple then yes we read the profile fully to make sure we are all looking for the same thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is a sunk cost fallacy?
Where you keep putting time or effort or money into something mainly because you have already put time, money or effort into it not because you actually still want it or believe in it.
Like reading my profile
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Aha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a very long profile but I think it says more about me than all the pics. If someone is prepared to spare a few minutes bothering to read it then it bodes well.
Likewise I like to read others profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read them all the time.
I won't necessarily follow the rules though (stand on one leg, pat your head while stroking your cock, and put "I'm an idiot" in the subject heading of your message to know you've read my profile.) Fair game if I get blocked I figure.
I also read veris. And check the profiles of veris. Gives me a better picture of who this is and whether I should say something or whether the pictures and descriptors are as sexy as I thought.
Rarely get a response and that's ok. I know how inundated most are. Most interactions I have are because of chat/forums where people get to know a more rounded me.
Some profiles are a work of art and I think I'll update mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read them all the time.
I won't necessarily follow the rules though (stand on one leg, pat your head while stroking your cock, and put "I'm an idiot" in the subject heading of your message to know you've read my profile.) Fair game if I get blocked I figure.
I also read veris. And check the profiles of veris. Gives me a better picture of who this is and whether I should say something or whether the pictures and descriptors are as sexy as I thought.
Rarely get a response and that's ok. I know how inundated most are. Most interactions I have are because of chat/forums where people get to know a more rounded me.
Some profiles are a work of art and I think I'll update mine."
Thanks for the tip. Added. |
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Profiles are there to stop you wasting your time messaging someone who is not looking for the same as you.
You save your time and theirs if you read them first.
My profile is a little long but mainly just basic bullet points of what I want and what I don't.
It's an easy read but I get messages everyday from people asking for stuff my profile clearly states I'm not into.
Then they tell me I'm rude for not replying. Why would I reply when the message sender can't spend 2 minutes reading my profile and respecting my wishes? |
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"Profiles are there to stop you wasting your time messaging someone who is not looking for the same as you.
You save your time and theirs if you read them first.
My profile is a little long but mainly just basic bullet points of what I want and what I don't.
It's an easy read but I get messages everyday from people asking for stuff my profile clearly states I'm not into.
Then they tell me I'm rude for not replying. Why would I reply when the message sender can't spend 2 minutes reading my profile and respecting my wishes?"
It's a long profile but the way you've laid it out makes it easy to spot the necessary information to decide whether or not to send a message. Some profiles are just a single huge block of text. |
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"Profiles are there to stop you wasting your time messaging someone who is not looking for the same as you.
You save your time and theirs if you read them first.
My profile is a little long but mainly just basic bullet points of what I want and what I don't.
It's an easy read but I get messages everyday from people asking for stuff my profile clearly states I'm not into.
Then they tell me I'm rude for not replying. Why would I reply when the message sender can't spend 2 minutes reading my profile and respecting my wishes?
It's a long profile but the way you've laid it out makes it easy to spot the necessary information to decide whether or not to send a message. Some profiles are just a single huge block of text."
I did try to make it easy but still get messages daily from people who have clearly not bothered.
Right at the top it says I don't do phone sex or cams yet I get requests for both on a regular basis. They then get rude and abusive when I don't reply to their requests. This is why my blocked list is so long. |
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People read them, or read them enough I find. And will come back to it later too.
Chancers typically don't, but so what? Chancers are a large part of this site so it's just the way it is on that front.
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Yes, I always read them when they land in my inbox. The exception being if she's sent an insipid monosyllabic introduction. Then I discard it or look at the profile a week later if I have nothing better to do. |
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By *ez669Man
over a year ago
East Kilbride |
Only reqd them if I like the pictures and want to find more out qbout them.
The ones whos states says plz read profile first tho. i never do as I'm a rebel and dont like being told what to do |
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I always read the ones I write to and try to craft an appropriate, interesting and relevant reply. I then usually ask if they will delete my initial message if they have no interest in chatting.
Quite often, my message is read. It is clear from reading it that I read their profile, but they cannot even be bothered to delete the message if not interested.
So, as an adjunct to the "read my profile you ignorant fuckers" please add delete if no interest. |
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