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Recently I've started blocking profiles where I don't meet or match their criteria or them mine. I've done this to serve as a filter so as I'm not presented with profiles that I will be unable to interact with.
In essence I block the following.
Won't meet people my age (I'm 46)
Won't meet smokers (I do)
Profile contains a bicurious/bisexual male. (Not my thing)
This does have the advantage of only showing me updates from profiles I can interact with.
However, my options are severely limited, sometimes moreso as some profiles wish not to be contacted by single males.
This does lead to suggested matches that involve significant travel and of course some profiles prefer not to meet outside of a given radius.
Does anyone else do this?
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"Recently I've started blocking profiles where I don't meet or match their criteria or them mine. I've done this to serve as a filter so as I'm not presented with profiles that I will be unable to interact with.
In essence I block the following.
Won't meet people my age (I'm 46)
Won't meet smokers (I do)
Profile contains a bicurious/bisexual male. (Not my thing)
This does have the advantage of only showing me updates from profiles I can interact with.
However, my options are severely limited, sometimes moreso as some profiles wish not to be contacted by single males.
This does lead to suggested matches that involve significant travel and of course some profiles prefer not to meet outside of a given radius.
Does anyone else do this?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Racists.
People that say they don’t want to meet Black guys thought I might just use the private notes feature for that in future.
People that are misogynistic.
People that victim blame.
People that are obsessed with me and won’t leave me alone.
Sometimes other reasons. |
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I block people when I decide that I don't want to hear from them. This can be for a thousand different reasons, but if I don't want to interact with them, what's the point in having them visible to me.
My fab experience is quieter and nicer than before I took the block route  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we’ve spoke and there’s no connection
I’ve they’ve messaged and I’m not interested
If I’ve messaged and they haven’t responded
Can’t be bothered to do much more than that. Seems extremely petty otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Recently I've started blocking profiles where I don't meet or match their criteria or them mine. I've done this to serve as a filter so as I'm not presented with profiles that I will be unable to interact with.
In essence I block the following.
Won't meet people my age (I'm 46)
Won't meet smokers (I do)
Profile contains a bicurious/bisexual male. (Not my thing)
This does have the advantage of only showing me updates from profiles I can interact with.
However, my options are severely limited, sometimes moreso as some profiles wish not to be contacted by single males.
This does lead to suggested matches that involve significant travel and of course some profiles prefer not to meet outside of a given radius.
Does anyone else do this?
D"
Disrespect
Haven’t read the profile
Serial messengers who don’t take a polite no for an answer
Anyone who sends an unsolicited friend request |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My block list was until very recently, empty.
Found it astonishing however, how many forumites block lists I was on. It’s totally alien to me how personally some people take others opinions, and these are people I’d never have even dreamed of contacting outwith the forum - so I blocked them all back for the hell of it - it was actually fun doing so   |
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I block loads
Cocks in the inbox.
Rude people.
People I just take a dislike to.
Anyone I recognise.
People very local.
People who have a profile pic I don't want to look at.
There's probably more reasons but that's all I can think of.
Mrs
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We block people who have made racist/homophobic/misogynistic comments, those who can't take no for an answer and the folk who get abusive.
We've had to block a couple of others for some creepy behaviour too, but thankfully not too many!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Filth gets blocked. Not taking no for answer gets blocked. Occasionally I'll block someone from the forum that really annoys me. "
Or accidentally block them |
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I rarely block and when I do it's usually for anything relating to racism, misogyny, misandry and bullying.
All other reasons such as falling out with someone, aborted courtships, irreconcilable differences and general acrimony are left unhindered. Perhaps because, through my verifications, I want them to see that I'm still getting on with ·their· friends and even fucking a few of them too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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…through my verifications, I want them to see that I'm still getting on with ·their· friends and even fucking a few of them too."
Oooft how conniving - love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use the block button in two ways.
1) total mismatch
2) don't need their negativity or drama.
I view my block button as a pause in some cases, I may unblock when the crap dies down. |
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"I rarely block and when I do it's usually for anything relating to racism, misogyny, misandry and bullying.
All other reasons such as falling out with someone, aborted courtships, irreconcilable differences and general acrimony are left unhindered. Perhaps because, through my verifications, I want them to see that I'm still getting on with ·their· friends and even fucking a few of them too."
