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Hey guys, I know the word FAT might not sound great, but I really want to reach out to all the big, curvy people out there. There's way too much body shaming on this site and too many people hiding behind fake profiles. I want you to feel confident in your own skin and remember that there are people who find larger sizes attractive and hot. Don't let those judgmental jerks bring you down. You're not as fat as you think, so stop comparing yourself to those unrealistic beauty standards. Trust me, there are way too many guys out there feeling insecure because of this toxic social pattern. Be proud of who you are because you're gorgeous, sexy, and perfect just the way you are. Lots of love, A x |
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"You used the F word.
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In all seriousness.
It's a good cause but if you really want to promote positive body image.
Then just say be proud of what you look like regardless of size.
You know because I have known plenty of really thin people who hate the way they look.
It's always good to promote positive body image alongside mindfulness and understanding. |
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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago
Central France dept 36 |
" nice post OP"
Glad you liked his post but personally I’m of the opposite opinion and feel his post is offensive but hey ho opinions are thankfully just opinions and not facts.
Signed
A Larger Person.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" nice post OP
Glad you liked his post but personally I’m of the opposite opinion and feel his post is offensive but hey ho opinions are thankfully just opinions and not facts.
Signed
A Larger Person.
T"
I personally, as someone that sees themself as fat, think it’s important to remind ourselves that we are sexy and desirable! But I acknowledge that I may have missed offensive language. |
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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago
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" nice post OP
Glad you liked his post but personally I’m of the opposite opinion and feel his post is offensive but hey ho opinions are thankfully just opinions and not facts.
Signed
A Larger Person.
T
I personally, as someone that sees themself as fat, think it’s important to remind ourselves that we are sexy and desirable! But I acknowledge that I may have missed offensive language. "
Dont remind others...remind yourself first x |
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Some people just go out of their way to be mean. That's kinda of up to them I can't stop them. Others telling me I should feel rubbish cause of the idiots doesn't really work for me. But I tell you what does, and it's seeing others with my body type rock the way they look with confidence. And that's what does make Fab a pretty good place to be sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Give the lad a break and look at the beauty of the post….people will see offensive tones in anything nowadays!!
OP….thank you and I for one like what you have written…..do I feel those words you’ve said….nope….but I don’t let it bring me down where it impacts on my mental state!!
I’m not hung up on my body but I do hate the fact that I can never get away with wearing muscle fit clothing so yes I’m fat….but I really don’t want to be  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best intentions was there I'm sure, better intentions if you hadn't of wrote fat in caps.
Don't know what it has to do with fake profiles? And what you want isn't going to magically happen because you've posted it.
Sorry OP I'm sure you meant well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" nice post OP
Glad you liked his post but personally I’m of the opposite opinion and feel his post is offensive but hey ho opinions are thankfully just opinions and not facts.
Signed
A Larger Person.
T
I personally, as someone that sees themself as fat, think it’s important to remind ourselves that we are sexy and desirable! But I acknowledge that I may have missed offensive language.
Dont remind others...remind yourself first x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thought they reclaimed fat
I think it is a word that has been reclaimed. But like with all reclaimed words, not everyone will like the use"
So why reclaim it then? Seems pointless calling something “reclaimed” if it’s still gonna offend a bunch of people
Fat does have a particularly sharp sound to it though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys, I know the word FAT might not sound great, but I really want to reach out to all the big, curvy people out there. There's way too much body shaming on this site and too many people hiding behind fake profiles. I want you to feel confident in your own skin and remember that there are people who find larger sizes attractive and hot. Don't let those judgmental jerks bring you down. You're not as fat as you think, so stop comparing yourself to those unrealistic beauty standards. Trust me, there are way too many guys out there feeling insecure because of this toxic social pattern. Be proud of who you are because you're gorgeous, sexy, and perfect just the way you are. Lots of love, A x"
You preached all that then said ‘you’re not as fat as you think  ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are quite a lot of posts on a regular basis regarding BBW, curvy figures OP, that often have offensive comments towards slender women.
Body shaming either way is wrong, and shouldn't be tolerated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys, I know the word FAT might not sound great, but I really want to reach out to all the big, curvy people out there. There's way too much body shaming on this site and too many people hiding behind fake profiles. I want you to feel confident in your own skin and remember that there are people who find larger sizes attractive and hot. Don't let those judgmental jerks bring you down. You're not as fat as you think, so stop comparing yourself to those unrealistic beauty standards. Trust me, there are way too many guys out there feeling insecure because of this toxic social pattern. Be proud of who you are because you're gorgeous, sexy, and perfect just the way you are. Lots of love, A xYou preached all that then said ‘you’re not as fat as you think ?"
