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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Was just wondering who people think are better in bed (or out) swingers or vanillas ? "
Are you asking if swingers believe they are better (whatever that means they would have to define I guess)?  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I would imagine that being a swinger makes us more aware of our bodies and responses to stimulation - so as a general statement I think they are better in sexual matters. Broad broad sweeping statement though on my part |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would imagine that being a swinger makes us more aware of our bodies and responses to stimulation - so as a general statement I think they are better in sexual matters. Broad broad sweeping statement though on my part "
Careful C... You casting a broad sweeping statement like that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"suppose with them being vanilla's they may not be on here so its a bit of a moot point..."
Not really cos we was all onces vanillas and I'm sure single women and men on this site sleep with vanillas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the main I agree... Through my experience people on the scene are better at giving and receiving sexual pleasures across a broad spectrum of activities compared to vanilla people.
I'm sure most of you will agree there have been the odd meet where we've played and felt disappointed at the end result and if you compared the performance and imagination of the person or persons involved to someone on the vaniila scene you may say the vanilla variety was better..
Me personally... friends on the scene anytime for me!! |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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Well I was a good shag as a vanilla - but I am way better now - though I would not necessarily say I am a swinger as I only do one to one. Don't know what I am.
Any suggestions? On a postcard, in a brown envelope please. |
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"I would imagine that being a swinger makes us more aware of our bodies and responses to stimulation - so as a general statement I think they are better in sexual matters. Broad broad sweeping statement though on my part "
I can't agree with this, swinging is a sexual choice or preference it doesn't necessarily make you more aware of your body and it's response to stimulation than say "vanillas" (how I hate that term) who are very sexual by nature and enjoy very varied stimulation with their partners.
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"suppose with them being vanilla's they may not be on here so its a bit of a moot point...
Not really cos we was all onces vanillas and I'm sure single women and men on this site sleep with vanillas. "
Sleep yes, have sex with? No. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People that I have met on sites such as this have been a darn sight more fun and interesting than people I have met elsewhere (as in not on sites such as this!).... |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I would imagine that being a swinger makes us more aware of our bodies and responses to stimulation - so as a general statement I think they are better in sexual matters. Broad broad sweeping statement though on my part
I can't agree with this, swinging is a sexual choice or preference it doesn't necessarily make you more aware of your body and it's response to stimulation than say "vanillas" (how I hate that term) who are very sexual by nature and enjoy very varied stimulation with their partners.
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I know lol... it was as I said a very sweeping statement and tongue in cheek I dont know whether we are better or not... I have alwyas enjoyed good sex but feel that the scene has taught me one or two things I would not otherwise have known |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
"Well I was a good shag as a vanilla - but I am way better now - though I would not necessarily say I am a swinger as I only do one to one. Don't know what I am.
Any suggestions? On a postcard, in a brown envelope please."
You're a lady broadening her sexual experiences, just a question though, why does playing one to one mean you may not be a swinger 
That maybe a topic for another day
As for the OP's question i'd say both. Just cause someones vanilla doesn't mean they aren't dirty kinky fookers 
i guess swingers are more open about it but sex be it swinger or vanilla would depend on you and getting your partner to play |
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"I would imagine that being a swinger makes us more aware of our bodies and responses to stimulation - so as a general statement I think they are better in sexual matters. Broad broad sweeping statement though on my part
I can't agree with this, swinging is a sexual choice or preference it doesn't necessarily make you more aware of your body and it's response to stimulation than say "vanillas" (how I hate that term) who are very sexual by nature and enjoy very varied stimulation with their partners.
I know lol... it was as I said a very sweeping statement and tongue in cheek I dont know whether we are better or not... I have alwyas enjoyed good sex but feel that the scene has taught me one or two things I would not otherwise have known "
I see  I agree there are things I know now that I didn't before and some of them I wish I didn't
We had a great sex life before we still have a great sex life...just different |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Was just wondering who people think are better in bed (or out) swingers or vanillas ? "
Swingers (some) will always think they are better at sex than non swingers( i dislike the term vanilla)which makes me smile as it means diddly squat.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Was just wondering who people think are better in bed (or out) swingers or vanillas ? Swingers (some) will always think they are better at sex than non swingers( i dislike the term vanilla)which makes me smile as it means diddly squat. "
I'm not keen on many words used in the swinging world they can get very confusing and I'm often looking things up on google. I don't like using the word swinger/s mainly because I get an image of a glass bowl in the middle of the room full of keys and women that look like that have a wig stuck on as pubs. Floss anyone ? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was just wondering who people think are better in bed (or out) swingers or vanillas ? "
Well if you are a swinger who actually swings you will know damned well that there are those who perform well and those that don't.
I guess the same applies in vanilla, trouble is you don't really get the opportunity to find out do you?  |
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