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Normally for attitudes and views shown in status', profile text, or forum posts. More rarerly if we've chatted before and we aren't for each other, but they keeping appearing every few months looking to meet 
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"I use the block button in two ways.
1) total mismatch
2) don't need their negativity or drama.
I view my block button as a pause in some cases, I may unblock when the crap dies down."
There's a way to unblock? I've always treated it as a one way function, like throwing someone into a black hole... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only really block people who say things I don't like in DMs or post things in the forums that make my eyebrows go up or if they're persistent and won't take no for an answer |
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"I rarely block and when I do it's usually for anything relating to racism, misogyny, misandry and bullying.
All other reasons such as falling out with someone, aborted courtships, irreconcilable differences and general acrimony are left unhindered. Perhaps because, through my verifications, I want them to see that I'm still getting on with ·their· friends and even fucking a few of them too."
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
If I don't like their status update or their pics & they're on my updates I block.
Anyone who shows unsavoury opinions on the forum ,block.
Pests who can't take no for an answer or are abusive get blocked
If I say no thanks to anyone now I tend to block ,save them coming back with why not etc and so they can't message again.
I also block people who were previously blocked and have left then returned,once I spot them.
It's a good tool to use. |
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"Cunts, cunts, and bollockchops they get blocked....
I am going use this when next greeting a friend across a busy bar “Oi, Bollockchops… where ya bin?”"
It's yours to use, I collect the royalties at Christmas |
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I block profiles nearby who I’m not interested in meeting. No reason other than that really.
It stops my news feed clogging up and my near by list so I only see the profiles I’m potentially interested in. The added benefit is reducing contact from people Im not interested in
I do it locally or when I’m in another location for a period of time.
Some people may find this rude but for me it helps filter fab into a list of people I want to see.
It’s usually nothing personal other than I’m not attracted or I don’t feel like we would be compatible.
I have absolutely no problem with people blocking me. It helps me massively
I block very few people for other reasons. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I don't block profiles, even if I don't particularly like or agree with them.
In all my time here, I've only needed to block one profile.
Not at all bothered if profiles I've never interacted with block me. |
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"Because I can.
Because I can be bothered.
Because I don’t like the cut of their jib.
And sometimes just because I feel like it
They dont like haribo, fucking wrong uns
That’s an instant block "
Consigned to fab room 101 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blocks can be undone.
I like my block filter.. Anyone else like their block filter.
Might even give it a name of.. Dirty Harry. Or long john silver or just in case |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because I want a proper message with an introduction, a decent Grammar and something to read. At the 12th "how are you doing" and/or "wanna have fun" of the day my vagina just collapse in a black hole of boredom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block if people persist despite my 'no thank you' - this isn't always the case, sometimes I do a block delete. You got to survive the m/f imbalance on here.
Or I block because I don't want to see things.
Rudeness is another reason. Thankfully I've only had a couple of msgs that were rude/weird.
Or I get msgs and I do NOT match with their ideals and opinions.
That all I can think of at the mo |
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I use the block feature like just another filter.
I have also blocked people for their behaviour, their attitude in messages, their forum engagement, their willingness to share/ask for people's private info, their insistence that I'm doing it all wrong.
A long list of reasons, some more shallow than others.
Oh yes that reminds me, I've also blocked people for being shallow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got blocked recently for sending a nice message, which I thought was cold blooded, could have just said no thanks, feel as if I've blown my chance now and won't get another. "
Even if they had of said "no thanks", why would you think that you would get another chance?
This is probably why they blocked cause they know some men on here won't take no for an answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block if they’ve messaged me and I’ve been put off by what they’ve said or showed as a photo.
I block if someone repeatedly views my profile without interacting (it feels like being spied on, and creeps me out).
I block if I’ve noticed unsafe sex or signs of STI’s etc on their profile.
I block if I have a feeling they’re going to message me and I don’t want them to. eg people nearby that I’m not attracted to.
I block if i think I recognise someone.
I block anyone who refers to themselves as a “hole” or a “cum dump” or anything like that. Also block GH profiles.
Block those who do racist posts or statuses. Even if they’re racism benefits me.
Whewww that all makes me sound high maintenance - but it’s just a way of protecting my health, my privacy and my values.