You are not as fat as you imagine- Baz Lurhmann |
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People come in all shapes and sizes and luckily there are people out there who find all our shapes and sizes attractive, that’s really all that needs to be said.
People please just be yourselves and love/like yourself to the best level that you can  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys, I know the word FAT might not sound great, but I really want to reach out to all the big, curvy people out there. There's way too much body shaming on this site and too many people hiding behind fake profiles. I want you to feel confident in your own skin and remember that there are people who find larger sizes attractive and hot. Don't let those judgmental jerks bring you down. You're not as fat as you think, so stop comparing yourself to those unrealistic beauty standards. Trust me, there are way too many guys out there feeling insecure because of this toxic social pattern. Be proud of who you are because you're gorgeous, sexy, and perfect just the way you are. Lots of love, A xYou preached all that then said ‘you’re not as fat as you think ?
You are not as fat as you imagine- Baz Lurhmann "
love Baz Lurhmann |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do we get a flag?
No...we get a flan
If it's cheese and onion, I'll be happy 
Ohh me too my fave, or a nice smoke salmon n broccoli 
Bring on the pies! Food then sex. Excellent  "
If it’s pies then I’m eating that much that I won’t be in the mood for sex |
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"Do we get a flag?
No...we get a flan
If it's cheese and onion, I'll be happy
Ohh me too my fave, or a nice smoke salmon n broccoli
Bring on the pies! Food then sex. Excellent
If it’s pies then I’m eating that much that I won’t be in the mood for sex "
Keep it real son. Light meat pie, sex, then a heavy pud |
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"Do we get a flag?
No...we get a flan
If it's cheese and onion, I'll be happy
Ohh me too my fave, or a nice smoke salmon n broccoli
Bring on the pies! Food then sex. Excellent
If it’s pies then I’m eating that much that I won’t be in the mood for sex
Keep it real son. Light meat pie, sex, then a heavy pud "
This is how it works |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do we get a flag?
No...we get a flan
If it's cheese and onion, I'll be happy
Ohh me too my fave, or a nice smoke salmon n broccoli
Bring on the pies! Food then sex. Excellent
If it’s pies then I’m eating that much that I won’t be in the mood for sex
Keep it real son. Light meat pie, sex, then a heavy pud
This is how it works "
This is why I’ve not had sex in fucking ages   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys, I know the word FAT might not sound great, but I really want to reach out to all the big, curvy people out there. There's way too much body shaming on this site and too many people hiding behind fake profiles. I want you to feel confident in your own skin and remember that there are people who find larger sizes attractive and hot. Don't let those judgmental jerks bring you down. You're not as fat as you think, so stop comparing yourself to those unrealistic beauty standards. Trust me, there are way too many guys out there feeling insecure because of this toxic social pattern. Be proud of who you are because you're gorgeous, sexy, and perfect just the way you are. Lots of love, A x"
Wow just wow.. Body shaming but calls us fat and judging bodies and toxic people. |
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"Do we get a flag?
No...we get a flan
If it's cheese and onion, I'll be happy
Ohh me too my fave, or a nice smoke salmon n broccoli
Bring on the pies! Food then sex. Excellent
If it’s pies then I’m eating that much that I won’t be in the mood for sex
Keep it real son. Light meat pie, sex, then a heavy pud
This is how it works
This is why I’ve not had sex in fucking ages "
My motto is pastry before penis |
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"Do we get a flag?
No...we get a flan
If it's cheese and onion, I'll be happy
Ohh me too my fave, or a nice smoke salmon n broccoli
Bring on the pies! Food then sex. Excellent
If it’s pies then I’m eating that much that I won’t be in the mood for sex
Keep it real son. Light meat pie, sex, then a heavy pud
This is how it works
This is why I’ve not had sex in fucking ages
My motto is pastry before penis "
And cream afterwards  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"I wasn’t proud to be fat. I didn’t feel gorgeous and sexy. I hated it. Good on those that do though. You have to be happy in yourself. Other people’s opinions mean shit. Be happy in you "
I'm not proud to be fat .
I'm not unhappy or jovial either.
I'm just overweight and need to be not overweight.
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"I wasn’t proud to be fat. I didn’t feel gorgeous and sexy. I hated it. Good on those that do though. You have to be happy in yourself. Other people’s opinions mean shit. Be happy in you
I'm not proud to be fat .
I'm not unhappy or jovial either.
I'm just overweight and need to be not overweight.
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You're classy and are a laugh |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
Dartford |
"Hey guys, I know the word FAT might not sound great, but I really want to reach out to all the big, curvy people out there. There's way too much body shaming on this site and too many people hiding behind fake profiles. I want you to feel confident in your own skin and remember that there are people who find larger sizes attractive and hot. Don't let those judgmental jerks bring you down. You're not as fat as you think, so stop comparing yourself to those unrealistic beauty standards. Trust me, there are way too many guys out there feeling insecure because of this toxic social pattern. Be proud of who you are because you're gorgeous, sexy, and perfect just the way you are. Lots of love, A x"
Thank you for your sensitivity. Who are you and why do you think that I have a problem with how I look? This might have been a bit more real if you had kept it all in the first person. Lets hear about your struggle with being fat and the impact it has had on your emotional wellbeing. |
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Dear people. The post wasn’t meant to offence, and actually was meant to bring awareness of the exact thing. Fat is not a bad word, and yes, people get offended beyond easy these days. Is full fat yogurt a word that should be banned now? Fat is the colloquialism to a larger person. Yes other terms could be used but then the meaning of this post would be different. This post was meant to empower people to feel comfortable in their own body indifferently of the size or the word. To feel empowered and not feel offended only because society and social media thought us to hate a word. Fat is beautiful. Another example, why is skinny a good word and fat a bad word, how many people in this word live with anorexia, and some of the people here find them sexy. Why one extreme is acceptable and the other not. Please feel confident in your body indifferently of the word. Peace and love to all of you gorgeous people. |
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"Hey guys, I know the word FAT might not sound great, but I really want to reach out to all the big, curvy people out there. There's way too much body shaming on this site and too many people hiding behind fake profiles. I want you to feel confident in your own skin and remember that there are people who find larger sizes attractive and hot. Don't let those judgmental jerks bring you down. You're not as fat as you think, so stop comparing yourself to those unrealistic beauty standards. Trust me, there are way too many guys out there feeling insecure because of this toxic social pattern. Be proud of who you are because you're gorgeous, sexy, and perfect just the way you are. Lots of love, A x
Thank you for your sensitivity. Who are you and why do you think that I have a problem with how I look? This might have been a bit more real if you had kept it all in the first person. Lets hear about your struggle with being fat and the impact it has had on your emotional wellbeing. "
Nobody spoke about you personally my darling. Wrong place to seeking attention and making this post yours. All the love x |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
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"Dear people. The post wasn’t meant to offence, and actually was meant to bring awareness of the exact thing. Fat is not a bad word, and yes, people get offended beyond easy these days. Is full fat yogurt a word that should be banned now? Fat is the colloquialism to a larger person. Yes other terms could be used but then the meaning of this post would be different. This post was meant to empower people to feel comfortable in their own body indifferently of the size or the word. To feel empowered and not feel offended only because society and social media thought us to hate a word. Fat is beautiful. Another example, why is skinny a good word and fat a bad word, how many people in this word live with anorexia, and some of the people here find them sexy. Why one extreme is acceptable and the other not. Please feel confident in your body indifferently of the word. Peace and love to all of you gorgeous people. "
Fat is not beautiful. And it is rarely healthy. I think the point of most objections is that this is our life and we don't need whatever you think you are offering. By all means, say you want to fuck fat birds but there is no need to do any of the weird I accept you stuff... |
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I am here today to talk 'fat', people. How many of you here know it's fat awareness week? I'm just imagining a seminar lol.
I'm not so sure skinny is that often positive a word tbh, I've heard it used in loads of negative ways I think I listed some fairly recently (people's weight is brought up all the time on Fab, we've just had a little probably much-needed break from it). pt |
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"Hey guys, I know the word FAT might not sound great, but I really want to reach out to all the big, curvy people out there. There's way too much body shaming on this site and too many people hiding behind fake profiles. I want you to feel confident in your own skin and remember that there are people who find larger sizes attractive and hot. Don't let those judgmental jerks bring you down. You're not as fat as you think, so stop comparing yourself to those unrealistic beauty standards. Trust me, there are way too many guys out there feeling insecure because of this toxic social pattern. Be proud of who you are because you're gorgeous, sexy, and perfect just the way you are. Lots of love, A x
Thank you for your sensitivity. Who are you and why do you think that I have a problem with how I look? This might have been a bit more real if you had kept it all in the first person. Lets hear about your struggle with being fat and the impact it has had on your emotional wellbeing.