Also a side benefit of this is identifying those who have verifications from people you’ve blocked. It’s kind of a sign that we have differing standards (which is fine - each to their own) and will probably lead to me not meeting them also |
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Because I'm still working on this profile and maybe they would have taken an interest in my say a year from now.
I get that there are persistent people on here that won't leave people alone though.
Also to be fair she did say that if you don't have feedback then back out the page, her bio was long and I forgot the first part lol, I remembered that after I sent the message but didn't want to send another one since women can get loads on this site, maybe I should have but it's too late now I guess. |
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Only blocked two people. 1 ex that decided to stalk and advertise our profile on a professional and social level and the other because he was very persistently messaging even after being told thankyou but we weren't interested  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rude. Persistent messages. Fakes. People we just don't get along with who we think may try to strike up conversation. People who we see on the forum and do not appreciate what they post.
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"I block people when I decide that I don't want to hear from them. This can be for a thousand different reasons, but if I don't want to interact with them, what's the point in having them visible to me.
My fab experience is quieter and nicer than before I took the block route "
Ditto.
If I don’t think I’d want any contact, no point in them being in my search. And it saves them time too, as they can’t see mine either. ( I think) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rude. Persistent messages. Fakes. People we just don't get along with who we think may try to strike up conversation. People who we see on the forum and do not appreciate what they post.
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Which was I? |
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If they send a strange message but mostly if they have been nasty or abusive to others in the forums. Also if they hold certain extreme views and that includes any hint or racism, homophobia or misogynist views and such like. |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
Dartford |
"Rudeness. Persistence. "
Not sure about rudeness but persistence is real romantic virtue. I wrote (real old fashioned hand written letters) to my wife every day during the couple of weeks she went on holiday after our first date. It seemed to mean something  |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
Dartford |
"Filth gets blocked. Not taking no for answer gets blocked. Occasionally I'll block someone from the forum that really annoys me.
Or accidentally block them
Twice I did that twice!"
I think there is not taking no and not taking no. Two of the most significant relationships I have had involved persistence! |
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I've blocked quite a few. Mainly because when I politely say no in a message I'm bombarded with abuse and insults sometimes threats.
And I don't need that shit. I get all that at work... daily
This is supposed to be a site for people to explore what gives them pleasure. Not the keyboard playground for digital bullies |
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"Rudeness. Persistence.
Not sure about rudeness but persistence is real romantic virtue. I wrote (real old fashioned hand written letters) to my wife every day during the couple of weeks she went on holiday after our first date. It seemed to mean something "
Nice if it’s wanted. Big difference between saying no thanks though and getting nagged. But, but, but - block. |
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If someone has blocked me then they normally go on the block list.
People who seem to have a wildly different political perspective on the world from me.
Anyone who messages me and comes across as a total creep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blocked one person. I gave my availability, she couldn’t do any of those two dates so she asked for the same date early the following week I already had plans with my friend on one day so she threw a hissy fit and I said “so you’re getting shitty with me because I’ve already have plans with a friend who I’ve known years and won’t drop them to meet a girl I’ve never met?” and she said I was twisting her words and began gaslighting |
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"Blocked one person. I gave my availability, she couldn’t do any of those two dates so she asked for the same date early the following week I already had plans with my friend on one day so she threw a hissy fit and I said “so you’re getting shitty with me because I’ve already have plans with a friend who I’ve known years and won’t drop them to meet a girl I’ve never met?” and she said I was twisting her words and began gaslighting "
ONE?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Blocked one person. I gave my availability, she couldn’t do any of those two dates so she asked for the same date early the following week I already had plans with my friend on one day so she threw a hissy fit and I said “so you’re getting shitty with me because I’ve already have plans with a friend who I’ve known years and won’t drop them to meet a girl I’ve never met?” and she said I was twisting her words and began gaslighting
ONE?! "
Actually 2 I forgot there was 1 at the very beginning of my fab journey I can’t remember what for tho. But mostly had decent experiences on here and I can take rejection. Builds character and resilience |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
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"Rudeness. Persistence.
Not sure about rudeness but persistence is real romantic virtue. I wrote (real old fashioned hand written letters) to my wife every day during the couple of weeks she went on holiday after our first date. It seemed to mean something
Nice if it’s wanted. Big difference between saying no thanks though and getting nagged. But, but, but - block. "
True but how can you tell that you are about to be blocked? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rude. Persistent messages. Fakes. People we just don't get along with who we think may try to strike up conversation. People who we see on the forum and do not appreciate what they post.