Nobody spoke about you personally my darling. Wrong place to seeking attention and making this post yours. All the love x
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The trrruuuuuuu colours are shining through, truuuuu colours that's why I love you... |
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"Dear people. The post wasn’t meant to offence, and actually was meant to bring awareness of the exact thing. Fat is not a bad word, and yes, people get offended beyond easy these days. Is full fat yogurt a word that should be banned now? Fat is the colloquialism to a larger person. Yes other terms could be used but then the meaning of this post would be different. This post was meant to empower people to feel comfortable in their own body indifferently of the size or the word. To feel empowered and not feel offended only because society and social media thought us to hate a word. Fat is beautiful. Another example, why is skinny a good word and fat a bad word, how many people in this word live with anorexia, and some of the people here find them sexy. Why one extreme is acceptable and the other not. Please feel confident in your body indifferently of the word. Peace and love to all of you gorgeous people.
Fat is not beautiful. And it is rarely healthy. I think the point of most objections is that this is our life and we don't need whatever you think you are offering. By all means, say you want to fuck fat birds but there is no need to do any of the weird I accept you stuff...
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Is that copy and paste? I swear you've made this exact post before! Actually forgtet that it's kick off. pt |
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"Dear people. The post wasn’t meant to offence, and actually was meant to bring awareness of the exact thing. Fat is not a bad word, and yes, people get offended beyond easy these days. Is full fat yogurt a word that should be banned now? Fat is the colloquialism to a larger person. Yes other terms could be used but then the meaning of this post would be different. This post was meant to empower people to feel comfortable in their own body indifferently of the size or the word. To feel empowered and not feel offended only because society and social media thought us to hate a word. Fat is beautiful. Another example, why is skinny a good word and fat a bad word, how many people in this word live with anorexia, and some of the people here find them sexy. Why one extreme is acceptable and the other not. Please feel confident in your body indifferently of the word. Peace and love to all of you gorgeous people.
Fat is not beautiful. And it is rarely healthy. I think the point of most objections is that this is our life and we don't need whatever you think you are offering. By all means, say you want to fuck fat birds but there is no need to do any of the weird I accept you stuff..."
Are you alright pal, you seem you need some comforting. Don’t believe many care what you find beautiful and it can be observed by the obsession to making your opinion visible, make loud and clear what is in your own beliefs correct. You fail understanding the meaning of this post, changing its meaning and coming here making it personal and give unsolicited opinions on what YOU think is right.
You don’t like fat people, move on, don’t be a opinionated bully. |
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"I am here today to talk 'fat', people. How many of you here know it's fat awareness week? I'm just imagining a seminar lol.
I'm not so sure skinny is that often positive a word tbh, I've heard it used in loads of negative ways I think I listed some fairly recently (people's weight is brought up all the time on Fab, we've just had a little probably much-needed break from it). pt"
I understand you need affirmation, however why do you feel the need to be toxic and debate. You could be kind and supporting or move on. |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
I'm not proud to be fat. I imagine it's a rare thing to find an obese person that's proud of their overweight condition. I did just enjoy the two donuts I ate and I'm not going to hide my body if someone finds me attractive though.
I get that it's supposed to be an uplifting post, just poor wording imo.
And on the flip side, the amount of people that slim shame women in response to these threads is also quite sad. |
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"I'm not proud to be fat. I imagine it's a rare thing to find an obese person that's proud of their overweight condition. I did just enjoy the two donuts I ate and I'm not going to hide my body if someone finds me attractive though.
I get that it's supposed to be an uplifting post, just poor wording imo.
And on the flip side, the amount of people that slim shame women in response to these threads is also quite sad. "
I find your body awesome |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"I'm not proud to be fat. I imagine it's a rare thing to find an obese person that's proud of their overweight condition. I did just enjoy the two donuts I ate and I'm not going to hide my body if someone finds me attractive though.
I get that it's supposed to be an uplifting post, just poor wording imo.
And on the flip side, the amount of people that slim shame women in response to these threads is also quite sad.
I find your body awesome "
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"I'm not proud to be fat. I imagine it's a rare thing to find an obese person that's proud of their overweight condition. I did just enjoy the two donuts I ate and I'm not going to hide my body if someone finds me attractive though.
I get that it's supposed to be an uplifting post, just poor wording imo.
And on the flip side, the amount of people that slim shame women in response to these threads is also quite sad.
I find your body awesome
You don't own any plants. I had to kick you off my hotlist. Soz! "
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I’m sorry if this upset a couple of yous. The poor wording as stated might have made it sound negative. The intention of this was to make people not feel offended by words or size. Be confident in their own body and proud of being who they are. Many decided to make it personal and change my words towards what they believe , others attacked me personally in DMs. To make this clear. This was meant to make people love their own body indifferently of the size. It was triggered by the fact I been often told in chats that other members of the group been bullying and fat shaming people. It made me realise that loads of members on here are shy to express themselves because a bunch of self entitled opinionated people decide giving their unsolicited opinion upon what a person should look like and what’s correct and what’s healthy. We are all beautiful, we are all sexy. And there are loads of larger people who are healthy and fine despite their slightly larger body. |
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This comes across very white knighting given you're not remotely fat.
Also, plenty of us are as fat as we think and we should absolutely lose some weight and that it's perfectly reasonable for people not to find us attractive.
If I told anyone I was happy with my weight and body size etc I'd expect them to laugh in my face. I however am very happy in myself and I'm very content in life. I think you might be confused. |
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"I am here today to talk 'fat', people. How many of you here know it's fat awareness week? I'm just imagining a seminar lol.
I'm not so sure skinny is that often positive a word tbh, I've heard it used in loads of negative ways I think I listed some fairly recently (people's weight is brought up all the time on Fab, we've just had a little probably much-needed break from it). pt
I understand you need affirmation, however why do you feel the need to be toxic and debate. You could be kind and supporting or move on.
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Affirmation for what? You're being over sensitive and defensive, I'm not toxic I'm just having a laugh and pointing out some silliness. You can't really dictate the debate just because you made the thread, it doesn't work like that.
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
I'm fat... I am good with myself as I try to keep active and eat properly but I am not proud of being fat... That's just weird and really unhealthy... Also, it's nobody elses business and I don't care how they feel about my fatness... Body positivity is an individual thing and nobody else needs to like it or care about it... Also, I prefer men that fancy me because they find me attractive, not because they find fat women attractive... What if I lose weight? |
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"I’m sorry if this upset a couple of yous. The poor wording as stated might have made it sound negative. The intention of this was to make people not feel offended by words or size. Be confident in their own body and proud of being who they are. Many decided to make it personal and change my words towards what they believe , others attacked me personally in DMs. To make this clear. This was meant to make people love their own body indifferently of the size. It was triggered by the fact I been often told in chats that other members of the group been bullying and fat shaming people. It made me realise that loads of members on here are shy to express themselves because a bunch of self entitled opinionated people decide giving their unsolicited opinion upon what a person should look like and what’s correct and what’s healthy. We are all beautiful, we are all sexy. And there are loads of larger people who are healthy and fine despite their slightly larger body.
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Sorry you've been take to dm by ppl, but that does happen sometimes. But look at those last 5 words even^. It's overkill, they weren't needed! It's like you're labouring on any excess blubber. It's just a bit of humour for a lot of people. Some can get upset too, but you can't really argue with that. Thin people shouting "Be FAT and Proud!" on behalf of poor fat people? It's really not needed and it just doesn't work lol pt |
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"This comes across very white knighting given you're not remotely fat.
Also, plenty of us are as fat as we think and we should absolutely lose some weight and that it's perfectly reasonable for people not to find us attractive.
If I told anyone I was happy with my weight and body size etc I'd expect them to laugh in my face. I however am very happy in myself and I'm very content in life. I think you might be confused. "
I like large guys, and I am upset when sweet guys are being laughed in the face by others. That’s not right, the effects of it on longer term is not ok. Mental health is important |
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"I’m sorry if this upset a couple of yous. The poor wording as stated might have made it sound negative. The intention of this was to make people not feel offended by words or size. Be confident in their own body and proud of being who they are. Many decided to make it personal and change my words towards what they believe , others attacked me personally in DMs. To make this clear. This was meant to make people love their own body indifferently of the size. It was triggered by the fact I been often told in chats that other members of the group been bullying and fat shaming people. It made me realise that loads of members on here are shy to express themselves because a bunch of self entitled opinionated people decide giving their unsolicited opinion upon what a person should look like and what’s correct and what’s healthy. We are all beautiful, we are all sexy. And there are loads of larger people who are healthy and fine despite their slightly larger body.