F
Which was I?"
All.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Blocked one person. I gave my availability, she couldn’t do any of those two dates so she asked for the same date early the following week I already had plans with my friend on one day so she threw a hissy fit and I said “so you’re getting shitty with me because I’ve already have plans with a friend who I’ve known years and won’t drop them to meet a girl I’ve never met?” and she said I was twisting her words and began gaslighting
ONE?!
Actually 2 I forgot there was 1 at the very beginning of my fab journey I can’t remember what for tho. But mostly had decent experiences on here and I can take rejection. Builds character and resilience "
Oh well, if it was TWO. I mean that's totally different.  (examines own VERY extensive block list  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two reasons I block users
First is if they're rude or outright nasty to me.
Second is if I've reached out to them and I'm not thier type. Adding them to my block list ensures in the future I don't inadvertently message them again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Blocked one person. I gave my availability, she couldn’t do any of those two dates so she asked for the same date early the following week I already had plans with my friend on one day so she threw a hissy fit and I said “so you’re getting shitty with me because I’ve already have plans with a friend who I’ve known years and won’t drop them to meet a girl I’ve never met?” and she said I was twisting her words and began gaslighting
ONE?!
Actually 2 I forgot there was 1 at the very beginning of my fab journey I can’t remember what for tho. But mostly had decent experiences on here and I can take rejection. Builds character and resilience
Oh well, if it was TWO. I mean that's totally different. (examines own VERY extensive block list )"
I think it’s different for a women then it is a guy though, you definitely get a lot more shit than us how big is your list? |
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"Blocked one person. I gave my availability, she couldn’t do any of those two dates so she asked for the same date early the following week I already had plans with my friend on one day so she threw a hissy fit and I said “so you’re getting shitty with me because I’ve already have plans with a friend who I’ve known years and won’t drop them to meet a girl I’ve never met?” and she said I was twisting her words and began gaslighting
ONE?!
Actually 2 I forgot there was 1 at the very beginning of my fab journey I can’t remember what for tho. But mostly had decent experiences on here and I can take rejection. Builds character and resilience
Oh well, if it was TWO. I mean that's totally different. (examines own VERY extensive block list )
I think it’s different for a women then it is a guy though, you definitely get a lot more shit than us how big is your list? "
It's 150+
Quite a lot of those are from local updates or guys who have messaged an old profile. Works for me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jesus Christ.. there was one girl who took a screen shot of the number of her unopened messages in her inbox and it was in the 1000’s I don’t know how all you women cope on here haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jesus Christ.. there was one girl who took a screen shot of the number of her unopened messages in her inbox and it was in the 1000’s I don’t know how all you women cope on here haha "
Haha, I've never been inundated like that. But some women are, for sure. Strong filters needed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont block anyone. Only time I might would be if I saw any family or work colleagues. "
Ahh that’s because you’re a beautiful soul, Maren - I *used* to be the same until being on here (still am: just counter-block for the hell of it ) |
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"Jesus Christ.. there was one girl who took a screen shot of the number of her unopened messages in her inbox and it was in the 1000’s I don’t know how all you women cope on here haha
Haha, I've never been inundated like that. But some women are, for sure. Strong filters needed!"
What’s the most you’ve been inundated with? |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"Jesus Christ.. there was one girl who took a screen shot of the number of her unopened messages in her inbox and it was in the 1000’s I don’t know how all you women cope on here haha
Haha, I've never been inundated like that. But some women are, for sure. Strong filters needed!
What’s the most you’ve been inundated with? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jesus Christ.. there was one girl who took a screen shot of the number of her unopened messages in her inbox and it was in the 1000’s I don’t know how all you women cope on here haha
Haha, I've never been inundated like that. But some women are, for sure. Strong filters needed!
What’s the most you’ve been inundated with?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jesus Christ.. there was one girl who took a screen shot of the number of her unopened messages in her inbox and it was in the 1000’s I don’t know how all you women cope on here haha
Haha, I've never been inundated like that. But some women are, for sure. Strong filters needed!
What’s the most you’ve been inundated with?