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Sorry you've been take to dm by ppl, but that does happen sometimes. But look at those last 5 words even^. It's overkill, they weren't needed! It's like you're labouring on any excess blubber. It's just a bit of humour for a lot of people. Some can get upset too, but you can't really argue with that. Thin people shouting "Be FAT and Proud!" on behalf of poor fat people? It's really not needed and it just doesn't work lol pt"
It’s all as you see it in the end, my intention was good, you like to make a fuss and overanalyse if, do so, but don’t waste my time. |
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"There are quite a lot of posts on a regular basis regarding BBW, curvy figures OP, that often have offensive comments towards slender women.
Body shaming either way is wrong, and shouldn't be tolerated. "
I have to say I see much more derogatory comments about slender women on here than the overweight |
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"There are quite a lot of posts on a regular basis regarding BBW, curvy figures OP, that often have offensive comments towards slender women.
Body shaming either way is wrong, and shouldn't be tolerated.
I have to say I see much more derogatory comments about slender women on here than the overweight "
Which is wrong, entirely. Nobody should be bullied |
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"There are quite a lot of posts on a regular basis regarding BBW, curvy figures OP, that often have offensive comments towards slender women.
Body shaming either way is wrong, and shouldn't be tolerated.
I have to say I see much more derogatory comments about slender women on here than the overweight
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Honestly, I think it's easier to slip in sometimes. Going for bigger hits harder I think, but neither is good obviously. I've seen skinny kind-of mean over-zealous, boring, arrogant, unhealthy, even b*tch. It's never really a positive term.
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"This comes across very white knighting given you're not remotely fat.
Also, plenty of us are as fat as we think and we should absolutely lose some weight and that it's perfectly reasonable for people not to find us attractive.
If I told anyone I was happy with my weight and body size etc I'd expect them to laugh in my face. I however am very happy in myself and I'm very content in life. I think you might be confused.
I like large guys, and I am upset when sweet guys are being laughed in the face by others. That’s not right, the effects of it on longer term is not ok. Mental health is important
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Are they as sweet as all the honey they eat?
Isn't such perceived ebullience a bit of a cliche?
Mate, no larger people are laughed at 'in the face' on Fab! You've just got an idea of something that isn't there. The mods are on such things pretty quickly these days if anything is ever that bad.
My own sexual preference lately is actually for larger older men (they are not always that sweet though I have to say lol).. I just find it all a bit silly.
Mental Health is certainly important, which is why we need to just accept each other and try not to objectify people at all. Championing can be a bit like controlling sometimes, and not everyone wants that.
I do accept that you are genuinely trying to help people here though.
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Mental health is a self thing. Someone on a fab forum telling me I shouldn't be depressed because I'm obese ain't gonna help.
As it happens I'm exceptionally happy with my life despite being fat. But I'd never say I shouldn't lose weight or that my weight is "ok". |
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I am fat and prefer people to use the word fat instead of stumbling over words to use to make themselves feel better.
chubby ,well made,larger person etc because when they use them words in most cases you know first word that came into their mind was fat. |
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I'm fat. I don't love it. I really don't like how my body looks like a melted candle, especially below the waist. I lost 3kg this past week through illness but I can't see that it's been lost from the actual fat bits. It just feels like I lost my gainz on my upper body  |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
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"Hey guys, I know the word FAT might not sound great, but I really want to reach out to all the big, curvy people out there. There's way too much body shaming on this site and too many people hiding behind fake profiles. I want you to feel confident in your own skin and remember that there are people who find larger sizes attractive and hot. Don't let those judgmental jerks bring you down. You're not as fat as you think, so stop comparing yourself to those unrealistic beauty standards. Trust me, there are way too many guys out there feeling insecure because of this toxic social pattern. Be proud of who you are because you're gorgeous, sexy, and perfect just the way you are. Lots of love, A x
Thank you for your sensitivity. Who are you and why do you think that I have a problem with how I look? This might have been a bit more real if you had kept it all in the first person. Lets hear about your struggle with being fat and the impact it has had on your emotional wellbeing.
Nobody spoke about you personally my darling. Wrong place to seeking attention and making this post yours. All the love x "
Wasn't really the point I was making |
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