You "
6 months no veri? Can imagine you’re on a few with that attitude |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"Jesus Christ.. there was one girl who took a screen shot of the number of her unopened messages in her inbox and it was in the 1000’s I don’t know how all you women cope on here haha
Haha, I've never been inundated like that. But some women are, for sure. Strong filters needed!
What’s the most you’ve been inundated with?
You
6 months no veri? Can imagine you’re on a few with that attitude "
I'm a troll x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to block men in women's pants because I just have no interest. "
I’ve got men, tv/ts blocked so they can’t even send a message or wink etc. nothing against them just not what I’m looking for |
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"I block no one because I'm inclusive 
You spelt easy wrong
Who have you blocked you absolute witch?
We all know you're just as easy don't have to be the big man! "
I haven't blocked you Brucey, best behave yourself though or else |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"I block no one because I'm inclusive
You spelt easy wrong
Who have you blocked you absolute witch?
We all know you're just as easy don't have to be the big man!
I haven't blocked you Brucey, best behave yourself though or else "
Cause you're totally down for the ride right |
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Usually only guys that have absolutely no idea how to communicate with somebody they have never had any contact with, especially asking if we are into some outlandish sexual activity when it's perfectly obvious from our profile we wouldn't be interested.
This happened a few days ago. This guy asked if we were into something I hadn't heard of and I wasn't exactly sure what it was, but it sounded gross.
Inane messages like "hi hru" bore me and I ignore them and don't really care if they could still choose to send another one. This was a guy I wanted to make sure couldn't send anything like that to us again.
He didn't even start with "Hello"! Luke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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- People that aren’t interested or who delete my messages (just to avoid messaging them again).
-People who can’t take no for an answer.
-Axe wound profile photos (a tasteful pussy shot can be ok but I don’t want to see a battle scene from ‘Vikings’ as the first thing on my local feed.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like a few of the comments made already the block feature is more a usful way to filter out people outside either your or their matches. Also when either no response or deleted messages just to try and get a better experience on site.
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"I block no one because I'm inclusive
You spelt easy wrong
Who have you blocked you absolute witch?
We all know you're just as easy don't have to be the big man!
I haven't blocked you Brucey, best behave yourself though or else
Cause you're totally down for the ride right "
How could anyone possibly resist you Brucey |
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I never block, if they are that arrogant and ignorant that they don't deserve acknowledgements, I find that ignoring them is far more effective, as their unanswered messages seems to wind them up like a coil spring. |
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I only have guys that insist they can give me the best BJ I'll ever experience in multiple messages on my block list, even after a polite no I'll get another a few days later. I'd possibly understand if I stated I wanted to meet men at some point.... |
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over a year ago
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Rude initial messages and from not reading our profile and still sending a cock shot... cocks you can see anywhere. Genuine people are much harder (excuse the pun) to find. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"I block no one because I'm inclusive
You spelt easy wrong
Who have you blocked you absolute witch?
We all know you're just as easy don't have to be the big man!
I haven't blocked you Brucey, best behave yourself though or else
Cause you're totally down for the ride right
How could anyone possibly resist you Brucey "
The ones that do are usually slightly more miserable? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I block men an trans for fabbing and looking at my profile.
Block couples too when the male half thinks they can message me on their "wifes" behalf and just not interested in getting involved in threesomes with a couple. (Except for female couples of course)
I block women who reject me or don't fit their or my criteria
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Yep!
Single straight male/couple who thinks a bi male can't control himself? Blocked
Over 50? Blocked
Drugs users? Blocked
Shit profile? Blocked
Messaged us without reading our profile? Blocked
D x |
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By *olarMan
over a year ago
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Ignoring or not reading profile and persisting with the same line of chat even if has been answered with the negative. Rudeness. Guys pretending to be couples and the scourge of the site - time wasters Other than that I’m really tolerant |
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We are now using blocking as to make it easier for us and not waste the contactors time, EG, we feel they live too far away, can't accommodate when we've made it clear we can't - then there is the usaly/common reason the rude or more commonly they dont notice we've answered the question and start to retun with what we precive to be vulgar comments
Blocking is useful and as I said, makes it easier for us to get better contacts by stopping those we have little interest in and it saves them time as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been sending quite normal messages like "hi hope you're well just thought I'd say hi" or "New to all this so not sure what are acceptable messages ha" or Nice pictures etc etc I always read the profile so I understand what an individual wants. Most block, I must be doing something wrong ha any tips? |
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